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So, I go leave mouth wey I surpose kiss, go dey kiss dirty feets, abi?

U neva jam!

lefulefu:
Has anybody wondered why is that that many of the oyibo men that nigerian women date are always bald headed and look like they are 90 yrs old.

Lol.

Im not only wondering, but pondering!

Lol.

Cant imagine spending more time on phone "EVERYDAY" with som1 I have no interest on, not to talk of going out with her!

Pointin out the shortness in him as if you, yourself is OK for other peoples ideal prefrence as a wife material.

Since you'r tired of his callin, why not stop picking up his calls, or better stil, just like som1 stated earlier, ask ur broda to help u talk to him!

seedord247:
You better sharaappp. . . .after how many chief's and boy friend, or did you cage it back with Gum

Lol.


OP, Dunlop Elite or Michellin condom. They'r very strong and reliable!

omega25red:
tell xavier to create a fake FB page as a woman and friend bob to further investigate.

Or better stil, create a new FB page with a different ID and friend Abigail to findout more info about her!

Xavier, God has just used the medium of that other guy in revealing to you that your gf is not worth being your future partner. pls, flee from her!

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OP, I understand the situation you are now, but best believe me, that guy might be telling you the RAW AND UNDILUTED TRUTH !!!

Forget about your gf's tears, dat na crocodile tears, believe me! No dey too believe on some gals emotional tears ooo!

It has happened to me b4 (in two diff occasion), and guess what? The gal later called me and opened up, but before then, her friend had already told me everything! But the 1st time I asked her about it, the tears that she cried that day ehn. . .? Believe u me, I feel for her soteeey, I nearly join her dey cry sef. And after consolling and whipping off her tears, we had the greatest sex, EVER (believe me, na dah tym akpako dey sweet pass)!!!
But atlast, she stil remained what she was. The truth later came up and she finally confessed to me. Ever since then, I NO FIT TRUST GALS AGAIN !!!

One thing you ought to bare in mind is, how did that guy knew that your gf has a BB?

efepro:
we communicate on phone often,but recently,i noticed that i hav not bn seeing her on Facebook,cuz she's a regular fb poster.However,i decided to search for her using her IDs(names,email),but nothing was found.I became apprehensive.I decided to check my inbox to locate her name with her recent msgs.To my surprise,i saw a strange name instead of hers: 'Adams M Smith', immediately,i clicked on it.what was there was d same chat logs and timeline of me and my girlfriend's conversations so far.Immediately,i phoned my girlfriend and asked whn last she checked her fb,she said she tried loggin in 5 days ago,but access was denied.Then i knw she was hacked,
To cut d long story short,this was d msg i received from d Hacker after unfriending me and changing her entire profile:
"u might not know me,i believe u're one of(name withheld)numerous boyfriends,cuz [b]i used to c your name on her phone.[/b]let me tell u,your gurlfriend is a world class LovePeddler.She sleeps around with men and boys on campus 4 money.If i'm liein ask her where she got her new black berry.it was gvin to her by her yahoo boyfriend.boi b wise.i know u love her,but she doesn't worth it"

What has she to do with that guy that he had access to her phone, and could ALWAYS see your name on her phone?

Be wise man, be wise!

She already told you that she has a bf, so back off her!

Gals full outside for street na, ah ah? Abi, u no get flows to scope one ni?

If so, den use your FIGO! Cos naija gals are all about FIGO (moni)!

tellwisdom:
Really dont knw wether na HUNGER or too much SUN dey cause their yellow eye , Na so i see one the other day dey SMOKE SKUNK join her YELLOW EYE.|^^ i just jump gutter make she pass, before i proceed

Hahahaha. . . .

Jump gutter because of the gal?

Long as Naija is concern, whoever u meet for a date, ALREADY has a BF/GF!

So, be prepared for WHATEVER happens on the long run!

Rano's take.

The best punishment to an armed robber. Chop belleful, and die afterward!

Unfortunately, I cant see what was pasted!

OP, see one of d yeye naija gal wey u dey talk about sef (the gal on the pix you uploaded), see how she jus put hand for jaw, com trowey her face go one side lyk "I dont care!" And they are the type that needs a hardworking and very rich Nigerian men.

Yeye naija girls!

Interesting!

Make I sidan and relax jejely, dey enjoy d thread jare!

*pops out one bottle of Carlsberg in the fridge to entertain himself, along!*

Lantean:
Don't bother indulging that Facebook-deleting tact.

IT WON'T WORK.

You seem not to know she feels insecure. And she's trying to be brave by not telling you exactly what she feels.
Mind you, her insecurity will not end with Facebook.
This is just the beginning of an issue. And the only way to end this is by talking to her - HER TRUSTING YOU.

Just talk to her again. A heart to heart discussion.

By the way, dumping her will only show that you can't deal with partner's emotions.
Are you gonna be dumping every girl that feels this way with you?

Dude! you don't wanna be lonely.

Imagine threatening with condition while stil in a r/ship. What if after they get married, wont such a girl turn her husband to house maid?

If it's me, then YES! I wil dump EVERY girl and girlies that feels same way with the OP's GF!!

Make dem go dive inside canal, for all I CARE!! Dem dey crase for head!

Beync:
well said skillz.
I only pity naive minds who will take some advice the way NL throws it. most of the time when issue of relationships is been discussd, peeps will jus be saying throw her out or thow him out like we knew where the shoe is paining the wearer. If this issue is jus what is bothering their relationship why cant they mildfully discuss their reasons for their opipnions and settle it if they are sincere to themselves. there are serious issues that cud break relationship except if  this guy is not genuinly concern with the reltnshp or not sure he has any future with the girl like he sound, jus my observation.

But you also refused to see that, there's also NOTHING WRONG even if the guy refuses to put her GF's pic on his profile, but so quick to call names (naive minds). Nawa O!

Beync:
some peeps with bad experience sef shud not influence others, all rltnshps must not experience bad

Op, i think i cannot compromise things that has to do with morallity or will prick my conscience

yes some women can be silly and immature in their demands sometimes

but most time i see men behaving more silly especially when it comes to their 3rd leg

the truth is that you are not proud of her simple

all these excuses as to what Mr A and Miss/Mrs right wud say wud be simply immature on your side, are u living the life of others? u shud live your life

or u hav something u dont to say

Yes, he is living his life, and has stated what he wants in his life, and the fact stil remains that, HE IS NOT GOING TO PUT HIS GF's PIC ON HIS FB PROFILE!

Case closed!

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=774899.msg9280001#msg9280001 date=1317811916]Ranoscky.  Bro. hopefully before 2072, you will understand the meaning of  * PUBLIC  FORUM* [/quote]Then, before 3027, SEUN will understand that such thread like this, is the reason why NIG is stil in her ill guttered state, today!

If he's Dumb enough to allow a thread like this to proceed, then I wonder why he should censor profane words!

What a prick.

And as for you, cork, I aint gat shit to say to you cos, I dont know who's the real cocky, anymore!

Sad story indeed!

My advice. . . Let your suitor know whats on floor before anything. And aspa ur X, dont dear think of him ANYMORE !!!

Cos my mind is telling me that, if you ever step your legs in his house again (while his mom is stil alive) then, anything u see, u take!

BEWARE OF MOTHER INLAWS!!

Y'all are already lust with Serpentine's left [b]b[/b]reast, and none is concentrating/replying to the topic at hand anymore.

Now, I see the wonders of [b]b[/b]reast.

OP, pls check on urself very well nextime, when u'r standing in the mirror.

tashanja:
Brace yourselves! definitely, another religious war now on its way

Blame it on the mods, and I must confess that SEUN (the CEO of Nairaland) IS A NYASH MAN, for allowing such thread to proceed !!!

I guess he derives pleasure in tribal threads like this!

Seun, ban me if you like, I DONT GIVE A RAT AS$ !!!

I dont know which one is easier to catch, my broda!

All I do is walk into a hotel, call a chick, negotiate, pay, UnCloth, socket, do the do, shoot (when it's time), shower, dress up and keep moving!

Hahaha. . .Sounds cocky!

tom28:
OP your girlfriend sounds like a little kid.Are u sure she"s up to 18 yrs?

Deffinitely NOT sure!

mamacy:
@poster,relationship is about compromise, sometimes you just have to do things to please your partner, and most times, ladies want to be assured that they are loved/adored.    I see no reason y u shudnt reciprocate by posting your gf's pix on fb, its no big deal, and btw, u dont need to listen to people's comment/opinion, most times people dont ve good intentions and listening to them can be misleading, Finally,  if u r serious abt your relationship, then i see no reason why u wouldnt do anything positive within your powers to make it work.

He shouldn't listen to "people", but he should listen to YOU as best advicer of the year 2011, right?. . . . Some pipu shaaaaa!

Topic - If ma GF request such from me in a cool and calm manner, then in a mild and likely manner, I'll xplain to her my reasons why her request wil not proceed; Or I might just grant her the request for the sake of peace to remain in the r/ship (but NOT from my mind, and frankly speaking, I wont do it)! But if quiting the relationship acompanied her request, then I WILL BE THE ONE TO SHOW HER THE EXIT DOOR !!!

kpolli:
she fancies the asker of the question

Unfortunately, the 'asker' of the question was a she.

pendo89:
Oh yes I can. Single but attached simply screams am not currently available BUT AM STILL SINGLE. Status can change to single and available.
Either way yep, you are still single but it must be made clear so as not to chase away potential suitors.

Look ma sista, let me tell you something. . . .

NO MATTER the path you take in coming up with an ideal theory, long as YOU ended up sayin "am stil single", Then, there is NO logical theory that you'll bring up that will change the fact that, the OP's GF is stil SINGLE !!

As simple as that!