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She looks like a squirrel in that first pic

Over 99 percent of Nigerian girls claim to have lost their Virginity through force/rape.







They can never say the truth

sarahade:
My brother if you want submission you have to submit also.
You can't have what you can't give I'm sure you don't listen to her also.

Any girl who isn't willing to submit to her man is deviating from nature. A man should love his lady. The lady should submit. That's how it goes

peerless0012:
You see, girls that will not respect you will not no matter how hard you make them see reason. In fact the more you try to change it the worst it becomes... it is just part of them and hard for them to change. It is a question of if you are willing to put up with them.. they will always promise to change, but the truth they can't.

Well, as for the first question you asked, to my knowledge I observed she always wanted to be in control, but I did not give her that chance which probably results in resentment.

U are right though

cris07:
we broke up cos we were both AS genotypically...

hmmm really disheartening...

It was the wisest thing to do. All d best

DaphneBr:
I did ask him and he said no.
I believed him cause he was introduced to me by a friend.

It wasn't ur fault den. Let him go

MorningStar233:
Well, he was in a serious relationship with someone else and he lied PRA PRA to me that he's single and focusing on his career, only for me to know after 5 months that he's dating someone that even spends time in his family house, and he even denied it telling me she's his sister, may God help us all...At times I wonder what I did to him to did serve such..

That was really bad. I hate lies in relationships

IamPlato:
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I Have Stopped It Actually

Good

CeeteeBoii:
Thanks for the advice

All the best

IamPlato:
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Why

Engaging and disengaging frequently. It might turn out to be normal to u with time

CeeteeBoii:
Seriously,that's my fear. I believe it could affect me when i'm ready to walk down the the aisle and i never wanna have any divorce record

U need to confront that 'fear '. Visit a psychologist or ur pastor if u go to church

IamPlato:
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I'm Loved By People Easily.


That Happened Last Year August. From Then Till Now, i Have Had 4 girls... I Know Its Not Right but I'm Just Trying To Say, I Dont Get freaked by Any Girl, neither Do I Go Head Over Hill

U need to change that mindset now.

peerless0012:
She was not that way from the beginning. She was all loving respectful. But it was all pretense. I got to know her true color when we spent time together.

Meanwhile, lots of guys were always on her neck for relationship. She felt was hot cakes and so can do whatever pleases her.

Also, she was a virgin and that might also added to her misbehavior somehow

Do u think k there were things u weren't doing right as well?
To add to mine, I asked for respect and submission, she saw it as slavery

DaphneBr:
I found out that he was married.

Didn't u ask from the start?

And rain go still beat u. No no for me

IamPlato:
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Actually I Deliberately Kissed The Girl

Look at where it landed u

peerless0012:
Not really. Actually, she threatened to leave my place saying I was talking to her anyhow. Meanwhile she is this type of person that will insult you anytime she is angry. But once you do the same to her, she explodes.

I just told her if she wanted to leave she should leave immediately. And that was it.

One can easily infer the relationship wasn't healthy ab-initio

CeeteeBoii:
After three months in a relationship, i get tired and bored. I stop calling or texting, stop showing the care i showed before. Always needing a break. I don't know what's wrong. i've tried to go much longer but i can't.

Dnt u think u need to be counselled lest it starts manifesting after u tie the knot?

IamPlato:
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Yes o... I Dont Even Know How...

On a serious note I don't understand what u mean by 'Playfully...'
All the same, u were to kiss her alone and peck others at most

peerless0012:
Op, mine was similar to yours coupled with the fact that she cannot manage her anger... she has got a big ego that she feels she owes no one any apology when she is wrong until she feels like


Before we broke up, we had a little disagreement and she angrily left my place, expecting me to call her back and apologize as I always do. But I did no such. I was tired already. so I never call her again and she too did not call me till today. That was how the relationship ended. After a month I blocked her from all social media.


Thank God I have found a better woman now.

Were u the cause of the misunderstanding?

CeeteeBoii:
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What's this for?

IamPlato:
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I Playfully Kissed Another Girl

She got to know?

It is alarming the rate at which relationships crash these days. As such, this tread will discuss the main reason for our failed relationships. This is necessary so that those who are still in it can learn a thing or two from your story and maybe, make it to the alter.


For me, everything was moving fine till she developed this attitude of verbally abusing me whenever there was an issue. At a time, we went for a date and talked about it at length that it won't happen again. We also agreed that whenever it does happen, it will be the end of our affair. She couldn't keep to that promise.

Let's hear from you friends...

These people ehn

And he has to convert first, smh

Yian1:
I don't have time for this... but if you don't grab the opportunity, you are still missing out in life.

Stop all these pretense. You can still learn a thing or two if u humble urself

Yian1:
Continue commenting every now and then on nairaland while your mates are having Success Testimony to share everyday.

Success testimonies indeed. Continue 'making them millionaires'. A millionaire - maker that is ashamed of his business.

Nwaohafia1:
Any man who raises his hands against any woman is not fit to be called a man.

What of any woman dat raises her hand on a man?

The best moment I had spent the with a stranger was in a dream. U need not know what happened but I was all good.

nobilis:
Interesting.
You nearly died.
When you were feeling the pains did you try to inform the doctor so that you could be given more of the anesthetic agent?
Because I'm 100% sure that no surgeon will keep going on with a surgical procedure when he knows his patient is not properly anesthetized or that the anesthesia is wearing off.

Yes, what the surgical staff in the picture did was very wrong and unprofessional.

But don't come and cook up your lies here just to score cheap social media points.

What do I stand to gain by telling lies?
How much will the likes add to my account?

I'm not trying to convince u whatsoever, I just stated a fact. I was operated on 24dec 2009.Dats all I owe u now. I was advised not to talk. I only made gestures which he ignored.
I haven't even said all I passed through there. Wen he came back, the practicing nurses there tried to take a picture of me in my uncladness and I raised up my hand. The surgeon scolded dem.

Sarkin:
Useless PDP members are always lawless.
Imagine a world without satanic cult (PDP).
Useless ipob party
PDP is the problem of earth...
Saraki is a small boy, he shall be disgraced.

I feel ur pains bro.. Amen sure u dnt get heart attack come 2019