₦airaland Forum

mydreams25:
Sir, I think you are looking at the issue emotionally and traditionally but its more than that because it has gotten to law(police) so look at it as a law case that doesn't dwel on emotions.

Ganjafama:
That woman will find it difficult getting another husband. Of course she will always have a man to screw her, but live with her under the same roof is a no no. The major mistake she made was suing her husband. If she had started pleading immediately after the man beat her, that would have made her appear remorseful.

Elder001:
His action isn't justifiable.

You shouldn't hit anybody whether man or woman unless you were hit first.

The woman didn't hit him she hit his mom.
The best he could've done is to sue her directly not reporting to Nigerian police.

Yes, reporting such matters to Nigerian police will never yield good results rather they'll mock him.

When I was in Nigeria I've seen a man who was battered by his wife get mocked by the police. Despite all the evidence, the police were calling him weak man and whatever.

Even when you sue, the Nigerian judiciary is very slow in term of delivering judgements.


If a woman or a man hit you first and you hit back, it is justifiable but if you weren't hit first 'you're on your own'.

Cc timbuktuo eketem joannasedley

cococandy:
Yea slide right into my email. Lmao

You’re going to help me financially . You need you own comedy act. Very funny.

cococandy:
financially? Lol. How did you conclude that I need financial help?

“Otherwise“ what does that even mean?

cococandy:
financially? Lol. How did you conclude that I need financial help?

“Otherwise“ what does that even mean?

eyinjuege:
Obviously, the people that own you are living in great regrets right now.
They have done the world a great disservice

dominique:
At what point did the woman say she was against her husband treating his father? I don't know why you're so pained over this matter that you're barking all over people's posts. It must upset you that there's one less woman out there bundled out of her home by her husband and his people. Go and take your anti-narcissistic and anti-psychotic pills, you'll be fine

cococandy:
interesting. How do you suppose you could help me?

MarieSucre:
See dem! Awon get out of my house but I'm only joking crew...

MarieSucre:
Uncle you better pay attention to your own attitude so that your own marriage can last. I already see you telling a couple of women to get out because of selfishness and pride and leaving alone in old age.

dominique:
If she built the house like the op's wife nko? Will you send her out of her own house like the wicked, selfish op? This "parent's house" threat you men love to churn out is getting old and lame.

eyinjuege:
Please go and use your antipsychotic medication.

Don't mention me again

cococandy:
You only receive what you give. Ain’t no one holding your destiny but you. If you support evil it will be your portion

BTW you Sound like a fvcking retarrd every time you call someone bitter because they don’t agree with you lopsided views of life.

cococandy:
May we never meet wicked people in our lives amen

May all the people supporting this in the name of being hypocritical marriage advocates experience the same type of loss and be denied the fruits of their hard work. I don’t know how people can blatantly root for unfairness and injustice

Ziggylady:
@op your wife said the same thing you are claiming to 'expose' ..You are really a very wicked,proud and self-centred fellow from your write-up....Your wife was wise enough to put her name on a project she clearly contributed more to,that is why your 'leave-my-house threats suddenly became a joke..

.Your subsequent insistance on her changing the names on the papers to yours ALONE smacks iof massive fraud

Grow up and go fix your martiage..stop trying to distabilise the life of your kids!

Saff:
When you try to explain yourself but still end up sounding ridiculous anyways. Your thread proves to us that your wife is right. Drop your ego, it won’t get you far in life.

Biggest downfall of a man is his ego. It blocks so many blessings, and it’s blocking yours. You’re blessed and you don’t even know it smh.

sisisioge:
You've got to learn to argue constructively dude...pls try. Cheers.

eyinjuege:
How you had the audacity to even mention your wife should leave a home she has labored for beggars belief.
She brought the business idea, she brought her own share of the money, you guys made money and shared it equally , you spent your own share on important matters too, she bought the land and starts building , you built your parents home which is also important, yet your mouth was not heavy enough to ask your wife to pack out?
You are a devil sir, no matter how you try to paint it. A destiny destroyer. Any body that decides not to see your evil ways will be treated same way you did your wife, you didn't want her to eat the fruit of her labor.
Spare me the BS of loving her, and just joking with her about that rubbish that came out of your mouth that she should pack out.
I wish you family the best sha, but i would still advice your wife to keep her property in her name. If her work allows a transfer to where you are based, she may follow you, otherwise let her face her work.
The children should stay where it makes sense for them to. If it would affect their schooling, let them stay back where they are. If they are old enough, they can equally stay with their father. Nothing wrong with that, their mother can always visit.

elektra:
Oga, you are funny oh.
So the woman is 99% responsible for the success of an institution in which the man is the head.
If you have a traditional marriage, then the MAN as the head, is responsible for the success of the home.
If you have more of a partnership in your marriage, then both the man AND woman are responsible for the home.
Do not shift your responsibility to your wife when it is convenient.
U lack understanding

sisisioge:
Thank you o my brother! It is funny how irrational people strongly believe in their rationality! And to think he has boldly stood in front of his people, her people and everyone they both knew claiming "my house"! Chai! I'm shocked

sisisioge:
Thank you o my brother! It is funny how irrational people strongly believe in their rationality! And to think he has boldly stood in front of his people, her people and everyone they both knew claiming "my house"! Chai! I'm shocked

sisisioge:


Your story corroborated hers sir! You guys are on exactly the same page! Summary, you wanted her to change the name on a property you just confirmed that she owns the lion share of to your name alone! Awwww...you are so smart!

Anyways, my understanding of the story as pulled from your story and hers says you were practically trying to defraud her!

1. She got the property (landed)
2. She did the paper works
3. She started building
4. You spent your own money on your parents's house
5. The remaining money, which you admitted isn't much was used to finish the house.

God is still in heaven, be fair in your dealings oga sir! Whew!

tabithababy:


Hope she has changed the name to yours now

Mtcheeeeew

The greatest mistake she made is that she supposed to have used her own part of the money to take care or build house for her parent as well

harriet412:
When in this part of the world, there's a special prize attached to being a virgin