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Romance / Re: Did I Mess Up? Pls I Need Your Advice. by richie9093(m): 11:20pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
Bamz555: Did you read the part about me rejecting her first? do you even know what friendzone means? |
Romance / Re: Did I Mess Up? Pls I Need Your Advice. by richie9093(m): 11:09pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
chocolateme: Spot on. Thanks for this advice. I want to talk to her and let her know things are fine. She's one of the best things a man could ask for and I dont want to lose her because shes a very good friend too. |
Romance / Re: Did I Mess Up? Pls I Need Your Advice. by richie9093(m): 10:51pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
obiorathesubtle: Sex? I never even kiss am. I tried to keep it as platonic as possible. When we are walking she would put my arms on her waist, I would remove it and place it on her shoulders. I guess I took her for granted and its too late to make up for that. Based on what people have been saying, I can just be there for her as a good friend. |
Romance / Re: Did I Mess Up? Pls I Need Your Advice. by richie9093(m): 10:46pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
osesology: lool. bros, no be so. The matter is a very complex matter. I really dont want to make a meal out of this matter and quiclly forget about it in a week or so. |
Romance / Re: Did I Mess Up? Pls I Need Your Advice. by richie9093(m): 10:43pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
JumpingChicken: tbh, I dont know. thats why I'm not even angry she is with the guy. I'm just afraid things will be strenuous especially after the huge fight we just had. |
Romance / Re: Did I Mess Up? Pls I Need Your Advice. by richie9093(m): 10:41pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
hertz9te:How can I be friendzoned if I didnt plan in dating her in the first place? smh |
Romance / Did I Mess Up? Pls I Need Your Advice. by richie9093(m): 10:24pm On Nov 20, 2015 |
There's this girl who has been my very close friend for the past two years (I spoke about her in one other thread I opened up sometime ago). While I've been in other relationships, she's stuck around with me and vice versa. I make her happy in many ways and so does she. I never had any intention of dating her. Sometime in February (while I was In my last relationship) she told me she loved me and I told her never to speak of it again because obviously I didnt feel the same way about her and I didnt want to tell her that outrightly. Now to the bane of this tale. Ive been single for the past 4 months and so has she. We've been there for each other but not dating though. Last month she went for a beach party and met this other guy who happens to be friends with my close friends too. Unfortunately I started having feelings for this girl this past month too (I didnt know about this new guy). I told her how I felt about her and she asked me why I was just telling her, that "its too late. Im sorry". Now I have put that thought out of my mind. This weekend me and her had a huge fight (for other reasons) and out of anger she told me she was already "dating this guy", "I can go and die" etc etc. We made up yesterday and I asked her why she didnt tell me sooner, she said it was because she didnt want to hurt me. Now I'm sad and heartbroken, not because she's dating this guy but because I found out during a fight. I dont want to be in a relationship with her or anyone for that matter. But I still need her in my life because talking to her makes me happy and vice versa too. Can the great and ever lenient minds of Nairaland tell me what to do? You fit yab me oo. Its still one love. I forgot to add earlier on. its should also be noted that my friends told me the guy said he just wants to shag her and has no "real" intentions of dating her. I didnt tell her because I dont interfere in anyway sorry for leaving that part out |
Politics / Re: The Sani Abacha's In New Photo by richie9093(m): 12:26pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Dragonking: Come on. are you going to keep punishing them for the sins of their father? stop this pragmatic victimization. we wont go anywhere with this kind of thinking. 1 Like 1 Share |
Nairaland / General / Re: The Lady Behind This Moniker She Is As Fake As Hell (juliaann) by richie9093(m): 12:35am On Nov 06, 2015 |
nickkylawve: your dp looks nice. b bs |
Nairaland / General / Re: The Lady Behind This Moniker She Is As Fake As Hell (juliaann) by richie9093(m): 12:33am On Nov 06, 2015 |
nickkylawve: your dp looks nice. b b's |
Romance / Re: Who Am I To Judge An Homosexual? by richie9093(m): 1:47am On Nov 05, 2015 |
Nina4u: I agree with everything you just said except the president"s part. The president doesnt pass the law, the Senate does. I cant say Im homophobic but I dont just get the idea behind it because my sister, toto sweet gaan. Even the smell dey peperi me. Moving on, using the bible to speak against homosexuality is Wrong because the bible contradicts itself in so many ways (book of Leviticus for example). A more reasonable argument would be that its against Nature and I would totally agree with you becuase even two bulls cant be seen sleeping with each other. Its unethical. All in all, I dont hate homosexuals but my own be say make Gaybriel no carry him own come my side. |
Romance / Re: Shld I Stay Or I Quit by richie9093(m): 2:16pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
He's probably cheating on you because of your bad grammar. I would too if you type this horribly. Reading what you wrote up there gave me headache |
Celebrities / Re: Annie Idibia Breast Cancer Inspired Photo Shoot by richie9093(m): 2:49pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Werrin be this? Jisos!!!!!!! |
Romance / Re: Girlfriend And Female Best Friend Home Together Right Now by richie9093(m): 1:17am On Oct 27, 2015 |
WebSurfer: Op, you are not a serious person. I had a situation similar to yours, my ex thought I had an affair with this close female friend of mine. we broke up (for apparent reasons other than this), I decided to stick with this friend to help me. We have been close friends for almost 2 years and I finally told her how I felt about her last night. her response was "why are you just telling me this?" a guy cant be a best friends with a girl or vice versa. emotions will take over sooner or later. if you love your gf, cut the strings with your best friend 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: The Fabulous Life Of Kcee’s Brother E-money And How He Spends His Millions(pics by richie9093(m): 7:23pm On Oct 26, 2015 |
jonhemma11: looool. If i hear. How much houses him dey sell for him "estate"? How many people dey buy the albums of him label mates? We all know what he's pushing. All these ones na just camouflage 10 Likes |
Romance / Re: Guys Do Say Some Girls Are So Useless And silly, I Just Get To Know Now.. by richie9093(m): 12:07am On Oct 22, 2015 |
Why you sef go give the number of your babe to another guy? At that first instance when the guy ask, you suppose clear am. Na you give your guy greenlight. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Asked My Friend Out, Now Things Are Weird Between Us by richie9093(m): 11:58pm On Oct 18, 2015 |
Ramos16: Wetin happen? And a very good friend of mine complain i dont call her for like 2-3 days. I had better make that move. |
Romance / Re: I'm Out Of The Loop Here. I Need Your Help, Guys!!! by richie9093(m): 10:39pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Thanks everyone for your replies. New thoughts are also welcomed. |
Romance / Re: I'm Out Of The Loop Here. I Need Your Help, Guys!!! by richie9093(m): 10:38pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Estharfabian: I guess I'll just have to tell her then. What Have i got to lose? |
Romance / Re: I'm Out Of The Loop Here. I Need Your Help, Guys!!! by richie9093(m): 12:59pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
naijaboiy: How? wetin people these days dey do? |
Romance / Re: I'm Out Of The Loop Here. I Need Your Help, Guys!!! by richie9093(m): 12:56pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Cutehector: I get what youre saying and your making a valid point but ypure mixing things up. she told me she loved me when I was IN a relationship and NOT when I was recovering from my ex. |
Romance / Re: I'm Out Of The Loop Here. I Need Your Help, Guys!!! by richie9093(m): 12:28pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Dojupyo: I'm beginning to accept that fact and i'm giving her space. She thinks I'm treating her like shit anytime she sees me starts frowning and looks away. I dont want her to hate me. SHould I tell her whats happening? WHat do you think? |
Romance / Re: I'm Out Of The Loop Here. I Need Your Help, Guys!!! by richie9093(m): 12:28pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Dojupyo: I'm beginning to accept that fact and i'm giving her space. She thinks I'm treating her like shit anytime she sees me starts frowning and looks away. I dont want her to hate me. SHould I tell her whats happning? WHat do you think? |
Romance / Re: I'm Out Of The Loop Here. I Need Your Help, Guys!!! by richie9093(m): 12:12pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Cutehector: Bros, if you do everything for one girl and she carry you like a oich of salt while youre still hoping she will change. If she doesnt believe me you will be scarred. Back to the matter it may seem like I have blown my chance with this current girl but she doesnt know the reason why I'm treating her like shit. This is tough. I dont want her to hate me. |
Romance / I'm Out Of The Loop Here. I Need Your Help, Guys!!! by richie9093(m): 12:01pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
First of all (dont go down low), I must say any comment/reply will be welcomed but still try to keep it civil (abeg). This may be a bit looong. Sorry. I start here - There is this babe whom ive been close friends for about 22 months now (We became friends when i was in my last relationship). She's in 300L while I'm in my finals. When i was having issues with the drama my ex was giving me, I fell into depression. This babe helped me get out of this. She gave me advices, stuck with me and made me know that my ex was just bad pick in a basket of many good fruits Over time, me and this babe have grown into being close friends to the extent that everyone in the faculty thinks we are dating (even her bestfriend and roomies too). I had to clear anyone who asked me that she wasnt my girlfriend (she didnt really like that fact). To the crux of the matter- In February this year, she asked me if I loved her because she did (N.B i was still in a relationship), I didnt tell her "NO" out-rightly; i played it cool and i told her never to let us speak of that matter again. Recently (over the past month) I have been acting strange towards her because I'm starting to develop feelings for her. I was emotionally scarred in my last relationship which made me vow to myself not to fall for any woman again (and i thought I was serious about this). I stopped calling/texting her and when she calls to ask whats wrong, I keep giving excuses about family isssues, school issues etc. It should also be noted that there's this guy that has been flirting with her (found out from my friends who are in his dept) of which she hasnt told me about which is weird because she tells me everything and it seems she likes this guy too. I really really really like this girl, I know she feels the same way about me.. I need you people to advice me on what to do; Should i tell her how I've been feeling about her recently feel or should I keep feeling bad/poignant and lose her to this guy because I've missed my chance with her already? Please folks, Help a brother out. Thinking wan kill me. |
Romance / Re: .......am I A Fool To Her by richie9093(m): 1:11am On Oct 14, 2015 |
ENIGMA24: And why wont i quote you after you quote me first? So its your own comment that makes sense. I am telling him the truth. The only reason his friends called him a fool first was because maybe the girl wasnt showing signs of a virgin. If she was showing signs that she was a virgin (dressing, talking etc) then believe me that convo wouldnt have come up between him and his Friends [size=20pt]Guy, if you no get any better thing say abeg go self-service with your hands instead of using them to quote me.[/size] |
Romance / Re: .......am I A Fool To Her by richie9093(m): 12:23am On Oct 14, 2015 |
LOOL @op[size=16pt] You are a FOOOL [/size] Another man (men) is shining her Congo and you're doing perfect gentleman. I wont be surprised if she decides to hand Invitation card to her wedding tomorrow. |
Romance / Re: A Female Friend Told Me This Today by richie9093(m): 4:51pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Nnemuka: hahaha come gimme your yansh na make i chop am. e big reach the one way dey my dp? |
Romance / Re: A Female Friend Told Me This Today by richie9093(m): 1:24pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Nnemuka: Loool I say amen to your prayers and If I'm not dead by the time I'm 40 abeg come and kill me. stupid witch. |
Romance / Re: A Female Friend Told Me This Today by richie9093(m): 12:54pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Nnemuka: loool somebody is pained. Biological clock is ticking tick-tock. From 32 to 35. from 35 to 39 just like the story of the assistant choir-mistress in my church, nobody wan marry am again because her age-group are married with kids. Keep denying reality/truth. Being 32 and single as a woman is bad. 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: 7 characteristics of Non Academic Students On Campus.......(photo) by richie9093(m): 11:39pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
greatiyk4u: *sigh* na work you wan gimme. Note the bolded words from your text. Non academic students in dis content re d "self acclaimed n self admitted" students of a tertiary institution.....they re simply dos who claim 2 be undergraduates of an institution wtout actually securing any admission in d institution.....[b]dey [/b]re usually dia own VC,dean of faculty,HOD, lecturers......lolz Non academic students comprises of both male n female gender but experience has shown dat dey re more among d female folks....dis kind of situation can be caused by rustication,frustration,low self esteem n bogus ego resulting 4rm lack of patience 2 wait 4 God's time...... Dey re mostly found in public skuls n incase u ve never had d experience of d existence of dez group of students; dis thread will be a guild 2 easily spotting dem @ a look Dow dis write-up may be exaggerated,u shld by dis thread learn dat not all d students who wile away dia time in skul re not serious as most of dem re actually NON ACaDEMIC STUDENTS Now let's get down 2 business............. |
Romance / Re: A Female Friend Told Me This Today by richie9093(m): 11:30pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
LookmanTalk: why do people in this country especially on this forum through the word "mature" around loosely? Maturity doesn't come with age. Just because shes in her late 20s/early 30s doesn't mean shes matured. She has a baby brain. SHE IS IN NO WAY MATURED BASED ON WHAT YOU'VE JUST TOLD US. Why did she choose to marry/date him at first if she wasn't physically attracted to him? if she cant brand him off as her partner why did she choose to go into a relationship with him in the first place, eh? Please stop calling every old person "mature". Those words are not relatable i.e Old =/= Mature. If she's having second thoughts, my advice to her would be to just call it off. Its better to be safe than sorry so she wont live the rest of her life being miserable. 28 Likes |
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