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i dont know y r friend is angry with u since he never had plans for the babe,he only had selfish plans.
His not related to u and he showed u that he was not interested in the girl,so ethically wat u did is right.

and like Aisha2 said

You have proved your friend wrong, my dear follow your heart good women are hard to find. If you loose her you may not find another her. Good Luck

it is true u know.

if u know and u r sure she aint pretending to be good,then stick wit her.

Cheers

@face 969

i dont think it is necessary for any girl to reply here since he left his yahoo add and fone no.if u were planning to share out of his 'bag',then sorry oo, u better start ur own thread.

@davidylan

yeah, i think u r right! at least now i know better.

@Davidylan

thanks for clearing that up.i was really wondering wassup? cos u r one of the ppl one nl that i watch out for their posts,only for me to be seeing fake ones around,with some of their silly posts.

i think u should start a thread to let ppl know the difference.

later.

@ felix weah

age no matter.if u really desperate for a cool chic. am the one.

men can really be funny.i tot it used to be the girls that r desperate but i wonder oo

@grow fast all the best wit ur search,was just kidding wit u.

cheers!

Million pound question : Why do guys run after pretty girls?

Oh and the last time I ran after a fine boy was when the police were after us.

really hilarious.u made me laugh.,thanks for that.

@topic
me i no fit marry ugly man ooo,for where dem dey,make i ja comot.

whao! i think we should even be thankful to boogy for thinking twice abt it.there r a million and one guys that will jump at the opportunity and wouldnt think give a damn abt it.even some guys on nairaland dissing him would jump at it.

we dont have to shy away 4rm it ,it happens everyday.it is really funny that such can be happening in a society with so much values,but it is happening.child abuse is real,cos it didnt happen to u doesnt mean it aint happening.

Omotola(Omo T) met her husband at the age of 16 and her husband was 26 yrs then.if they did it then or not, although she said they waited,but me i no know oo(i no dey hide under their bed ).Just used hers as an example cos we all know her ,but it happens everyday this just makes u know that child molestation is real and in a way accepted in our society,which is wrong.

All said and done,cos everyone is doing it doesnt make it right e.g cos our leaders embezzle money doesnt mean it is right.

@poster.

thanks for the post, it aint new,but u dont have to do it.i'm sure she sees u more like an Uncle at her age.at least no sex(with or witout her consent) till she is an adult.

Cheers!

@hotchic

u r right!

@poster

i think u should really be careful and dont get carried awy.dont put urself in a position whereby ur bf wont trust u again oo.u having a guy as ur close friend means u must be able to handle it.

u can check out wat a guy is going tru cos his gf cant handle her having a guy as best friend ; https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-91545.0.html

look b4 u leap oo

whao! grow fast me sef dey desperate oo i dey look for guy,hola at me fast fast,someone else fit snatch me ooo,be fast

@dagashini

no just waste time, carry that story go 24 Iweka road Onitsha or 25 Pound road Aba.Who you think say you be sef,u dey giv everybody chop them sef no vomit am.me I no chop am at all.Zeb Ejiro

sey na another planet u dey live? i must tell u such things happen everyday,we dont have to pretend as if we r in a perfect world.one might even be happening to ur next door neighbour,it is only the person that comes out to tell u that u know,but e dey happen well well(not only in the movies or novels).we live in a crazy world u know.

@ poster

try to move on with life,forgive ur brother but 4get ur gf.

cheers !

@Rachwise

You need not be worried. The word of God is not forced on no one.

and neither did He say His Word cant be preached by anyone.

Pls we dont want to be misled.

It is the Holy spirit that can give us understanding,we dont take the bible writings literally without the understanding from the Holy Spirit.

u can quote all the verses and passages from the bible but the most important is God ministration of them to u tru the Holy Spirit.

They Have the Main Office in Tofa House Wuse , Behind the Central Mosque, You can Ask any Driver to take you there. They Also Have a Branch in Central area, Near Ademola Adetokunbo, Its a Garden, its on the left side of the road if you are coming from Celtel Office Ademola Adetukunbo and you are heading to the Federal secratariate.
I took my Bosses there oncee, we just came out from a Conference, we were all hungry and my DG usually goes to this posh place with Horrible food, I convinced them to try this place. They ate and Stained their Clothes. It was so funny. Now my organsation have become stakeholders in that Joint.
It is now an Official Duty to have lunch or have them bring us lunch when we have meetings or conferences in our Office.
I recommend amala and Ewedu and Pounded yam and Vegetable with goat meat, cow meat or Chicken depending on the weight of your purse

whao!!
thanks for that explicit description,i would definately try there on mon.thanks hon.

@mellow

It is neither an custom nor a tradition. It is only a way of parents to dominate

their children and influence their everyday activities.

u r 100% right!!!

@Thoniaslim

@rachiwise

my heart goes out to your friend.

Thanks love,i pray such never happens to us or anyone close to us oo.

whao! that really odd.y would i want to give away my things when i havent been granted a visa.i dont think that is a great idea.

Men ! that is cruel!

i had a friend that had a sorry experience.she was almost tru wit sch and planned getting married b4 service,we were all thrilled for her.she got pregnant at the wish of the guy.they had done the introduction and the engagement a week b4 the weddding,everything was set.we all had bought the clothes,gele etc for the wedding.she was in sch 4 lectures she was 6months or more pregnant by now. wen they called her to come home quick,she had no idea of wat had happened.This was the wednesday b4 her wedding(3 days to the wedding).

When she got home no one could tell her what had happend,but at last they had to relay the terrible story to her on how the guy dead on his way home in a car accident.that was au she became a widow(or widow to be) and a mother of a poor baby at a young age of 23yrs.She had to bring a first child out witout a father.

Everytime i remember her my heart goes out to her.cos she almostt died then,she had an induced childbirth she gave like 3weeks after, only God saw her tru.

no one prays for bad things but i have learnt alot from my friend's story and wont pray to go tru such.now she is a single mother at a very young age(some thing she never prayed for.)

My point is get married,get pregnant and have ur children,make life easier for urself,dont complicate ur life.

I have even heard of stoties whereby the guy left and travelled a week to the wedding(even his parents were surprised).ppl said it was 'aye'.only to surface yrs later wen the lady had managed to see one widower to marry her.



@poster

pls drop that tradition,it is not healthy.

That's why i love my baby till today. Atimes when i take her out to lunch and i want to drive to jevnic or Drumstix or SFC, she'll just yell at me that why am i wasting my money? She'll demand me to take her to a nice food canteen (i recommend the one just beside Tofa House to all Abuja peeps here), and we'll wack Tight!!! Chow beta amala and abula soup. Much cheaper and more filling than all the eateries around. And we even spend less than 1000 naira for both of us too!!!

ehn?? pls describe the place well well,i have been missing yoruba food ever since i come abj,abeg hint me,i work around there(Central Area).

@Poster

Of course YES!!! i could remember when i was working in VI,there was(dont know if it's still there) a place on Oyin Jolayemi str,where Ghanaians(i think) cooked and a cool yoruba joint in a machanics' compound,big men from big offices used to go there.

i loved the place then even though i used go to TFC sometimes just on the same street.it wasnt the same.Eatries' food are stereotypes,no plantain for ur rice,no amala,no eba,no variety,ha,abeg na niaja we dey jo,even our naija ppl outhere long to eat our food.

@Siena

Well, he'll need to deal with his jealousy!

He needs to realise that his girlfriend had a life before he met her, and is entitled to have friends of either sex. At least, she was upfront with him, before they got serious.

As for the girl, I hope she doesn't feed your mate's insecurity by giving up her best friend, that'll be wrong.

u r right,but i think the girl should be careful how she goes abt her 'friendship' with her best friend.she should be sensitive to ur bf's feelings,he deserves more attention than her friend.

overall,i dont see anything bad in having the opp sex as ur best friend but u have to know where to draw the lines.

YES!!! i can.

Why are we always afraid to die,we go all die one day and if i can in a heroic way y not?i rather die saving someone's life than dieing a horrible death like fire,car accident or drowning .

i can die to save someone i love like my father,mother,bothers and my hussie and kids.though i'm sure my old folks would like to go first ,but i can still do it.

but the bullet should hit me where i go die fast fast and not die an excruciating death.

@juv1

hey people, listen up, Just a heart to heart conversation, aii. why do people, especially gals, like acting/playing saints but behind closed doors, they are really devil's incarnates. So its time we all share our past secrets/experiences. Tell us your worse secret, that one u have never told anyone, . This is the moment of truth, no holding back, so take a deep breath and let it go. You know u can always talk to daddy, don't u??

since u strated the thread i guess u should open the floor,dont u think??

@kojeiwa

omo,u be fine brother o.i'm sure that u r not here in naija or at least in lagos,because i no dey see ur kind of bro o(abi ur dem dey hide?? )

@olutayo1

kojeiwa! you fine Small sha! but nothing for you on this forum,no be by muscle oh! Your account balance or statement is the next thing that will follow after all this body fitness

ehn i pity for u oo,sey na that kind of girls u (olutayo) dey date?? ah, i'm sure sey dem don clear,ehya,pele ooo

save ur money no dey use am chase girls,na wetin u go chop no let u sharp now,i no blame the girls,

i dey look for virgin men o,where dem dey??

@Thoniaslim

when you loved with your whole heart its very difficult forgetting the person. but he does not deserve to torture himself over a nonentity that threw his love back at him, a man who loves the way he does deserves a lot better. tell him, if she left him, and treated him cruelly, there is no guarantee, she would love him, so he should better move on wit his life and stop wasting valuable time he can use to build something new with a better deserving girl, who would take his heart and treat it as her own.

u r right!!!

as for me i dont know oo,we dont have so many nice guys on nl,but wait a minute,sey me sef nice??

@bashdecash

well,the first thing i would tell u is,as hard as it is ,u have to forget ur gf of 6 yrs,cos now that she is married i dont see y u should still be emotionally attached to her(though 6 yrs aint a joke),but face reality she is gone for good.

secondly,the new gal they r 'forcing' on you,does she have any good qualities that u like(not neccessarily physical qualities here).i mean habits,attitude,etc.i'm not saying u should compare with ur former gal(we r all different).if she has atleast 70% of the qualities u have in mind then date her(dont marry her yet o)

Thirdly,if u make up ur mind to date her ,let ur ppl know u r not going to marry her straight away like that,but that u want to get to know her better.

Overall,i think u r the one in the best position to make ur choice cos ur ppl may want the best for u,but in the end u will be the one to live with her.

Cheers!!!