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OP, I have a feeling this is your own problem.

Anyway, 2 years with one's mother in-law is a bit bizarre. Even living with our own parents is difficult let alone an in-law.

You need to talk to your wife and she has to understand. I'm not sure she would have wanted your own mother to stay longer than necessary. She has to understand that the house is too small for 5 people and a couple's privacy is paramount. Why can't she go and live with her sons? Their wife won't let her come huh?

Talk to your wife and get this sorted. Good luck.

EzeUche:
After watching this clip again, I have to say that the Igbo man has disgraced us Igbo men. He should have broke that Yoruba man in half!!!

You should be happy he survived that punch landed on him. How are you sure it wasn't the blue man that would have broken him in half? You better be happy that guy escaped A&E  

Your comment cannot change my name. Deal with it.

hescool:
chic might not have the best smile, but she is far from sad or mad. ewure oshi

How do you know? Did she tell you this or it is your own observation? Better behave yourself.

Oh dear dear!

This is hilarious. The comments are just rib cracking

Yea, the girls get dis-v by log of woods.

If you're blind I don't know but all I've said is what I've observed.

it's one thing to look tired and it's another thing to look upset/distracted/indifferent and if you look at their body language. . . it says it all. Even if they were both tired it couldn't have been that bad.

I didn't say the wedding ceremony wasn't bliss or that her dress wasn't off the hook. I'm just spotting her mood and reactions. That's all.

Lol. . .my point is that I've never seen a bride this upset or indifferent on her day. The pictures say a lot IMO. Their body language was zero zero zero! Which couple kiss like they do

Even people who have dated for 10 years still have butterflies on their day. And the fact that her Dad didn't even consent initially and later changed his mind was even enough reason to make her smile all day.

Bad belle ko, worst bride ni

To be honest I don't see anything wrong here

prety007:
am thinking of sleeping with a pastor,yeah he is married
so what about it,he too likes me.is it a wrong?

It's not bad enough you're thinking of sleeping with a married man but he's also a pastor

My dear, it is wrong in the sight of man and in the sight of God. Find yourself a single guy and do ALL with him. Leave this man, okay? It's not worth it. Don't give in to your emotions for the wrong man. Look for your own and you'll be happier and free of guilt.

Taking over my private accounts? I don't get it. . . give me some privacy please!

He can know my passwords but seriously what for  It's not necessary please and no I don't have anything to hide just need some privacy in my dealings with others. Don't need anybody going through my stuff and knowing EVERYTHING! It's not necessary.

I think there's always that one r/ship that will change our lives for good or for bad. It happens and yes it hurts the hell outta the mind. You might think of suicide and all but trust me if you live to overcome this then you'll be stronger for the next adventures

Having said that, you are the biggest fool to lay your hands on a woman. And not once but continuously You deh crase?

You guys never run out of questions

I think that's a nice way of her asking for *** but I don't know about "I miss you" translating to wanting ***

Busy_body:
Did she say she's got a good man or she has got good coping and managing skills with lashings of patience

But she confirms that the man has got similar skills and all makes him a good man

I don't pick his calls but I won't stop him from pickin mine which he's never done so. . .

Zomby, you seem to know the Adenugas very well. Please was the bride forced to marry the groom?

platinumnk:
Thank you, thats all being said, the woman is distracted and upset about something, doesn't take a mind reader!

Yup! Chic definitely got something on her mind and it's so obvious. Even if you get upset about something on your day you can't be upset all day  In fact, all the pictures were not taken the same day so that even says more. Her smile fake, body language fake, eye contact fake. Looked like she was asked to do everything she did. The dude was trying so hard but even at that the girl didn't hide her true feelings!

I'm not sure what you want us to do From the dates you provided it doesn't seem like your boyfriend is the father.

Your marriage sounds like a joke though.

I love this. I'm not surprised you've got a good man. I know there are still good men out there

Congrats on your lil' bunny

What's with the bride? Something's not right on her mind. I've never seen a bride this fake like she was forced to marry the guy. So many pictures showed the groom trying so hard to cover up. Quite pathetic. . .not impressed with her mood though her outfits and her wedding dress are hotter than fire

Okay Mama gee, how about we discuss this wonderful topic? https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-435450.0.html.

Oi listen, just shut up!

Mama gee, isn't it funny how you can 'judge' which topics should be discussed as your comments are hardly ever in line with any topic of discussion?

What rubbish. . .

Why is she taking drip

Omalichanwa:
Pls pple, never marry just to escape 4rm hardship, pray that God helps u 2 be succeed by your hard works. I have 3 fancy cars, i have too much material things much more than i ever thought i'd have but my husband have no respect 4 me, i dnt even think he loves me. I have suffered alot in this marriage, both physically and emotionally bt i cnt leave now becos i have sold my soul, i have been judged and now i must pay the price.

You are doing yourself no good by staying with this man. Leave this marriage. Take your time and plan how to leave this man. You can't tell me you want to continue living like this for the rest of your life with this man

You have not sold your soul. It's never too late to quit a horrible marriage. You're too young to start off life like this. Leave this man 'cause he may never change. Trust me. Ndi Igbo si na ejiro afufu anya isi.

What was she on about in that video

Oh I just had one on my neck last week.He is the only guy I know that nags. . .it's really annoying

LOL. . .abeg the man should wash the car jare The funny thing is that he won't even let me do it so. . .

chaircover:
Of course . . . . kini big deal.

We can even have a water fight while washing the car. Peeps should just learn to have fun & stop being so uptight about roles.

190:
water nor dey 9ja ooh!

A man leaves his family for weeks and doesn't call and the only time his number shows up is a woman's voice calling to tell his wife off and you guys say "be calm" ? He didn't even bother to call to know how his baby was doing let alone how his wife was coping alone.
How would you guys have reacted if it were the woman who did this? It's death sentence straight up!

Why are we so calm and 'understanding' of the wrong situations? I can even understand if she suspects her husband is cheating but holy hell for a man to be gone for weeks and not care about his family? What sort of man is that? Why would a man old enough to be her father treat a child like this? This is wickedness and he sure does it 'cause he knows she ain't going nowhere!

Someone said don't divorce your husband under any situation. You must be having a laugh for real!

Poster, if the man was so kind he wouldn't have married you just yet or never even. He could have helped you through school and sorted out your accommodation if you didn't want to live with your Dad. This man didn't have to marry you. Some men are good at spending on a woman but that doesn't equal respect. Some of them do it just to shield your mind from his wicked acts.
It is not acceptable whether your Dad is supportive of you or not. Stop acting like you're nothing without this man.

Anyway, let me ask you. Could you say you were happy with this man before this incident? Can you proudly testify that you've found happiness and not just a man to shelter and feed you?
Don't you have siblings, Aunts and Uncles who can help you?

Honestly dear, you might see the money, live in a nice house, wear nice clothes but underneath, your scars might be too many. If you really insist on staying in this marriage just fasten your seat belt, fix your shock absorber real tight and live your life!

There are certain things we can tolerate but not everything! Let's stop claiming to be the stup!d good wives that we claim to be all in the name of being married. There's more to this life than we make of it.

Why don't u take a walk down your street and ask some of your neighbours? You'll be amazed how your next door neighbour feeds.

It's either you leave this marriage now or prepare to be unhappy and miserable for God knows how long.

This is the price you pay for marrying at a young age especially when the man is twice your age and when money is the main attraction. Please don't tell me you married for love.
I see why it's 'unusual' to walk out "because he cheated". Most women believe it's a man's thing. It is not. The minute you start believing this that's when you'll learn to say no to certain situations.

As for the baby, you can always find a man that will love you and your baby 'cause to be honest I don't think this your husband is ready to treat you like a wife and not a baby machine.
I hope he doesn't beat you too.

Take your eyes off money and do what is right. Money will come gradually.

Oh!