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While I agree with your 1st paragraph, it is obvious that you didn't the full text or understand it enough to see that the man never cheated but it is the job that is taking its toll hence the lateness in getting home. Personally I get home between 9-11pmon working week days and sometimes when I close too late, I get a place to pass the night. Relationship without trust is doomed and that is what the ex-wife failed to understand.
The sordid details of what the ex-wife went through in the hands of other married men she dated in that 4 years cant be shared here. As at date, the woman is still jumping from one married man to the other. Maybe you can help link her up her to settle down, because she really wants to.

Kobojunkie:
Storyland! The ex-wife will be fine. If it took her 4 years to consider returning to him, then that means she probably had options but has yet to realize the advantage that gives her. Men literally do the same thing she did... return after someone outside has burnt them... to women they formerly abandoned. It does not necessarily mean they want those women back to treat them better, but rather that those women were the cheapest option they thought available to them at that point. So, don't be shocked that women can think the same of men, too.

The ex-wife did the right thing by leaving her cheating ex-husband.

Sometime ago my neighbors wife divorced him after 2 kids because she concluded beyond all reasonable placations that he was cheating.
Her 'evidence' - my G always get home late from work (10-11pm)
After 4 years in the open market with relationship with some married men, she wanted to return only to see my guy with a new wife pregnant for the ex.
I do not support cheating but I would advice the women to reason carefully before taking the decision that would turn their lives drastically.

What mana of terrorist izdiz biko? Ebola keh?

SeeWahala:
Ebola ahMead Tilumbu is the ultimate ogbonge weapon fashioned against one Nigeria 🤗

You armed them with sophisticated weapons but forgot to tell them who they are, 'Vigilantes',?
You also failed to give them Identity Cards or teach them how to identify themselves?
You recruited and armed strange, unidentified vigilantes from the same tribes that majorly terrorize others to 'protect' locals.

Its so sad how we shamelessly mismanage and destroy security and safety across the country. 'Vigilante' indeed.

Probably deliberate to allow cancelation of further airstrikes the terrorists! What happened to your intel?

Half-right, half-'painment'

pocohantas:
Same way a community bf/husband goes about looking for peace of mind and chastity. Majority of you are bunch of hypocrites who demand virtue and resources they do not have and cannot give. Don't cherrypick when it doesn't favour you.

Houseofglam7:
Let the gender war begin!!!

Cease FAYAAAAAAAAAAA! Lets dialog biko

Fear Women! Fear Women! Fear Women!

Mikel Obi!

Including Bubu himself, the worst evil to befall Nigeria in the form of Administration. The simply damaged everything- security, economy, national cohesion etc. He left everything in shambles, then he 'died'

'Off the Mic'

The Order may never be complied with by this administration.

Sec 343 (1): Reckless driving. If found guilty the max sentence is one year. Being a first offender, he fit escape with warning.

Traffick offences falls under misdemeanor and not considered criminal.

Same way he got evidence of marriage, otherwise na customary marriage/customary divorce

Kobicove:
What if they ask him to bring court evidence of their divorce?

Do you really like complications or you are not confident of scoring your own goal?

ajalawole:
I begged a lady I met just some week to keep the pregnancy she had for someone that I will take care of the baby,thankfully the lady and her mum already planning on how to abort it....
After I reason my life well, she fit wake up tomorrow that since the baby not mine I have no right to correct her baby. After God, fear woman.

Cheating GF?
1. Continue with your fair share of the fun if you do not mind
2. Move on with your life if it affects your mental health.
3, Never ever beg her to stop cos 9/1 chances she will never, though she may become more coded and careful if she has some respect for what she believe is between you two.
**When you have a cheating GF and wish to ride along, first, let her know that you know her antics

As for cheating Wife? NOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Naheee!

buygala:
I begged her that if she must continue cheating on me with her department class rep, she should please do so with fear of God after she promised me she will cut off all ties with him after graduation..

Well, she kept cheating with and later married that her class rep

She and her husband are doing very well, despite all the curses I have laid on them

Lolade, today being 15th December 2025, I put my index finger in my unwashed anus and decree that it will never be well with you

Oga go and update your HMO records.
'divorces' na good excuse to expunge the leeching name off.
Na you say you marry am before, oya, tell them say una don divorce and no kids between

Otherwise, add her kids' names as beneficiaries too

Mission ready. Failure, not an option
Sometimes when they activate this mood you wont hear 'pim' from them until they accomplish the goal. The concentration and commitment is second to none

RUNooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

Drforsuiciders:
I keep hammering it that anyting south west supports has negative energy or bad influence. From Buhari to Tinubu.
Sometimes i keep wondering how oduduwa falls from d sky without sinking in d lagoon,
Look at d nonsense we hv this day.
Northern Nigeria were outplayed by west, west used insecurity to outplayed northern Nigeria, now north suffering it all alone

Fall from which sky? Abi no be ame Oduduwa wey stroll in from Benin Kingdom?

Death ends it all

Very vain talk. The primate is the one pained that the Adelabu dare to expose him. N150m shoe indeed.

See finish.

Really? When do you intend to enforce the law against the bandits and terrorists operating all over the country?

The day a leopard changes its spots!

Racheal45:
When will lie Mohammed stop lying 😂😂😂😂

Maybe if it was 11 Nig.... fit dey am!

Vey irresponsible and potentially Very-very unstable.

If your spouse ever spent 7days at a go in your house before tying the knot, you cohabited biko!

Nigeria Untouchable -1 Sir, Sheik Gumi.

Kingzjayzee:
https://dailypost.ng/2025/12/09/nigerian-military-cant-defeat-bandits-govt-should-negotiate-gumi/

Na so my State governor take become reference point for mockery abi? 'Contunu'!

AqualinaXYZ:
When yall neglect little things that’s where the problem starts



Na so una neglect Tinubu lapses claiming we need his brain not his body



Tinubu go campaign lick microphone



And now see the results



Another Monday Okpebholo is about to be created in Ekiti

I actually hope my beloved country wouldn't be on it, but I was just lying to myself and having some wishful thoughts.

When Village people are on 24hrs duty!
By the way, what is the difference between Ilorin and Illinois, a state in the US?

Diplomatic fisticuffs.
Any Ghanian here should feel free to take one bottle of chilled malt and a plate of 'Ukwobi' on me.
Mutual respect is key to positive diplomatic relations.