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generationz:
nooooooo

Gkemz:
The both couples fine. I'm sure they'd make a beautiful home with lovely kids. Hml to them.

generationz:
They probably told her " you would grow to love him"
but with the look on her face, I don't see that happening soon

she was obviously pressured into marrying him either because of age or because he doles out cash to her family.

Later if she cheats the man will scream "After all I've done for her...." forgetting that love is a genuine heartfelt feeling that can't be bought by Money.

chrisifeanyi:
Anticipation of death is worse than death itself

ikennaf1:
Racism will not kill us. There are more whites helping blacks without anything to gain, than blacks helping whites without anything to gain. Heck blacks don't even help whites at all. I'm very sure you're a beneficiary of Bill Gates polio vaccination program across Africa.

get lost with your racism.

Biglittlelois:
Thank God she said "hoes" not "ladies" cos 99% ladies are independent

Kinggnicole:
Lol..were you expecting me to give the cliche Nigerian wife "pray that God touches his heart" advice?

I say it again! She has to leave if it gets to that point. From the write up above, her husband is outright disrespectful and obviously doesn't care about her needs and wants. Imagine telling her to stay and take care of the children so that nothing happens to them since she knows she's not fertile. How insensitive!

OP apologise to him again(if you need to because this is an issue of trust and is quite sensitive too) but tell him squarely that you are not quitting your job. Also give him some more time. If he's not budging , you know what to do.