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Battery1:
Are u referin to urself

Battery1:
Moderators are partial, they hv some pple dey take dia posts to fp, dis post deserves to be on fp.

zick19:
Bt my own anger dey pass deaf and dumb's own ooo..... If i'm angry lyk dis, i no dey hear anytin again nd i can wat i'm nt supposed to say sef, bt na once in a blue moon i dey vex sha..... Ask my babe mirexxx, let her testify to it

cutieberie1:
nyc post @ richard6

Battery1:
Dis guy!

brainchild78:
OP the correct is 'Detect' n not 'Dictate'. Cheers

Zohan:
Number 6. "not good" at sending unclad pics?
so you re tryna say that a good gurl sends atall buh dunno where to snap

Franca2:
Gossshhh...so touchy. Dis guy sounds romantic, i hope u are like dat for real?

obongproff:
Good girls, bad girls, day all have dia benefits. Good girls are dependable and often reliable. But one tin I know, bad girls give beta sex dan good girls. With a good girl ur sure of one tin, sex will be damn boring

LaPink:
So she should sit in her house, not go out and Develop herself? Doesn't make sense to me.

Wisdytech:
Good one OP! More Wisdom to your BRAIN. But some point are too real like point number 2. Who had seen it too?

ndcide:
@op is on point. I've been looking for such ladies here in Lagos. I no see.

I'm serious. Where can we find them. I almost entered one chance even from my denomination.

I don't like hypocrisy too.

obongproff:
Good girls, bad girls, day all have dia uses. Good girls are dependable and often reliable. But one tin I know, bad girls give beta sex dan good girls. With a good girl ur sure of one tin, sex will be damn boring

cutieberie1:
that's just me

Kaycee7:
I'ld probably find such a girl BORING.

Harry3:
Dis my gf sef. Havin gone tru dis post, i can say dat my gf is a very bad girl cus she scored 1/11.
1. She is neva at home.
2. She has soooooo many useless frnds.
3. She is a party freak.
4. Virgin for where?
5. We sex chat
6. We exchange o!
7. D way she answers calls, sometimes i wonder if she is one of mtn customers.
8. I think she doesnt attend much weddings for now.
9. Contendedness...if i hear she is.
10. She visits almost every week whereas she is not yet in school, i wonder wat she tells her parents.
11. She even has a phone lock.

I want a good girl pls.

asadike:
Op, u are a jealous fellow jor.

If truly you are dating a girl and its obvious and confirmed that she is your girl friend and loves you and no other person, there are some things you will use to know if yes..she is a good girl and will be a good girl indeed.

1. ALWAYS AT HOME:
If your girl friend is not yet in school, maybe she is a graduate and has not gotten a job, one thing to use to know if she is or will be a good girl is whenever you call her and ask her where she is and she is always at home so long she doesnt lie to you about it, then there is possibility that she will be a good girl. There is 90% possibility of a girl who is always going out to visit friends not to be a good girl or be cheating on you because the more she goes out, the more she gets more chykers and the more she gets tempted to do what she may not have done if she is in the house.

2. HAVING FEW FRIENDS:
The fewer friends a girl keeps, the less she falls into temptations. A girl who has more plenty of friends is more vulnerable to temptations and more tendency of being a bad girl than a girl who has less plenty of friends. The fewer your friends, the lesser the new habits or characters you learn from friends. Having plenty friends will only expose you to a lot of good and bad things but more of bad things because you will always try to live upto expectations and stil keep your friends. When I mean friends here, I mean close friends and not just casual friends.

3. ALWAYS ATTENDING CHURCH FELLOWSHIPS:
I know there are a lot of bad girls that stil find out time to attend church fellowships, i also know that attending church fellowships doesnt make someone a good person but more of the good girls attend church fellowships while more of the bad girls attend parties.

4. BEING A VIRGIN:
Virginity is not a sign or a criterion that someone is or will be a good girl, we all know that. There are some virgins that are worse that the non-virgins and there are virgins that would have done worse things than those who are not virgins have done if they were not virgins or will stil do worse things more than the non-virgins when they will lose their virginity. But the truth is...someone who lost her virginity at the age of 16, 17 or 18 willing not by force or by raping is likely to be a worse girl than someone who is stil a virgin at the age of 20, 21, 22 and so on especially if both are not born again types. A girl who passes secondary school level and all the life after secondary school, passes jamb level, enters university and stil keeps her virginity despite all the temptations and life in the university and prbably graduates as a virgin is likely to be a good girl.

5. AVOIDS SEX CHATS:
When your girl friend (truly your girl friend) avoids sex chats with you or doesnt like it, its likely to be a better girl than that your girl friend who so much loves sex chats.

6. NOT GOOD IN SENDING UNCLAD PICTURES:
There are some girls that no matter the kind of love she has for you, she hadly sends you her nude pictures. Its not that she doesnt trust you, its just that she doesnt like it, it makes her feel she is dirty or a bad girl and it disgusts her. You cant compare such a girl with the one that easily sends her nude pictures to her boy friend even when the boy friend doesnt even ask all in the name of love.

7. NOT ALWAYS ON PHONE:
Whenever you call your girl friend on phone and her number is always on waiting call or busy, not just for 2 or 3 minutes but mostly 20 minutes, 30 minutes and this doesnt happen once in a while but almost all the time, I think you should be careful with such a girl. Moreso, when you check her phone logs, you will see Jackson2, Don5, Emmy6, Mike PH, Joe Lag, Sam2, Chike, Smith, Sunday5, etc when she is not selling male wears, you dont need anybody to tell you that such girl has gone far from being a good girl. But whenever you call your girl friend and she answers immediately, check her phone logs and you see Dad, Mum, Bro Mike, Sis Jane, Baby (You), Amaka (her god friend), Bro James, etc, I think its better.

8. HARDLY ON THE FLOWER GIRLS CREW:
You hardly hear her or you notice that she is among the flower girls except her sister's own or cousin's own. Unlike some girls that every 2 weeks, she must attend a weeding or be among the flower girls in every wedding she attends; its not as if she getting old but does that because she has so many friends and sometimes wants to get chykers. Such a girl shouldnt be seen as a good girl friend.

9. CONTENTEDNESS:
There is a girl that if you see the kind of clothes she puts on, the kind of PHONES she uses which you know that you or her parents or brothers or sisters cant just buy for her, the way she tries to get things which are beyond her reach and the hungry for such things, you dont need anybody to tell you that such a girl can go any length to get the money to acquire such things and such a girl is not among the good girls. But when your girl friend is contented with the little she gets from her parents, from you, from the brothers or sisters, she is ok with that tecno or small blackberry or iphone you bought for her and also the little gifts you buy for her, just know that she is a good girl.

10. LESS TRAVELLING OR VISITING:
When you are dating a girl who is not yet in school or or a girl who is a graduate and she finds it difficult visiting you regularly, not that she doesnt love or miss you or doesnt want to come see you or that there is no lie to tell for her to come see you but because she is not good in telling lies to the parents or not good in leaving her parents house so easily, kindly understand that its her nature as a good girl and nothing else. Unlike that girl you call your girl friend that has million reasons to lie to her parents to leave her parents house and can say it whenever she wants, visits and goes back to her parents house whenever she wants. Some parents dont even ask some of their daughters again where are they going, they may only ask when are you coming back.

11. NOT TOO CONSCIOUS OF HER PHONE:
There is a girl that whenever she comes visit or to see you, her phone doesnt leave her sight, going to the toilet, bathroom, or even the kitchen, the phone goes with her. If by mistake you touch the phone, she will try to delete somethings or be so conscious to watch what you want to do with the phone. If you eventually try to go to message inbox or the photos, she will immediately grab the phone from you. She is not the type that can forget her phone in your place or give you her phone for hours, she will just be so anxious and unrelaxed because you are with her phone.
The good one doesnt have any problem with you touching her phone or even going through it, sometimes she can even leave her phone with you and come to collect it later because she is sincere and transparent.

These are some of the qualities I think you can use to know if your girl friend is a good girl or a bad one.

battery:
I think there shld be "crazy section" made for pple like u, u jst called urself a mad man. Dey mad dey go frm thread to thread, its a free world.

zick19:
How did u knw he is transgender if u re nt also transgender??

alberto2k:
How did u come up with all these

Are u a transgendered

zeefa:
Please, I need a serious advise from people in the house. I really don't know what to say to my mother in-law, may be to beg her or ignored as if nothing happen.

Let me give you a little summary of what happened to me.

My wife just put to bed and the whole loads of work have been much for her that she called on her friend who just graduated from the university to come and stay with us so that she could help with little work at home.

We didn't have problem with her because it will save her from paying bills whereas we have more space in our own house for her to occupy free of charge without having to pay any bills.

She was so hard-working and even without telling her,she knows what to do at the right time. She does all the cooking for us and most time before I get home from work, she calls me to ask what I would love to have for dinner which she will gladly organise.

Gradually, we get little bit close and talk freely to each other without having to define our boundaries.

Wumi is a dark skinned chobby lady with a 42DD size (please don't ask me how I got to know her size). And am sure those that have the picture of sizes on their brain will understand my point. It was tempting.

It all started when I got home and saw her cooking with one nasty top showing off her assets. She caught my attention and smiled and I returned my gesture given her a soft smile too and that was how the whole madness started.

My mother in-law just came from nigeria few days ago to help us as well. But left for me, I was enjoying the new atmosphere with Wumi in our house.

Just yesterday the nasty incident happened. Mama caught me in d washroom kissing and touching wumi . Meanwhile, my wife went for Dr appointment for our son with cold.

Right now, I'm afraid because mama didn't say anything and I don't know how to convince her as well.

Wumi is not comfortable at home again and I can't look into ma ma's face anymore.

The funny thing is that mama didn't discuss what she saw with my wife because I knew if my wife heard, in fact, I wont be on nairaland now to narrate the story of my life.

Please, do I call mama and beg her? Or should I just ask my wife to allow her (wumi) go since mama is around. ?

I'm really confused here because I can't not face or talk to Mama freely at home anymore.

Please what do I do?

Nogen:
Hope they got Kerry an interpreter because he won't understand a word that comes out of his mouth. As a Nigerian, I'm still struggling to understand the meaning of kworupsion. Searched all my dictionaries and encyclopedias in futility.