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Boss13:
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I actually want to go to the Great Pyramid, I hear there is are secret initiation chambers apart from it just being a tomb.

Yes, scientists have established that there're certain possitive electro-magnetic properties inside the Great Pyramid!
However, the Great Pyramid is now a tourist centre with the place being heavily guarded. The guards would hardly allow you access into the inner chamber.

With respect to initiation, one has to be invited by a master & travel is done with the inner bodies for the initiation of the inner bodies. The outer initiation could be done anywhere.
As you rightly said, the base of the brotherhood has moved to one of the "spiritual centres" of this physical world - somewhere around the Hindu Kush Mountains, near Tibet.

Boss13:
........................................................................................I would also advice people to experience God for themselves. If you experience God, nobody, no pastor can come to tell some silly stuff

Excuse me Sir, what do you exactly mean by "experiencing God"?

I know it's possible to experience a "state of consciousness " after some training.

AjFive:
If She's the first to hit on You.

I mean reason It;

If a Man should hit you and you retaliate and hit him back; Why should it be any different to hit back on a Woman?... It doesn't make sense.


If she attacks you, you have the right to hit back.
It's only right. You're promoting gender equality.
And you're protecting yourself.

What's your say?



Aj_Five

It's immaterial to me whether she's justified in hitting me or not - I just won't bring myself to her level of brutality & hit her back, when I know of prudent ways of handling a lady's anger. Unless, of course, we're doing it consensually for fun. Even then, I prefer receiving to giving. & I'm very selective here!

DieeDiee:
Nah, she's just hurt and angry. No woman is born crazy. Behind every crazy woman there's a nigga. Her mom passed away (they were really close) but what hurt her the most was her first fiance. He treated her badly and cheated on her repeatedly. She's also the type men love: light complexion, long hair etc. so men tend to use her as a trophy and she has become paranoid.

With this background, I can understand her behavior from entirely different viewpoint. - here's a lady who's in emotional crisis. Instead of having an understanding guy who'll love, soothe, care & help her regain her emotional balance, she found herself in..............

****lips sealead****

Very touching

DieeDiee:
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I had a friend who beat up her fiance so bad even his father didn't believe it was a woman who did it (LMAO). It was funny and sad because the guy is a sweet one and he's my friend. After that she had a new fiance one time we were at the beach and I left them. A couple of hours later she called me to come fetch her because he was throwing her out. I thought they were just having a lover's spat (and I was busy partying in a club) so I took my time. When I got to their townhouse there was blood leading to their door, inside they were there and he had a huge knot on his forehead and she was all the colours of the rainbow (she's light skinned) LMAO. So I asked what happened and apparently after I left she had taken a beer bottle and hit him on the head with it because he had been speaking to "other girls" (mind you her friends). She was crying and when the police came I refused to take her side so they left. She got mad at me, I asked her what did she expect and told her that she did deserve the beat down she got, that she can't expect to go around beating people and getting away with it. She had even pulled a kitchen knife on him. Even our other friends (after laughing) told her the same thing. So she ended all our friendships.

Evidently, your friend is having a personality disorder of some sort - maybe affective aggression, or something of that nature.
I try as much as possible to stay clear away from those.

Elantracey:
lol , it was just illusion that will wash away with time .

You find it impossible, probably, because of your nature. But don't rule it out altogether. What may not be possible with one person could be so with another.

VickyyB:
Nothing.

I respect your being evasive!

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Adaeze003:
No thanks... i'm barely 20 buh can't date a 30 year old biko... lol... older guys are just a no! tho i've seen a few exceptions.

So, at what age do you envisage marrying your age-mate?

VickyyB:
I'll be dissapointed.
But still yet, it doesn't mean anything.

What comes into your mind that makes you feel disappointed, when you already know that it's perfectly possible to "love" two persons at the same time?

firstEVA:
It can never be the same motive, they usually play different roles.

Each playing a different role!
Quite plausible indeed!
This being so, what train of thoughts runs into your mind, making you feel uneasy, when you find out that he is having an affair with another lady, in addition to you? Would'nt each of you be serving a different role?

clevvermind:
guys, if your babe or any lady gives you a hot slap, will you slap back or you will hold your anger?
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If a lady - stranger - slaps me, I'll not slap her back. Instead, I'll walk away.
As for my gf, before she becomes my gf, I'ld have been familiar with her nature, more or less. So,if she slaps me, I'll not only not slap her back, but would appologize to her to calm her down.
Later, after her anger has subsided, I'll discuss the matter that led/moved her to slap me with her & see how best to avoid the situation arising again.
If slapping me is what will give her total relief from her anger, I'll prefer it than for her to keep suppressing & bottling it down. day in day out, until one day she explodes as a result of accumulated anger.

VickyyB:
Why won't i sleep him whenever he cross his boundary

But then, you must make it clear to him what his boundary is!

foxxynik:
Am not laying off my focus on "desirable"
My focus is on the reiterated statement!
You're saying the same thing!

A person not sexually desirable to you...is the same thing as Not having the desire to have sex with that person!

Its English tho...
If you don't get my point... I'll have to cross my fingers!

I think it's more of a logic.
Why I'm having difficulty equating the two statements is that, to me, the statement. "you do not find the woman sexually desirable" implies an inherent repulsive element. The same as saying I find the woman not sexually desirable. I know with some men, it is either a woman is sexually desirable or sexually repulsive. This is not so in my case. If I do not have the desire to have sex with a woman, it does not necessarily implies that I am finding the woman sexually undesirable or repulsive.
When I am in love with a woman, the feeling is quite distinct & palpably different from the one I experience when I am in lust. The two ( i.e. the feeling of love & the feeling of lust ) are not intertwined - the feeling of love is not dependent on sex "to fire it", even when the two are operating simultaneously. It's extremely difficult trying to reduce exact feelings into words.

I've noted from the posts above, that some few individuals, more or less, feel the way I do. I believe it has to do with the way our emotional bodies function. Admittedly, unless one is a demi-sexual, he will have a hard time feeling from our perspective.

firstEVA:
it's strange you have no single thread to your credit.

Didn't feel like opening one.
Would do so when the need arises.
Thanx for bothering to know.

firstEVA:
how are you?

Fine! thank you.
And how are you too?

foxxynik:
You're saying the same thing bro!

""Not having a desire for something""... And..
""Not having something desirable""

Is literally the same thing!

If you don't have the desire to eat... In other words.
You don't have that food desirable!

Note..
Desirable/Desire is define as """"Wanted or wished for as being an attractive, useful,
or necessary course of action""""

take your time & read our original sentences carefully. You've replaced your own words, without realizing.
You're only focused on the word "desirable". But a change of a single word in a sentence can change the entire meaning.
If I do not experience the desire to have sex with a woman, it does not necessarily mean, I do not FIND the woman SEXUALLY DESIRABLE.

firstEVA:
Sex and love are two different things, you can have sex with someone u do not necessarily love, you can love someone you have not had sex with.

exactly!

kandiikane:
If you love someone and don't have the desire to sleep with them, it means that you don't find them sexually desirable. Na friendzone things be that.
if you are attracted to someone your loins and mind naturally gets to work.

You're entitled to your opinion, Sir!
Personally, I feel not having the desire to eat, doesn't necessarily mean I don't find eating desirerable.

Some people can only experience lust, to them love does'nt exist. Others can only experience a mixture of love & lust. For them no one can experience love in solo. Still, others, like me, can & do experience love independent of lust & vice versa & sometimes the two overlap, in a demi-sexual mode. It all depends on the individual.

kandiikane:
If I was in a relationship and the person doesn't find me sexually desirable then that's a huge problem.

"not having the desire to sleep with a person " is not the same as "not finding the person sexually desirable"

firstEVA:
Hmmmmn, well, I only hope you are not my dad, that won't be fun.

firstEVA:
I have this awkward feeling that I know you

ssshhhhh!!!!!
don't dig deeper, or else, you'll kill the fun!
Behind a mask, in a state of anonymity, we're likely to have much more fun expressing our feelings liberally.
Or, what's your opinion?

firstEVA:
have we met . Truth is i'm a naturally submissive person, I can give in for the sake of peace. The only way I can become stubborn and hold my ground on an issue is if the guy has failed to live up to my expectations.

In this case, "switch " will be the best description.

firstEVA:
.......but I try as hard as possible to let the guy take the lead and be the head as often as possible

For how long can you continue trying hard - day in day out? Unless there's some sort of compromise, taking your true nature into account, it would'nt be easy for you to cope, in the long run.

firstEVA:
do women really get what they want? That's the issue, we want equality and all that but the men in reality still find a way to show their superiority. I have personally given up on the equality thingy......................

Pardon me, Ma'am. I am not judging you! I'll be more inclined to believe you, if you had said that you have temporarily, for now, given up this "equality and ALL THAT" thing. However, for you to give up, totally & permanently, it's going to be a herculian task, to say the least.

Homguy:
yes its possible. That's why we have friend zones.you love them but can't do them.

I concur.

PastorAIO:
At least you haven't got to the stage where you're threatening those that don't agree with you ... yet.

That is the stage you've reached. I am beyond that!