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Christino:
Boro for the moment, till they sell Yak

True say wetin? boiz take time o.

yesterday (my bro)


wwtlty told someone off?

kitaun:
I bet you are deeply in love with him but his being the most handsome eagle will mean you are making jest of him

Since Irororoyal is in France, She probably knows him 'cause he plays for French club, Girondins de bordeaux

Makosa hmmm, months back


wwtlt you ate isi ewu? (yummy yummy)

Mad I feel you.

I've really enjoyed this thread. Different opinions and very interesting ones. Nice one y'all.

Wendy, I'm not married yet Thanks Sis

Mad, don't you think mild flirting could turn to something else tomorrow despite the trust today?(Just asking pls )

JosBoy4Lif:
never, (but ive been locked up, don't ask why, Nigeria is wonderful )

u?

wwtlt you lost money? 

Wendy, thanks for your honest reply. If I was the one, as long as there's no physical abuse, I'll stay with himand find a way to deal with the rest of the issue.

Mad, I'm not condemning bastards coz it's not their fault to end up with such name. If we can avoid people calling our kids "bastard" why don't we do our best to save a good name?

ermm wendy, I asked a question, I didn't make a conclusion yet. Where's our faith? Can't prayers solve problems again?
I believe there's always a way out if you genuinely wish to continue with the marriage.
Wendy you're married right? Would you file for a divorce if you were in this kind of situation?

[quote author=mad_genius link=topic=23414.msg630016#msg630016 date=1159385592]Radiant,
Now I don't know about you, but if there is no trust, there can't be any mariage.

Am afraid you are wrong here on many counts:
1. If it was my sister, I would butt out and let her make her own decision, and be supportive either way, unless of course it got on my nerves, then I would make myself scarce.

2. This woman will not wander the streets, from the looks of things, she "keeps" her husband, so I think you will find that her husband is the one that will wander the streets.

3. 'bastard baby' I mean really, what century do you live in. Just so you know Leonardo Da Vinci, one of the greatest minds of our times was a so called bastard, so what is you point?[/quote]So basically you're saying that every marriage where there is distrust should pack up?

Secondly,why would you make yourself scarce? I wonder if you actually have any sister to think that way.

Thirdly, I don't mean wander in the sense that she'll be homeless and stranded. I mean she'll be left alone to cope with issues of life with her baby.When she needs a listening ear or a shoulder to cry on from a guy, she'll have to talk to some other guy not her husband. (How many future men can she trust neway)

Lastly, adapting the nonchalant mentality of this mordern world that a woman can have 3 or 4 kids from different men and not live with any at the end of the day is a whole mess up. As far as I'm concerned, the baby will be a bastard and that is the simple fact either in these times or in the 50's.

I think Kaylala was just trying to create a humour here. We don't have to take it all serious like nerds Everyone knows that the heart is the most important. If you say the brain, isn't it the heart that supplies blood to the brain?

Humourally speaking, I go for my privates

edygirl:
ynot you are funny, you should have called a comb, rubber nwere eze or osisi nwere eze.

You guys will kill person with laughter one day. 

Ghettocyk is right. Comb is mbo or nra in another dialect. And the happy birthday one as well.
Television is Igwe Onyonyo 

lol never

wwtlt you bought yourself a pair of shoes? abeg no lie o

strongest:
I have a soft spot for JULIUS BERGER as well

no sentiments here pls

For me, BARCA all the way!!! Just waiting to watch their match with werder Brem today

the last time i checked, pepper sellers too wear make up

Kola dear, It isn't safer to marry a virgin. Why? what if you not happy with the way she performs in bed? what will you do? go out for the experienced ones isn't it? Now that's on your own part. I've never heard anyone say they don't like sex, making the chances of trying out with others high. Sooner or later, she might do it.
If you marry a virgin, the chances she'll have an affair outside is very high even if it's once. We still got some girls out there though who stick to one man but mennn, it's hard to find.

Ok then. Best wishes though won't judge the world by your own testimony. God Please bless your marriage indeed to avoid having another victim on Nairaland. God bless

Having fun as usual

just teasing

crazykid:
why Doesn’t she want to speak to me

Lol   Crazykid, how's it going with you then?  

Church where did that come from? I'm simply decent and has nothing to do with going to church. Best wishes again!

Lame or corky, it's the simple truth.

You are one of the fortunate girls I'll say. Everyone can claim their own brothers are honest, God fearing, humble, generous and all that 'ish because you can't wash your dirty linen outside. You never know what your brothers do with girls behind you neway.
I need guys to reply to this thread pls.
I always say, we all have every right to voice our opinions. I respect the fact that you mentioned you respect your brothers decisions and will like if they marry a divorcee if it's so their choice. Well, how many men can do that

All I can say to you is, don't expect the same attitude like your brothers from other guys. You trying to sound all positive and optimistic about life, it's a good thing but I must say, this life is very cruel and unfair. Shit happens everyday!!!
You never know how dumb you are until you meet the wrong person thinking he was the Angel sent to you. Sometimes a blessing turns out to be a curse in disguise. We never plan or expect disappointments but that doesn't mean they won't come.

Hope you marry the right person to solidify your arguement.

Hey chinneji, sup with ya?

Ginna thanks there. That's why i said, "marrying a virgin is a big risk".

Mula, goodluck to you. I won't loose hope in my Naija girls 'cause of people like you.

Like I said, we can't always be smart! I know a lady who was dating a man for 9 yrs and when she got pregnant in the tenth yr, the guy dumped her. Are you telling me she wasn't smart all along Being intelligent, don't mean you are all smart.
I don't have to read everyone's mind to know their intentions. I don't know the kinda people you've met and dealt with but we can have a rough idea of peoples intentions most times.
I agree that there are still good people out there (no one said there aren't neway) but the fact remains that only very very few men would marry the lady in question after a divorce. Would you like your brother to marry a divorcee with a kid I'm not saying it's not possible, but how many people would do it out of love for the woman?