Stick to your current job and decline the other offer. A bird in hand is better than two in the bush. Just keep applying your breakthrough might just be around the corner.

Quite insightful!

bestdudes:
Some weeks ago, this thread titled: "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" graced the Nairaland front page.

Here is a link to the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7368480/not-all-30yrs-old-ladies

It is highly impossible that averagely pretty and above-average pretty ladies didn't meet serious men in their 20s. It is not possible. The problem with many ladies is that they have a very poor selection and also have a very bad attitude that chases good men away.

I am going to share my recent experience with 3 ladies and why I decided to walk away.

Lady 1: I had been chatting with this lady on Twitter without asking for her number. It has been on and off for more than one year. So about 3 months ago, I decided to ask for her number, which she delayed but later gave it on the same day.

For the records, this lady is pretty, she looks very much like Rita Dominic, very striking resemblance. Just to give you an idea that she is pretty.

We chatted a few times and then I decided to call. The first two were brief but the 3rd was much longer and somewhat boring because I was doing most of the topic or angle infusion, more like I was the one bringing up topics to sustain the interactions.

Before that 3rd call, I sent an SMS to ask if she was still at work and she replied to the SMS and said she was still at work. So I had to wait for about 1 hour before I called.

After the call, I texted her to say she has a good voice. I asked whether she sings or loves singing. It was just an innocent question borne out of curiosity because I could imagine she is a good singer with such a voice

She didn't reply to the SMS. Of course, I expected that, knowing how ladies behave over something as simple as that. While on Twitter, I asked whether she got the SMS, and she said that she saw it but didn't have airtime to reply lol...

That was a lie of course. I wonder why she would lie, perhaps she wanted to "form" or what? Ma'am, it was just a simple curious question.

I decided to take a stroll to her profile that same day and there I saw what completely turned me off. On her profile, she said people think she enjoys calls but she does not want calls and that they will think chatting her up on WhatsApp is better but she does not enjoy that either.

If that is the case, why give your number out? Why not isolate yourself from people entirely so that no one interacts with you? Are you better than those who took out time to spend it with you via calls?

I interpreted her mentality and worldview as someone who feels too important and does appreciate the effort of people who try to reach out to her or interact.

On seeing that, It was disappointing to note what she thought of others who called or chatted her up, I mean these are people's time that can't be gotten back lol.

Lady 2: This one is from Twitter as well. We started talking from a thread and I decided to DM her. I liked her energy. She was light and responsive, very open and communicative.

She started asking for my picture because I do not display my picture on Twitter. I was reluctant initially but sent it cos she persisted... after much chat, we exchanged numbers and I chatted her up on WhatsApp 2 days later. We talked about hanging out in December but she said she would be traveling to her state for the festive season.

While we were chatting, I had called before then, I simply asked whether she has entered another relationship after the last one she mentioned on Twitter.

Guess her response? she said "Do you have money to spend on my head"? For a less than 1 week interaction?

Oh, God... I knew I wouldn't want to have anything to do with this one beyond WhatsApp or Twitter. I reduced my interactions with her and it died.

For the two ladies above, I do not often remember they are on my contact anymore except when I see their status lol.

Let's move on

Lady 3: Met this one after church and we were going in the same direction. I spoke to her and we exchange numbers. We chatted, and I called. We arranged to meet up. On the day of our meeting, which was the first after that Sunday, she asked me whether I have knowledge of digital marketing or social media marketing. I said I do but it is not something that can be discussed on WhatsApp, except we meet so that I can explain it to her.

Though chatting her up was very slow as she is rarely online. She takes a few hours to reply lol.

We met and the meeting was more of a lecture with me answering all her questions. I enjoyed it anyway.

Knowing that I exchanged numbers because I was attracted to her, I had to find a way to subtly give hint. Now, here is the challenge I had. She increasingly started replying with monosyllables like "yeah", okay, no, lol, ,

On noticing that, I knew it was time to exit from her life and I did.

The above 3 ladies are pretty facially and above average... With their attitude that made me leave them alone, tomorrow, they will come online to write "Not All 30yrs Old Ladies Were Approached By Serious Men In Their 20's" lol and some persons will be saying it is true blah blah...

Girls are the architect of their own misfortune. You will see a man being a decent gentleman and develop a habit that chases them away. In the same vein, they will accept the guys who do not have any good intentions toward them.

Others may believe that thread but definitely not me. I do not believe that a girl, especially the pretty ones, will live from age 1 to 30 and never come across a man with good intentions. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE!

Everyone is talking about how much he's going to sell it and forgot to mention how he might spend half or more of that to customs during clearance.

kingsolium:
Good morning house, pls I need your views and opinions on this subject matter.

Ok, I currently work with an FMCG Coy in Ibadan as an inventory officer where I earn N175k net on a monthly basis. It’s important to state here that I was living in Lagos prior to my getting this FMCG job.

So, I moved to Ibadan 2 months ago and
currently put up with a friend in his apartment while I try to figure out how to move my stuffs to Ibadan on relocation basis. But along the line, I got a job with a big agricultural establishment affiliated to a multinational agricultural firm and I’m being offered N259k for a start excluding other benefits such as airtime(15k) which is different from my main salary.

Also note that the N259k is gross so my take home could be around N230k or thereabouts.

Now here’s the challenge. This new job is in Kaduna(the state capital) and I’ve not been to kaduna before. So, house what do you think about this. I need your candid, sincere and factual advice on this matter.

Thank you

Yes safety first but Kaduna isn’t as bad as painted. Does this position align with your career path and growth? Above all, follow your instincts, your intuition will always tell you what you’re afraid to tell yourself. In case you make up your mind, holla when you’re in KD.

Yeah I know it’s tough probably because both of you haven’t been apart since you got married. I have an honest question though; if this was an overseas job maybe Canada or US, will you stop her from going? There are certain sacrifices we need to make at some point in time in our lives. Pray & let God guide you.

The Ahmed I know has a lot of personal issues and anger is one of them. I’m jejely waiting for someone to come out & accuse him of the other one. That one will surely break the internet. I’m sure it’ll come up sooner or later. A leopard never changes its skin abi na how dem dey talk am sef!

Mood11:
Baby girls
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Some of us are single and not ready to mingle. Reasons may differ but for some ladies it could be because they are working on themselves while for some there's no one yet..


Share with us your experience so far being single.

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I took some time off to work on myself , buried myself with work & now ready to mingle. In all honesty, it’s not easy especially when the loneliness hits hard but hopefully it’ll be worth the wait!

You’re obviously blinded by her beauty. Decision is yours to make Sir. Remember as you lay your bed, so shall you lie on it!

dawnomike:
They were slained for their country... and their country remembers them not!

What an irony of life. Sad!

Mine was in 2017 August. I got a job invite from an NGO (for obvious reasons, I'm not going to mention the name). I left Kaduna for Abuja in high spirit. I've always wanted to work for an NGO & this happens to be my very first NGO interview invite, I was over the moon..alas my dream of working for an NGO finally coming through!
The invite was via SMS & seemed kinda off & unprofessional, but who cares? I googled & confirmed the NGO is legit. The turn out for the interview was mad! The office was located in a hospital somewhere in Garki, it was more like a make-shift office, very tiny & crappy! After a long wait, we were grouped into batches & asked to write some exams, English inclusive. The advertised positions were Program Assistant (Intern) & Program Manager. After the exam sha, the,MD addressed us. He said the job was based in 2 states; Benue & Nasarawa & we should indicate our preferable state. Salary for Program Assistant was 30k for 3months after which, one will be confirmed. In his words, "una go suffer for 3months sha but after that na enjoyment."
The few of us that were selected were asked to be in Benue for induction. After induction, I came down to Nasarawa (Nasarawa Eggon LG to be precise) for work with the promise that my employment letter will be sent. I met 2 guys there who were glad to have a female colleague. I was shown to my room & I was just too glad to have an NGO job

One of the guys asked me if I've been given my employment letter yet,I said no, he insisted I asked for it. I asked why & he said he was told the same thing & that was his 9th month working without an employment letter. Omo see gbege o! I called the lady acting as HR for my letter, she said she'd send it only for her to come & start scolding them. After doing my FBI, I discovered the workers & volunteers were being owed salary for 4-5months! I discovered so many irregularities & scam going on, na so I japa after working for 10days (out of about 10 people employed, I was the no 8 to leave!) Told the lady my name came out for Road Safety screening. She asked if I'd come back, told her I wasn't sure. She said "our doors are always open for you whenever you want to come back." I said ok. Come back where!��

Sorry for the typo error. English no be my mother tongue�

LiftedMan:
So I just called the Nigerian Embassy in Qatar, And guess what? It's was Indian Guy that spoke to me, imagine that. Someone informed me that it's not strange to find foreigners working in Nigerian embassies.

They're called 'local staff & it's not just Nigerians that do that!

Kaydeexotic:


Go and download gcam... Thank me later...

I did but no options to install it. Kindly send the link here if you can. Thank you

lebron7:
Hi, please I don't know about your question but how much did you buy it?

92k!

rekeson:


Low light is a problem even in d day time, how much more night time.

Stick to only day time snapping....I enjoy d speed of dis phone more than the cameras doh.

POSTED WITH NOKIA X6 6GB RAM VARIANT

Thank you, I enjoy the speed as well. I will definitely stick to your advise. And thanks for replying!

Hi!
Please I need help! I bought a Nokia 6.1 Plus recently. The phone is cool and all but I can't snap at night due to poor lighting. I've tried downloading other camera apps but none has worked satisfactorily. I need recommendations please! Thank you.

People & speculations! Please always verify before posting. Evangelist Mathew Owojaiye used to be married until he lost his wife. Am even surprised he remarried. God bless their Union!

July 2019?

RIP..sad how his killers will go unpunished!

odehaj:
Boring show Boring presenters Boring country Boring audience Boring winners Boring speeches Etc

I swear down!

Africa's finest 11 and no Ahmed Musa? CAF issa scam!

If it were to be Naija, a committee will be set up, millions of Naira will be disbursed for the said committee to first investigate the matter which will take forever! Before you know, government will claim that Billions of Naira has been spent on that. Mat God deliver us from such evil. Amen!

Tyson Fury, help me kill Deontay. The guy too make mouth!

ChiefAzubuike:
Its the duty of the Nigerian army to keep casualties like this confidential. Believe this hot lie at your own peril. Over 300 personnel's were killed in metele.

I was there live.

This is heartbreaking. May God continue to guide and protect you all.

NA , do not send any soldier to Metele again! That place is a dead zone. This place has been under attack on several occasions with lots of casualty, yet nothing has been done other than sending more soldiers to go and die. Suspend all operations at Mongonu as a whole, that's the best solution for now. Reinforcement so more can be killed? You sit your asses down in Abuja and spit rubbish!

My brother was there, how he escaped, only GOD can explain. May the souls of the departed RIP. Please these soldiers are human like you and I, with family, wives, sons and daughters, parents and siblings. For those rejoicing, may God forgive you!

Deivid10:
Anything but buhari come 2019 is accepted.



Even if na Akpororo.

you're wicked! �����

First of all, I think he's too young to have an idea what sex is talk more of knowing he's gay! End time things!

Emvico34:
pls I need her number. I gat some cash to spend

am interested in the cash

Just like my momma...proud mother of both Army and Naval officer respectively.

Destroe:

Lol, the coach is comedian, he has been shouting since the match started as if he is running commentary instead of coaching. E remain make e use control pad dey control the girls like PlayStation

I have laughed my lungs out. He's so funny!��]]]

englishmart:
what are their ranks?

looks like they're both Lieutenants

All except the high tech gun. We have too many happy trigger policemen already!