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Romance › Re: Finally: A Technology To Prevent Cheating by ratatis(m): 6:30pm On Apr 24, 2015

emilyone:
Really?

Yes! With the consent of the guy, of course.
Some people find it hard to discipline themselves, unless they're assisted by another, in an atmosphere of love, fun & understanding.
I'm particularly referring to a lady who has disciplined herself to rely on "rabbit" when she's sexually stressed & the guy happens to be away. tongue

Romance › Re: 5 Things Guys Do That Turn Ladies On by ratatis(m): 9:06pm On Apr 23, 2015

Mhizkel:
...na just pain na, d belle neva tear

hmmm!

Romance › Re: 5 Things Guys Do That Turn Ladies On by ratatis(m): 8:31pm On Apr 23, 2015

BUBBERKEN:
RATATIS you're banned from commenting on nairaland any further. my belle dey pain me, I no fit laff again.

sorry! sorry!
@Mhizkel, my convo with you dey make person laff till in belle dey pain 'am oooh.
lipsrsealed

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Romance › Re: How Many Nairalander Men Can Allow A Female To Beat Them Up Like These[pics] by ratatis(m): 7:29pm On Apr 22, 2015

prettydiva89:
haha didn't say that

hmmmm!

Romance › Re: 5 Things Guys Do That Turn Ladies On by ratatis(m): 7:05pm On Apr 22, 2015

Mhizkel:
:p

Romance › Re: How Many Nairalander Men Can Allow A Female To Beat Them Up Like These[pics] by ratatis(m): 12:49am On Apr 22, 2015

prettydiva89:
if he deserve it

Guess it's one of your fantasies.

Romance › Re: 5 Things Guys Do That Turn Ladies On by ratatis(m): 12:08am On Apr 22, 2015

Mhizkel:
He does all of these for me

Guess you enjoy domesticating him & he in turn enjoys being domesticated by you. cheesy

Romance › Re: 5 Things Guys Do That Turn Ladies On by ratatis(m): 12:00am On Apr 22, 2015

ireneony:
1)cooking for her
2)bringing her breakfast to bed
3)when you tell her "i am sorry "even when she at fault
4)when you help her to loose her braid/weave, also when you wash her hair (that feeling your lady have when you run your hands through her scalp yummy*)
5) when you surprise her with an expensive gift.

If a lady is playing her part in making me achieve sexual fulfillment, & it'll take doing the above listed to turn her on, I'ld love doing them, occasionally. After all, I wouldn't have to be turning her on 24/7.

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Romance › Re: Ladies How Do You Feel At The Sight Of An Unclad Mad Man? by ratatis(m): 1:23am On Apr 21, 2015

Sirpc:
All these ladies way dey here don dey form

You think so? Many men make the mistake of assuming that women would react to the sight of a nude man the way we do to that of a woman.

Romance › Re: I Make Them Fall In Love With Me N Then Walk Away.... by ratatis(m): 1:07am On Apr 21, 2015

Beckytee:
its alrit , no offence picked.

***smiles***

Romance › Re: See This "Foolish Woman's" Letter To A Man by ratatis(m): 10:29pm On Apr 20, 2015

The wind of change is blowing! Ladies now using gun on guys to coerce & subdue them! lipsrsealed

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Romance › Re: How Many Nairalander Men Can Allow A Female To Beat Them Up Like These[pics] by ratatis(m): 4:46pm On Apr 20, 2015

prettydiva89:
if he deserve it

It reminds me of a comment made by rokiatu some time ago, that some men need ladies with iron hands - something to that effect sha!
Possibly, things are happening behind the scene.

Romance › Re: I Make Them Fall In Love With Me N Then Walk Away.... by ratatis(m): 3:57pm On Apr 20, 2015*

KingMEXX:
................................................Don't wanna sound cocky, but I've seen it all
Besides, there's this pleasure in it, and that is what spurs guys on to go ahead with such attitude

When one is aware of the dynamics at work in his life, one can take full responsibility to train oneself & develop emotional maturity. Instead of resigning to the fate of being driven by subconscious tendencies.

Romance › Re: I Make Them Fall In Love With Me N Then Walk Away.... by ratatis(m): 3:54pm On Apr 20, 2015

Beckytee:
it wasn't my fault,I just see it happening and I can't help it. mind you I dnt derive pleasure in doing it.therefore a masochist will never enjoy relating with me in anyway.

Pardon me please, if I sound offensive to you. Sincerely I never intended to.

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Romance › Re: How Many Nairalander Men Can Allow A Female To Beat Them Up Like These[pics] by ratatis(m): 12:04am On Apr 20, 2015

prettydiva89:
for where?them no fit gree

if they fit gree, can you do it?

Romance › Re: PIC: See What Will Happen If Women Were To Rule The World by ratatis(m): 11:58pm On Apr 19, 2015

vheMa:
could this be possible at all

Perfectly possible in your fantasy world.
Do you like playing with the balls? tongue

However, in the real world, there're emotionally balanced ladies who would be good leaders.

Romance › Re: I Make Them Fall In Love With Me N Then Walk Away.... by ratatis(m): 11:40pm On Apr 19, 2015

gracile:
then it's simple! make them understand ur kind of person as a matter off fact most persons love some space & air, so if she is too clingy there are ways to tell it to her rather than just sliding away.

You're speaking from a more matured perspective. Sorry to state, mostly those who behave like that are hardly considerate about how the other person feels. They deliberately want to hurt covertly because they derive pleasure in doing that.

Romance › Re: I Make Them Fall In Love With Me N Then Walk Away.... by ratatis(m): 11:30pm On Apr 19, 2015*

Beckytee:
who tell you say e no dey happen for naija. na wetin me self dey do b DAT o but I bin dey tink say I need deliverance. lols

You crave for the attention given to you. You derive pleasure in denying them your love & enjoy hurting their feelings. It's a sadistic tendency.
A masochist will enjoy relating with you, especially if the two of you should discuss it. You can then do it in a more matured way. tongue

Family › Re: . by ratatis(m): 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2015

@ OP,
You can play a positive role here by virtue of the fact that she can confide in you. Seek her permission to intercede on her behalf. Subject to being granted her permission, look for someone who the perpetrator reveres. The two of you should sit down with the perpetrator & discuss the matter. Try to "talk" him into apologizing to your friend.

The apology will attenuate the intensity of her anger & eventually lead to its dissipation. This will break the psychological barrier which is being reinforced by seeing the man now & then. After that, she's likely to have more success with the counseling.

In addition, she may consider the use of Creative Imagination to redeem the past.

Family › Re: . by ratatis(m): 3:50pm On Apr 18, 2015

missbronze:
This life sef.

Some people are emotionally weak.

while,

Some are emotionally strong.

@topic, I dnt really know what to say.

true!

Romance › Re: Finally: A Technology To Prevent Cheating by ratatis(m): 9:50am On Apr 18, 2015

Could be used by a lady to help a guy develop sexual discipline.

cc: emilyone.

Christianity Etc › Re: Contemplation Seeds From Eckankar by ratatis(m): 2:36am On Apr 13, 2015*

PastorKun:
I did not pass any judgement, I merely recanted what I was told by a former eckist which I felt was relevant to the comments benodic made.

benodic quoted "the reason for spiritual enlightenment....." by Harold Klemp. You retorted with the phrase "on the contrary", which is your own made up judgement negating "the reason for the spiritual enlightenment....", before recounting what you were told by someone, in support.

Christianity Etc › Re: Contemplation Seeds From Eckankar by ratatis(m): 6:12am On Apr 12, 2015

PastorKun:
On the contrary a guy I met told me he left eckankar because it began to make on earth more meaningless to him.

Lol! Passing judgement based on hearsay!

Family › Re: Our 4th Child Is Not Yours - Wife Confesses To Her Husband by ratatis(m): 8:53am On Apr 06, 2015

freecocoa:
I wili slap you o, don't try me o.

"Men (or women) quarrel because they do not know how to argue " ----- G. K. Chesterton. tongue

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Romance › Re: Finding True Love by ratatis(m): 8:32am On Apr 06, 2015

DarkAngel86:
Thank you for this

You're welcome!

BTW, the ability to express your gratitude is another virtue. It helps you to maintain yourself "upstream", in the positive state.

cheesy

Family › Re: Our 4th Child Is Not Yours - Wife Confesses To Her Husband by ratatis(m): 8:24pm On Apr 05, 2015

MrOlai:
What a wicked world! Children of Adam and Adultery!

Sometimes I shed tears with d kind of women we have in d world today!

A man in my area slept with a married woman just two weeks after her childbirth! The woman left her newborn baby and husband with d excuse of visiting her family only for her to come and sleep with another man!

I asked d man why he did that. He said d woman was her girlfriend b4 she married! Imagine silly excuse! Just two weeks after childbirth!

These are d kinds of women we have today!

too bad!

Family › Re: Our 4th Child Is Not Yours - Wife Confesses To Her Husband by ratatis(m): 6:14pm On Apr 05, 2015*

Many ladies are secretly practicing polyandry.

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Science/Technology › Re: Some Interesting Facts About The Solar System by ratatis(m): 9:34pm On Apr 04, 2015

Thanks for sharing!

Romance › Re: What Are Your Weaknesses? by ratatis(m): 11:20am On Apr 04, 2015

missclasssy:
I have fantasies about being a powerful woman. So powerful that I would have men screeching under my feet.
My fantasies involve total control. I imagine a life where I won't have to submit to any man, won't have to attach his surname to mine and I wouldn't have to play follower while he plays leader.
I imagine a life where i would control the lives of men and not the other way round.

A world where I would make decisions and have men succumb completely to my orders and do my biddings without any form of resistance

That's my fantasy

You are being conscious of the dominant aspect of your nature. And what is more, it is yearning to express itself.

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