₦airaland Forum

Mekenz: gud mornin to u,am newly admitted,in d department of buildin,plz cn u giv me some info/clues,on wot to expect/does/dnt in dis my 100level,atleast frm a professional angle,n frm ur own experience,cus am so optimistic,i dnt wnt to a mistake,tanks

@Mekenz, I studied Building at UNIZIK and graduated in 2009. It's an interesting course and you will enjoy it. However, the Building profession us more practical than theoretical. Read journals and get loads of practical experiences, you'll be fine.

Really sad but what kinda life do you want for the unborn? Do you want to deny the unborn what family means? Admitted your Bra'h has made a mistake and he wonna correct it, support him with prayers.

Truly inspiring.

ijbeauty: Nice one my broda... May God bless ur union.

.
.
I knw one of des saturdays shall be my day

We can make ours next Saturday if you don't mind

What's [/s]Wizpikin[s] Wizkid in Amsterdam to do? To go smoke igbo ni? Shildren of nawadays sef

Yerima things!

gloriana: Tanx 4 d tips. It jst hapend 2 me recently n its kilin me. Som1 cald me 4rm NL n ws askin about 1 of my post on nairald. We got talkin n our hearts conected. Dow he told me he is marid,his voice alone maks my heart bit very fast n he is nt helpin matas as he cals me 4 long hrs n sayin tins dat maks me hapy. Dow av tld him 2 4get abt it cos i dnt involv myslf wit marid men. It ws painful bt i had 2 end it

Its a good thing you had to end it but if I'm to advise you, I'll say you remove your phone number from your profile, your identity could be stolen & may be used to conduct attack against you. Cheers!

Realising you like someone who is ‘out of reach’ can be really hard to accept, but there are some simple steps to help you move on

Keep away
When you like someone, you just want to be near them; it’s basic common sense. Normally, common sense is a good thing, but in this case; not so much. In keeping with the ‘you’ve got to be cruel to be kind’ school of thought, if there is someone you really fancy but you know you can never date, do everything you can to keep out of their way. This can be hard if the object of your desire is integrated in your daily life, but there are still ways to avoid them: if it’s your workmate, you might still see them around the office, but duck out of Friday evening drinks for a while; if it’s a friend’s partner, avoid smaller gatherings with them and only say yes to bigger group outings; if it’s a housemate, keep yourself busy and out of the house by starting a new hobby. It’s not going to be easy, but remember the old adage that out of sight does, eventually, mean out of mind.

See their faults
If forgetting this forbidden person is too impossible, why not do the opposite and really focus on them instead. It might sound strange, but bear with it. If you sit down with a friend/piece of paper and start listing all their annoying habits – or what you may end up finding annoying if you actually started dating - you might be surprised how quickly their perfect sheen wears off. Because from a distance, it is very easy to believe someone is perfect; but when you get a bit closer to the truth, they’re probably very far from it.

See their qualities
This ‘negative’ hunting might not pay off when you’re in the throes of a true crush, but don’t despair, you can still enjoy the benefits of a list. Write down all the good things you like about this person. It’s likely that these pros will include a medley of funny, good-looking, clever, kind, generous, ambitious etc etc. All very admirable qualities – but not very exclusive ones. The next time you are out in a bar, or at a party, or browsing through online dating, have a look around and remember that while your crush has many great character traits – so do many other people.

Date someone else
Going on a date ‘just for the sake of it’ is not the nicest idea for you, or for them. Sometimes though, it is necessary, and when you’re trying to forget your feelings for someone else is one of those occasions. Because while you might feel there is no one you want but this person, you might be pleasantly surprised with how much you actually enjoy a date with someone else. They don’t have to be ‘the One’ – though of course, they might be… - but just getting ‘back in the game’ is a great way to have an ego-boost, a nice evening out, and a reminder that there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Talk to someone
If you know that admitting your feelings for someone would lead to endless upset and trouble, it can feel like you’re carrying a huge dirty secret around, and that you’re somehow a ‘bad’ person. Please don’t think that way, because you have done nothing wrong other than fall for someone – someone you have already accepted you probably can’t have. To ease your guilt, tell a good and non-judgmental friend how you’re feeling. Sharing your ‘secret’ will be a massive weight off your shoulders, and without that dark cloud looming over you, you should be able to clearly see how you can move on.

Talk to them
If you really can’t contain your feelings for someone ‘out of reach’, and liking them is making you life unbearable, then bite the bullet and tell them. Not to see if they feel the same way – if they are with someone else, or there’s a no-colleague dating rule or whatever the obstacle is – their feelings are almost irrelevant. But if you open up to them, you can at least ask them to amend their behaviour – tell them you don’t want them to contact you as regularly as they have been, and you don’t want them to tell you all about the troubles they might be having with their partner. If you clearly let them know you don’t want to play this game anymore, you might end up winning the battle.

Source: http://dating.uk.msn.com/

Jes wasted my time going through the pages! Except for @Cathaliya, shey boys no dey toast the remaining gals ni? Even if they don't, can't you think up some nice lines? Na wa to una.

AnodaIT: On Sundays, they be like . .

Why'd you have to upload pictures of innocent girls who have done nothing to you on NL? Are you that daft?

You say what??

https://farm3.static.flickr.com/2554/3859271924_24af790d82_o.gif

papiforreal: im 200 level quantity survey student wantchange to building...i need advse from the 2 professinals pls.

Why'd you wonna change? Qty Surveying is a very interesting course. And here in the UK, it's hot cake! I'll advise you stick with it & do a professional course in project management.

1daboi: Just wanna know why you missed church today. Mine is due to the rain

What if you had an examination today? Will you forget the examination because it rained?

Is that a white guy among the graduates in the 3rd picture?

Is that the runway?

@coolsammy: you're being too soft and that's why she's taking you for granted. Now is the time to go hard. Lemme ask you: has she ever told you she loves you? How long did you guys court? She prolly never loved you as a woman does not set out to make her love unhappy.

My advice: love your kids the more, treat her like dirt & she'll stick to you like mud.

Olofofo! Urinals like that are provided by the council & you'll see them located at strategic spots especially at weekends

PapaBrowne: Let me burst your lame self.
Only those that don't understand the maneuverings of Google would pull the stupid stunt you tried to pull.
The picture you posted as your living room is a serviced apartment in Sydney, Australia.
You stole it from this blog: http://sydservicedapartments.net/2012/02/17/a-change-for-the-better-in-sydney-accommodation/

You've been busted. . I'm pretty sure you live somewhere in Iyana Ipaja in one of those run down slums. Maybe not. But that house you posted is not your house even if I choose to believe you truly live in Australia.

For those that care to know, to bust guys like these, simply follow the simple steps:
Right Click on the picture and click "copy Image URL"(Chrome) or "Copy Link Location"(Firefox)
Go to www.images.google.com . In the search bar, you'd see a small camera at the right end of the bar.
Paste the image Url in the bar that opens and click "search by image". It would expose the original source of any picture.

So what's your point? Go through the post @bobosydney's profile and you'll see he's been living in Australia for about 10 years!

@Op: Progress is a slow process. We'll get there someday

Very unprofessional and totally unacceptable! What's it gonna cost to put up a notice on their website saying the office will be closed for some days? Nothing!

So we still got good Naija girls in the UK... I've got hope

@Op: @23 and without a bf I know how it feels; having lunch alone, going for shopping/movies alone, coming back from work late & nobody to gist with, just your teddy bear... Jes take it easy & you'll meet the right one. I was at NEXT the other day & saw a portrait with the caption: good things come to those who wait!

I know it's pretty difficult & sometimes you'll be tempted to compromise but jes remember this: when you wait on God no time is lost, so keep waiting! I wish you the best as you wait.

I know of a drug & it's called vitamin C.

You want a good advice? Do as @demelza said & know if she's truly pregnant. And if she is, congratulations DADDY & keep the baby. You don't wonna be a murderer now, do you?

Shame! @GEJ (PhD): if you've got balls, act like one & control this disgrace you call a wife.

Very funny. I don't know why you guys are taking @mobuch serious, I guess he's just joking

nyere84: atleast, be bold and post ur gf, sis or even ur own pics.

As for dose talking about calling my bf yeye, you guys shld take a chill pill..., is just my loving way of saying.., he is great.

So yeye is synonymous with great? I hear you Seun is a yeye man

obowunmi: Be objective. The boy was accused of kidnapping? Of all the street kids why him?

I'm not for jungle justice but poor people should not be allowed to have children (Bills Gates is fervently working towards this)

Also, deal with root causes... Poverty ridden and jobless Nigerians are angry people. They are heartless because they have nothing to loose. Nigeria's judicial system is dead. The police is dead. I mean deal with root causes, don't bother the world with your sentiments.


Be objective.

And how do you intend to achieve that? castrating them?

Lord have mercy! What's happening to my dear country? May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen

Jimbadly: You mean flip flop?

Mumu! Swear say you no know wetin be slippers. I too know

johnstar: STF up jawe, u juz dey show ur self, knw b der hood 'em dey ni...... Otondo

Na who you dey tell to STF up? You no know your senior again shey? I no blame you, na Seun wey allow slowpoke like you for NL

IAMBREEZY: and who told u the kids don't hv flip flop

He get na im he no wear am

Will bullets not go through his body?

Those ears! By d way, your hands in d first picture.., you be altar boy?

So Wizkid no fit buy his nephew common £2 slippers from Primark?

Lol. Nice one op