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Most of these guys keep on saying PDP raped the nation for 16 years. Who really are the APC members? Are they not mostly decampees from PDP?

Ndi Chukwu kporo oku

All ikokwu mechanic shops are closed in solidarity as of today. Movement along ikwerre road is also tensed as mobile police men mount some strategic points incase of any uprising

SangoOlukosoOba:
A competent Judge I must confess.

He delivered judgement has it ought to go.

Are u from Yoruba?

Roon9:
If only self control had prevailed.

call for our 250,000mAH lithium-ion solar powerbank that could power your TV, laptop, and up to 4 lighting points for up to 10 hours daily.

Where are you

Why is she crying
So you can kill but won't like to die. Nonsense.

Our new artist is still shouting kapachumarumaru chupaku

Sleevia:
that is risky bro. Very risky...

You can't just pick a girl and get married to her...

Even my current girlfriend, by God's grace, we are going to have a serious talk in a few months time.

I know it's risky but that's why I said I would hope for the best.
Happy to hear yours is going fine.

Good

Sleevia:
Just control it. There are still good girls out there, just rare.

Also, make sure the next girl is one with independent mindset and like to hustle like you are doing.

We often get into problems when we start dating girls who are not doing anything but hoping Alan will drop from the sky to magically take away all her problems. Those kind of girls are Always a problem as soon as you start footing bills.

Local man is not doing again bro.
Time for marriage o will just pick one and hope for the best.

God forbid bad thing

Kendumazy:
Good to hear that. Stop pitying her. Program your mind to start seeing it as it's her loss rather than pitying her. All the very best!

This is lovely. I appreciate

Kendumazy:
Seems you guys still attend the same church. Right? Why not look for another church to attend for the main time or permanently in order to quicken your healing process. What is actually breaking you down is the sight of the pregnancy in her. Bro, you are strong though and you have been strong enough to this point but this her pregnancy stage is harder for you than the cheating stage if i must be honest with you. Please, help yourself to stop seeing her for a very long time. This will quicken your healing process.

I have healed.
Can't change church because of her. Actually it's no more because of me, I just pity her. She might not get back to her best to be honest with u. I'm strong

Sleevia:
Yeah, the ex I talked about in the post before this comment of yours resulted in me hating women for 3 years. She couldn't understand why I could not forgive her. And to make matter worse, she did her nonsense around same time I lost my mum and it was damn painful.

Sorry for the loss. My condolences.
I can attest to what u are saying. The way I look at girls now has totally changed. I just pray it doesn't turn to hatred too because such mindsets have the tendency of following one into marriage

CsRockefeller:
You're a perfect gentleman just like me. But, sometimes, our persona is our weakness especially when those around us are carnivores, they will always seek to break us and devour us.

It's well. Keep being you.

Very much. She is already down like someone earlier said. No need kicking her. It's true we have parted for ever, but her condition is really pitiable. Even her parents as Sunday school teachers in same Church must be passing through a lot.
Her condition is really pitiable.

Sleevia:
I know bro. You are already making me feel pity and emotional even when I know of the reverse were to be the case, she will not even feel any pity on you.

My ex NEVER said sorry until after 3 years ONLY because her bet failed. That is what girls do. The never feel pity for the damages of their wrong because their brain is their emotions.

But here you are still feeling sorry for her.

This life sha

It's natural to feel pity for someone in an unfortunate condition. One just have to be careful not to turn her undoings into hatred. She did wrong and landed in a poo but u just have to guard ur anger lest it turns to hatred. I feel pity for her because I never hated her.

Sleevia:
it will pass bro. You are a good person no doubt.

I appreciate. Seeing her serving back seat on sundays break me.

luscioustrish:
Hmmm...it will end in praise eventually, hope you're fine though?

I'm coping

TheExclusive:
You have earned my respect

Respect to u

Kendumazy:
Keep being strong bro.

It's well

Next2Bezee:
Do you see this life? In certain areas, it is not as complicated as people think it is.

I applaud your reaction, Respect55. The girl is already down and you didn't kick her, but you also will not take her back under any circumstances.

I know it must not have been easy for you as you made it seem, but you worked through the grind. May success continue to find you till you tire. Kudos.

Thank you.
Of a truth, there haven't been any easy moment with me whenever I reflect on what could have being. More difficult is that I'm yet to come to terms as to what I did to deserve this.
Funny world we live in. How everything will seem rossy and easy and the next moment, all crashes to the gutters.
I just took a decision as a man and I allowed reason to come before emotion.
More problems for me because of how I see girls now.
It has not been easy with me all these while. Let me not lie

SilentVboy:
I really do admire your strong stand.

And it paid off for u. Or else she would have nailed u with someone's child.

Take care bro. I too learned to silence those that such treatment apply too.

I just believe my Chi is still much alive. Even at that, I wasn't even going to have her body if this didn't happen. I had always taken charge of things all along.

Sleevia:
Let me tell you why you should not. If that guy she went with was richer and balling hard...

She would have been laughing at you by now and beat her chest that she made the right choice by dumping you.

All those talks about her begging is because she made a wrong bet and regret is always the consequences.

See, when a woman wants to deal with you, she does not care if you die from the aftermath of her deeds. She does not! They are that selfish.

Do you know why you caught her? do you know why it was possible to catch her red handed? It is because God knows your mind towards her is of good. He knows you have no evil plans towards her but you mean well and that is why it was possible to catch her red handed.

He did not want you to to cohabit with an evil woman that may have negative plans.

Without meeting you, I know all the dream land you have traveled with her in your mind and back... Cos I have been there before.

When God wants to bless us, he takes away negative energy from us

A girl I met on nairaland whom I had same good plans for and just because my business was having some problem, told me she can't date someone that is not financially stable. This is because I chose to be disciplined, prudent and frugal because I have been down before spending recklessly.

Since that was the 3 time we would quarrel, I let her off and God answered my prayers by granting me a multimillion deal. I kid you not.

Trust me, you have no idea what God has done for you.

I understand where you are coming from. I still believe that fate played its role in me catching them red-handed.
That neigh said shit do happen and we must stand our grounds in cases like that to take strong decisions. She learnt the hard way. Mr as well because I can't go into any relationship again with trust

pryme:
Am sure you do,
But avoid her at all cost.

Done that long ago

WackyJ1:
Respect55
We back here again!!

Wooo. This is a great victory.

I supported you against those ignorant females and males and now we've been proved right.

See ehn!

I am going to tag all those girls.

Chin up man!
You dodged a bullet.

This her pregnancy sweet me.

Good for her.

She don Learn lesson.

Nonsense.

I must have to pity her

Sleevia:
Don't feel pity. Majority of us have experienced this before.

I know friend who spent money with his father's connection send a girl from 100 level to 500 level..

She still cheated on him when he went out of the country for his MSc.

See women are just what they are.

It will be hard not to feel pity for her. I really pity her. Not that I regret anything

They will be rehabilitated and drafted into the NA

StrikeBack:
Na wah oo

But wait oo

As a Nigerian, What do we get as benefit of being a citizen of this country

Next Level

CsRockefeller:
Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow!


I'm speechless to be honest. I read your post the first day it was published but didn't take your story too serious as I thought that you weren't into her like that. Now, I'm going through the thread in retrospect and I can only imagine how difficult it was for you to stomach.

And this latest development makes me so sober, especially for her. She didn't feel like she did anything wrong with what she posted on the thread earlier but the scales have finally fallen, you really loved her and she knows, what a pity.

In everything, you did well, exactly what I would have done, quietly walk away even though it's painful.

In everything, I have come to realize that we (men and women) are all over grown babies. There is no guarantee that we will always do the right thing despite the way we grow in size, height, wealth and status.

Somewhere, there is that baby in us that tends to pop up. What we have to do is to ensure its buried and never rear it's ugly head.

Unfortunately, your ex was a victim of this "sickness" and it cost her a lovely person in you.

Life nawa o!

Just pray she finds peace and forgive herself.
I was really shattered but still, we move on. I have nothing against her absolutely

Goldiano:
you are a man

Everyone knows what he wants

Korllami007:
Thank your star that you didn't take her back and have sex with her like some people had advised you. In the next 6 to 7 months, you would have been taking care of someone else child.

Congratulations once more for being a real man.

I didn't seek their advice. I just shared a story.