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Done.

wetin concern mexican with black males.

real black girls havent gotten their men back, now mexican wants piece of the pie. madness.

Either way, all shall be well.

Cant say Im surprised.

Black brit? Black american? To be honest you look Hispanic to me

lol poor osisi being attacked.

anyway osisi, change your name and then they wont go after you for student loans!  

what kind of lame logic is that?


What God are you serving that will get "mad" at you donating organs to those in need?

lol ika, just being sarcastic.

personally I just think people whine too much about this shit. Nigerian culture in families will be around for along time, or at least til my dying days

Nigerian girls don't have much to cry about na awon akata that have this problem



again ameromoge, where in Nigeria are you from

asiri re ti tu. kokoye lo sunkun fun okunrin dudu.

Because what else will they have to whine about?

Apparently English is optional in his village school. Poor kid doesnt know the difference between support and asking a question.

Size 12 is Large in most American stores.

some have large starting from 14 though.

I said that is how most of these woman who have a problem with this situation are thinking, Ikomi. Hence the part of "THEIR QUESTION". Excuse you for not understanding English. Maybe I'll ask Osisi to translate it to Igbo for you.

Re: Ameromoge
did I say that they should lie down for anyone?  I said that is what should be discussed. I said instead of them looking at themselves and how they do their thing and the kind crap they accept from their "brothers", they are too busy whining about who he's dating.

Are you Nigerian? If so, which part?

lol scared in speaking mind, where were you when you had that sisimose calling me Loveboobs, sisimama and all that crap? Why didnt you just tell her that was all you? Like I need her believing that I have so much time to waste on her and her petty issues.

Also Omo, How am I kissing his ass when I straight out called him an egomaniac who has allowed his forum to get to his head? Last I checked that wasnt a postive attribute.
Before he even went all gung-ho with the banning crap, I've always believed he wrote well and now I mentioned it so what is the problem?

Anyway to madam, you don't have to be Nigerian to speak/write in pidgin.

So in other words, I never did.

Thanks for clearing that up.

You're not a confident man, crazykid so don't worry that comment wasnt for you. 


[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=20321.msg1101176#msg1101176 date=1178655790]some men are scared off by educated women, if they feel it threatens their concept of 'manhood' - which for some means being dominant in all areas and having the woman hang on to your every word, and need your instructions to do even simple things. Some of these men are instantly put off if the woman seems to have a point of view different from theirs or 'dares' to disagree/challenge the man's logic. Their excuse is that 'traditionally' women take instructions from men and as such well educated women not needing such attention tend to diminish their 'manliness'.

For women who have such problems, my advice is: get a man who is confident in himself and doesn't need to be 'superior' to you to feel good[/quote]Example of confident man that will never need to worry. It's insecure guys that cry over stuff like this. Educated or not, a confident guy hardly ever gets disrespected. 

Glad you agree, GNature.

sharrap jare. I am still waiting for where I said otherwise, Ikomi

Confident men never have to worry about such things.

Lol if you promise to take him to the islands, im sure he'll love you forever.

Lol, passive aggression is even worse.

kateflow, you dey mind these boys. lol. funny people

Lol why do you guys care?

Then go and stay with a woman that has no pride in herself then abi?

Being jealous of someone having a higher degree than you is so juvenile and you should let those people be in relationships with mature people.

Hello GNature

I dont even know why Ameromoge cares. Most Nigerians marry fellow Nigerians to perserve this same culture she believes is dying. If they wanna fool around with others before then, let them be jare.

Why do you keep telling me that I'm free to think what I wish? I would think it was obvious that I had that right. No need to state the obvious my dear.

no one is whining about being alone, lol, no offence dear but you've been doing that all over Nairaland. Btw Im gonna ignore that comment you made about my ex since you are just bitter. that so called mistake was the best mistake of my life.

Anyway, I found that poem you quoted to be highly depressing. Almost pathetic really. Like a dog begging for love. "please come to me, leave that woman alone and love me. I deserve you not her", almost like an episode of Grey's Anatomy.

You make it seem like EVERY black guy is dating a white woman. That the black and African culture are in danger. Not really. Maybe you should stop going after the ones that don't want to be with you. Stop staring at the ones who are with white woman and get with the ones that arent. You're saying that you're not a "racist" for having a perference but you are pretty much implying that the men are. Kinda hypocritical don't you think?

You say you want there to be love and stronger families. Like I said before, how is that possible? Ever heard the racist joke, that states that Father's Day is the most confusing day in the black community? Sure it's a racist sterotype but to every sterotype there is a grain of truth. every wonder why that is? Yes single families arent just exclusive to black families but they seem to be known for it, even Africans look down on black americans for it. Go around with these losers, have their kids, the guy never mentions anything about marriage, they spend 20 years being gfs and the women are fine. They accept such dumb situations and they wonder why they are later taken for granted. When you believe you deserve better then you get it.

I saw the cover of Essence a few months back. Kim Porter and P. Diddy. That dumb ass woman has been with him for how long? 10 years or more? Recently had another pair of kids and he STILL doesnt want to marry her ass. STILL dates other women. How can any female be proud of that? God Forbid we see the black community condemning such things, instead you have people praising it. Instead of talking about that and how black females should better themselves and not lower themselves to such pitiful situations, you are instead whining about the men running after whomever. Like I said, they only do it because they can and because they know when they come back, you will accept them.

You have every right to disagree, no need to tell me that. Just like I have every right to say my mind so no I'm not going else where with my words. pele 

Rofl you always seem to be around xytcod everywhere docwqyxd yarns his garbage. Perhaps you two are bedmates? Is he good?

anyway total agree with n-guage. I really dont get why elody is here.

Ikomi, can you please show me where I ever said I was against interracial relationships? I believe I even mentioned that I was in one for a couple of years

All I said is that most black males, the ones who arent rich should stop dating the ugly ones.

Ameromoge is there yelling how blacks can't be racist yet posted some dumb poem about some woman claiming not to be racist. Since blacks supposedly can't be racist then what exactly is the point of the whole "I'm not racist but, " nonsense?

Maybe if people didnt spend so much time wondering why certain people are with someone else maybe then they'd have free time to have someone instead of constantly whining about being alone. You claim that black men only come back after the white females have taken them to the cleaners, so how about not taking those losers back then? They do it because you weaklings know you'll take his lame broke ass back.  You run around having his bastard children, accepting 15 years relationships that never go anywhere then when he leaves your ass, you start going on about how you have to do so much and cater for so much with no one helping. Maybe if you didnt give yourselves so freely then they wouldnt take you for granted. Have you ever wondered why they put more effort in their relationships with these white women than they do with you girls? Because they usually make them work for it. Have some pride instead of just taking any idiot all in the name of him being black and stop waiting for them to eventually come back because they probably wont and there you will be 55, still singing some hate-filled poem.


What the hell was the point of the civil rights movement when you people pretty much still want to be segregated? Perhaps you would have perferred if America was back in the era where being seen with a white female was enough to be murdered.

Berra join the nation of Islam and find a "brother" there, last I heard they werent allowed to date white women.

That is indeed racism if it actually makes you sick to see an interracial couple.

Dont know why you girls are fooling yourselves.

Hitler was Austrian 

A person can go overboard with arrogance, Seun. Everyone likes a confident person but no one likes an overly confident person.

So yea, about you banning yourself. .

[quote author=Ehie007link=topic=52251.msg1100529#msg1100529 date=1178639693]now yourubas have seggregated themselves to be acting their own.[/quote]I agreed with all that you said but keep in mind that Yoruba movies were around YEARS before the whole English Nolly thing came to play.
As for the person saying that non Yorubas arent featured in Yoruba movies, how about you watch a few before making that assumption. Last I checked Zach Orji, Sandra Achums and co werent Yoruba and many feature in the movies as long as they can speak the language.

I like how docwyx turned a thread about why isnt there white people in Nollywood to "why does Yoruba movies speak Yourba"

Dude you are so embarrassing.

#2 is a rule seun, therefore it's deception cos you contradicted your words.

Should you ban yourself then?

2 things i like about Seun

1. He writes well. His posts are a fresh air compared to the juvenile text message like writings that plague this forum
2. When it comes to stuff like relationship advice and all, he thinks like a modern man.


As for everything else, he's an egomanaic. It's fine to be proud of your forum dude as it is indeed a great accomplishment however sometimes you go overboard like a certain German.

hotchick:
ItA. Alot of these actors sincerly think that america is the standards for african celebrity life.No it is not this is Africa and there must be standards.
B. The reason the american society is the way it is today is partly because they have nuisance role models.
C. Although you might argue that the Indians are a bit harsh but atleast they take their culture seriously and protect their sanity without allowing public wayward displays.
D. Now what are the standards?Nobody needs to know what you do with your personal life but the minute you start to throw cautions to the wind and rub it in people's faces then you have crossed the line.

and what exactly is so special about the Nigerian society of today? The fact that we have many people spoiling our names by commiting fraud in this same america that you are bashing or what?

what standards? Is it the one where 90% of the movies are about money rituals or prostitutes or teachers raping students or maybe it's the new and improved lesbian movies. Is that the standards your dear country is holding on to?

Lol, I dont know who these Nigerian studios think they are fooling with their bans and "morality" issues. Lol cant even have a straight and fair election and they think say they have the right to open mouth about standards and morality and conduct. Rofl . I swear these people are mere jokers.

You are a sick person, sisimose. Who is the one that is angry? You know how you can tell someone is annoyed on the internet?
When they use caps, bold letters, make run off sentences and pretty much acting like they are frothing at the mouth. Since that is pretty much all you've been doing in this thread, it seems like you're the pissed off one.

Like I was telling the OP, goodguy, I wasnt even supposed to reply to this thread as I don't have a real answer for his question but then as i was going through the recent post list, I saw your psychotic rant with you saying im this person and that person. Sorry to break it to you but I'm none of those people. Again you don't mean anything to me so why would I bother? It's apparent that I don't like you and I think you are a hypocritical snake who sucks up to the men of Nairaland and bothers the females but I really don't need to go through all that to show this to you. Here's a question for you, since you claim all you want is a "clean" forum, how come when guys go around using dirty words, you never say anything. Hm, I wonder why. Anyway I I've made myself clear since day one, kid. Also, Why would I IM you? To say what? What can I say on there that I havent told you already? and please don't even fool yourself with the whole blog thing. I skimmed through it and knew immediately that it was you cussing and whining in caplocks. The irony. Any idiot knows that was your handiwork. Deny it all you want. You're not fooling anyone. You're  really not that smart after all you left so many hints with the mentioning of choogtin and all that. Maybe next time you wont be that obvious.

The other people might have trouble coming out to you about who they are but I however do not. I am not sisi-ho, sisimama, tattletale, loveboobs or any of those people. Get over me. Look at how you changed the topic of this thread with your juvenile nonsense by bringing me up in stuff that has absolutely nothing to do with me. I've been asking for you for the longest time. E jo, Leave me alone and leave me out of all this trash. If you want to know who those people are, go and ask them or go run to seun as usual and let him find out. Just leave me out of your mess.

I really hope you end up take my reading suggestion seriously because I meant it.

or what will happen?