Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

begging a lady for a whole month hmmm

udofia234:



oh my God!!! so na true eh!!! I'm done I swear!!!

judedwriter:


Sex is spiritual transactions....

When you sleep with a girl outside marriage the enemy has legal right to steal your blessings and give them out.

When the wise and enlightened keep saying 'no sex before marriage,' many young people see us as fools.

But if only they knew what they have lost to few minutes of fleeting sexual enjoyment :

They will cry buckets of tears!

true talk

Stay away from sex for nw til u r ready to settle down

Werey

Make I no talk

MeeztaBugaman:
My wife gave me a very hot slap just because I went into the bathroom when our maid was taking her bath to ensure she wasn't using our soap.

What wrong have I done to deserve such disrespect. Now I think I have to divorce her for raising her hands on me.

na werey u b

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Werey

Bt you just did

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BRATISLAVA:


Some of you are even worse than this girl he planned on marrying.

Bro to bro, none of you have his best interests at heart. Even if the whole thing is questionable.

werey

Werey

Bean n plantain

This people r just wasting deir tym none of them will rule this country APC PDP and Labour party will not get dere.

Ammmy:
I'm just coming from a church where it was revealed to me that I have a spirit husband. It has been the cause of my lack of progress and delay in marriage. I tried to argue with them because I've never been seeing any strange man both physically or in the dream. But I do have sex in the dream occasionally, especially if I'm Hot in real life. Please who knows the herbal cure or remedy to this menace? Yorubas in the house, your attention is needed . Don't tell me to pray because I have done that to no avail. I need another alternative. Something real and natural. Thanks

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My sister if u really like ur self go on fasting n prayer this is not time for joke n if i may ask how old r u!

Hmmm so true wit d sex stup u mention u ve it for real

Werey

Werey

Werey

O lord have mercy to marry women of this generation require fasting n prayer

hypocrite everywere

dollytino4real:
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Enny2013:
According to research,Nigerian men ar d most sex addicts who feel entitled to deir women for sex all d tym.
Poor, hungry n jobless men wt erections ar every corner in Nigeria.

werey

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

pls dont cheat on your husband stay strong d lord is ur strength

Gabless:
I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.

I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.

We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.

He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.

The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.

So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.

So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.

Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.

Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.

A fail relationship is beter dan a fail marriage that is y u need to pray n fast b4 u even introduce him to ur parent.

shortgun:
I was in a relationship with this girl for about year before she traveled to a state in the south west and was there for close to a year.
Our relationship suffered while she was away and the feelings I had for her faded with each passing day. I got tired and stopped calling her and I no longer take
her calls often.

When it became obvious she was not coming back anytime soon, I broke up with her. I told her I am not cut out for anything that looks like a long distance relationship, she agreed with me but promised to come back soon.

After about a month her best friend called me saying her conscience is judging her that she won't let a good man suffer unjustly.
She told me how she and my girlfriend went to a witchdoctor to make me love her senselessly and get married to her when she finally comes back to my city.
She told me how my gf submitted my name and picture to the witchdoctor to manipulate me spiritually.

Now, my ex gf is back in town and has been doing everything possible to see me, but I keep evading her.
I don't know if her friend is saying the truth or not but I've developed hatred for my ex gf and I don't want to ever see her, at the same time I feel her friend told me that to probably settle a score cos she knows how deeply her friend love me.

What do you guys think?

werey na woman mata dey worry this one upon all d tins wey we dey face for this 9ja

Werey