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larryking540:
To all the single guys out there,to every married man, to every hustler base in 9ja and outside 9ja,
pls and pls, create time for ur kids, it's very important,

I always speak from experience, I was at the backyard of my house the other day, and I noticed that my next door neighbor just had a misunderstanding with the wife and after the man left the house, the wife sat outside the house doing some hand laundry, with 2 of the kids around her, u need to see the way d lady was saying some harsh words to the kids about their father, I wouldn't want to say it, cus it was just not worth hearing such from her, I just went back into my room and I sat on my couch and reason that if this man and woman continues to have such a misunderstanding and while the wife spends more of the time with d kids, trust me, the kids will channel so much hate for their father, even thinking that their mother is the bread winner of the house, not knowing is their father ,,


So pls my fellow men out there,
always create time for your kids, call them, if u are base outside the country, do a Skype call with them,
often, if u can call them every day by evening call them because na old age matters o,
for u men who are within the country, calls check up on them via calls or chat, a 1 minutes call will go a long way in their thinking about anyone has said or told them concerning u

Speaking from experience, that's is what saved my own father that we still use to respect him till date, even though my own mother backlash at hime at his back ,a day never passes by my father doesn't drop a call on my cell phone, infact he call me pass mtn,
and dat is what I have actually used to prove my mother wrong,

I hate people that pretend,

Thanks for sharing. Many of the foolish girls here are just opposing the topic without reading properly. They are even acting as if what the op said doesn't happen in real life. Some know that Martinez39 is speaking the truth and they have resorted to shaming language.

Many of these girls are like the kind of mothers in the op and they plan to do like the kind of mothers in the op so they are getting defensive.

NLmember:
Why do these bitter woman hating mods keep putting posts like this on front page? Instead of asking parents to put their utmost best in raising children the bitter and frustrated fellow started a topic he concocted from his deranged mind to blame women for the actions of irresponsible fathers.

Father's are deadbeat so blame the mother's for poisoning the childs mind and keeping the said child from their dad. What is stopping the father from being actively present in the child's life and showing them enough love and support to dispel any form of brainwashing from the mom about him being deadbeat?

A determined and caring father will never allow anything keep him from his kids, what these useless men do is that they abandon their kids thinking the responsibility of rising kids is on women and then in old age when they start experiencing loneliness the fools start throwing be to the wives and mothers claiming that they brainwashed the children into hating them.

I m not surprised, majority of young men these days are just frustrated from poverty and filled with bitterness and since they cannot lash out t each other they turn to women to transfer agression. If only you fools can use the same energy in tracking your worthless leaders that keep you poor and frustrated.

I don't blame the mod that keeps putting topics like this on front page.

Read the topic from beginning to end instead of hastily jumping into conclusions. The op made valid points and your outdated shaming tactics won't change the fact. You have nothing reasonable to offer as far as this topic is concerned.

Mercy2006:
If only people who are defending this Davido of a boy with so much gusto can just channel one tenth of the energy into making their lives meaningful, it would have been better.But alas,no.No wonder our lifeless president calls the youths lazy.Isn't he proved right now?

Lol. Shaming language and tactics are outdated. You will have to try something better. Do you have anything better? yimu

CeterisXVII:
But all the time he was dating her, he cheated on her with different women. Does that show seriousness?

All these while,
1) He sang a song for her and featured her in it.
2) He bought her a porsche and declared his love for her in public. #assurance.
3) He has proposed, done introduction and wants to settle down with Chioma.
4) She is pregnant for him.

Don't these show seriousness?

You did not do anything wrong. She has a bad attitude and ego and her sack is well deserved.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
What is a real woman if I may ask? She is pregnant outside wedlock just like the other three.

She is pregnant outside wedlock just like the other three but, unlike the other three, Davido is going to marry her. What significant difference does it make? After all, las las Davido wife am before pikin drop.

Does Sophie and the one abroad hop bikes or use cars? Did they buy the cars with their monies or they were bought by Davido.

One thing I hate about arguing with women is that they can never admit that they are wrong. Women will go to any length to show that they are right even providing false data to back up their claims. Show me any evidence that Davido bought cars for Sophie?

Davido opened a clothline for Sophie and a cosmetic shop for Imade, did he do that for Chioma?

Once again, presenting false evidence like Jussie Smollet. Davido did not open any clothing line for Sophie Momodu. Prove me wrong. Show me evidence that Davido did such for Sophie.
Davido did not open any cosmetic shop for Imade. Even if he did, it's his daughter and what bearing does that have on the fact that Chioma is the apple of David's eyes because she is a real woman?

Does Davido not travel with Sophie and Imade abroad and bring them out on stage without inviting Chioma?

Davido has brought Chioma and his two daughters on stage but he has never brought Sophie on stage. You think you can make up false claims and I will not find you out? Rather than admit that real women get the man's heart and resources, you decide to remain stubborn and even bring up false claims to buttress the lie that Davido and Chioma are nothing special. You want to think that Chivido2020 happened by chance but sorry dear, be a real woman and his heart and resources shall be opened to you. It doesn't not pay to be a feminist.

Do you know how many times he has brought out the two baby mamas and kids together on stage abroad without inviting Chioma?

Lies. He has never brought them on stage. He has brought Chioma and his daughters on stage but not the stupid feminists baby mamas. Prove me wrong.

Have you ever seen Chioma anywhere with the acclaimed N45m car?

Facts remains that he bought it for Chioma. Unlike his baby mamas, Chioma got a public demonstration of deep love from Davido as he gave her her "assurance". If Chioma doesn't drive her porsche, is it your concern?

Whether Chioma wants Unless he just wants to buy it, there's no N45m car anywhere!

Of course but Davido had to because Chioma is something different. She is a real woman. For a player to finally commit, buy her a porsche, sing about her and feature her in a song, impregnate, brings her on stage unlike the other baby mamas and choose to settle down with her shows you that something is different about Chioma.

If Davido didn't marry her, his baby mamas will be more than four. His father asked him to settle down! If you are really in love with someone, you will not be cheating but stick to the person. 2face's mother asked him to settle down after his 3rd baby mama. If he didn't marry Annie, his children will be from 4 women.
Davido's father asked him to settle down, Davido is not a serious minded person. If he and his father were not rich, he should have been a total nuisance!

His father did not influence anything. Davido's heart is for Chioma and he was always going to marry Chioma because once a man meets a real woman, his heart and resources are opened.


You don't want to hear the truth. You want to insist that Chivido2020 is nothing special and came about by chance. You even provided false evidence to buttress your point. That shows how stubborn you are but just know that you can't run from the truth. You want to be stubborn and I hope you don't end up like Sophia who now shares raunchy posts on social media to console her miserable self.


#FeministsWillRotInHell
#IHateFeminists
#FeministsAreLowerApes
#FeministsAreScums
#FeministsMustDie
#FeministsWillEatSh!t

madenigga:
Its going to end soon enjoy it while u can

When is it going to end?

I have been doing this for more than a month now with MTN.

*131*65#

Breaststroke:
Lol, I carry god beg you like the other lady please stop quoting me

In my case na you start discussion, but me I wan end discussion.

Why are your posts full of feminist hashtags, when responding to us (women) who are not in support of OP's BS write up?

You can answer the question without quoting me abeg.

Stop quoting me and I will stop quoting you. After having exchanges with me in which you deliberately responded, you are now acting like I am the one pestering you. You think I care to keep a conversation with you at all cost? Seems you girls are sitting on a very high horse. Good day and I will quoting you from henceforth.


#FeministsWillRotInHell
#IHateFeminists
#FeministsAreLowerApes

Breaststroke:
Can't a woman voice her observations or opinions on this matter or other matters on nairaland, without being tagged a feminist?

That we hold opposing views doesn't mean I am a feminist.

I never called you a feminist for having a different view or opinion. Prove me wrong.

I don't find David's lifestyle appealing with all his money and if Chioma was a friend or relative, I will urge her to finish school and not get pregnant until she has indeed been properly married.

If you were in Chioma's shoes, you would do more than dropping out of school and getting pregnant to get a rich man like Davido. Stop pretending.

I believe what ijawwoman said, if his father didn't chook mouth in this matter we may be hearing a different song.

The father's intervention did nothing. Davido was always going to marry Chioma. He sang a song for her and featured her, he bought her a porsche, etc. Did he do that for the other baby mamas? Why Chioma? Does Chioma have two heads? He really loved Chioma. There was no rush or force here. It pays to be a real woman but it doesn't pay to be a feminist.

#feministsarelowerapes

empress101:
Can u stop quoting me ? Thank you

Lol. Can I stop quoting you? All of a sudden, you are acting like I am disturbing you when you were the one discussing with me. You cannot run away from the truth. Good day and I won't quote you again.

Breaststroke:
I knew Chioma's pregnancy forced this latest move of his.

I wish he would STFU and just marry the girl already. He really needs to stop the public noise he makes about wifeing her and wife her.

It had to take another pregnancy and his father's intervention for him to be responsible. Tueh

It did not take the intervention of Davido's father for Davido to wife Chioma. It was bound to happen. When a woman becomes a real woman, the doors of the man's heart and resources are opened to her.

Davido sang a song for Chioma and featured her, did he do it for others? Davido bought her a #45m porsche, did he do it for others? From these, it is clear that Davido loves Chioma deeply and this is not an arranged marriage due to father's intervention. Davido was always going to marry Chioma. IT DOESN'T PAY TO BE A FEMINIST.

#ijawwomaninoyo

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Davido never had the intention of marrying Sophie cos she is 6 or 7 years older than Davido. It was like he was just playing around.
Is the one abroad a feminist?
Davido has 3 children from 3 women already, Chioma is the 4th, that's why his father advised him to settle down. If he doesn't stop there, the number will be increasing which is bad. That's 2face's saving grace. (Though he still misbehave something).

Sophie was too aggressive, feminist and not submissive to Davido. Her gra gra was too much so Davido had to move on. Chioma, unlike the others, brings somethings to the table. DAVIDO WAS ALWAYS GOING TO MARRY CHIOMA.

empress101:
Cook for him...yen yen yen... While he goes about impregnating ladies bah.?? Lol
Oga,if this is your ideal marriage, I wish u well...But for me,Nah...I deserve better..Bye

Lol. Keep deceiving yourself. Keep acting like you don't care about that. As long as it is a rich man like Davido or Ned Nwoko, no woman, including you, cares. So stop the pretence.

When you see that a rich man like Davido is interested in you, take my advice and be a real woman if you want the doors to his heart and resources opened to you. No more attention to you. We can agree to disagree.

emaopel:
Jealousy dey worries you...accept your fate!

Serious jealousy.

empress101:
If this is 'real' ,I'd rather be fake..

Yimu. Cook for your man, respect and obey him as the head, keep his home etc. If he does not open his heart and resources for you, then I will deactivate my account. The scales must have fallen off Sophia Momodu's eyes and she regrets and wishes she were in Chioma's shoes. It's not by feminism, gra gra, and ego. No man will put up with nonsense forever. IT DOESN'T PAY TO BE A FEMINIST.

cococandy:
Very stupid post

Chioma and Regina Daniels are in a position were feminists would dream and die to be in. Feminists may say all they want but deep down, they envy those two women. It was not a coincidence that Davido skipped his baby mamas for Chioma. Does Chioma have two heads? Be a woman and men will open their hearts and resources but be a feminist and you will see misery. Chioma humbled herself, respected Davido as the head, and cooked for him, the other baby mamas had nothing to offer except feminism, gra gra and ego. No man will settle down and be happy with a feminist.

BBM:
Una don change tone

Before it was Davido won’t marry her

Baby mama things loading

Davido will dumped her and move to the next girl


But Davido don put una to shame

Don't mind Shawttysofyne and the rest. Chioma has sense that's why she behaved like a real woman because she knows men want real women. The other baby mamas were forming feminists. Money, dem no get; cook, dem no sabi, na to dey form feminists na hin dem sabi. Davido no get time. Na woman wey sabi to be woman na hin men dey like.

dominique:
I couldn't go beyond no.1 where you said patience. No amount of patience will make a woman stick by a man who fathered 3 children during the course of their five year relationship. It's money, loads of money.

Hush! Davido skipped his baby mamas to marry Chioma, do you think it was coincidence? Chioma decided to be a woman while the rest decided to be feminists. It does not pay to be a feminist.

nuelsam:
Marriage is a scam ahswear

Marriage na scam.

As a man, know that you are in charge and you are the leader and head of your home. One mistake that many men make is to make women feel indispensable during a relationship and most especially after the wedding. You must, at all time and in a direct and unmistakable manner, make it known to your significant other that she is replaceable and you are ever ready to kick her out when she tries certain rubbishes. Many men fail in this aspect and this has led many women feeling so secure after marriage that they can show their true colours. They arrogantly think that the man can't do them anything after marriage but men must prove them wrong.

FamousMonk:
So risking tearing her towtow is one of the talents we have in Nigeria?
Come here...

If only education were a priority, this moniker that mentioned me would have heard of the sport gymnastics.

If only the opportunities matched the talents we have in this countries.

Hmmmmmmmmm... this hair style. Reminds me of Cherokee d'ass. She was rocking that hairstyle. Good old memories.

Sunnyshinylight:
To allow the living word of the heavenly father find a way in your heart means millions around the world will be save through you,because one heart is equal to all hearts.
Be the reason someone some place can find the Way,the Truth and the Life- Christ Jesus.
Christ in your heart is the glory of the father God Almighty tabernacle with your body.
Be wIse and accept the responsibility to be Christ's temple; which you actually is.
Love lifted you.




Don't forget to share the truth everyday. You have nothing to give, but allowing yourself be used to spread hope faith and love of God Almighty will eventually save your soul because you will always have species comforting and strengthening you when you need some.


Before you judge us, always remember that the zeal for my father's house has consumed us and we are compelled by the love of God Almighty which is demonstrated when he happily, freely and openly offered his own beloved son CHRIST JESUS to be humiliated and tortured and killed as the lamb for the sacrifice.


You will always see us, coming to you, knocking at the door of your life.

From the title of your topics, I can certainly say that you like d!ck.

Hell no.

As Martinez19(aka Martinez39) said, it doesn't pay to be a feminist. Pride and gra gra will not help you. Chioma and Regina Daniels, both submissive, are doing better than any feminist I know and these feminists envy them. Sophie Momodu could have gotten Davido but her gra gra and ego has has taken her nowhere and reduced her to a bikini, raunchy and nude pics taking woman.

carter009:
They guy shouldn't have lied, but that's not enough reason they girl should quit they relationship, afterall they guy is taking good care of her....

She is not angry that he lied, she is angry that he is a trash parker.

Originalsly:
Bro... by your own words... you shouldn't be in Romance section... nor in any discussion concerning relationships... marriage...or sex.

@ topic..... there are many pretty good people here on NL...but you have to look hard for them among the ever increasing empty barrels noisemakers.

This is absurd. You are sure you have a good brain?

I cannot do such. I can't waste my money.