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Bluehill1051:
Why don't you help him sometimes?
In my own opinion, you're worse than those children. It is your type that will rather take photos of a dying person than actually saving them.

You sound very illogical and irresponsible!

whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

Leave the long story. I dey look for Canadian wife. Any connection?

GMBuhari:
Already its not possible for senseless people to understand sensible comment

It's all about perspective









The writeup says the lockdown was eased to allow people celebrate Easter, its not my business if Northerners choose to commit suicide, afterall it won't be new to them so I'm primarily focused on South, honestly I don't give a hoot about Yeebos or Hausa, as long as Yoruba land is safe

But in reality if you don't condemn this, South East, SS people always come to Lagos, go through Yoruba states, it could be a disaster


So instead of offering senseless advice, why don't we come together to condemn this madness, corona does not recognize ethnicity of social status

If history repeats itself over 40Million people might die world wide, the fact that there isn't much death in Africa already doesn't mean we are immune once the virus spreads its over because of our already shitty healthcare



So again instead of senseless advise, lend your voice and speak against this madness

After Easter comes several weddings, burials, Christmas, new year but if only we are alive and well

F OFF

Shut up there!!! Senseless comment!

Now, get lost!!!

GMBuhari:
Nigeria is not serious at all


Another Easter will come when there won't be corona risks

But hey let's relax the curfew because we want to buy chicken and rice on Easter

Some idiots will want to go to church too àbí? And pastors will encourage it àbi? So they can in the process share Coronavirus with themselves

I pray Nigeria doesn't get to Italian level of corona, maybe then we'll be sensible

Senseless comment.

gaventa:
We know your type dependent mummys boy! I gave reasons doesn't mean I support the act. Dont look down on others because you have people who feed you. No be here you go dey form big man.thank God for you own and don't criticise others.

Check my profile. I created my account in 2008. That's almost 12 years now! I was already paying fees for my younger ones even as at then. I don't know what year you were born but I'm very sure that if they subtract your age from mine, what is left will still be more than a dozen!

festacman:
Congratulations to true Nigerians. We stand with out gallant soldiers and keep encouraging them.

Ntoooor to Ipobian Nigerian-Chadians. They can cross over to Chad to live and adulate their new deity, the drama king Idriss Deby.

Shut up and fvck off!!!

gaventa:
Funny enough it is, the average Nigerian is not promised the next meal. Do you know what it means not to be able to afford a meal. If the basic needs of life were to be taken care of by the govt then most Nigerians won't have to beg. In a case where your work is only able to get you food, how do you expect to take care of Shelter and clothing if you dont beg.

Continue your begging career! Keep waiting for government to take care of your basic needs.

JAMO84:
All these fake news and campaign of calumny are the products of Ipob ( not all Igbo) and the miserable, unfortunate and eternally useless Poverty Development Party.

When BH kill our soldiers, they rejoice and spread the news faster than 5G, but when our army kill BH, they say it's audio.


GOD punish, destroy, mutilate, shred, cremate, dismantle, destroy, demolish and demystify the lives of Boko Haram, their sponsor, their supporters and all those who silently wish they continue what they are doing just so they can ridicule this government at the expense of our soldiers and citizens lives!!!

I AM DONE TALKING

Shut up there fast fast!!! You don't know anything! Fake memo!!!

SUPERPACK:
Do not be deceived people of God, that building is actually the largest 5G factory on earth not a hospital. They should show us the inside and not the corridor only. Putin is building it in partnership with China to produce more 5G equipments to spread the coronavirus to uninfected countries. We condemn this structure strongly.

Senseless and meaningless analysis!!!

TokeableGod:
Please guys I need recharge card to call my sick dad no amount is too small 0.9.0.4.7.5.6.3.3.7.6 thanks and God bless yo

Don't you have a boyfriend? I thought that's boyfriend duty in Nigeria.

Chai! Una wicked. Guys dor rearrange the thread

iammo:
he is back on twitter again with his wahala

Pained boy spotted!

osydennyz:
Very obvious.....but how did you find out??

I know his pattern. Very illogical in reasoning.

MyExpression:
This corona period has shown that people can genuinely be in need, esp 50k working class like us.
E no easy ooo.

So you are telling us that someone earning 50k a month cannot save some amount of money for rainy days? Look for another story talk. Dis one na outdated story.

Long epistles of lies!

michlins:
please when the powers that be comes hard on Wike, don't claim marginalization. There are exclusive lists which Wike have no power to control. This guy is just power drunk and we all know how Buhari can disregard rule of law when he wants to discipline someone. Ask NK,ask dasuki

Senseless analysis.

CoronaVirusPro:
Bunkum and balderdash

Effort in futility.

Even if you close all their offices, it doesn't stop them from flying to and fro Rivers State.

In a world where transactions are now completed online, who walks into the office.

I don't even know the office of any airline in the entire world.

Another moniker operated by .

Shegzy8:
Please any good Samaritan should ask for my account details and help out. Even if it's 1k!! I do not have any cash on me and also no foodstuff.

Fvck off! Go and hustle online!!!

CoronaVirusPro:
So the president of a country being in the front lines is a commendable move?

Hello, if you truly know about leadership, you won't compose what you have up there. So if a confrontation happens and he is shot dead, what would be your conclusion.

Is he a combatant, Airforce or Naval officer. What skill does he have to be in the front lines.

So you expect MTN CEO to climb a Telecom mast when their is a major outage.

It's demoralises, insult and ridicule to the Generals in his cabinet. And same time and insult to his office to have appointed incompetent lots that had to warrant him to go to the frontlines.

We talking about a No 1 man of a country.

Just shut up!!! Only dull and insane minds will listen to ignorant people like you.

CoronaVirusPro:
In this case it's stupidity.

He is just putting his life in danger as the number 1 man

If he dies, same people applauding his act will blame him.

Shut up there! You DON'T know anything!!!

oluseyiforjesus:
The greatest attack of covid19 is the attack to stop the Church.....

Hw do u feel wen you are hungry n someone selling canon soap shouting at ur window?

Go and sit somewhere! You are saying meaningless things.

Scam!

osuofia2:
Here is him

Lol

Rubbish!

Where's ?

Shameless boy!

okoroemeka:
not a grass cutters, it's a cane rat ,an animal that moves in groups of 5-12 individuals,if you see one be sure more are lurking around,and has very poor stringy taste.

You're very correct. It's a cane rat. I did research on it.

Fish4wealth:
Wow! This is so sad. I respected him so much during the Lagos gubernatorial debate. He stole my heart with his well thought out plans and agenda for Lagos state.

I believed so much in his vision for Lagos buy why had he descended this low.

Same with Funke...my star actress.....

It's good to respect constituted authority.

It is a pity you CANNOT read in between the lines. The man was a torn in the flesh of the APC government in Lagos State during the last elections. He was the main target. That was why the government has been abnormally serious about this event. Some other persons have violated the law since this lockdown started. Azeez Fashola and Funke/JJC are just pawns like in the game of Chess.

How will they be able to arrest everybody? How can they identify those who attended but did not show in the video?

Foxman19:
Very good. People are dying you are dining wine with your friends Because the victims are not your family.

Make money. No be dem cause the hardship for your country. Entertaining many people was bad at this time but don't start sounding as if you hold a grudge against them for having enough resources to wine and dine. Hustle!

Damiriel:
Even the money wey PDP and APC spend for last election no reach half of wetin government dey pump enter streets these days.. Guys post convid go sweet ooh

Keep deceiving yourself!

OK