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EmpresFIDEL:
it is very difficult.. I have been addicted to him for 5years. so the only thing that want to separate us on this earth is genotype. it's very painfull

forget difficult. Once u are out, u are out. Mehn! Ur child might dislike u knowing dt it's an avoidable issue but u make them pass thru SS wahala

Grant her aunt audience. She might discuss somethings that will help u arriving at a better conclusion.
If u think, u can forgive her, then forgive but mind u prepare to fight Ur mind whenever u feel like maltreating her when u remember her past.
It's possible she truly changed.
Av learnt that looking for another girl is a game of luck. U can't trust or be sure anybody's past.
But if u think her past can't be erased from Ur mind, then let her go.
It's Ur decision to make, u can't be so sure she......

Ok

Girl! I think l understand you. See, l also think he likes you cos u are not slay girls and that you are not after his wealth. He would av noticed all ds good attributes of urs. My advice for u is don't change who you are and don't leave him. He has weakness accepted, but wt patient and proper tone, u can change him. Don't let it sound like he has bad life style, it wl amount to you judging him. Av u ever wondered why he chose u and not hundreds of slay queen out there! It's cos u are priceless and seen as wife material to him. Mind u that not all Ur attributes wl be right also, so be ready to bend a little. After bending, let him understand it's cos u love him and then use style to talk to him as per other things u want him to change. Don't be resistance and expect him to listen to you. God bless u in Ur journey.

Why appreciating fayose in d first place! I don't just get it. Fayose knows rccg will bring more vote just like osinbajo wt buhari. Fayose used rccg. So shameful! Rccg sef! How many church or mosque or ifa dey write letter about when candidates are picked.
Ds is simply noise making. RCCG and SARS always in d news just like 5 and 6.

Bintabisiriyu:
Why was it not buhari that passed away?

l laughed, mehn!

ladyF:
May her soul rest in peace.

My phone is on silent most of the time... I have to preserve my battery...

what's d name of Ur fone and when was it bought new?

BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has oreciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

run, run, run. Don't watch while Ur grav' is dug.

BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has oreciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

run, run, run. Don't watch while Ur grave is dug.

Bro. It's pathetic. I would be straight to the point. You have a decision to make. The decision is either to continue or break up wt her as from your explanation she might change or never change. U can't be sure. She can change for good now and change back to ds bad attitude after marriage. You know women are real after marriage. So decide if u can live wt her attitude if she refuse to change for good. Attitude is difficult to change except woman is desperate not wanting to lose u. But it seems u love her more. That's risky to me. I prefer dating someone that love me more, at that she will listen to me.

Kilode! Easy-jeje

Jenomtwist:
Liife drama.may God see d husband through.19yrs gone 4 notin

but d husband might be aware of d doctors advice. Maybe he was against the CS. Based on 19 yes waiting, l believe he will be so concerned as to get update of the situation even if he's out of town and shd be able to order the wife to do CS. But who knows!

Naijawebmaster:
So sad! R.I.P, Ma.

I won't be surprised if I hear that her reasons for not giving birth through CS is because of her religious beliefs.

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exactly my thought

Are the pastors divers ni!
In sane country, government are called for help.
Nigerian mentality!

kapelvej:
SCOURGE. NOT SCOT

check Ur dictionary. Scot-free is correct.

Okada Infrastructure. Ekiti and penetrating strategies na 5 and 6

chronique:
smh. nigerians and stupidity are like bread and butter. 100,000 capacity church auditorium when a good number of the members would be job seekers. why can't they spend the money in creating job opportunities for their members? 100,000 capacity church auditorium that will eventually be made up of so many job seekers. we keep building large auditoriums for worship in nigeria for jobless people to come and pray in,to ask God for needs that would have been met,if the church had channeled the money for large cathedral into such. imagine the amount of jobs that would have been created with the funds earmarked for this white elephant project. this is nigeria where most of the people who run religious organizations and our govts,actually don't have wisdom. every church wants to own large auditoriums like rccg,winners,christ embassy,mfm,deeper life,and the likes. it's now a competition. the whites who brought Christianity to us,do not run their churches like this. they don't go about spending money building gigantic cathedrals up and down. in a country where poverty is high,these sort of projects aren't what the church should be financing. God doesn't live in physical buildings;he lives in our hearts.

this sort of thing can only happen in a society where the government has failed. nigeria's population is growing rapidly and we are busy giving out lands to people to build churches instead of us to give these lands to private investors who are ready to invest hugely in the economy and create jobs.

you said it all, COMPETITION!

jeffoe:
Money that could be chanelled into people's lives.

no mind them.

Flye:
His info is online for anybody for anybody to see, he doesn't to know him personally. Daddy freez has said the truth

Last week I saw a video of a girl seeking for fund through another celebrity for treatment of cancer yet one pastor's son was telling people to stop calling on church for help.

Let's us help our selves and the poor instead of helping one Pastor in the name of God.

As in en. I didn't expect that guy to say people shd go do farming and stop asking church for help. He just crucified himself. U know when someone shot himself for leg, thinking he's talking.

Untainted007:
We dont knw who to believe again but what I know is that most LAWYERS are LIARS in suits. If a liar sorry I mean Lawyer lies against you ehn, it takes only God to vindicate you. I sense some lies in this write up. He just want to cover up for his ill behaviour towards the guy. It was not the guy who decided not to do the mandatory one month notice of resignation you were the one who stopped him, why didnt you pay him the token you are paying and allow peace to reign abi the token you are paying to the poor guy is up to what u spend on ur oloshos?

I no believe the boss too. If d guy did all wat he said, he can't easily tell d police to leave d guy. Na lie. Boss will want to prove boss

Sprumbabafather:
Who founded Aiye and pirates?

Buhari and his cow

The otedola's

Proper burial right my ass. Bone them. They shd go ask buhari for their right. Those people. Make l no call them wetin dey my mind. Their tradition is like cow to Fulani. They shd wise up. Ds is 21st century

AntiWailer:
I have said it before :

Every lady deserve Free and Fair Erection.

u no well. U cracked my ribs

I despise this poo hole country

I despise this shit hole country.

I wish ds for SARS
Hit like if you also wish ds for SARS

Nice one. I like d news.

MrMcJay:
It's really unfortunate. This guy is a personal friend and a colleague.

His former boss owed him salaries and gave him a cheque which bounced. When he went to the office, the boss invited policemen to assault the young lawyer.

Unfortunately for them, they're now feeling the heat as the matter has escalated beyond their wildest dreams.

Once u drop resignation, you become enemy to employer.
If they sack you, they feel fly.
If d guy didn't answer him to wait, d boss will say he's an ingrate.
Useless boss.

The man did bad. But still surprised dt woman go just pack her tins and go man's house without the latter agreeing she shd come.

Guess they met in their body language school. Just wondering

If both of u love each other. Start behaving like u don't care for her . She will be forced to ask why u changed. Then, with diplomacy let her know u don't really like lady being fat. If she doesn't want to lose u, she will work on herself.