₦airaland Forum

ChemicalMan:
Too much editing

Was just going to say that, too much blue it almost became monochrome.

bethyz:
Do you know what she is 101% right. Every young man who is not married will say go against that. If you go for counselling for marriage they will tell you men should take there mind off what is in the woman's pocket. Be a responsible man take care of the family. The woman will help when it's necceasery. She is a help mate. You can discuss with her which possible way she wants to contribute . You will find out you dont even need to tell her she will take up some responsibility who ever is telling you dump her leave her she isn't a good woman is just childish. I went for three month proper counselling for marriage in Winners Chapel. She is right. take care of her love her. You will find out all she said won't be what she will do .

Well, you marriage counsellor must be mad then, there is no such thing like take your eye off her pocket, if she makes an income she must contribute, MUST CONTRIBUTE, what is the meaning of that nonsense. Dump that marriage counsellor before they lead you to commit suicide

Twoclans:
You guys get upset too easily ,she said she will contribute when you are down financially. Guy open the business for her ,after five months tell her you are down financially and that you are in a huge debt then allow her take over the finances of the home while you chill.

Cunny man die cunny man burry am

Congratulations, you have just won number one position on my list of worst advice ever.

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

Look, what you were told is the bitter truth.

What kind of advice do you expect to get from people on Nairaland, at the end you are your own man, and the decision is up to you, I also think it is pretty clear to you what you should do. I know what you need is validation on what you already know, and I will help you with that.

Leave the girl, she does not deserve you and she is certainly not ready to start a home. I was in a relationship like this too just a few months back, not exactly the situation, but basically I understood she was not ready to start a home and I let her go.

And lastly, if everything you have written is the absolute truth, I am going to tell you now that this girl does not respect you, and you should find your way.

Simonrom:
To God who made me, I don't like seeing those white faces there. Nevertheless, good luck to the super eagles

That is just pure racist and stupid

clevvermind:
You don't need to fear if your hands are clean.

STOP SAYING STUPID THINGS LIKE THIS.

zinizta:
you think you know everything, you would soon understand.


whatever goes around comes around.


word to self -Never think for people too lazy to Put 1 to 1 to make two...dont waste your time spelling it out for them either

You have totally confused me.... what are we talking about again?

zinizta:
if the police is working for the president, who are the robbers working for?

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what kind of question is that one, must they be working for some politician, because I know that is what you are insinuating

The police is working for the presido, I don't believe all these news.

Kobicove:
Who told you people he came there to have a bath?

It's a fee world, learn to mind your own business

We Nigerians are so insensitive, you know I actually saw this news on some major channel I can't remember, and it was said that this guy did not have a place to stay and was waiting for the crowd to reduce so he could go take his bath.

Sometimes it is good to laugh but laugh when you know the full story.

Thegeneralqueen:
Buy drinks for her dad and a piece of gold maybe like that of 250k for her mum hope it helps

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AkpaMgbor:
I immediately dismissed the post when I read the spitting into your water part...ingesting a snake’s venom orally is not harmful..only when it is intravenously injected directly into the bloodstream does it get dangerous..the hydrochloric(HCL) acid and gastric juices in the stomach neutralizes the venom before it gets assimilated into the bloodstream...

Yeah, somebody talked about it having effect in the stomach, but if like you said the gastric/digestive acid can neutralize venom, then it means the only fear would be if one has an injury in the mouth. Which again may be unlikely to cause any fatal effect because the venom has been diluted in the water.

SmartyPants:
Snake venom ingested in any form is toxic to the human body. Please be well advised before spreading misleading information.

Please educate yourself before you misleading information. Snake venom does not work that way

ROSYL:
Like I said, You are correct but not absolutely. If you have a cut in your throat or stomach, the poison when ingested with water, can pass to the blood stream through the cut.

If you had a cut in your gums, tongue, or throat you probably will get poisoned, but it is highly unlikely as a considerable amount has to permeate into your blood stream to kill you. I don't know if it will have an effect in your stomach, Ulcer is the most likely injury you can have in the stomach and I don't think this can affect it. But you are kinda right.

Spitting into your water? Really?? Ingesting undiluted snake poison/spit is not harmful, and yet he talks about it spitting into your water. Snakes do not hunt humans, you guys should chill jare.

Xisnin:
Why are you protecting pedophiles by not reporting?
Are they family members?

What is more worrisome is that these "stories" only crops up when a male rapist is charged to
court and usually discussed jokingly.

I understand what you mean, firstly we were kids at the point, also the environment we lived in would not allow us, I remember at about 10 or 11 asking how babies are born and the kind of scolding I got that day I cannot forget. I think the major problem was that the environment we lived in would not welcome such kind of accusations from kids.

Thegeneralqueen:
She is a disgrace to womanhood like who does that.... nawa

Ohh don't go there, I have lots of friends who were defiled at very young ages, by women I know and still see, my best friend was defiled at age 12, apart from the girl ("woman" only he and I know of the incident.

Forgive me, but I believe there are more female pedophiles than there are male.

omocalabar:
Kiss ass

I think being a kiss ass is part of playing office politics, I have an annoying kiss ass in my office right now, and I just want to punch his face into the wall, but he gets the benefits, lots of recognition from top management.

PUSH1:
With your question we know u are a kid.
Dem
Never born u that time

Lol, that is funny, a man who can't engage in a conversation without trying to put his opposer down isn't a man he is nothing but a wanton fool. You have shown the greatest height of immaturity just by your statement. I do not have to prove my age to you, if an argument comes up on whether Hitler was a good or bad man, I believe I will still be able to engage whosoever comes up with the argument, irrespective of the fact that I was not born then. My point is, when a leader leaves great legacies, posterity will see the evidence and be able to attribute it to him. If you think I was not yet born at the time at least I should see the evidence of his work, there should be books written about it, the older people, you included, should be able to talk about it without being douchebags about it.

And just for your information, I am pretty sure I am older than you are. And I could tell you more about Abacha than your father probably can. It isn't age that determines wisdom or knowledge, it is experience and research.

vedaxcool:
Sentiments is all you will see in this thread, Abacha stole but gave infrastructure others stole and gave nothing... Civilian governments disappoints massively.

could you name those infrastructure please.

itsmeurLady:
Aww sorry sir but My Post is not for everyone Only Peeps with Deep Minds can Relate

hahahaha, you are funny, because I know that you know that the post was boring, anyways, I wasn't trying to look for trouble, I was being genuine.

itsmeurLady:
U turned 36 and finally u noticed celibacy wasnt going to make you a mum and wife We have had ladies practice it in their 40s and still got married and even got pregnant afterwards. In other words, na u know wetin u practice (maybe u fasted from sex) because from your results, it is definitely not the product of celibacy. After preaching it to young girls, u finally ended up not finishing it? So how do u expect them to finish it? U shldnt have talked about it at all. It's very hypocritical.

I got bored halfway reading this, what is your point exactly?

briandaman:
I am sick and tired of defending south africa from being labeled a xenophobic country. Yes we...

Are you being serious?

What is the police for, what is the drug unit for? You mean it is better to execute jungle justice than the follow due procedure by arresting criminals, you kill innocent people and you say that is okay. What is wrong with humanity, what kind of foolishness lives in you?

You know, it is the jobless, illiterate South Africans who think this way, those who cannot get jobs because they clearly lack the skills or education, they think others are the cause of their predicament. I honestly do not blame you, Nigeria did it too, we did it to Ghana, 35 years later we are worse than we were, we thought they were the reasons we were not getting jobs, we complained, oh if this Ghanians will just leave our country.

Nigerians are not the cause of the problem in South Africa, even during the Apartheid there was more crime in SA than there is today, there were more gangs, black killing blacks, even if all immigrants leave SA, you won't be better than you are today, and if the past is anything to go with, I believe you would be worst off.

Against women

Perfectdanny:
why did I book this space again??

Should she pay him if he decides to stay at home?

three:
Have you heard of NESCO in Jos?

They've been selling directly to residents since 1929

That is true, this is no news, it has always been the case

Bossontop:

Well noting will happen....no be naija again??

How can one be saluting and smiling unheard of, stupid Nigerian police.

NwaAmaikpe:




It's inevitable;
Everyone gets to squat one way or the other. Even if it's for a few hours.
Even the rich squat too.

It's just sad that you didn't add value to your host.
You were simply a leech and I'd have said the same about you too.

RULE OF SQUATTING: SQT 101
Make yourself less of a burden to your host by ensuring your stay springs a symbiotic relationship.

What you've said does not line up with what the OP has said, it does only if you believe the OP was lying .

PlsBanMe:
Don't behave as if you knew what they discuss. Just send the audio clip to him via WhatsApp. He will be too ashamed that he will most probably apologize. Or,you may play the clip when you are with him. Tell him one of the guys he was discussing with actually recoded it and gave it to you. That way, you will cause hatred amongst your enemies.

What makes you think he would be ashamed of his actions. Moving out and cutting all ties is the best option, also, why make enemies when you can have "friends", the OP still stands to benefit in the future from this dude, lastly, revenge is best served cold, imagine a situation where the OP has the upper hand and his "friend" needs his help?

Ceasardgreat:
Sounds selfish!

Well... You are free to read meaning to my post as you wish, but it is the truth, I don't think it is selfish, and mind you, what I said is that you down own anybody any responsibility to take care of them, except the children you are taking care of. If you still think that is selfish I cannot convince you otherwise.

kimbraa:
I don't think these your adult siblings are financially stable. Carry them along in your plans 'cause food is nothing. This one you're deliberately keeping your fridge empty is wrong if you have people in the house who may be hungry. About cleaning, you can all discuss that and strategise a plan on how cleaning should be done and by who daily. Lastly, encourage them to get something doing.

Oh we Africans, why should it be anybody's duty to take care of another, just because they were unfortunate to be born from the same parents, don't get me wrong take care of your siblings if and when you can, but not at your expense. The only people you should take care of unconditionally, even at your own expense, are your children or wards.