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XhosaNostra:
I disagree. The most sensitive spot is OUTSIDE of the vagina, the clitoris. Most guys are often neglectful of it or don't know how to handle it correctly. They be touching it like they're messing around with the light switch There're ways to touch it. Placing your hand there doesn't magically make things happen. Same thing with penetrative sex. Just because you're in there doing your thing, IT DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING. You need the right combination, at the right time at that. It's very hard for most women to enjoy sex because of those factors. Guys just don't know how to do it right. Fact!

obadizena:
@ emboldened.
I beg to disagree with u. Being able to choose doesn't necessarily proves that one has some willpower. One can have the freewill to choose between options but the ability to stand firm on the option chosen determines how strong his or her willpower is.

The ability to choose has to do with freewill. Whereas willpower has to do with the ability to stay firm on the option one has chosen.

obadizena:
Ha ha

@ the emboldened.
Simply because Eve appears to have much influence & control over Adam, even though she was genetically "cloned" out the cells of Adam. Of course Satan knew she was the Boss. Thus he focused his effort on persuading her.

Yes, Adam "had the nerve to blame her", since she's the principal. He's only carrying out the instruction of his Bossy wife.

It was matriarchal system then!

obadizena:
Scripture and verse and logical deduction therefrom :

Satan or the Serpent was stated to be more clever (Genesis 3:1, Int.Standard Version), most cunning (Genesis 3:1, Good News Translation, & others ), & more astute (Genesis 3:1, Jubilee Bible 2000) creature.
Being more clever, therefore, to best achieve his aim, he chose to trick Eve into eating the forbidden fruit, first, despite the fact that Eve appeared not to be there when God forbade Adam not to eat the fruit.
This strategy turned out to be the best, as Satan got Eve to eat the fruit. She, in turn, caused Adam too to eat it. (Genesis 3:6)

For Adam to have ate the fruit in total defiance to God's commandment to him, Eve must have weilded some powerful influence (control) over him. Call it persuasive power or whatever! Adam himself admits that Eve made him eat the fruit (Genesis 3 :11-12).

To punish Eve for abusing her influence (control) over Adam, God warned her that Adam will rule over her (Genesis 3:16).
Note that the statement is in future tense. It's also a punishment (an inconvenience she's not used to before); a change in the status quo when she used to have influence & control over him. Thus, from being a Boss-wife to become a servant-wife. Furthermore, this would begin to take effect after the "fall" from the Garden of Eden to Earth when Adam has begun using his macho physical power to till the soil for food to eat (Genesis 3:17-19). Thereafter Adam (& his male descendants) would use their macho physical power to rule (suppress, rape, disrespect, etc., etc.,) Eve (& her female descendants).

Chikita66:
I can change from so nice to so mean within seconds.
One minute am all emotional and crying, the next minute am all hardcore and don't give a fuvk. So weird!

I'm a fuvking snub, snubbing people gives me joy especially when they make me mad and they really wanna talk to me so badly. Weirdo!

Whenever I decide to hurt someone, I bring out my mind to do it. Even if the person is hurting I still won't care, left a friend on sick bed cos he said something so annoying, I walked out on him, never talked or apologized to him after that day, he came back when he got well and apologized to me and told me "babe you get mind". .

I can carry grudges for centuries, I can not talk to someone am beefing with for centuries and still not give a fuvk about it. Whenever I have issues with someone and they are at the fault, they must Apologize to me or I will never talk to them.

I don't like crowd, don't really like associating with people, like staying on my own, I hate public attention and public display of love, I detest noise, I hate apple, so weird!

Stevengold:
We got into a pretty good relationship, I loved her and intended to spend the rest of my life with her, we loved each other to the extent I had to tell my parents and my Pastor that I've found the one I want to get married to.
However I remember telling her; I don't want sex in our relationship. Judging from my past experience with ladies.

But as time passed the love grew beyond what I could describe, and now we have s*x almost every week, sometimes twice a week. And I no longer feel love for her.

I sat her down one day, and made her make a promise not to hav s*x with me again! But it didn't work, she has this magic touch that just can't be resisted, I always fall for It. This continued for close to 2 yrs, and now I feel nothing for her anymore. The love I had for her have been so replaced with s*x. Anytime I see her, I want to have s*x with her.

Plz what should I do? I intend to opt out of the relationship. But I don't want to break her heart. Should I go ahead and marry her or just let her go? Cuz I don't love her anymore.

HeWrites:
A Nigerian man with the name @ty_ivanny on twitter takes to his page to share how most African women always sees sex as a thing of favour they give to men.

According to him; “Unfortunately most women esp in Africa sees sex as a thing of favour they give to men”.

https://www.torimill.com/2018/02/most-women-in-africa-sees-sex-as-a-thing-of-favour-they-give-to-men-nigerian-guy.html

emilyone:
Naija we hail thee

emilyone:
This woman is a pro. Even slay queens can't boast of making 1.5m unless she used kayanmata.

Lonestar124:
She speak the mind of so many ladies inside and outside this forum

cruzita:
Something like ,stupid man,what do u think u are doing with that toothpick u call d'ck,do fast and get down he-goat,see as the nonsense don sag sef.i don suffer

Ladyhippolyta88:
Thanks for the info I had no idea.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Abeg na for you how can someone like a "male body odour" None actually all na out of point.

emilyone:
what's sitophiles?

emilyone:
Its also a very good aphrodisiac

emilyone:
What sort of a weird looking cucumber is this?

Those that love masturbating with cucumber will love it.

emilyone:
Its really nice , with lots of health benefits.

emilyone:
That's why I love making kunu aya

emilyone:
these days that some people find it hard to be faithful to their partners.

My man has been out of town for the past seven months yet I find no reason to cheat

As par you becoming a pro. Rome wasn't built in a day just continue practicing, you will become a pro with time

emilyone:
What kind of crazy invention is this
There is no way I'm gonna enjoy sushi with that crap.

emilyone:
Hmmmm like one of my aunties used to say "obirin o raye wa" I think it means its a mans world.

emilyone:
Hes always eager and willing to give it to me the way, I know his fetish too

emilyone:
Yeah, like me.. I easily cum with cunnilingus.

emilyone:
Abeg, once a month is OK.

Eberex:
mine.......my kid sis was very ill back home when I was doing my youth service. she was very very ill and was admitted.
that night I was lying down on my bed praying she would get well soonest, meanwhile my landlord who was also staying in the same compound likes playing his radio FM and the volume was smth else. well sometimes I enjoy the music being player though.
but on this particular night , the FM decided to play a song which was my kid sis favourite. of all the months spent on that compound, never have they played it.
my heart grew heavy instantly. I felt something left me. I felt alone and I felt sad.

next morning , I was told she passed away previous night.

BuddhaPalm:
Society evolved to maintain order.

Embedding rules for monogamy and sexual exclusivity in religion is society's way of reducing strife.

God filled our loins with fire and told us to go into the world and multiply.

Marriage is man-made.

I desire a luscious sexually responsive woman in my bed right now.

But I did not choose this desire.

It was thrust upon me.

And you want to tell me that I am a sinner because of a compulsion God himself placed in me?

I lust because I was destined to lust.