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Family / Re: Why You Should Stop Giving Your Husband And His Guest Special Food And Big Meat. by Richy4(m): 12:24pm On Mar 11, 2023
The information is way too much... πŸ€­πŸ™‰
Is the guy in Nigeria?.. We have to radio our Bro code chairman world wide in Berlin 🐢...
He will leave the association or pay a heavy fine with serious undertaken never to repeat this again 🀭

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Family / Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Richy4(m): 11:40am On Mar 11, 2023
Klass99:


This wedding vows feel like a trap to keep people shackled to self induced nonsense and stupidity. Who came up with these vows, abeg? He needs to be shot, I know it could have only been a man who would come up with such vows to effectively checkmate women.

For better or worse, should not include nonsense like wilfull and deliberate gambling, excessive drinking, sexual promiscuity etc. Our choices create our circumstances, our circumstances are created by our choices.

This man knows what he is doing, men like him always know what they are doing. There is nothing spiritual about this, neither is it a mental health issue. What is it with us and blaming our poor life choices, on mental health issues or the spiritual sef?

When did we become so weak and incompetent to the point of constantly making excuses for ourselves and others? I am just thinking out loud, because I saw a thread on gambling where a self confessed gambler said the addiction is spiritual undecided. No sir, it is not spiritual you made a choice that led to a downward spiral.......you made the choice, not the devil.

Why is it so hard for people to grasp this?
Klass, when it comes to wedding vows nowadays, people creates their own stuffs..
I am not a huge fan of attending weddings but the ones I have attended, certain things that I was familiar with back home were not there....

I guess people have started putting in certain things that they can keep up with..and silently eliminate the ones they can't cope...

Gambling is a big addiction... I fear for the young ladies that will be marrying the young men that plays sports bet... That's how it starts... It will start from genesis, by the time it gets to Malachi, he has become an expert...

She can't possibly say that she wasn't aware of it when he was working...The gambling was not an issue then because there was an inflow of cash... She should have threatened to leave him when he was holding a job...He suddenly became a demon when he lost his job and now it was an issue.....

AC becomes an irritant.. Abeg make she find some way to motivate him back to the man she once married... Gambling was not her issue here...

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Bournemouth Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 11th March 2023 by Richy4(m): 11:08am On Mar 11, 2023
Samuelthemanli:
might Be Even Better I Have High Hopes
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I hope so... But assuming it was a big team playing with Liverpool, I always have high hopes... If it's average teams, I have my reservations plus early match is not our thing smiley
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Bournemouth Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 11th March 2023 by Richy4(m): 10:59am On Mar 11, 2023
How I wish what happened in
27 August 2022 will happen again....
Liverpool won Bournemouth 9:0
Science/Technology / Re: Rain Of Worms Falls Down The Sky In China, Residents Panic (Photos) by Richy4(m): 9:43am On Mar 11, 2023
Chinese mannaπŸ™Š

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Crime / Re: Lesbian Jailed For Forcing Man To Have Sex With Her While He Was Asleep In UK by Richy4(m): 8:59am On Mar 11, 2023
Karleb:


Women always get half the sentence. Some even get lesser sentences if the judge is a woman wrapper.
You know, I have never thought of that.. Do u have an idea why they were slashing the number of years they should spend in jail?... Because I like the idea of what is good for the goose is also good for gander

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Politics / Re: Desmond Elliot: I Apologise For Calling Everybody Children by Richy4(m): 8:44am On Mar 11, 2023
Minjim:

He had apologised immediately .He is just apologising again.

I must say, some Yoruba people amazed me. You allowed yourselves to be convinced by Igbos that your own people are evil while SE paint theirs as saints
Imagine the same defense Peter gave on the Sars killing in Anambra, when Sanwo olu gave it, you insulted him.
Who do Igbos want with Lagos? Any small banter, they will say they must take Lagos. Take it and do what with it?
We know of many things happening in the West because Lagos is a cosmopolitan city. Do you know about all the atrocities in the East?
πŸ‘ŽπŸ‘ŽπŸ‘ŽπŸ‘ŽπŸ‘ŽπŸ‘ŽπŸ‘Ž
The way you switched stuffs that got nothing to do with tribes into your own comfort zone is so Amazing...It was like a miracle..

I can just imagine your type being a landlord..πŸ™„

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Crime / Re: Lesbian Jailed For Forcing Man To Have Sex With Her While He Was Asleep In UK by Richy4(m): 8:21am On Mar 11, 2023
I discovered that the minimum number of years a male rape offender can spend in prison in Nigeria is 12...
The average number of years male sex offender in Ireland (where this story is coming from) can stay behind bars is 5-7yrs

A woman sex offender just got 4yrs only..Abi rape no be rape ?cheesy

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Politics / Re: Desmond Elliot: I Apologise For Calling Everybody Children by Richy4(m): 7:32am On Mar 11, 2023
But he has apologised before immediately after the blunder... I just double checked it.. In Guardian newspaper 30th October 2020, he tendered an apology..
I guess the opposition were still capitalising on that... This is one of the reasons I dislike politics embarassed

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Family / Re: What Really Does 'respect' Mean To Men? by Richy4(m): 6:41am On Mar 11, 2023
it is really simple...I will break it down for u..When addressing your man..

<<<Be polite, avoid interrupting or causing disturbances/ having a tendency to "display street" especially if he is a gentleman. It is a turnoff..

<<<Listen to him first and respect differences in beliefs and opinions...a lot of ladies have "I know better mentality "..

<<<Think before you speak, your language and tone... There are words that sorry can not erase easily.. just be careful..You can't talk rudely and expects it to slide especially when he said he doesn't want your food for example..

<<<Lend a helping hand or ear and practice compassion.. (Just speaking only in African context).. you are not marrying your man alone.. he has family where he came from...If he asked, please I want to help ABC, be compassionate, if there's a reason to help please do so. And don't take it to your gossip group... it's that simple..

<<Men are the most less complicated been God almighty in his infinite mercies created πŸ€ΈπŸ‹οΈπŸ§”πŸ‘¦

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Family / Re: Help Needed! I Am Finding It Difficult Calling My Brother 'sir'. by Richy4(m): 5:06am On Mar 11, 2023
I understand your struggle...
But reprogram buddy.. it is well..

This is the part where Oyibo culture takes the cakeπŸŽ‚ in my opinion 🧐

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Family / Re: Video Of Man Feeding Wife With Water From His Mouth Gets Tongues Wagging by Richy4(m): 5:01am On Mar 11, 2023
πŸ”žπŸ”žπŸ”žπŸ”ž
In my opinion, this is better than "Dish washing "πŸ™ˆπŸ™Š
No matter how clean the dish is, son of man can't afford to wash smiley
Family / Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Richy4(m): 4:38am On Mar 11, 2023
grin cheesy grin grin grin
Which kind vow Una swear?

That day when them ask you...Do U promise to take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaken all other,..
U opened your well brushed.. Colgate minty mouth.. Lipstick infested lips and 15 megawatts of smile and say I do.. u think say Na play u go play for there?πŸ€­πŸ™Š

Make U stayOoo, U supposed to honour the "poorer" aspects of the vow😝

Na that AC part of the story got me laughing...Abi he no dey on AC before when he get job? How come u find it disgusting now?. make you just remove the AC and sell first before he first you remember amπŸ˜‚

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Family / Re: I'm Worried About My Nephew. by Richy4(m): 7:13pm On Mar 10, 2023
I guess there are forgivable lies... But u should have told your brother in law that your laptop charger have gone bad...If they gave you the money, u give it to him to buy a new charger... If u don't trust him with money, u buy the charger by yourself and hand it over to him...That would have saved lots of explanation and long talks...

As for father and son bond, there are lots of families that doesn't have that this days... All u have to do is to be there for him... Let him keep on confiding in u... Make him know that you will be always there for him...and give little advice here and there as u can..

The good book said that children should obey their parents but a whole lot of parents are seriously provoking their children to anger... U can't impose a career on a child because you as a parent were paying for it or because you want to brag your son being a lawyer... Who knows, assuming that he was given a chance,
He probably would have been the best Economics students in his department

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Sports / Re: Ten Hag Named EPL Manager Of The Month by Richy4(m): 3:39pm On Mar 10, 2023
I'm glad that was given to him... He needs all the motivation he can get to pilot the affairs of Manchester United...

It takes gut to stand and watched the humiliation all through without leaving the stadium.. he is the man smiley

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Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 12:45pm On Mar 10, 2023
alobright17:
This particular you show never covered all the kilometers that the rain in the entire Usa passes through i can bet you on that . some of the areas are also open . and again what you sent never change anything ,or are you saying people don't jump traffic light despite the red light showing ? what do you do in that case ?
smiley smiley smiley smiley smiley
...Are we now talking about area that was opened or the barricade being in place? A barricade can cover space and prevent any kind of car no matter how small from passing through...Ok let us look at it in another angle...Please follow my reasoning slowing and see if u can understand...

You were behind a wheels.. U arrived at a rail intersection, there are TWO very big irons in front of us... obstructing your movement...
If you jump the first Iron, You will still have to jump the second one obstructing the oncoming vehicles on the other side, Do you think any reasonable person will do that considering the damage that will occur to the car if he or she hits the iron..?

Now look at those irons again and compare it with a traffic light situation you mentioned. Do you think jumping a traffic light is as risky as jumping a railway line with a car? considering the velocity of a train ... are they the same in your opinion?.
Now, assuming there was a barricade, and it was functioning...No matter how impatient the driver was, do you think we would have been talking about this now?
Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 11:47am On Mar 10, 2023
alobright17:
clearly you're the one missing the point, my point is putting those measures and after that will you force people to adhere to it ? that's why I used the traffic light that has been put yet people still jump it some even do jump it when others are still waiting for the greenlight. all those measures are there but some people deliberately ignores them .that's my point.

Why you never asked yourself why others were waiting yet the bus driver came and crossed, from the statement it even show that he came and met others that are waiting for the train to pass . what did others that was waiting saw that he did not ? abeg no try to justify this mumu drivers recklessness on this matter, they are the types that jumps red lights even when it is showing red.

Look at these pictures below every well and see what rail barricade looks like.. most are made of irons.. u can't jump it without damaging your vehicle no matter how strong it is... You can google it as well and you see all kinds of pictures... one can only attempt to jump it when one got death wishes.

Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 10:19am On Mar 10, 2023
palsenator:



Damn sure you don't know Sogunle in Lagos..... Even the blaring sound of the train could be heard some kilometers away.... That is enough measure. The train didn't derail of its track bro...

This is where those that studied engineering would have helped in terms of the red ink...
Is the sound of train enough to avert danger and preventing motorists from making wrong decisions (based on their knowledge on HSE)

I am shocked that you feel that a barricade in place would not have prevented the driver from moving on...That little restriction from his movement would not have saved lives? smiley....
I guess this is where I will draw the curtain for today as far as this thread is concern... I am exhausted already..Itwas cool chatting with you all
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Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 9:58am On Mar 10, 2023
Successlane:



"............ many cars stopped when they got to the level crossing while the Lagos State Staff Bus driver continued moving.........."

Exactly... What would have been done to prevent motorists from making bad decisions?
Assuming a functioning barricade was in place, would it have prevented him from moving, hence saving the lives of innocent victims?.. I think so.. or what do you think?
Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 9:08am On Mar 10, 2023
success2me:


Was the driver a baby?😑
He should rot in jail, imagine the lives lost cos of his stupidity
A Simple barricade would have spoken on behalf of those innocent lives that was lost by preventing the driver from crossing... It would have been a control measure over the driver's movement at that point... since the citizens were not in control of the wheel, the barricades helps to prevent bad decisions..

That is why I am still insisting that the railway Association owe those citizens the duty of care...
Neglecting to put those things in place makes them culpable as well..

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Real Betis : Europa League (4 - 1) On 9th March 2023 by Richy4(m): 8:52am On Mar 10, 2023
Badadvisor:

Are you a Man U fan?
Liverpool fan smiley
Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 8:46am On Mar 10, 2023
Fearyourcreator:

It shows you don't know the place ... I personally I hate walking on the track... There is barricade there sef... Except for the place where road for vehicle cross the railway... Its also around Ikeja along too... Train horns are crazily irritating ... You will always hear ... Other vehicles were waiting but bus decided to move... What's the fault of railway there...

A manually operated or automatic barricade would have prevented the bus from moving hence savings the lives of innocent people that didn't ask the driver to move...
The barricade would have been the one that would have spoken on behalf of the passengers who were not in control of the wheel by preventing the driver from moving.. That's why the railway association shared the blame
Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 8:41am On Mar 10, 2023
emiika:


what point?
do you read the part where it was said other vehicles stopped, why did they stopped if there was no sign, the loud blaring horn, the barricade, the driver should be checked properly, the problem with lagos government is that they employed their staffs based on β€œwho you know” in government
Based on your summary, You are implying that The Nigerian railway Association does not owe the citizens the duty of care whatsoever because..
<<1 they can see that it was a train..
<<2 the Horn can showcase that...
Therefore no need for signs and Barricade is that correct? smiley
Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 8:22am On Mar 10, 2023
Kingcalls:


Guy...Nigeria no be texas... I blame the BRT driver 100% ... do they have to put a barricade b4 he obeys?? Dint other drivers obey?? We know the country we live in and we must have to protect ourselves by all cost...ordinary election to elect good leaders as flawed, the courts are flawed, the security officers are all flawed... the system is flawed...to survive , u need to protect urselkf in this country... there are lots of bad roads that lead to accidents, we now the government have failed us , but that don't mean we sud drive as we wish cos we expect the government to ensure good roads ... this country na sense and wisdom them de take follow am ...
Maybe it's time to hold some people accountable especially in terms of service delivery... Willingly accepting what is thrown at you should be a thing of the past especially when you are a tax payer..

I still believe that the Nigerian railway association owe the citizens the duty of care by protecting them... Whether you look after yourself or not...

Besides, I believe a lot of citizens behind the wheels got mental health issues no one knows about.. it's the responsibility of the railway association to make sure such individual or individuals do not endanger others as well as themselves... That's the duty of care I am talking about...
Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 8:10am On Mar 10, 2023
emiika:


my point is this, just blame the driver for his impatience, all you mentioned above are already in order for a train to pass through a busy city like lagos, even the deaf can hear the blaring of horn also there are barricades on the railway, that was i asked if you live in Lagos or any other states that uses train as a means of transportation
So you are saying that there are barricades in that particular intersection.. is that what you are telling me...

How did he managed to Cross it then if truly there was a functioning one?



Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 8:04am On Mar 10, 2023
Thepotterman:


But now that we do not have this measure yet, provided that most of this train started operations like 3-4years ago. But somethings don't need measures, it need common sense, and to be frank, the driver has none, and he should be blame 100%. Do someone need to tell him that he need to stop when he see an incoming train? No, even 200m away he would have been feeling the rumbling and sound of the train, and the one that happened yesterday, it's not even a corner, that means he saw the train ahead of him but he chose to pass, that's big Time stupidity and lack of sense....
I didn't study engineering but I know that everything that has to do with engineering involves safety.. and I can bet that the Railway association have HSE manager/ officer who might not even know why he was there or what his job description entails..

As for asking do someone have to tell people that a train was coming, let the organisation do their part first by preventing certain avoidable occurrence from happening first...

It seems that you guys have willingly accepted the lapses on ground are making excuses for them.. u think 4 yrs is not enough time to set things straight?

A lot of people u see behind the wheels are not psychologically sound and are dealing with many issues ... some got death wishes and are looking for a way to end it...I still believed that barrier or barricade would have helped in this case.

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Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 7:42am On Mar 10, 2023
emiika:


i’m not sure you live in Lagos State or any states in Nigeria that used train as one of the means of transportation cos if you do you won’t type all these...
What's your point really? That health and safety is not good for Nigerians just like any other part of the world?
Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 7:37am On Mar 10, 2023
alobright17:
the other drivers that stopped for the train to pass what signs did they see!?

No be on this same Nigeria that drivers jumps red lights with careless abandoned but the same driver won't try that when in another country, here driving one way is common. Even with measures people tend to offend rules and regulations in Nigeria.
People jump red lights everywhere around the world.. it's not really new...
In three days time, you will see a ticket waiting for you at your mailbox with clear pictures of your plate number, time of offence and a bit of the driver's face.. if you can proof that you were not the one driving at that point, u meet them in court...

I can't believe you were asking the sign that others saw before they stopped though.. u think everyone thinks the same?
Ok to answer your question, To make every one act the same, u put some barrier or an obstruction to make everyone comply in situations like that..
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Real Betis : Europa League (4 - 1) On 9th March 2023 by Richy4(m): 6:59am On Mar 10, 2023
Karleb:
Could have easily been 5-1.

Wasteful United.
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Haba!!! K my man!!! U think 4:1 is not an audacious result grin

I no just wan say Wetin go make you go bring back your already dried handkerchiefπŸ™ŠπŸ™ˆπŸΆπŸ˜πŸŽ‰πŸ€Έ
Travel / Re: Lagos Staff Bus Driver Arrested For Causing Lagos Train/Bus Accident by Richy4(m): 6:20am On Mar 10, 2023
Nigerian Railway Association should not exonerate themselves over what happened... They got 48% of the blame in my opinion...
What safety measures did they put in place to make sure that citizens were safe on the road?

Was there a barrier or barricade in place that prevents motorists from crossing at every rail line intersections?
Was there an Alarm bell in place that warns pedestrians at railway intersections whenever a train is approaching the intersection?.. (incase they have earphones on)πŸ””πŸš¨

It is really easy to point fingers but they failed in their own part to secure the lives of those motorists as well that lost their lives.. assuming there was a barrier that is automatically or manually operated, that driver wouldn't have attempted to cross 🚧🚷

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Manchester United Vs Real Betis : Europa League (4 - 1) On 9th March 2023 by Richy4(m): 2:10am On Mar 10, 2023
Badadvisor:

That game was very painful.
Take it easy buddy. U guys are still on third position.. it takes hard work to be there... Besides your coach is building a new team..
Politics / Re: Desmond Elliot Donates Transformer To His Constituents (Pics) by Richy4(m): 1:31am On Mar 10, 2023
DeOTR:

...friendly, helpful, or cooperative feelings or attitude.

If you don't consider a lawmaker donating transformers to the community as an act of goodwill, then maybe he's the owner of the private company you're paying monthly electricity bills to.

According to you "Friendly" transformer donation right?...Is there any thing attached to that "helpful " donation?

Ever heard of Indian Giver?.. just google it... It is synonymous with what your Desmond was doing.

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