₦airaland Forum

abduljabbar4:
The ICC should have arrested Tony Blair and george bush for their war crimes first. El rufai was wrong and i am not a big fan of him but the ICC is not meant for third world countries alone. No one should tell us how we handle our country

Agboki:
Nothing like medical help here,oga get issues wit em self esteem, na 4 relationship wit d opposite sex e dey even vex am pass,I was once lyk u,although when I was abt ur age and its affecting me till date but mine na only towards ladies and few males.as u dey grow u go dey improve.

irumole1975:
In a world where being in a relationship, to the female folks, is a business venture

0monnak0da:
You are a bastard you need to stop breathing
Banter you and who?

Ogun will bathe will your blood
I no send you
I no send your mother or your father so stay the fvck away from me
Go and do your Voltron chivalry elsewhere

0monnak0da:
So that Ogun does not bathe with your epileptic mother's blood in the New Year never quote me in your miserable life .

If you need attention I am not the one to give it to your mother.Take her to a Neuropsychiatric facility like Aro for proper care.

You are a bastard and you will not profit in the New Year you will spend the next 12 months advocating for misfits,prostitutes and neverdowells like yourself

There are other idiotts quoting me forming Voltron that I have chosen to ignore but you and your faamily of dogs shall be a special feast for Ogun in the New Year

You will step on cursed Ebos and carry the woes of others Ase!
All her problems and ill-luck shall be your burden henceforth

0monnak0da:
Sorry you do not prove any point by showing the COVER of a passport

The only thing you prove is your brainlessness

COVER

Haa!!


Passport COVER




Claiming it is

YOUR

passport

That would only fool
mumus like you

Just like taking a photo with a car and claiming it is yours]]

Not nicee at all

A dirty insolent Ho

xelly:
At the end, WHAT IS YOUR PROFIT? I mean after spending 100k+, what is your profit?

If there's no addition to what you spent, then you are investing in liability. If that's good for you, keep it up.


Let me ask, how much has she spent on you? Don't give me the crack that she doesn't have anything, if she doesn't have anything, she isn't worth anything.

Ozkar:
wow... Several paragraphs of undiluted waffling.

You don't get the point, do you? There are basically only two real issues here...

1) Is it okay to spend extravagantly on a lady one isn't even in a relationship with? According to the OP, he is a "To be boyfriend", and after he stated his stance, she said she doesn't think they can be in a relationship.

2) Is a lady entitled to a part of a man's salary as pocket money because they are dating? This is the part that gets the most backlash. You said you found her matter-of-fact entitlement annoying, yet went ahead to explain how it is a natural expectation that women have of their man. So what exactly makes her entitlement annoying to you? The fact that you wouldn't say it outright?

I found it interesting that you noted you would not want to spend your money to do stuff for your partner. He has to give you money from time to time, for you to spend money on him.

It is known that many ladies are tightfisted with their money. So what would encourage a man's natural inclination of good will? Why shouldn't guys who spend on these ladies (that only receive and never give) feel stupid too?

Women from time immemorial were relegated to domestic duties in our part of the world. Many used to think (many still do) that women are incapable of any logical thought or of managing positions of leadership. Does the fact that many have thought so for long justify it?

You are viewing the world with colored lens, and expect others using colored lens too to have the same color as yours.

boiz2men:
Lol.

All the girls in my life think I'm stingy.

I fvcking don't care.

They gossip me and say "which kind person b dis"?

I still don't care.

Only a few understand I'm not.

I have never said no to my family members and real friends (male and female alike)

Footnote: no one is stingy.. You just don't worth it.

All because you have a puxxy.. So what?


In fact, it's easier to give a guy money than a babe.

In case u wondering, I think I'm single lol

dingbang:
Its ok to spend on your girlfriend if you have the money but then again, spend it on someone who deserves it. To me I think she doesn't deserve it, who the fvck is she to determine what and what not to do with your salary?


Be wise bro.

Earthbound:
Did you just say you spent over a hundred K on a chick that is not your girlfriend?? Someone who might be in the shower right now as I type this, getting ready for some other guy's dic.




I dunno your age, bruh but you deserve better brain resetting beating

TarOrfeek:
110k

On her Second birthday of the year?

OkunrinOloro:


Anytime Freeze speaks, I remember how he was the class dullard in the University of Ibadan, Department of Sociology in the early 2000s where he finished with a 3rd class degree. Back then I was still in junior secondary school, but my elder brother was in the Department of Economics also in U.I.and he personally knew freeze. Freeze was better known for being an MC and a wack rapper who regularly performed at campus gigs. He was never reckoned with as someone who possessed any intellectual competence.

Afamed:
Till he's granted. Another thing to apply,another thing to be given

UyaiIncomparabl:
What if you hadn't known him, how would you have solved that problem? Just imagine he never existed, and get over yourself!

It's highly disgraceful. And yea, he was right. It's too early to start begging for stuffs, to think the relationship is even a week old.

He dodged a missile. It's called the 'Butterfly effect'.

kanubiafra:
WHERE is the comparism in the post you just quoted?

fratermathy:
The UK is a sovereign state that pulled out of a voluntary confederation. They never agitated for anything, as there was no need to. International diplomacy worked the magic, after decades of disaffection and an eventual referendum.

SIMPLYkush:
that boy is the most ugliest boy in the world, despite the money

Oyindidi:
Rccg won't start counselling without perantal consent. Reno go siddon

chiommy123:
why do guys always think every lady has a boyfriend and they must ask you directly or indirectly. why not find out yourself

lefulefu:
Westerners and their unhealthy diet. Just look at one of my guy that travelled to spain two yrs ago. I no recorgnize d dude again. Bros wey first look athletic wen im dey here don turn to FIFA football for spain. All im cheeks don bulge out and im no get neck again.i ask wetin im dey eat for dere wey make am look so unhealthly fat like dis and im tell me say na d work of God oo. So God will just make u look fat in a foolish way....hmm na wah ooo. D bros say im no get time to exercise im body cos man must hustle money...hmmm.

kayojosephy:
I disagree, it does not apply to all... My sister and my Babe are good examples
I cannot help but envy my sister's guy for been blessed with such a beauty and brain, always thinking of the future and most times prevents her guy from unnecessary spending and she was the standard I used in selecting my own babe and I would say I am luckier, as Babe is business oriented and taken risks I am scared of taking and they are 23 and 22 respectively..
Respect to these wonderful personalities..
Note: Babe is last born of family of 11 children, she witnessed mistakes of elderly ones and the consequences which makes her take necessary steps... And they are not hoes or passing through any 'hoe-phase' as they are still Virgins and they will not give in anytime soon..

SBL28:
Na lie! A hoe is a hoe, it has nothing to do with age.

EggSauce:
u no well o

Kinggnicole:
Lol..were you expecting me to give the cliche Nigerian wife "pray that God touches his heart" advice?

I say it again! She has to leave if it gets to that point. From the write up above, her husband is outright disrespectful and obviously doesn't care about her needs and wants. Imagine telling her to stay and take care of the children so that nothing happens to them since she knows she's not fertile. How insensitive!

OP apologise to him again(if you need to because this is an issue of trust and is quite sensitive too) but tell him squarely that you are not quitting your job. Also give him some more time. If he's not budging , you know what to do.

EzendiEgo1:



You guys are stupid

Have You hear or heard that a dog can kill human, sometimes I don't know how you people think self.

pocohantas:
1) Why do Naija guys think sex is a loss to the lady?

2) Why will a guy and girl have sex, then Naija guys will call only the lady olosho with borehole pùssy?

3) Why is there so much emphasis on female chastity and virginity, but none for guys?

4) Why is male infidelity more tolerated/accepted than the female one?

5) Why do Naija guys turn totometer, trying to calculate the mileage of their girlfriend's vagina?

6) Why will you give a Naija man a blòwjob and he'll be wondering which man's dick you learned it with?

7) Why would a Naija guy date a girl and when they break-up, he will be happy he at least fuckéd her. Does it take something away from her? If yes, what? Is it a gift or collateral to the guy? If yes, why?

8 ) Why are there thousands of thread on guys analysing the female vagina, its depth, width, colour... in relation to her sexual partners?

9) Why is a sexually experienced guy a stud and his female counterpart, a slut?

10) Why are Naija girls slutshamed for being sexually expressive, whereas the guys can share sexcapades on ashawo beer parlour thread?

12) "Virginity is the best gift a woman can give her husband".
Do you agree with the above statement. If yes, why?

13) "A man can love his wife and fùck around, but a woman who does same can kill her husband". Do you agree with this statement. Discuss in not more than 6 lines.

14) If sex is indeed pleasurable for both,why does the female get all the antagonism and the guy gets the accolade?

If you can correctly and sincerely answer these questions.
The answer you seek lies therein.