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Romance / Re: I Am Single, I Need A Girlfriend by Rebsy(f): 6:18pm On Sep 21
Iamcute:


Let's get to know each other..

Ok
Nairaland / General / Re: Missing Person. by Rebsy(f): 8:09pm On Sep 20
DAramis:


Just stay safe. And be security conscious. Your previous reply to the person looking for girlfriend made me to check out your profile , and saw the news.

Only asked from a harmless point of view
Thank you very much. I appreciate your concern. Stay safe and blessed too!

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Romance / Re: I Am Single, I Need A Girlfriend by Rebsy(f): 8:08pm On Sep 20
Iamcute:


Perfecto but then you still find it hard to fall in LOVE
🤦‍♀️
Romance / Re: Y Do I Find It So Hard To Fall In Love? by Rebsy(f): 8:00am On Sep 20
MrLibrarian:

Hi! Kindly check your dm
👍

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Nairaland / General / Re: Missing Person. by Rebsy(f): 7:51pm On Sep 19
DAramis:
How time flies. I remember when this news broke on the Nigerian network space, and the killers captured later.

Rest on Cynthia.

@Rebsy, I do hope your family is strong and doing well ? And this incident did not weigh them down much?

God has been faithful. Thank you.
Romance / Re: I Am Single, I Need A Girlfriend by Rebsy(f): 12:28pm On Sep 19
LoverOfEvil:
And all that doesn't relate to material things?

Must everything be material? Well, it's your opinion though!
Romance / Re: I Am Single, I Need A Girlfriend by Rebsy(f): 12:14pm On Sep 19
LoverOfEvil:
See how you sneaked kindness in
What is kindness?

''the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate.''

Dictionary definition for your information please!
Romance / Re: I Am Single, I Need A Girlfriend by Rebsy(f): 10:58am On Sep 19
BareFacedLies:


Ignore that guy, he's one of the professional beggers we have on this forum and he has nothing to offer you.

He'll just expand your pússy for nothing grin

Lol he won't even see it, thanks for letting me know.
Romance / Re: I Am Single, I Need A Girlfriend by Rebsy(f): 10:23am On Sep 19
LoverOfEvil:
Is relationship/marriage a poverty alleviation scheme?

No one said anything about material things. How about companionship, respect, loyalty, emotional support, friendship, kindness etc?
Romance / Re: I Am Single, I Need A Girlfriend by Rebsy(f): 8:31am On Sep 19
RealityKings:


I'm old enough to hug, kiss and make love to a woman.
I'm looking for a female with good command of English and high sense of humour.

Lol that’s all you have to offer? There’s more to relationship/marriage than what you just described.
Romance / Re: I Am Single, I Need A Girlfriend by Rebsy(f): 7:30am On Sep 19
How old you? What are you looking for?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Help Me Decide On This Present Job Offer by Rebsy(f): 8:43pm On Feb 05, 2023
Stick to your current job and decline the other offer. A bird in hand is better than two in the bush. Just keep applying your breakthrough might just be around the corner.
Romance / Re: Why I Walked Away From 3 Ladies I Had Interest In. by Rebsy(f): 10:11am On Nov 17, 2022
Quite insightful!

bestdudes:
Some weeks ago, this thread titled: "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" graced the Nairaland front page.

Here is a link to the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7368480/not-all-30yrs-old-ladies

It is highly impossible that averagely pretty and above-average pretty ladies didn't meet serious men in their 20s. It is not possible. The problem with many ladies is that they have a very poor selection and also have a very bad attitude that chases good men away.

I am going to share my recent experience with 3 ladies and why I decided to walk away.

Lady 1: I had been chatting with this lady on Twitter without asking for her number. It has been on and off for more than one year. So about 3 months ago, I decided to ask for her number, which she delayed but later gave it on the same day.

For the records, this lady is pretty, she looks very much like Rita Dominic, very striking resemblance. Just to give you an idea that she is pretty.

We chatted a few times and then I decided to call. The first two were brief but the 3rd was much longer and somewhat boring because I was doing most of the topic or angle infusion, more like I was the one bringing up topics to sustain the interactions.

Before that 3rd call, I sent an SMS to ask if she was still at work and she replied to the SMS and said she was still at work. So I had to wait for about 1 hour before I called.

After the call, I texted her to say she has a good voice. I asked whether she sings or loves singing. It was just an innocent question borne out of curiosity because I could imagine she is a good singer with such a voice

She didn't reply to the SMS. Of course, I expected that, knowing how ladies behave over something as simple as that. While on Twitter, I asked whether she got the SMS, and she said that she saw it but didn't have airtime to reply lol...

That was a lie of course. I wonder why she would lie, perhaps she wanted to "form" or what? Ma'am, it was just a simple curious question.

I decided to take a stroll to her profile that same day and there I saw what completely turned me off. On her profile, she said people think she enjoys calls but she does not want calls and that they will think chatting her up on WhatsApp is better but she does not enjoy that either.

If that is the case, why give your number out? Why not isolate yourself from people entirely so that no one interacts with you? Are you better than those who took out time to spend it with you via calls?

I interpreted her mentality and worldview as someone who feels too important and does appreciate the effort of people who try to reach out to her or interact.

On seeing that, It was disappointing to note what she thought of others who called or chatted her up, I mean these are people's time that can't be gotten back lol.

Lady 2: This one is from Twitter as well. We started talking from a thread and I decided to DM her. I liked her energy. She was light and responsive, very open and communicative.

She started asking for my picture because I do not display my picture on Twitter. I was reluctant initially but sent it cos she persisted... after much chat, we exchanged numbers and I chatted her up on WhatsApp 2 days later. We talked about hanging out in December but she said she would be traveling to her state for the festive season.

While we were chatting, I had called before then, I simply asked whether she has entered another relationship after the last one she mentioned on Twitter.

Guess her response? she said "Do you have money to spend on my head"? For a less than 1 week interaction?

Oh, God... I knew I wouldn't want to have anything to do with this one beyond WhatsApp or Twitter. I reduced my interactions with her and it died.

For the two ladies above, I do not often remember they are on my contact anymore except when I see their status lol.

Let's move on

Lady 3: Met this one after church and we were going in the same direction. I spoke to her and we exchange numbers. We chatted, and I called. We arranged to meet up. On the day of our meeting, which was the first after that Sunday, she asked me whether I have knowledge of digital marketing or social media marketing. I said I do but it is not something that can be discussed on WhatsApp, except we meet so that I can explain it to her.

Though chatting her up was very slow as she is rarely online. She takes a few hours to reply lol.

We met and the meeting was more of a lecture with me answering all her questions. I enjoyed it anyway.

Knowing that I exchanged numbers because I was attracted to her, I had to find a way to subtly give hint. Now, here is the challenge I had. She increasingly started replying with monosyllables like "yeah", okay, no, lol, smiley ,

On noticing that, I knew it was time to exit from her life and I did.

The above 3 ladies are pretty facially and above average... With their attitude that made me leave them alone, tomorrow, they will come online to write "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" lol and some persons will be saying it is true blah blah...

Girls are the architect of their own misfortune. You will see a man being a decent gentleman and develop a habit that chases them away. In the same vein, they will accept the guys who do not have any good intentions toward them.

Others may believe that thread but definitely not me. I do not believe that a girl, especially the pretty ones, will live from age 1 to 30 and never come across a man with good intentions. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE!

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Autos / Re: Is This Car Worth Sending To Nigeria? (Pictured) by Rebsy(f): 10:31am On May 20, 2022
Everyone is talking about how much he's going to sell it and forgot to mention how he might spend half or more of that to customs during clearance.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Ibadan Job For N175,000 Or Kaduna Job For N259,000 : Which Should I Go For? by Rebsy(f): 6:33pm On Sep 07, 2021
kingsolium:
Good morning house, pls I need your views and opinions on this subject matter.

Ok, I currently work with an FMCG Coy in Ibadan as an inventory officer where I earn N175k net on a monthly basis. It’s important to state here that I was living in Lagos prior to my getting this FMCG job.

So, I moved to Ibadan 2 months ago and
currently put up with a friend in his apartment while I try to figure out how to move my stuffs to Ibadan on relocation basis. But along the line, I got a job with a big agricultural establishment affiliated to a multinational agricultural firm and I’m being offered N259k for a start excluding other benefits such as airtime(15k) which is different from my main salary.

Also note that the N259k is gross so my take home could be around N230k or thereabouts.

Now here’s the challenge. This new job is in Kaduna(the state capital) and I’ve not been to kaduna before. So, house what do you think about this. I need your candid, sincere and factual advice on this matter.

Thank you

Yes safety first but Kaduna isn’t as bad as painted. Does this position align with your career path and growth? Above all, follow your instincts, your intuition will always tell you what you’re afraid to tell yourself. In case you make up your mind, holla when you’re in KD.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Rebsy(f): 9:09pm On Jun 06, 2021
Yeah I know it’s tough probably because both of you haven’t been apart since you got married. I have an honest question though; if this was an overseas job maybe Canada or US, will you stop her from going? There are certain sacrifices we need to make at some point in time in our lives. Pray & let God guide you.

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Crime / Re: Ahmed Isah Slaps Man He Accused Of "Writing Names Without Permission" by Rebsy(f): 8:39pm On May 26, 2021
The Ahmed I know has a lot of personal issues and anger is one of them. I’m jejely waiting for someone to come out & accuse him of the other one. That one will surely break the internet. I’m sure it’ll come up sooner or later. A leopard never changes its skin abi na how dem dey talk am sef!

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Romance / Re: Life Without A Boyfriend by Rebsy(f): 4:29pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mood11:
Baby girls kiss
.

Some of us are single and not ready to mingle. Reasons may differ but for some ladies it could be because they are working on themselves while for some there's no one yet..


Share with us your experience so far being single.
.
I took some time off to work on myself , buried myself with work & now ready to mingle. In all honesty, it’s not easy especially when the loneliness hits hard but hopefully it’ll be worth the wait!
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Rebsy(f): 7:54am On May 15, 2020
You’re obviously blinded by her beauty. Decision is yours to make Sir. Remember as you lay your bed, so shall you lie on it!
Politics / Re: Armed Forces Remembrance Day: Families Of Slain Soldiers Cry For Help by Rebsy(f): 5:36am On Jan 15, 2020
dawnomike:
They were slained for their country... and their country remembers them not!

What an irony of life. Sad!

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Some Fun While Job Hunting by Rebsy(f): 10:49pm On Jan 10, 2020

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Travel / Re: Why Do Nigerian Embassies Employ Foreigners by Rebsy(f): 7:19pm On Jan 02, 2020
LiftedMan:
So I just called the Nigerian Embassy in Qatar, And guess what? It's was Indian Guy that spoke to me, imagine that. Someone informed me that it's not strange to find foreigners working in Nigerian embassies.

They're called 'local staff & it's not just Nigerians that do that!

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Phones / Re: Nokia 6.1 Plus by Rebsy(f): 12:16pm On Sep 20, 2019
Kaydeexotic:


Go and download gcam... Thank me later...

I did but no options to install it. Kindly send the link here if you can. Thank you
Phones / Re: Nokia 6.1 Plus by Rebsy(f): 12:22am On Sep 20, 2019
lebron7:
Hi, please I don't know about your question but how much did you buy it?

92k!
Phones / Re: Nokia 6.1 Plus by Rebsy(f): 12:22am On Sep 20, 2019
rekeson:


Low light is a problem even in d day time, how much more night time.

Stick to only day time snapping....I enjoy d speed of dis phone more than the cameras doh.

POSTED WITH NOKIA X6 6GB RAM VARIANT

Thank you, I enjoy the speed as well. I will definitely stick to your advise. And thanks for replying!
Phones / Nokia 6.1 Plus by Rebsy(f): 4:50pm On Sep 19, 2019
Hi!
Please I need help! I bought a Nokia 6.1 Plus recently. The phone is cool and all but I can't snap at night due to poor lighting. I've tried downloading other camera apps but none has worked satisfactorily. I need recommendations please! Thank you.
Romance / Re: 73-Year-Old Matthew Owojaiye Weds 63-Year-Old Abosede Ayobola In Kaduna (Photos by Rebsy(f): 5:54pm On Jul 08, 2019
People & speculations! Please always verify before posting. Evangelist Mathew Owojaiye used to be married until he lost his wife. Am even surprised he remarried. God bless their Union!

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Crime / Re: Corper Johnson Onyilo Commits Suicide (Photos) by Rebsy(f): 7:57pm On Jun 16, 2019
July 2019?
Crime / Re: Maxwell Ikechuku Okoye Tortured To Death By South African Police by Rebsy(f): 10:02pm On Jun 14, 2019
RIP..sad how his killers will go unpunished!
Sports / Re: CAF Awards 2018 In Dakar, Senegal (Live Updates) by Rebsy(f): 9:57pm On Jan 08, 2019
odehaj:
Boring show Boring presenters Boring country Boring audience Boring winners Boring speeches Etc
I swear down!
Sports / Re: CAF Awards 2018 In Dakar, Senegal (Live Updates) by Rebsy(f): 9:35pm On Jan 08, 2019
Africa's finest 11 and no Ahmed Musa? CAF issa scam!

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Foreign Affairs / Re: U.S Repairs Road Destroyed By 7.0 Magnitude Earthquake In 5-days (photo) by Rebsy(f): 5:22pm On Dec 07, 2018
If it were to be Naija, a committee will be set up, millions of Naira will be disbursed for the said committee to first investigate the matter which will take forever! Before you know, government will claim that Billions of Naira has been spent on that. Mat God deliver us from such evil. Amen!

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