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mhizbel:
Don't mind him.

Wetin dis one dey talk sef. Would u rather one pick a partner in club houses?

mhizbel:
Since you know the tradition of your church, why then do you go ahead and date a girl when you are not ready to get married?
I'll keep on saying it over and over again that this boyfriend/girlfriend shit is totally irrelevant, it's a waste of time, resources, feelings, organs and whatever there is to it!
I worship with AG and as a matter of fact, my dad is a strong member of the Marriage Committee. So, what am I trying to say? The AG I know would help finance their members' wedding if the persons involved are ready to get married.

The last time I checked, it is not a crime to date provided one so that go silly about the whole thing.

Admin401:
How can a girl threaten your life? Someone you didn't even fork for that matter? To the point that you want to leave a whole city for one person?

What kind of softy are you? You want to leave a city because a fvcking XX chromosome threatened you? What would you do if a man threatened you? Leave the country?

I'm considering attacking before I'm attacked

solasoulmusic:
I have a feeling there’s something your holding back but it’s all good slave to passion like how do you work for them or something.. did you borrow money and not pay? What would make a woman want to destroy your progress...I’ve separated from people for taking my dreams and bringing them to live yet fronting like they don’t like me they even have the nerve to invite me

What do I stand to gain by holding some things back?
I have been careful from the beginning. I haven't promised her marriage neither have I borrowed anything from her. Not even sex

NigerDeltan:
Get a police to arrest her so that her parent will be made to sign an undertaking before she is released

I don't deal with the police.

Bloooody:
The rapist you see in news don't go to church abi

I still doubt she is one. My only crime is that I said I'm not ready to marry

Bloooody:
I can see why this woman has you like this.
It's clear you're dumb.
Take your chances with the police with enough evidence and screw the church stop being chained by religion.

I'm not dumb. U will never know these things till u get caught in this evil cobweb.

dingbang:
SARS check point, aluu

Are u one? Can we talk on phone?

ikhileomotayo:
You say she is from that PH town, brother I fear for your life. Those people don't give empty threats and the level of cultism there is out of this world.

I know this because I worked there for 5 years after my youth service before being transferred to the HQ in Lagos.

Please if what you're saying is true just leave the town or relocate somewhere else for your own safety. Get a new phone number and don't let anyone know about your whereabouts

I have been coming to Port and leaving even from my primary sch days. Truly dey don't threaten in vain in portharcourt. Our landlord's younger brother was assassinated in our yard earlier this year.

Kirinwa:
At the beginning you qualified her as calm and gentle but with these characters exhited now I find it conflicting with those previous qualities.

That was what I thought before. I'm even surprised she turned out to be this way.

Hector09:
U don go date diobu girl, if u knw any chief in her area or any guy there go and report to them, cus most of these diobu girls are desperate to get married, i remember dating one of them back days, she was on my neck despite the fact that we are all frm ikwerre, she was sending guys to me, any we settle the matter

She is not from Diobu. Truly I was deceived. She is the only daughter of a wealthy man who even stay in GRA

MajorJeffery:
If she is an area girl, chances are that she's a cultist and may carry out her threat.
I suggest you talk to any soldier you may know. Those cultists don't get scared by police at all.

Do I stand any chance? U don't win cases empty handed.
I doubt she is a cultist. We met in the church

solasoulmusic:
Yeah things are tough but we are talking life here if something happens there will be no kicking up can you reason with her or is she unstable

I can't be a slave to passion. I'm just done with then.
The mum told me that two suitors are on ground. Let them choose one and Leave my life alone

solasoulmusic:
This is serious
I would get out of there and be prayerful love as crazy as it can be also comes with consciousness and remorse not everyone you see practices the faith you see them go to all sorts of odd things going on nowadays it is strange that even when angry someone would threaten your peace of mind but take it seriously.

Relocating won't be that easy owing to the condition of the country and things are about kicking up fine here

mezarddinny:
you need church board's notice to court? people are really enslaved under religion

That's the tradition at AG. The worry some part of it is that of u are interested in any girl and u dare meet that church board, u are expected to get married to her within 6 months.

dingbang:
Let's meet. I dey live inside SARS office.. Her matter don finish no worry.

On a serious note?
How do I get to meet u please

Gofwane:
Forget about all the noise she's making, she is only doing so because she knows you have a weak heart. Imagine, a lady is making you shake like a dice. Chaiii!

For me, violence is met by greater violence. If you do anyhow, you go see anyhow. Period!

It seems u don't know anything about portharcourt. She is from here bro

greatnaija01:
YOU WILL NOT BE PUNISHED IF YOU KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN TO THE DEEPER LIFE OR ASSEMBLIES OF GOD CHURCH.

by simply telling them your reason for giving the excuse was because you were not comfortable that the church was not aware.


you had a wrong foundation though in the relationship, the lady was clearly the HEAD, so if you must leave, then change your details.
,

I'm AG member. Which details are u talking about.

Learnstuffs:
Keep records of her threats. They will be invaluable for investigations. A signed undertaking and restraining order will be issued if you follow up the case with proofs of evidence.

For now be careful with her so that justice will not be served post mortem

I'm afraid of my life. How long more can I continue to suffer for what i didn't do

greatnaija01:
REPORT TO THE CHURCH WHERE YOU MET HER

CHANGE YOUR NUMBER

CHANGE YOUR ADDRESS both home and business

GET A NEW LINE AND REPLY HER AS THE DPO of police or soldiers to threaten her that if anything happens to you she would be picked, that all her messages have been screenshot and sent to media.

THE ABOVE SHOULD BE SENT TO HER MUM AS WELL.

POST HER PICS AND THE SCREENSHOT HERE.


BOOM, you are safe.... then leave PH this christmas for a while


stay in peace bro.

Would have reported to the church but we will be punished for courting without the church board 's notice.
I think her mum is even part of this so reporting to her is even out of the equation now.
I don't trust the police.
I'm thinking of leaving

Hello friends. Please I'm in a deep problem. I won't like to bore u with unnecessary details, so I will keep it short.

I came to the city of Portharcourt on a permanent basis roughly two years ago after service to look for job. Along the line, I met this cool, calm, gentle lady in the church. Things were going well but I noticed one attitude of hers along the line. She would abuse and threaten me at every misunderstanding. She is from this city.

Along the line, her mum insisted that I should get wine and make my intention towards her daughter clear and official and I shouldn't worry after that. They are very very well-to-do.

I told her that I'm not yet established here and needs to get my life together to start planning for marriage but she and her daughter were not in for that.

We broke off. The daughter has been on my neck since. She is threatening my life that I should leave portharcourt or she shouldn't be blamed for whatever becomes of me thereafter.

Moreover, I haven't taken anything from her - financially or even lovemaking. I haven't touched her. I took this as a joke till she stared frustrating all my efforts to secure job or even start a little business I'm doing now.

She traced me to my business place today and warned again. As if that was not enough, she sent me a deadly text this night that removed sleep from my eyes.

She has even dared me to involve the police and find out she is from this city.

Please, I need a helping hand. Help!

Eberechi24:
Hook her up with franchasng. She's his spec

Who is that

jorion:
U no even happy say na rich man pikin they insult u. Poor girl don look u up n down, whine mouth for you before. At leaest she shows you that attitude, a poor girl won't until ur pepper dry. Fear poor girls o. A girl like that would take you out, cook u meals, spoil u once in a while, she contributes generally. No try am with poor girls o. with poor girls, u give them gifts on their birthday day and also give them gifts on your own birth day. I won't lie to you, I hardly talk to poor girls, infact I am allergic to them. They hate me for being a snob, I hate them for being parasitic.

Na just Heaven go save us for this world

jorion:
I am sorry to burst your bubble, girls in general come with a lot of baggage, whether rich or poor. So your train of thought is invalid. What is more important is to what extent would those baggage affect you. And believe me, poor girls with baggage can't be tolerated

Shebwill be like, "that's not how it is done in my family;that is not how I was brought up...."

Before u know it, she is already abusing me. She once told me her dad's servants are richer than me. I suffered in her hand. Now she wants me back

Most girls from well - to-do families really have problems. That was why I aborted with this last one I wanted to settle down with

That South African god of man, right?

If it were to be in one African country without a president, they would have requested for 4 years to fulfill their promise

Olalan:
Lucky her......many parents wish they could do this but unfortunately don't have the resources to do it

Princess4ng:
oh really?

Princess4ng:
wow........ then maybe english is not my mother tongue................. it simply means I CANT SPEAK ENGLISH

I didn't say that o.
Moreover, English isn't a measure of intelligence. It is just 'another language.'

Princess4ng:
hope u understand what I wrote there.............. what I meant was that she was not supposed to do such a thing cause it wont change anything

Ur OP said something like, '... all because of a man... '
If I'm not mistaken, it doesn't add up to what u just wrote now.