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Dating, before courting!

Why court without date?

It's like buying a container of goods with NO KNOWLEDGE of what is inside!

Dont know what to comment on the thread, so I took the time in checking on some girls profile pix, and I was like ~~>

Beync:
pours fuel on thread, burns right away MTCHEW

Yet, I see NO smoke neither fire.

^^ U neva see anything!

Abujabir24:
And d fact dat d man holds your hand and even committed fornication/adultery wit u concludes 2me dat d useless fat man is not a gud muslim.

Cast the 1st stone if YOU'r holy?!

Abujabir24:
I believe he hasnt satisfied his wife at home and he's busy ramming a LovePeddler in d office.

Hope you know what a LovePeddler means?

Abujabir24:
D man needs 2be taken 2d shariah court so he'll b convicted of adultery

How many of the whores that YOU know very well around you, have u taking to sharia, lately?

Abujabir24:
nd d punishment 4 adultery is stone 2 death.

Let me ask you a question. . .

If God/Allah is to judge 'us all' (includin me and & YOU) immediately after we sin against him, would YOU and me be alive today?

5stardude:
To all of you guys talking bout Naija/African girls bn cheap, ho bla bla. . Just zip your onion/garlic stinky mouth up. American girls are the #1 most cheapest hos and Joystick eaters of the century. Pay for her nail, she will give it to you, pay her phone bill you will get twice, buy gasoline for her car, you might even get a bj at the gas station right away, pay for her eyebrow buddy you can have her for a night. They don't ask for much, they could sleep with your Joystick on them no problem. No hate #I'm a citizen of both countries#

Soo [b]f[/b]ucking true!

^^ U dey mind am?

I too know!

twinstaiye:
I would just say there is nothing wrong in what you did if it pleases your conscience.  As long as you know damn too well that she wont pay you back, and it still pleases you to help her, for me, I am cool with it, but if you think she will pay you back and that is the reason you did that, I will say you are a big fool.  Having said this, I am sure some people will do the same but wont admit it openly, I admire your courage.  Truth sometimes is that, you can never please people when you want to do things of this nature, so it is only fair that you do it according to your conscience. Ignore the negative comments and move on, I am sure, all those negatives commentator would still say the same thing if your GF is their close relatives, but will not tell you to your face.
The lesson to be learnt are there though, we can render a one off bigger help to people who are not a close family at one time in our life at the expense of our families knowing fully well that our families would still be there for us and would get a bigger share of our help for as long as we live.

Even with the embolded part, below?:

CHIMCO:
Thank you!! Thank you!! Thank you!! For al your wonderful advice. You have indeed lightened my burden. I asked the question out of desperation b/c i couid not sleep, you can check the time. I dnt know where to start in answering some of your questions. I know that it is her parent responsibility to borrow but when they failed to do so, i have to do something at the niche of time she told me that her exams Will start on 15/9/2011 & i waited thinking that her parents, although in the village could do something but when they failed i paid in on 14/9/2011 but now she told me 16/9/2011 as the exam date. She had told me that it was her late grand father wish for her to go to school & also the fact that she has told all her siblings including her parents about me but they ve not seen me b/c i dnt plan to marry her & i dnt want to expose her. As for my family, my Mom is on dailies & she needs Money every end of the month fr her drugs, which i have send once for the year & my siblings needs money badly esp the female ones, infact they cannot believe i did what i just did & they cannot hear it. As for want i do, I'm an in tinerate marketer of soaps in various offices and banks, that is how i met my old school mate that borrowed me the money, he works in a bank. They pay me on commission & i think i need to work harder. As for my motive, as i said i dnt plan to marry. I did it b/c i believe I'm the only man in her life & i know she is desperate. My problem is that i kept the relationship for so long but as i said if she comes back i Will quietly quit it. Once more, thank you.

I DOUBT IT WITH ALL DOUBTNESS OF DOUBT !!!

I innitialy said it's NOT a wrong decision to help his GF, not until he came up with the above post, and I dont think he did the right thing (IMHO)!

But, well, to each, his own! Time for work, guys, chat lerra!

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=758880.msg9149745#msg9149745 date=1316052191]Don't mind 'em.

Random thought:

The way Americans go about claiming God like they dine, wine and gist with him everyday, is so annoying and aggravating. If the almighty wants to punish people for calling and using his name in vain, after Nigerians, Americans will get the "best" punishment.

A dollar bill says "In God we trust" on the back side; how many of those bills are placed on strippers' booties every single night in America, by Americans-----? Not cool.
[/quote]Am tellin you, my sista!

The overhypeness of that country is becoming something else that Sometimes, one would wonder if being an American citizen is truly and the easiest way to make heaven. I just taya for doz pipu shaaa!

MsDarkSkin:
Huh?

Any prob, ma'am?

lefulefu:
Imagine the horrible smell that will come out from the pant worn by a nigerian girl.It would be worse than the smell of rotten eggs .I still remember that movie Domittila pt 2 were Charles Okafor was busy having a fling with his step dauther's friend in his office and almost got caught by his wife.He hid the babe's pant that he pulled frm her when he was doing her and put it in his trouser pocket and when his wife left he used the pant to wipe his face thinking the pant was his hanky and immediatley the smell frm the pant passed his nose the bobo almost fainted .I really laugh hard wen i watch dat scene

Lol

[quote author=~*Mamken*~ link=topic=758147.msg9144097#msg9144097 date=1315993624]so why can't a man make the laundry without thinking who's panty is he washing?[/quote]When washing my clothes, my gf 'sometimes' brings her pant for me to help her wash it. I do wash em, and I see NO BIG DEAL on it!

Cipriani:
It's an access to God's own country. If i marry her, then I will become an american citizen.

GOD's own country ?.??

Dream on!

Yes! If not, I for don hook you up, tey tey!

allison2:
There is rumors in town that some certain numbers kills. Don't peak numbers with 09144/09141. It is death instantly.

Says who?

Crazy world.

Eiregirl:
No, that's just some of the things that I love about being a woman! Maybe you should try it, might make you feel good The thing I love most about being a woman is being a MOTHER!!!!

Now, you'r talking!

Alright! Now, am f[/b]ucking serious!

I would have loved to hook you up, but you'r soo damn [b]'far far away' !

Cipriani:
Do you have an american passport, are you a minister's daughter, is your father a senator, ? If yes to any of these questions, then we are good as husband and wife.

Is the American pasport a free visa/ticket to heaven?

OP, I would have loved to hook you up but, hmm. . . . Would you like to be pending on ma list of 'next to date' girls?. . . . *just kiddin*

For the girls, shout out to Nayah. And Nayah, only!

For the guys, shout out to ma main man, Gbawe!

Been a longtime, dude, where thou art?

r231:

LOOOL. . . .The thread taya U, abi?

Eiregirl:
I love being a woman! I carried & gave birth to 2 beautiful children! We get cheaper car insurance. We get to dress up when we're going out, do our hair, nails & make-up, wear nice heels & handbags

yeye4live:
nonsence n bull poo, tel dat to d dogs ok

^^ Which language be that?

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=757368.msg9134890#msg9134890 date=1315884733]So that was the irrelevant phrase you could grasp/question from my entire post----?

Yh, his babe. Already.[/quote]Eyah! Sorry oo!

I never knew your post was irrelevant.

^^ Blame it on Konji.

Tosinville:
^^You're absolutely right bro and its very easy to replace a girl in relationship but how about if its your wife who's sex starving you after marriage?

If my wife denies me of sex, I can NEVER eat whatever she cooks for me again, and that means her exit door is drawing nearer!

Be her my wife or not, the fact is, I 'bought' her with my money, and I can show her the door at any giving time if she acts shaddy!

She dey mad for head. That is how women behaves. During the relationship, they all act like saints. After tieing the knot, they start showing their devilish and dirty colours.

Now, let me ask you a question. . . .If you had a misunderstanding with your GF and she denies you of sex, shey u no go dumpam?

If she denies you of sex during the relationship, wont she have the mind to lock you outside of the house when both of you finally get married?

^^ Contact mr cork for him to make you double!

Omo mehn, dis one pas me for now oooo!

Wait make I think 1st. . . .*Leaves and navigates to another thread immediately, cos the situation is the type that leaves one dumbfounded*

D sage:
Guys confess,d 1st tin dat came to most men's mind wen stared at a lady is sex.Guys dnt normally stare at girls dey dnt admired/love.

Word!

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=757368.msg9127047#msg9127047 date=1315787010]In Dbanj's Voice "Suddenly, Suddenly":

Oga websurfer, be careful! She's acting like a witch. (lol). She's up to something. This ain't normal.

Take a good look at this;

She made you miss church! She came seducing you on a Sunday Morning! Eh! Blood of Jesus!

What were you saying while she was lying to the other guy on the phone --- Smiling? Blushing? Chei--- How Sabbatical!


Very odd indeed. That was the holy-spirit ministering to you! Listen to him.

Didn't mean to sound like a Religion Fanatic--but I mean, your babe is weird.[/quote]His babe, ALREADY??

WebSurfer:
@Obowunmi your fada,, me and am na mate? Were u bold enough to put your monkey-face picture?

Now, that gat me laffin!

DEFFINITELY NOT until you have plans of marryin a girl, that is when you can finance for her studies (or whatever she needs the money for). If you have the money and you are willing to help, just do it (like Nike), cos NOBODY knows 2morow!

She might turn out to be som1 that could help you in the nearest future, who knows?

pendo89:
Are u guys serious? Aren't pads disposable like diapers.
Good lord do I even have to say that? or what pad are we talking about here?
you know what? am out. keep washing and hanging 'pads'

It's a FULL GROWN lady like you that said pads are washable in some other countries (even wash it with their barehands). See the quote below:

MsDarkSkin:
some women in third world countries have the unfortunate task of doing this by. . .hand!

So, why the noise?

Mind you pen, something that is disposful to you after use, is STILL useful to others. Afterall, most of the clothes that we buy those days at "Aswani" are disposed ones by the white folks! What am sayin is, YOU can dispose after use. But, some others can stil wash, dry and re-use again, that is what makes err'body different! Diff strokes for diff folks!

The junk yard in developed countries, hope you know what are dumped there (e.g cars, clothes, pc, tv etc)? But go and see for yourself if most of those things are not usable in other undeveloped countries.

Woo, my sista, if God don do am for u, sha ma dupe ti e. Cos nobody err'body get money to chop turkey!

@OP, I really like the way you responded to those insultin you. It shows how matured you are. Welldone!

Few dayz ago (I think in Assie or the U.S.) I read about a woman that sued her husband for sex starving her for 4 dayz, and the man was asked to pay her $13,000 in compensation for his awful deed.

But, to me, any girl that thinx sex starving me is a big problem and an ideal way of gettin back at me, then she should know that she's about openin the door of her replacement!

Unforunately, the existing ones are NOT capable of providin just 'TWO' out of the 10 things I need. So no need of listing!