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yes, they are very peaceful in their dealings the same way your forefathers were peaceful with Aare Afonja.

It was perceived that PDP ate the YAM but it's becoming obvious and conspicuous that APC is eating YAM and EGG.
what a change !!!................

madridguy:
Baba need to work hard to fulfill his $1-#1 promise.

u never wake? Sidon for there

millhouse:
Who doesn't know that PDP's racket was fuel subsidy while APC's racket is forex subsidy, only the cacus can get dollars at N197 from CBN.

are that small that you don't know that GEJ/PDP tried to remove subsidy but Nigerians kicked against it?

majek kelt it. no surprises, its his genre

I love my lungs too

AntiWailer:
THey don't have liver yet they will be stealing millions.

don't worry, someone will type careless statement like this about your loved one soon

sammyj:
I don't see anything new in the photos. Only people I am ashamed of is the Ekiti people and not the pomo cutting governor! !!

Leave Ekiti people alone and be ashamed of yourself. They have chosen what they want, but u do not know what you want. smh

I stay in Benin, This is not a surprise to me. Benin people can be very disrespectful and wicked.

like oba of Lagos like oba of Benin. The body language of this guy has always proved that he will be a very bad oba. Now see his first public statement as edaiken of uselu. APC themselves said they can't perform miracles.

Kayode1979:
DINO MALAYE A THUG WITH THE PRESIDENTIAL DREAM

When has it become a crime for a Nigerian to dream of becoming the president of Nigeria. smh

HungerBAD:
Just like that.

This guy dey carry him two hands dey find 6 ft deep underneath . You say you go beat him wife,the man quiet.

You say you go molest him wife and give am belle,the man quiet. Now you go him street dey call am out? The Education of the Yoruba's dey make them tolerate a lot.

Can this Clown go to Rivers and try this with Wike?or Kano?or Delta?

Very soon Dino,you go enter Tinubu Penalty.

Essir, Tinubu is Yoruba from osun state, Melaye is Yoruba from kogi, Lagos and Abuja is the stadium. me I'm just watching this royal rumble, it's non of my business

Tunde Ajaja
In her lone moments, Kolawole Busola, 38, (not real name) would certainly wish she could undo the string of events that led her into the waiting arms of Daniels, a colleague at work.
Married to a businessman, Babatope, 43, who never spent a full week in the house without travelling, and one who never bothered to create the romantic atmosphere for their love and intimacy to grow, Busola still has herself to blame for what she has got herself into.
Her undoing was sharing her worries about her home with a male colleague who offered his advice, counsel and even gave her a shoulder to lean on. They became close and started going out together. She did it so well that her husband never suspected anything.
Not long after, their friendship became platonic (intimate and affectionate but not sexual) and few months after, they ended up in bed, having sexual relationship. They did that more than once, and being something she had missed from her husband, it became a routine to the extent that her husband suspected and started monitoring her, discreetly.
Eventually, Babatope found out that his wife had been cheating on him the day he picked his wife’s phone to read her text messages. According to him, that was the end. Not even pleas and admonitions by family members and friends could convince him to shelve his plan to file for divorce.
They would have celebrated their 15th wedding anniversary two weeks ago, like they did when it was 10 years, but that celebration was the last thing on their mind that day. Their marriage was already on a fast lane to hit the rocks since the day he found out about his wife’s infidelity.
The union that many admired, on its face value perhaps because they are rich, seems to be getting worse by the day, and not even the pleas and explanations that Busola is dying to offer would make any difference; at least not yet.
Furious Babatope has made up his mind on sending her out of the house, because according to him, the sin committed by his wife was unforgiveable. He had told her, “I can forgive and overlook anything, but not infidelity from my wife. I can never forgive that. So, she has to go.”
Meanwhile, Busola recalled that she had also caught him cheating before and she had to forgive him and that they resolved it quietly “and we moved on” but now that it’s “regrettably” her turn, she had not been able to reconcile herself with the fact that the man who begged her for forgiveness years ago had suddenly become so unforgiving “for the same offence.”
The union is blessed with three children; two boys and a girl, but that does not seem like a sufficient reason for him to halt his decision to leave the marriage, as he had said repeatedly that he would never forgive her for cheating on him.
Truly, the thought of a cheating partner can be unsettling. Also, Busola’s experience is not strange; it is in fact the reality for a number of women. Even though men have always been seen to be guiltier of infidelity, some studies have also shown that women are also becoming as guilty as men in the game, even though they do theirs more discreetly.
Understandably and for good reasons, infidelity has repeatedly been condemned in marriage, and it has previously been identified as one of the most common reasons for failed marriages, but it is interesting to note that a man who cheats expects to be forgiven by the wife, whereas the wife is forbidden from having an affair, and if she dares it, she may never be forgiven.
This might sound unfair to the females, but that seems to be the case in some parts of the world.
Some men would hurriedly ascribe this to the saying and general belief that betrayal of trust is hard to repair, but it appears women are the only ones expected to cling to this saying as a reminder or guide for their conduct.
So, why is it that men find it difficult to forgive their partners if caught cheating?
According to a British Psychotherapist, Philip Hodson, men often find it more difficult to forgive a cheating partner, because it affects their masculinity, and to them, it might signal the end of the relationship.
Hodson, who is also a Fellow of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, said, “Men can forgive themselves for their indiscretions, but they find it much harder to forgive their partners for the same. For a betrayed woman, an affair by the man is an offence against her dignity, but for a betrayed man, a woman’s infidelity is an offence against his manhood. It goes right to the core of his identity.”
Explaining further on the reason for this imbalance treatment or reaction, a psychologist at the Obafemi Awolowo University, Prof. Toba Elegbeleye, said when it comes to marriage, men and women see things differently. He pointed out that a man tends to see the woman (his wife) as possession, and so, the moment somebody else tries to cross the boundary and interferes with his property, there is bound to be serious problem.
He noted that another factor that sustains men’s unforgiving tendency when it comes to their partner’s, infidelity, especially when they already have children together, is that they tend to think about their children; the possibility that the children might not be theirs, coupled with the natural instinct of a man to want to control his environment.
He said, “I think it has to do with the natural and basic instinct of human makeup for men to handle matters of infidelity like that. The difference is that in the advanced world, they have been able to water it down, and that is why the issue of divorce is treated differently over there the way we do it here.
“And that is why any of the parties could easily walk out of the marriage and they begin to settle the divorce outcome. But in the African set up, it is not like that. For you as a woman to just break a tie, it’s going to involve so many loose ends, and you don’t want to get yourself involved in all that.”
But is it that women find it easier to forgive? Elegbeleye said that is not the case, noting that they would rather endure than dare to face the stigma that comes with leaving the husband’s house.
“So, it is not because women don’t care or they forgive so easily, but the circumstances don’t favour them as they favour men. If women were in a dominant position, they easily would have driven the man away. So, the moment a female has committed herself to marriage, for her to voluntarily and openly get out of it becomes a kind of stigma, and women cannot handle stigma, particularly where children are involved. Mothers would not want to walk away, unless it’s beyond their powers, thus they would rather endure.
“The statistics weighs more heavily in support of the fact that men hardly forgive their wives, while women would endure because of the stigma that comes with it in this part of the world. Whether we like it or not, men still have that predatory tendency which is present in every male. You want to be able to control your environment, and when it comes to hereditary transition, you just want to make sure that your line is not bastardised by an intrusion.”
Even though men have been found to have the higher tendency to cheat, they are less likely to forgive if their partners do, and if that happens, it tends to lead to the end of the marriage.
It is equally instructive to note, according to a study by some researchers from Chapman University in Orange, California, United States, that while it is expected that both men and women will experience sexual jealousy, men may exhibit particularly heightened responses compared with women.
In other words, most men would be more upset if their other half had a sexual affair, while women would be more hurt by emotional infidelity.
In the report reviewed on Mail Online, the researchers said, “If a man’s partner commits sexual infidelity, this brings into question his sexual prowess and therefore threatens his masculinity, which leads him to react more negatively to his partner committing sexual rather than emotional infidelity.”
In the study, they asked 64,000 people what would upset them more; whether when their partners have sex with someone else but not fall in love with the person, or when their partners fall in love but not with sexual relationship.
At the end of the study, they found that 54 per cent of heterosexual men were more likely to be more hurt by sexual infidelity than emotional infidelity by their partners, whereas just 35 per cent of women would be more hurt by sex than if their partner fell in love with another person. This shows that men fear sexual infidelity, while women fear emotional infidelity.

iaamxavier:
I've been pondering for month what exactly the south west contribute to Nigeria's economy

**we know the North contributes a lot in terms of feeding,leather production and so much more!

**we know the SE contribute a lot in terms of commerce (import and export) business and so much more

**we know the SS contribute about 80% or more to Nigeria's economy in term of crude oil and other mineral resources

Now the big question is what is the major thing the south west contributes to Nigeria's economy ??

I'm talking about THE MAJOR THING!

Pele. get well soon

examhall3:
We were just wondering if this is really the difference.
Drop your views!

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Source: http://360jamng.tk/photos-is-this-the-difference-between-an-igbo-party-and-a-yoruba-party/

the two parties in that picture are Yoruba parties. check what everyone is wearing.

gulfer:
I have a N1500 Yellow recharge card for whomsoever can tell me which part of Nigeria he is from. Offer available for the next 24hrs.

the name faparusi is ekiti

Yola— Ado Daukaka, a popular local Hausa singer in Adamawa State, has been abducted in mysterious circumstances, few hours after releasing a song against corruption and incompetence.
One of the wives of the popular singer said some strangers came and asked after him Saturday morning after he had gone to the mosque for the early morning prayer, adding “we told them Daukaka left for the mosque. From then till now nobody knows his whereabouts.”
“We search police stations for him to no avail,” said one of the wives, who does not want to be named in print.
Already, people are associating his disappearance with his latest song entitled ‘Gyara Kayanka,’ where he said politicians elected on the platform of the ruling party were just deceiving people.
“The way and manner things are happening in the state will not augur well for anybody. They just want to intimidate those that are criticising the charade being played in the state,” another said.
Also reacting, the state chairman of Adamawa Concern Citizen, a pressure group in the state, Hussaini Gambo Bello, condemned in totality the abduction of the famous singer.
The state Police Command confirmed the incident.


www.vanguardngr.com/2016/06/hausa-artiste-disappears-singing-corrupt-politician/

Dannyset:
Saraki should sha go to jail. Am less concerned about Okoromadu, but that Saraki guy, Malami, pls fairly send him to Kuje.

Go and jail him na. One day, you will overcome this zombism, that's a prophesy.

comos:
why will she not disrespect the oba ?
afterall he left his throne to meet her instead of the other way.

you are wrong. they met at a function. nobody went to anybody. Thank you

fuckpro:
What of Babangida?

where those listed guys dey, babangida is a learner.

educative and well written. this should make FP.

“This is unfortunate, because in the past one week, we have had some respite, just for the violence to turn this way,” he said. Pastor Mike Markafi.

just one week?
1. God, I thank you for Ekiti State
2. Fulani herdsmen are 'more equal' than the others
3. Nigeria is full of hypocrites, most of which are apc supporters. in Lere Olayinka's tune 'I hope these herdsmen asks for your apc card when they came calling'
4. Nigeria is dead.
thank y'all

Kristi Jesu Kristi Jesu

eagleccentric:
It is now clear that you are a true blockhead!!
How can you claim to know Benin more than the Binis
There's no need arguing with you

guy, I can bet you didn't read that write-up. All he stated there are clear facts from history. Oduduwa was never a king in Benin and Eweka was not the son on an enthroned Ogiso

babdap:
Electing Fayose was the greatest mistake people of Ekiti made just as Nigerians elected ...

for your mind now , u don talk finish.

jahsharon:
May God run your life the same way the the ineffectual buffon ran Nigeria.

sorry cretin, God don't listen to zombies like you.

divinehand2003:
But you know that the circumstances under which the present administration is working is far worse than when PDP was in power. There is a global economic melt down due to the slump in crude oil prices. So don't blame Buhari. Blame the poor economy.

Jesus Christ!!!

naijagobetter:
shameless puppets where were they or what did they do when fayose beat up a judge and turn a court upside down, rogues!

pls upload a pix or video where Fayose slapped a judge. the said judge has denied been slapped yet propagandist like you won't stop all the lies. even if he slapped a judge there should be a legal and legitimate way to address that not by government backed kidnappings. pls tell that dictator to free our honorables, they are not criminals.

If with Corruption:
• Dollar was 180 and without Corruption Dollar is now 425
• Rice was N8,500 and without corruption it is now N12,500
• Poor Electricity, tariff was not increased during corruption, now about 40% tariff increase without corruption but worst power supply
• Presidency Food was N1billion, but without corruption it is now N2billion
• Presidential Jets maintenance was N600million/year, now N2.5billion in just 4 months without corruption
• Aso Rock Clinic maintenance was N500million, now N3.9billion without corruption.
• Vice President was paid N75million for reading just books; without corruption the Vice President will be paid N430million
• We didn't pay rent in Aso Rock; without corruption we will be paying a rent of N350million to an invisible landlord.
• Rats never ate our budgets, but rats now snuggle fictitious unimaginable figures into our budgets without corruption
I think there's a problem

If with Corruption:
• Dollar was 180 and without Corruption Dollar is now 425
• Rice was N8,500 and without corruption it is now N12,500
• Poor Electricity, tariff was not increased during corruption, now about 40% tariff increase without corruption but worst power supply
• Presidency Food was N1billion, but without corruption it is now N2billion
• Presidential Jets maintenance was N600million/year, now N2.5billion in just 4 months without corruption
• Aso Rock Clinic maintenance was N500million, now N3.9billion without corruption.
• Vice President was paid N75million for reading just books; without corruption the Vice President will be paid N430million
• We didn't pay rent in Aso Rock; without corruption we will be paying a rent of N350million to an invisible landlord.
• Rats never ate our budgets, but rats now snuggle fictitious unimaginable figures into our budgets without corruption
I think there's a problem

UrennaNkoli:
Buhari's actions was for a more justified reason and it was necessary for the benefit of the nation. This of Mr wike is just ridiculous and it is nothing but an epitome of hate, disgust, frustration and revenge.

To whom brain is given, common sense is expected. maybe you need to format your brain.