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Romance › Re: A Colleague Teasing Me by ratatis(m): 6:59am On Feb 08, 2015

For some guys, it's an awkward way of expressing his fondness for you.

Romance › Re: Strange Things That Turn You On! by ratatis(m): 6:33am On Feb 08, 2015

vhickky:
seeing a guy ...........,..........................
that desperate look he gives when I act non chalant or uninterested in his actions

sort of teasing him?

Romance › Re: Strange Things That Turn You On! by ratatis(m): 6:28am On Feb 08, 2015

softysparky:
.................
Seeing him sweat while working out.
And finally the look on his face when angry.

U may enjoy teasing him a bit to upset him & see it register on his face.
There are ladies who get real thrill in teasing a guy.

Romance › Re: When Guys Dont Give You A Chance To Decide If You Wanna Sleep With Them? by ratatis(m): 1:15am On Jan 30, 2015

onila, if I can remember well, you once stated somewhere that, before, all dicks look ugly to you. But now, that of your bf does no longer appear ugly to you - something to that effect sha.
Again, you came up with a topic on NL, wondering why you're attracted to "bad" guys.
Therefore this incidence could be regarded as a logical development.

In life, when one is fully ready for an experience, one of two things is "bound" to happen :

a) either the person bears the responsibility of initiating & following through with the experience, of his/her own volition,
or

b) gets himself or herself in a situation where someone will carry him/here through that experience.

So, saying you were not "lucky" that day is......... lipsrsealed

Romance › Re: When Guys Dont Give You A Chance To Decide If You Wanna Sleep With Them? by ratatis(m): 12:33am On Jan 30, 2015*

WebSurfer:
i was about to say so, So you have been knacked

Romance › Re: What Do U Do When Girls U Dont Know Like You? by ratatis(m): 7:31pm On Jan 27, 2015*

@ OP.
If you're humble & respectful, continue to be so as you go about your business. As time goes on, your conduct will prove to the girls that the picture (assumption) they're having of you is totally wrong. Eventually, they'ld cease to be bothersome to you, one after the other. And if there's anyone of them who continues to be too bothersome to you, you'll be surprised to see that some of the same girls would take it up & deal with her on your behalf. I've seen it happen again & again. But this happens only, & only if, there's nothing in you that relates to the way they're behaving towards you.

It is equally possible too that you're actually arrogant & being pompous without being aware that you are! ( I'm not trying to judge you. Merely looking at possibilities.) In which case, their behavior is in response to yours.
Quite often, when someone notices that members of the opposite sex are craving for his attention, his/her sense of pride/ego gets inflated, to the extent that he/she starts showing off. In fact, some are so carried away that they do it without being aware they're doing it, until people around them begin to reciprocate adversely.
Instead of such a person to take responsibility to improve his/her undesirable behavior, he/she goes about blaming others.
If a person is finding it difficult to change his/her undesirable behavior towards others, how on earth does he/she expect others to find it so easy to change their response towards him.
"To every action, there's equal & opposite reaction."

Romance › Re: Advice Needed : Whose Head Should She Break? **picture** by ratatis(m): 1:58pm On Jan 25, 2015*

Neither!

Reason?
The lady holding the stone doesn't "truly" love the guy in the first place. She's merely being driven by the force of "jealousy" & not "love". Any person who's truly in love with someone will never wish him/her dead, no matter what, much less indulge in an act that is likely to lead to his death.
Love is a positive force, it heals. Jealousy is negative, it leads to undesirable consequences.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Ever Happened To You? (Weird Coincidences, Synchronicity, Law Of Attraction). by ratatis(m): 9:38pm On Jan 15, 2015

Babe2sure:
Okay. Thanks for the enlightenment.

It's a pleasure!

Christianity Etc › Re: Ever Happened To You? (Weird Coincidences, Synchronicity, Law Of Attraction). by ratatis(m): 6:40pm On Jan 13, 2015*

ugodollars50:
Please elucidate further. . . . . . Like my story goes I never for one day believed the story back then even when my siblings confirmed it (i was the doubting Thomas) but the recent scenario had got me thinking for a while!

Remember that children are highly suggestible, particularly to those with whom they have developed rapport.
It is very likely a strong rapport existed between you & your grandma, Of Blessed Memory. Since she had this omen working in her life, there's the tendency that she has imparted the "a posteriori" knowledge to you telepathically, as a legacy, out of love she has for you, hoping that one day you'll "build on it". Even today, you can vividly recall how confident she felt when you reported the validity of the omen to her.
Many people do not realize that what our subconscious mind consistently maintains, even if our conscious mind does not appear to accept it, will manifest in our lives, sooner or later.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Ever Happened To You? (Weird Coincidences, Synchronicity, Law Of Attraction). by ratatis(m): 6:11pm On Jan 13, 2015

@ Babe2sure.
Yes, telepathy is very important to the extent that the US Govt has grant-aided investigations & The Russian Govt has, through books & magazines, revealed many of its findings on the subject & went as far as establishing an enquiry known as the " Popov Group ".

Telepathy is " experimentally established fact" as well as any scientific subject can be. Many scientists & philosophers are just afraid to accept the proofs because if they did, it will strike at the very base of the materialistic conceptions of Man. This attitude of not recognising the fact was castigated by Professor C. D. Broad, who said : " It is hardly necessary for me to reiterate my often expressed conviction of the extreme importance for Philosophy & Psychology of the well established results of psychical research, & my regret that most philosophers & psychologists are content to remain in ignorance of them. Telepathy, both simultaneous & precognitive is now experimentally established fact " .

Anyone who wants some definite "facts" about telepathy, will do well to read "Thoughts Through Space" by Sir Hubert Wilkins, who demonstrated practical telepathy with one Harold Sherman, even though they were CONTINENTS apart. These classic experiments which were carefully monitored & witnessed in sworn affidavits by some New York's most prominent citizens, one of whom was Dr. Gardner Murphy, the then Head of Psychology Department at Columbia Univ., proved 70% accurate & were widely reported in the popular press, at the time.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Ever Happened To You? (Weird Coincidences, Synchronicity, Law Of Attraction). by ratatis(m): 12:08am On Jan 12, 2015*

cmpunk:
can. you guess my name?

It doesn't operate that way, bro!
I don't think he's a "stage performer" calling on you to believe him, nor willing to satisfy your petty curiosity.
I feel he's sharing his experiences with those who'll understand him & encourage him to unfold his latent abilities, which all of us have in varying degrees. It's alright if you're skeptical & choose not to believe him.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Ever Happened To You? (Weird Coincidences, Synchronicity, Law Of Attraction). by ratatis(m): 3:18pm On Jan 11, 2015*

LeoFish92:
Bro there's too many conscious and unconsciousness in your post, it's kinda hard to comprehend for the layman....nice exegesis by the way

Thanks, bro & please forgive my sketchy comments. Fact is that I don't really have the time to write detailed exposition on the subject. My comment is mainly addressed to few who'll understand me, with the hope that someone might take it up from there. For instance, I'm quite sure that OP understands me in Toto.
If there's anyone who's deeply interested but can't understand me, due to the repeated use of the word "subconscious", it remains his responsibility to do more research on it to improve his knowledge.

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Romance › Re: Can Men & Women Be Friends by ratatis(m): 12:47pm On Jan 11, 2015

@ ammamat.

Excuse me, what do you mean by "he is too soft"?

Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by ratatis(m): 12:42pm On Jan 11, 2015

Lala247:
Lol u want to propose online?

Seems like he's helplessly being carried away by "your current".
It's good you've realized early & rescued him.
tongue

Christianity Etc › Re: Ever Happened To You? (Weird Coincidences, Synchronicity, Law Of Attraction). by ratatis(m): 10:01am On Jan 11, 2015

Babe2sure:
It is actually called 'Telepathy or the sixth-sense'. The. communication between two souls. Everyone experiences it at one time or the other. ...................
So many examples abound.
There is no scientific explanation for it. It just happens.

Yes. Not easy to explain it in terms of "Classical Physics" where the model of the universe is based on 3-dimensional plane in which time is "linear".
However, startling correlations are increasingly being observed in the areas of Sub-Atomic Physics, Bio-Physics, Paramedicine, etc, etc, which is giving rise to some provocative theories.
In some experiments, even plants have been observed to react to the thoughts of any person who " intends" to harm them, well in advance.
Some researchers are teaching humans how to communicate with Dolphins through Thought Transference (a.k.a. telepathy) using some instruments. And many other researches, both for good & bad, are going on.

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Romance › Re: Can Men & Women Be Friends by ratatis(m): 11:04pm On Jan 10, 2015

Hmmmm!

Romance › Re: Can Men & Women Be Friends by ratatis(m): 9:56pm On Jan 10, 2015

Romance › Re: Can Men & Women Be Friends by ratatis(m): 9:44pm On Jan 10, 2015

firstEVA:
lemme laugh first, i'll answer you later

Christianity Etc › Re: Ever Happened To You? (Weird Coincidences, Synchronicity, Law Of Attraction). by ratatis(m): 9:34pm On Jan 10, 2015

ugodollars50:
Back then as a LAD we were told fearful myths but i never believed most of those, i suppose they were 'stories for the gods'. But one of them goes thus; "THAT WHENEVER A PARTICULAR BIRD (forgotten the name) CHIPS ku ku ku ori ihe nwa ku ku ku ori ihe nwa" translates . . . . . "ku ku ku someone is eating baby's food" then in actual sense someone within the vicinity was tempering with baby's food. One day i was with my Late grandmother plucking bitter leaf when i heard the already familiar sound from the bird from one of the trees in our garden, I mockingly called the attention of my Granny and told her i will like to know who is eating baby's food as i ran into the house LOW AND BEHOLD!! my immediate elder sister was helping herself out from our little sister's (SMA) baby milk!!!!!!!!!!. when i returned she asked confidently hope you've seen her? she was so certain.

FAST FORWARD 23 YEARS LATER Just this year 2nd January 2015

I was rushing to drive my dad for an important village meeting when i heard the same chipping from that particular bird i quickly jumped out of the car to the chagrin of my Dad. I quietly opened the front door to the sitting room LOW AND BEHOLD AGAIN!!!!! my little niece who was baby sitting my little child helping herself out from baby's feeding bottle!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO BETTER WAY TO BELIEVE OLD MYTHS

@ ugodollars50 & herald9.

That's "omen"

At a very tender age, your subconscious mind has been conditioned, through the belief system of people closer to you, to associate the happening of a particular event with certain behavior of a particular bird or insect (bee, for instance). So that anytime such an event is about to take place, & you happen to be in a receptive mind, the Collective Unconscious, of which your subconscious is a part, is already aware. Your subconscious then draws your attention to the behaviour of these birds/insect as an "omen" for what's about to manifest in Linear Time.
The behaviour of these birds/insects will not have any significance to other people whose subconscious has not been associated with that particular event.
Some people see "omens" when they're about to get huge business profits, & so on & so forth.

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Romance › Re: Can Men & Women Be Friends by ratatis(m): 2:38pm On Jan 10, 2015

ronald4lif:
I see guys complain women are this and that daily, women complains are even worse. Really who are the problem; guys or girls. Life sha

This help us to see things from wider perspective & thereby learn to be objective.

Romance › Re: Can Men & Women Be Friends by ratatis(m): 2:31pm On Jan 10, 2015

firstEVA:
hmmm, naija guys will just be laughing at you seriously, but I really wish I had a friend like this who I can sometimes talk to................

Do you mind such a friend having a gf?
Just being curious.
It is possible if, & only if, the man is not the type who enjoys fucking here & there, &, in addition, he has a partner with whom "he thinks with his dick".

Romance › Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by ratatis(m): 2:38pm On Jan 03, 2015

Emrich:
You sound philosophical and I like your argument; but don't worry, I won't be selfish. I'll only make myself unavailable to the ladies but if anyone comes into my rear view then I'll take and not feel or invest. I don't have to worry either about the future I could have had with the girl coz the only friendship worth keeping is with someone that wants to add to life and not only take. And of course most girls only go through relationship in preparation and just as a pass time till the rich and established man comes along. They don't know this so they will say it's not true. I'm biased, that's granted, but my people says, the only thing they have suffered twice is famine.

That's exactly the point!
Why should you allow the misconducts of some unscrupulous girls towards you have such an impact on you to the extent of making you bring yourself down to their low level? In the final analysis, you'll realize that you'll be causing yourself more harm by so doing.
Someone once said, " if you allow someone into your space, even if that person is a family member, you'll have yourself to blame if that person upsets your life"
.

Romance › Re: "5 Benefits Of Having A Friend With Benefits" by ratatis(m): 1:43pm On Jan 03, 2015

Emrich:
I did give more than I should and I did expect respect and understanding. I wanted to talk and settle issues when and if they ever come up. Wanted the friendship that developed into relationship to go further and become something. But girls do not really commit to a relationship or friendship; it's a stage and level for them. So they are not interested in building it, they only want what they want. And this is because they know they will be moving on once they are done with you. This is not true of all ladies but I have seen a good number to assume most or very many girls are like that. So now, why should I call a girl a friend and even family when I'm just a necessity for the level she, the girl, is operating on at the time?

I agree with you.
That's why it is the responsibility of every man to learn to discriminate the "wheat from the chaff", so to speak.
If you observe closely, you'll notice that many people are so aberrated that they either cannot express true love, or cannot bring themselves to appreciate & value being loved.

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