₦airaland Forum

He supports me in everything I do and believes so much in my abilities even when I'm in doubt, apologises first all-sorry most of the time. A great father to the kids and someone I know I can always count on. Not forgetting sexy as hell even with his ibotic accent, turns me on. He can do no wrong in my eyes even when he's an a-ss, he's a sexy a-ss.

Kobojunkie: It really is a shame ooo!! It boggles the mind why we continue to allow some of these very same continue to procreate. How any woman out there who understands the plight of mothers around Nigeria, not even the world, could decide that this incident is the child's mother's fault makes me worry still about the future of Nigeria.

Some even pretend that because the mother in this case choose to sell drugs, it was inevitable that her children would be raped. Even that kind of nonsense? from WOMEN . . . . WOMEN who are supposed to change things for better, not continue to propagate the same backward mentality that has aided in maintaining the second-class status of women in African society.

For me I believe your children are gifts, they are your first and sole responsibility. Not your job or whatever. Every decision you make in life must be centered around them. Always ask, what example am I setting for my Kid?
Girls look up to their mothers, you are their guardian and must guide them in d right way. Some of the time, they do go astray but as far as you as a mother know you have done your best in bringing her up properly just keep praying for her and God will make everything right in his own time.
Parenting doesn't come with a manual, and sometimes we parents don't handle d situations right but whatever we do we must put our kids interest first and also seek wisdom from God in making the right decisions.
That's why I say that the mother is also to blame, something went wrong somewhere and since she's d guardian, na she I go hold.

MRbrownJAY: the video i mentionned was brought to us all from a THREAD ON NL, duh! and the thread can be found on the family section, pls educate yourself on the issue.



first i have 6 children, not 5, and second, again you are judging a book by its cover. when/where did you get your facts that A) the girl in question was abused B) that the boys were older than her? or do you actually believe that since she is a girl then she must be the one abused, and not the way around? this is why i mentionned the video of that maid because we can clearly see a FEMALE abusing a MALE.



if this is what that child wants to do, then go blame her mother and nobody else for that issue, and not the possible boys her own age who may just be as clueless as she is about what they are doing.



so here you are again, assuming that someone manipulated this person into having sex, as if no 11 yr old would want to have sex on their own accord, and only an older man can "manipulate" her into such act.




there are so many children left on their own in Nigeria, as soon as they are old enough to work (which is around 12/13) many are thrown out of orphanage or sent to beg at busy traffic lights. many uneducated poor souls run away from their villages/family to experience the big city and "make money". many are just sold as maids and run away from the family after being treated poorly, thus ending in the street very young.......and guess what?! they may get influenced by others and start drinking in beer parlour where the vendor doesnt really care who buys from her illicit place (or rent a warm room at 13/14yr old with the proceed of their begging).
open your mind, i am not saying they are 100% sure to be kids, i am just saying that so far as we know, THERE IS NO CLUE AS TO HOW OLD THEY ARE and therefore cannot sit here and claim that they are pedos.



of course it relates, here you are all saying that the guys in this picture are GUILTY of a crime that you cannot confirm........... ready to burn them to the stick without any damn proof of anything (just like they did the Aluu4). if these boys are as old as the girl then no crime was committed, unless she was ra.ped (and by the look of the story, this is NOT what happened).

Mr. Jay, After all is said and done, and u have twisted and untwisted and again retwisted the story. By the look of the story, the guys look like they took advantage of the girl if nt it wouldn't even have made headlines.
The girl is 11 and a minor in other words she no get sense, her mother is to blame, d so called clueless males are to blame.
Maybe we should even vote on this sef. Those who are for, say yay! And those who are against, say Nay! Lol.

Geomac: Kidnappers keep Imo dep gov’s aide 4 months after

By CHIDI NKWOPARA

OWERRI—Imo State Deputy Governor’s Principal Secretary, Emenike Ihekwoaba, who was kidnapped by a gang of gunmen about four months ago is still held captive by his captors.

Vanguard investigations revealed that the hoodlums are at the last count, asking for more funds after collecting about N10 million from their captive’s family.

Ihekwoaba, an architect by profession, was abducted by unknown gunmen at Amaraku Junction, Isiala Mbano Local Government Area of the state while he was on the way to his Nkwerre country home with his wife.

Confirming the ugly situation to Vanguard in a telephone chat, the Senior Special Assistant to the Deputy Governor on Media Affairs, Chief Onyema Opara, said his boss was worried about the situation.

Meanwhile, the state Commissioner for Information and Strategy, Mr. Chinedu Offor, has said security agents were doing everything possible to ensure release of Special Assistant to Governor Rochas Okorocha, Miss Nkiru Sylvester, who was kidnapped last weekend.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2012/12/kidnappers-keep-imo-dep-govs-aide-4-months-after/

Poor man, he's d uncle to a friend of mine. Afta collecting 10m, still no show for 4 mnths now. The family have accepted their fate and left the matter in Gods hands.

Babara juliano.... Never trust a guy with twO first names and in dis case, a model! Anyhoo, I thought I knew models especially nigerian models but I've never even remotely heard of dis one at all.
She's obviously just looking for recognition to promote her shoe bizzness if dats for real sef.
Apart frm this 14 million handbag thing, google sef no know d chic

kandiikane: @mrbrownjay, have you ever had se..x with an underage kid? Lol, why am I even asking, who's going to answer such a question.

Same thing I'm thinking with the way he's defending this case like nothing wrong happened here.

Uyi Iredia: Big lie ! An 11 year old can't give birth.

Wakeup O! The youngest mother in the world was 5 years when she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy via ceaserian. Eleven year old can comfortably give birth!

Ada Nri1: Who is to blame?
Parents: for lack of proper supervision @ such an early age or Teachers: for late sex education or the girl: for lack of descipline with which to say NO to premarital sex .

The girl is not to blame, she's an impressionable minor who doesn't know much. Parents are to blame for lack of supervision and sex education. The first time the first idiot approached her she should have told the mother if she'd been properly trained her mother.
I also accuse the guys, what they all did was take advantage of and molest a minor.
Anyway should we really be surprised? The child of a hottie and igbo seller will become one too in future, d fruit doesn't fall far from the tree.

Roliks09: I believe its thoughts lyk dis that brought us where we are. It really doesnt matter who changes Nigeria, the most important thing is for change to happen. When we put the love of the Nation above friends or family, its then Nigeria can be better.

And who makes up the flipping nation? Isn't it your friends and family? When they kidnap them finish and off all of them because u ddnt pay ransome, u can love ur frigging nation.

Our police too dey lielie. Who we con belief naw naa? Police talk sey dem raid and shoot, dis one talk sey dem drop am off.okay! Maybe dem drop am off, police nab the guy den dem go raid d hideout? Anywhich way, we thank God sey she come back safe. My friend uncle wey dem carry for Owerri ova 2 months naw, we nefa hear anytin even after 10 million dem pay dem *sobs* I no wan belief say den don off the man. God dey!

Shugamania: Guess it's because u begin to see things differently when u really get to know these people. You begin to fall for the personality inside and the outwards design just doesnt matter to you anymore.

True story!

How could a woman dump such a beautiful/innocent baby and still live with herself? After suffering for 9 months? What about social services? Orphanage homes? Gosh, poverty can make people do wicked things. Lord help us.

QSola: @ onari, tnks. I tink I'm gonna speak my mind 2mao. Really appreciate

Hi Qsola, I wuld like to ask before starting the training did you ask the amt of time he would train you for? I noticed these tailors like to keep people for a long time whereas fashion skls teach for abt 4-6 months and depending on your seriousness you can learn a lot. Maybe not everything but a lot for you to make decent clothes, it all depends on you sha.
The thing with these tailors is dat they learnt under tough bosses who kept them in apprentiship for years hardly teachiNg anything and so they want to inflict the same pain on others.
If you haven't paid him I wld advise learning in a fashion schl and then attaching yourself to a tailor for a while if u still need to.

Well, from my own experience before we got married, my husband used to introduce me as dat. I didn't take it as anything sha as far as I liked him and he liked me. Is it not just a title?
If you don't like being referred to as friend, tell him/her. Just say "look, I dnt like being referred to as friend. Call me boyfriend/ girlfriend." Shikina!

jidegirl12: That's not true Jo , it even has a special name they call it

Forgive my porknosing but for ibos its the wife's mom and then the husbands mom can join the wagon. Am married to ibo, so I know. Whereas as for yorubas which I am, its d husbands people dat come or maybe dats just my family. Anyhoo I think whoever the woman is most comfy with is the one who should be there.

chipmunkey: I'm a Modelling agent and publicist. You might want to work with me if you're into fashion.

Hi Chipmunkey,I'm a fashion designer, quite new in d industry but with big dreams. What would it take to organise a fashion show and get interested sponsors.

Nice one, enuf girls will fall for this one. Intrested but not pushy or annoying.

Shows dat we should be careful what we dont wish for? I'm Yoruba, when i was younger ibo guys were a no-no, and I also vowed to marry a tall guy but funny enough, I seemed to attract only Ibo guys and finally married one who isnt as tall as I am. Thats life, I guess. Never say Never.