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Note: I make between N150-200k monthly.

Anytime I discuss issue of marriage with my girl, she keeps making the above statement.

Guys, do you think she's only trying to spur me to strive harder to make money?

Or she's not interested in issues of marriage with me?

Should I continue or discontinue?

Seems I'm wasting my time with her.

I understand her interest might be to protect the future financially but all the money cannot be made in one day. It's a gradual process.

Error401:
Quote me with number

Last seen 6:am August, 5. He hasn't been online the last 24hrs.

Nice job but fakery is about to take over the world. Nothing is real again.

The Lord is your strength. Try as much as possible to avoid such a person.

ruggedtimi:
So reddit and Quora pays content creators?? This is a forum I believe

Yes they do. I knew about someone that was earning thousands of dollars creating contents on Quora.

LikeAking:
Oga Seun on behalf of all the content creators on Nairaland, I am soliciting for payment for content creators on NL as practiced by other social media and forums in the world.

I am appealing to you generous and benevolent nature to consider my prayer.

We will be very great full to also benefit from the Ad revenue generated by your unique platform when we make our little contribution's.

Thank you.

Lol. On a long thing

Can we replicate this nationwide?

Holyfic:
Nor reason them, so far them nor beg you, make them continue with wetin Dem like

Them dey beg o

I mean why should people still be doing this at this time and age?

Like the economy is not hard enough already?

The 6th child inside one room?

Do these people need their reproductive organs mutilated?

Haba!

They are the ones giving birth but I am the one getting so angry.

Nemesis0147:
Sorry boss but I will advise you go for a medical check up and also run an X-ray…you might have sustained an internal injury without knowing.
Lost one young man of recent….the same story as yours but he was a carpenter….dude didn’t go for any check up and died 2 weeks later after complaining of chest pain within 3hrs…he was rushed to the hospital but it was later already….he sustained a heart injury.

OP please take note of this.

Sorry for that. Stay strong.

fyzaila:
You're a very very very very^100 irresponsible fellow. Untill men start controlling what's dangling between their legs we will still keep having senseless and irresponsible men in the society. Nonsense and ingredient.

No insult please.

Offpointng:
You're still beating bout the bush. read the Question again and answer accordingly.

I'm trying to also see reasons from her end.

Offpointng:
No like who do you think LOVE YOU more out of the two of them.

But because the one I love does not give me enough time, I can't totally use that to say she doesn't love me. She has a shop which she has to open and stay till 8/9pm before she closes. After then, she needs get to her house and tidy one or two things and before she's done with all of that, it might be late for her to still come see me. Another is she might be tired and needs rest

advanceDNA:
U have entered one chance....marry the girl wey get bele for u or ready for baby mama things ...

.forget the first girl...she no get ur time...women always find time for the one they truly love...na u dey force urself....

You may be right but she's explained and tried to make me understand it's her busy schedule that makes her not have time for me.

dawnomike:
Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for

I don't intend to run a polygamy or just to birth children from different women.

Ahmed0336:
Bro, marry both of em.

They say "misery needs company"


One sweet,one sour and variety is the spice of life

I don't intend to birth children from different women.

Offpointng:
The question right here is who loves you more among the two?

That is the question my bro. How am I sure the one I love loves me as much?

The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Be strong bro. Even me that bears Real Solution can not find a solution to my real employment status.

My point is, can a state governor, senator, reps member, minister, and other officials (past or present) go broke and seek help from a fellow?

We the struggling class do that a lot, and in little amount basically 2-100k.

If they do perhaps theirs I guess will be in multiples of millions.

So who is familiar to them? Do they do it?

YoungLionken:
With the most comments above from men, little or no wonder women feel entitled to a man's cash..

Y'all trained these girls to be intolerant leeches( I know y'all would disagree)..

Except you open your mouth in telling a lady, at the wooing phase, that you would be financially responsible to her(of which only a low self esteem idiot would say), in other to win her like a trophy . If not, it shouldn't be seen as an obligation..

Some ladies (usually older and industrious) who have learnt the hard way( steady breakfast from unreliable men) are praying to God for a man who would primarily love and give them attention, be nice and play with them (love play), then the money part can come later. You think they're foolish? Nah!!

Most of our Nigerian girls are fast becoming lazy bones because of such..

I tell you, women would get more serious with life, if men stopped giving them money(they don't deserve). Check their academic performance( the girls in school) for example...

One girl I met few months back, thank God she didn't hide her own. She started asking me money for phone, money to pay rent, money for this and that. It didn't take me time to withdraw immediately.

Men should learn to stay away from leeches.

Sannisege:
ASUU should be proscribed at once. They cannot hold the nation to ransom. Atiku and Datti both operate private universities so they love ASUU strike. Only Tinubu/Shettima can end ASUU strike.

Your type of brain - a malfunctioned brain, or should I say a brain not capable of processing thought properly is one of the major problems of Nigeria. Read again what your dead brain cells could come up with.

With this kind of brain, there's no way Nigeria can experience progress. Sad.

And some people will still vote APC come 2023? With the crass incompetence of this government? Who do us this kind thing?

Chinedum300:
As you want her relationship...be ready to maintain her needs and wants...it's your responsibility as a man to be dashing your girlfriend's money whether she asks you or not...stop be too stingy to yourself...I discovered that you are very stingy person and you are not ready for marriage

How you take know all these things?

NA1RALANDER:
Lol. Can't stop laughing....

What is funny?

Truth

Guys, flee from girls who wants to put unwarranted financial pressure on you.

My very close friend just disclosed to me that he spends only N3000 (three thousand naira) on his girl friend from January till date and they are very happy in the relationship, working towards marriage.

How is she coping?

She's got a job. She's into fashion design, trading etc. These engagements bring her money that she uses to meet her needs, without disturbing the boyfriend.


As for you, tell that girl that is disturbing you for money to go get a job.

That is what she needs.

Use your money wisely!

Now tell us, how much have you spent on your girlfriend within the same period?

redcliff:
These are the people Buhari are calling Lazy yoot. Everybody is thinking of how to takeback this country from thieves and rouges, you are talking of p***y

My PVC is intact. Have you got yours?

Quite a long time I heard of such.

Upon say my dick long and I don push everything put inside, this girl still dey ginger me to go deeper. WTF?

So when I hear of dick shifting womb, at what point does that happen? That is where i am lost. I have also watched video of a pusssy swallowing about 15inches long dick and still crave for more. My people, where does a pussy end? It is a bottomless pit?