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same goal/motive, but the difference is in location/platform and packaging.

Ashawo get base , pay before service

olosho dey wait for roadside, hotel or lounge, payment after service

Runz gurl naa person gurlfriend, majorly hangout, Tf and postpaid

DamnnNiggarr:
Who caused the shege Nigerians are going through presently?

Past and present government

Can someone please wake these man Up election is over,

Playing true opposition at a time Nigerians are going through shege is a more viable way to stay relevant than cloutchasing every A-list artist on awards and birthaday

PuZZyNegro:
I traveled from Lagos to Port Harcourt to see my future in laws family. My girl wasn't around as she's still in Lagos schooling.

I went there with a family member and got them some items like shortcake biscuits and juice.

They offered us food and we ate. After the meeting and normal questioning, we were set to go when surprisingly, this people brought out two loaves of bread and gave us. I told them that the food we ate was enough, that we don't need the bread.

We haven't even gone far when my girl started texting me on WhatsApp angrily asking me why I rejected her mother's gift. That she gave it out of love, this and that.

I told her that bread is the wrongest gift the mother could give me. I am supposed to buy them bread and not the one way round. I intentionally refused to buy bread for them because I assumed bread is an everyday food that people buy and eat, so I decided to go with the package biscuits instead and here they are offering me bread.

If it were something produced locally by them like coconut or something, I can understand but bread?

Please, did I do anything wrong rejecting the bread?

Indomie generation, for the culture how can you buy your inlaws shortcake biscuits, why not kuku add ecclaire sweet or lolli pop

Your mother inlaw played reversed psychology on you you make a wrong move and your inlaws countered with wrong move, two wrongs no right

MrBachelor:
Suddenly, no one is talking about Sanwo Olu and his reckless spending of perfume and other nonsense anymore. It's now about Otti. This is a deliberate misdirection and diversionary tactic. Nairaland, like Sahara reporters, is giving life to it with sensational headlines.

But when the dust is settled will return to Sanwo Olu and the mandate bandit in "asshole" rock.

what do you mean by nobody, aint you talking about sanwo olu or you don't count yourself as somebody

however, have you visited the sanwo olu thread and found no comment there ... or you are frustrated your righteous party got cut up on the wrong side at the right time

Ellu p sef wan use billion chop ... maybe politicians are the same afterall, we just fail to see it

Tranquility2345:
You are too dull. What has grammar got to do with reasoning? Your grammar is horrible. Go and learn how to write. Lazy youth.

Three comment and zero points, what as grammar got to do with the thread or topic, why not counter my view and lets see if your reasoning is bright

If you want me to come to NL and be speaking grammar like am at UK embassy interview you will have to place me on a salary, or thunder fire your generation living & unborn

Tranquility2345:
Ok. Please go and buy a book called Brighter Grammar and thank me later…

You that authored brighter grammar how as it refined your reasoning,
you just jump into a conversation making gibberish that clearly has no direction .. Oga na monday morning go find work and thank me later

Tranquility2345:
You are either a child or a very dull adult. WTF!!!

whats wrong with being a child ? you must have fallen from the sky as an adult

If you have nothing reasonable to say, kindly visit mushin market into trade insults with pepper sellers

ednut1:
i'm not broke so i dont monitor giveaways on social media, in real life i know people even in my family that was doing give aways and helping every tom dick and harry that are now broke. i lived in Lekki Axis for 5 years and came across some of these celebs or people who know them, many are broke. shebi na you go carry Tonto Dike google networth come, A woman that stole her ex husbands car after divorce sold it to survive, has no house of her own, na him worth 1.8 bliion hahahhahaha

Shebi na me dey monitor giveway for a living, you are just a knucklehead, So the set of people that got broke in your family were the ones that did give away and were generous BUT you and others that were very stingy today are Elon musks of your family how convenient
I have no problem with you being stingy, your life your problem But coming online to justify nonsense is what i stand against, be you and let those that want to be generous be.

Celebs or rich people go broke when there income stops flowing, all those nonsense boyz of lekki spend there money on cars, olosho, and club, no solid investment anywhere, Why dem no go broke

phorget:
The ripple effect on a particular action or process will automatically affect every other parts but it seems you dont understand this simple fact. Machines used in productions usually run on diesel and do you know how much it cost to get a liter? Every other factors are affected by the ripple effect of some other things hence the high cost of the end product but you expect everything to be cheap since raw materials are been sourced here.

Now that you mentioned one challenge, Diesel is significant and direct to the production line, agreed! however i believe there are always "Alternative" for every invention
i am sure there are grinders that uses electricity for power, and where there is no power supply Solar energy can be arranged, wind mill comes to mind.

If you are going to business it not all about increasing price to make profit, you have to select mode of operation that safe cost
for instances, Betting shops use generator, but fuel subsidy removal as shoot up cost of running per day, however i noticed most betting shops in my area have switch to solar energy and they run smoothly all day.

Before corn na something fowl dey chop

Persephone1:
Cc

Mynd44
Dominique
Seun.

Kindly focus on the bolded. Bullying unprovoked

You should be happy or is it a Lie

no be one of una sing e dey rush well well e dey rush

ednut1:
I thought i was engaging someone with sense lol. So networth on google that useless blogger make up is true Baba suwe died in penury by google says he was worth 500k usd. Mr Ibu is also worth 3.5m to 5m usd here hahaha.
This Ghana actor too also came to cry out about his google net worth https://mobile.ghanaweb.com/GhanaHomePage/entertainment/I-m-not-worth-800-000-Frustrated-and-hungry-Kofi-Adjorlolo-fumes-857383

Ohh now you can suddenly dig out google search But when i ask you to mention one famous person that got poor before he/she did give away you were shifting goal post.

Sometimes people refraining from spending there networth on sickness becos under such circumstance getting help is more feasible, if Mr ibu spends all he has on sickness after recovery what will he fall back to,
Even at some point 50cent declared bankruptcy to escape some billing so be mindful what you fall for,

The bob risky you posted was it not from net you picked it, Oga you are ignorant about so many things

ednut1:
Tonto that was borrowing money from bob risky to fund her fake life lol. You keep mentioning the top 1% of musician and billionaires . There are thousands of artists in same Nigeria that blew years ago and have been forgotten and broke now. But wait of why are you so vested in giveaways. Are you forbidden from making money

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/naija-fashion/470764-besties-at-war-bobrisky-calls-tonto-dikeh-out-over-alleged-n5m-debt.html?tztc=1

If i don't mention popular people how will you relate with what i am saying,
Are you aware dangote owe debt, 50cent owe debt even gaint of africa swims in debt, Poverty of the mind is worrying you seriously.
Oprah donate millions of dollars yearly yet she is still richer the Akagum jayZ,
Lemme rieterate, Nobody gives 70% of there net worth as give away, therefore it is not feasible for anybody to go poor becos he/she did give away.
Extravagant spending on luxuries and menopause on streams of income or investment gone wrong is why any rich man will suddenly go poor.

i am vested against misinformation and poverty mentality, telling people if they are generous or kind to people will make them broke/poor is a misinformation that must be allowed to slide. You owe nobody, you have right to be stingy But don't come online misleading people, if davido give out 90% of what he has and you save 100% of your income till you die you can't be as rich as him.
You don't wana help people why is it paining you each time you see others help

phorget:
Ok,you can start producing and sell at a very cheap price to set a good example to others. Source for the raw materials then you'll know watsup.

You are being unreasonable, even if i decide to go into one line of production to correct anomalies, what about other productions/product.

Our lands are fertile no doubt, just sow massively, harvest and process into feeds, if the producers are being sincere why can't they list out the challenges/problem.
Tell us whatsUp if you are being sincere

ednut1:
there are people online including celebrities that have been called out for doing giveaways while their families or children dey suffer. How many of those that did giveaway during pandemic still do it Givers don dey lack abeg.

Oga i deal with facts, even as you dey shift goal post you aint still making sense, is it Musa Ahmed that is doing give away that his family are suffering or tonto dikeh.
Even regular people as mayor of ekiti, Mr banks that do regular give away did there mother call you dem no see food chop.

Lemme school your stingy ignorant ass, there is no billionaire out there that became rich by "Savings" or blocking people not even one.
Wealth is dependant on streams of income and as long as it flows like persephone1 period you will outstand your expenditures,
Nobody gives 70% of there net worth as give away, meaning you didnt go broke becos you are generous rather you got broke becos your income stop flowing as it should.

Own your stingyness with full chest, but you see all that nonsense justification you are citing is off point. Davido, don jazzy, tonto dikeh did give away during covid 19 and till now they are still doing, show us your uncle that got broke becos he was giving urgent 2k

phorget:
Go and price chicken feed and chicken vaccine then come back and rewrite your comment.

Chicken feeds and most vaccines are produced here in nigeria so why is the price so outrageous.

I think Nigerians are just being inconsiderate to one another everybody is just using there office to expliot one another,

Even pure water price as sky rocketed, should we blame bandits or which raw materials those ones they import

RingRoadCartel:
Only in Nigeria where you'll beat a child and still ask the child not to cry.

should "CRY" not have a duration, even babies when they cry for took long they run temperature
there is duration for everything, you can't cry forever

ednut1:
comparing the average person to celebrities abeg rest. There are many people who spent all their money helping people but when they needed help no one show face. All those male actors begging for hospital funds. You think they didn’t help people in their hay day😆

If i mention just anybody do you know them ? or celebrities are not humans ?

Nobody will ever spend 100% or there whole money to help people, you are not talking to a toddler ogbeni
mention one millionaire that is a kobonaire today becos he was assisting the needy, celebrity is just a title they are human.

All those Actors that are suffering today, go back nd read there story, you will see most of them lived a reckless life, womanizing and living extravagant fake life.

Infact i dare you to go dig out "JUST ONE" celebrity that is now broke becos he was doing give away Find am you WIN

Starz825:
Me norma norma i dey give on GOD.
Blessed are those who give than receive. Na my slogan b dat
however, when i reach abroad . omo i go first face my parent, my 2 siblings, myself and my fiancee 4 10yrs then after i go com dey check on my niggas. pple wey God use 4 me take send me go b koko at first. then later i reach out to others. i think thats fair enough

So naa after 10yrs you go remember We your friends wey help you, if na that one don't worry our lives won't remain the way you left us, by the time you come back we sef go don hamma, Baale must hear this

Welcomme:
The shit is annoying. I am not the type that post to pepper anyone. None of my pictures that I snapped here is on Facebook. I seldom also post on WhatsApp (just once in a while) but everyday you see people crippling into your DM to ask for one financial favour of the other. This is something I never did while I was in Nigeria. I had so many friends in abroad but our chat were surrounded with majorly information on how I can relocate and other discussions centred on politics, business and spots . The moment you start billing people, they start avoiding you which I don't like. I still have like 200k in my GT bank, I have said, the moment that money finishes, except my immediate family, no body go see my shi shi until I am very stable in this country. But for now, I deliberately kept that money there to be servicing urgent 5k and 10k from friends at home. I used first attack yesterday when I sense he was about to ask me for money but the guy still asked oo.. I had no choice than to send.

No regrets, Do what you can when you can, Spare when you have something to spare But don't ever believe that nonsense assisting people is why you go from being a Millionaire to kobonaire. make dem give example
i have no regrets, knowing i am the reason why some of my friends finish school gives me that feeling i can't explain till date
Knowing my lil change for heinkein & fish on TGIF will put smile on someones face makes me fulfill, it all points down to who you are, if you are a giver you a giver even when you get $1 you go share naa nature
Most importantly don't do pass yourself

ednut1:
cho cho cho. Assist till you go broke yourself . Is economy not hard abroad too

You are just being unreasonable, Assisting is not why a benefactor will go broke and there is no record or stats that depict a Rich man that got broke becos he was assisting or donating funds to the needy

[b If you wants to be stingy please do with your full chest 100% but going about citing stupid justifications and misinformation is what i am against.[/b]
The dumb OP even mentioned JayZ despite Jayz stingyness is he richer than bill gate and oprah, why be a jayz if i can be as rich as gate
In Nigeria we have people like Don jazzy, emoney, mayor of ekiti, Mrbanks that constantly do give away why have they not gone broke you wana answer that

id911:
She knows quite well your constant checking up on her is all about money or needing assistance even though u dey pretend. However, she might be going through some issues at the moment so stop the constant messages for now and let her breath. She'll certainly respond to you whenever she's ok to do so.

Don't you people read before comment, You people just translate everything to money/billing,

Money is not the only reason why friends/relative or gurlfriend act funny, people go through different transition

OP reiterated he is financially comfortable, who sapa grab can not pretend, except no be sapa

Even in Ghana are Nigerian artist not MVP over ghanian artist, if Davido, wizkid or burna boy fix a show in ghana same date VS Shatta wale, sarkodie or stone boy whose show go get crowd pass.

Ghana need to know even at birth an elephant will always be bigger than a dog

ReubenE:
While what he did is stupid and reckless, the tongue has no power apart from tasting food whether for real or figuratively. Millions has been pronouncing money-wealth on themselves for years but are still broke as Bleep or just living an average life.

If that logic is right, why does the negative pronouncements work and the positive ones don't, is it that the devil listens and grants requests more?

I believe you have being in a banking premises before, have you notice the wide gap between the deposit queue and the withdrawal queue

Negative pronouncement is like the deposit queue, no crowd so things happen fast

Positive pronouncement/prayers is like GTB atm withdrawal centre.. the queue long no be here, before e reach your turn it might seems forever But the truth remains God forever dey dispense

When we say Domestic violence is a unisex thing, persephone1 and her gang won't let us hear word, they think say naa by Big grammar, emotion and sentiments, now that the facts are here

I wonder how cococandy, folake4u(babylawyer), pocohantas et.c will wiggle out of these exposition

Persephone1:
Ah ah ah ah This is funny to read Is the way i live my life so obvious on Nl? Do I type about myself on Nl ? I hardly do that. Yes I believe in having a stable and running life before you get anyone in or become another's half if that's what you mistake for "living without man" lol it's on you !
But come to think of it "isn't that what you all crave for on Nl? "Strong independent woman" who doesn't ask you all for wig money, allowance or who doesn't mind going to chicken republic with you after she has satisfied herself at Marriott lounge before meeting up . Are you saying a woman shouldn't live life so she won't sound like she can live without a man? Pick a side.

You could have easily done that without throwing women under the bus with some malicious fallacy about women. The lady in your scenario could have been blinded by feelings the same way your guy was but you made it seem like she is a manipulative mastermind of marrying and living in poverty. Do you have any pity for women at all? Do you even try to consider them at as humans who are not above mistakes and do not carry Krystal balls around to see into the future? Cut us some slack!

This is not a gender war, at least not the post you quoted. Nahhhhh this is just you assuming we are with axes and knives because we called out your mistakes and errors. Some weeks ago you blamed women for getting killed because they go after rich guys now this is a woman who married for love/feelings to a broke man. Instead of you to address how "couples" can manage their finances with none left out or demonized. You are edging men to be rich before considering marriage because only when they are rich will "women respect them" . Is money that easy to make? Is this (the impression you create of women) not the reason men do all sort of crimes just to feel like men (commanding respect and value)? You see... It's not as simple as that after all . You men create the society (practices and values) and integrate women into it yet same you blame women for the society you create.

And to your question, I will not marry a man who is still struggling to find his bearing, I'm not doing that, he shouldn't. Nevertheless I wouldn't marry a man who thinks all he has to offer is money! Nahhhhhh If a man's worth is tied to his financial ability then that's a huge red flag. What happens when he isn't liquid? Keep selling off properties to have cash or what if we don't even have "properties"? What will sustain the marriage? What will we hold onto as the bedrock of our marriage? How will he handle losing HIMSELF (Money)? I definitely won't want to be a punching bag to a man who lacks what he believes makes him whole (MONEY). In addition, I'm not marrying for myself alone so I must get hitched with [b]a man whose genes, personality,values, ideology and attributes are worth preserving and pass onto coming generations. [/b]I definitely don't want an EMPTY MONEY BAG for that.

As if she has a membrane to detect one, better order an Xray machine

pocohantas:
It would never make sense to me. That is how one Nlder's wife was hustling for a low paying job, all because she wants to be working class. By the time she starts that job, she won't be able to save or even contribute to the home after deducting transport and other overhead expenses. She would still come back tired. Unable to tend to the kids, let alone the husband's sexual needs.

I recommend a source of income for women, but it doesn't have to be this crazy 9to5 schedule. She can have a skill and create a workspace at home. Anything to keep her mind busy and have her interract with people. It helps clear the mind and support the home/her immediate family.

Yiimu cummin from persin wey dey work 5 shift, even the so called full house wives are they not nagging of chores, that a woman stay at home all day does not mean she won't complain at night or lock her legs to manipulate the man, naa una way

Recommend wound you there, my babe work 8-5pm and sometimes she get back home we make out like night won't come,
It makes sense every human must make income, then its imperative to take into cognisance what works for A might not work for B, not every woman can do business while some women are just meant for career job, anything outside the office they can't sustain it unless the husband have money to waste bankrolling her failed business.

Beta go back

LesbianBoy:
The president who Nigerians voted for is about to give press conference, see how the people are waiting to listen including bigots.

When that fraud in aso rock wants to do press conference, nobody gives a fvck and people just move around like nothing is happening

Normally today is a Sit at home in the East don't mistake that for people giving a fvck about what a loser has to say

I assure you in other sane regions of the country people are going about their business like no one gives a fvck what the loser has to say, by the way what did Atiku press conference change peter Obi should have learnt but copy copy don block im head

NOwazobia:
Na dem go complain say money no dey, na dem go still wan sustain their wasteful unproductive life with try the slightest to make sacrifice for the sit they occupy.


Citizens should make sacrifices, while officials sustain and increase their opulent lifestyle.

Asin sometimes i wonder if they have listen to themselves.

Nigerians should tighten there belt for more hardship and suffering whereas they are not even ready to manage a 2022 SUV, ordinary 2004 corolla Nigerians can't buy without advance loan

If Nigeria will ever get better Nigerians have to do more than just "REACTIONs"

Magnoliaa:
What a K.O.


He will tell you he dated that kind of woman so he can better appreciate the good one when he finds her.

But come, how do you have this picture handy? You save am for folder?

ika !! Lmao

matm:
Ur husband beats u b/c of ur mouth and what comes out of it.
Find out what angers him most and avoid it, and u will have peace.
Even outside marriage, u will be beaten like hell when u go about talking to people anyhow.

Bro you just made a wrong statement, beating a woman has no justification however there are many ways to punish a woman.

Don't even try to beat any woman outside except she carry sword and if she is aggressive just fold her or carry her do exercise

pocohantas:
Lmao! Makes sense. Because I don't understand how they know the set of women to avoid, but spend years talking about these women and trolling them. Go meet your good women na!

Identifying the chaff is best move to seperate the chaff from the seeds

when you pick beans normally what do you lookout for if you ignore chaffs you no go enjoy your meal when its done think

i am suppose to be the dull one