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Dear people,wat would u do if u find out that,the babe or guy u supposedly have fallen head and heels in love with is actually a transgender,who did not tell u initially at d start of the relationship but u later got to find out like a few months after,and within dat period dat u dint know,u are already so in love like you have never loved before in ur life,and u can already feel you can't love another like you love dis person,wat would u do?am talking about the kind of transgender dat has gone through surgeries and u can't find any trace of dr previous gender in dem anymore,except if dey tell you

[quote author=dtemidare]You are not yet serious for any relationship. look let me tell you very soon you will start look for rat belly. better look for that girl and start loving her before you lose her. Big stomach indeed.

who knows by the time you start dating her she may also find out that you have a small penis or rather i should say a very big one by that time she will start giving you her own excuse.

big stomachphoebia.[/quote

LMAO

fubbyy: Does this make her feel bad? Or is she happy that she has never dated b4?

Find out from her, I have a great answer 2 give about that

Shes not happy about it and feels like she has a problem

Heys peeps,i just need ur opinion on this one,do u guys think its weird for a girl of 25,to have never been in a relationship ever before in her life,theres this childhood friend of mine,shes a very pretty girl and has a very good heart too,but the thing is,she has never dated any guy before in her life,presently shes doing her NYSC in Abuja,and many guys have always been attracted to her,but the problem about her is,dat shes very very shy,she fidgets when shes around men,normally when shes around us,she talks gists,laffs,plays and does all sorts,but around guys she gets scared to talk,,dat even guys dat initially liked her just get fed and stop talking to her cos they think shes boring cos she doesnt talk,even though we her close friends,know shes far from being boring,then one more thing she went to a girls only secondary school and i think that affected her composure and actions whenever shes around guys.What do you think about her situation,as most of her other friends are getting married every saturday,while shes just still alone,with no guy,people around think her situation is supernatural and dat she needs help,but i dont think its supernatural....

RICHIE BOI: stop shaving and trim it instead.

okay.thanks abunch

[quote author=edogram.]Try piriton and penicillin ointment[/quote]okay.thanks.will give it a try

bashr8: to late i guess

Guy,which one be ur own sef,nothing is too late abeg jare,go siddon jo

[quote author=Okija_juju][size=14pt][b]If my mother followed financial stability in picking a husband, I would have had a useless man for a father and had several step mums..

Thank God she had the patience and the foresight to see the potentials my father had.. Thats how she entered a marriage against the wishes of friends and family.

They called my father names.. Today every muthafucker who talked shit now adds the 'Sir' 'Oga' & 'Uncle' title to his name..

From no house, being kicked out in the middle of the night by a landlord from the 1 bedroom face-me-I-face-You to being owner of prime houses in top locations in Rivers State & Abuja and even being a Landlady of White men in Canada.

From foot patrol to being chauffeur driven with Mobile police escorts.

From using her wrapper for baby nappy to being an importer of Huggies and Pampers.

From no money to even afford public transport to flying First Class around the world.

From bend-down select to shopping to popping tags from High end designer labels.

From being just another Nigerian to being a dual citizen of both Nigeria and Canada.

From 'you will regret this and come back begging' to more than 25years with 5 kids and growing stronger by the day..

Guess what!! If my father had to pick between his wealth, his children and his wife.... GUESS WHO HE WOULD PICK?!!!! HIS WIFE!!



If a girl dont love me because I am broke now, I say FHUCK YOU VERY MUCH... When I get my money, come back, but dont try to act like my money is our money because it aint. I'll treat you the same way I treat my 50' flat screen T.V a commodity I bought with my money for my pleasure..



CHIKINA!

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You biitches had better ask for foresight so you can see ahead. A man would cherish a woman who stuck by him through thivk and thin than he would a woman who came in when he was already a boss![/quote]WOW,very good response,but the thing nowadays is,many men seem to forget the woman who stood by them,when they were still struggling to climb up,the ladder of wealth,they would rather go for younger and fresher looking girls,once the money starts rolling in,rather than the woman who was there for them through thick and thin.You are lucky cos ur parents are an exception,but there are many cases of such,example is an aunt of mine who stood through with her husband of 10years in his trying times,she was the breadwinner of the family for close to 9years,bearing him three kids,now the guy has hammered big time,hes now a big boy and suddenly my anty has become distasteful to him,imagine sending out a woman who stood by u for many years,out with the three children,without an excuse,and bringing in a 26year old girl home,as the new madam of the house,now what would u say about that,my point is many babes are wising up these and realising that its not worth,it sowing what u mit end up not reaping,thus why struggle with the man,when there are chances,he wouldnt reciprocate when things turn around..and one more thing,its really difficult to know the character of a man,when hes broke,many men tend to be humble when they are not rich,but once the money comes,in u begin to get a grasp,of their true nature

Exponental: Bring ur bill, let's negotiate.

u so funny...LOL

yes so beautiful,makes me wanna get married sharp sharp..lol

Guys check out this beautiful pics of these cute yoruba and Igbo couple,how i wish most of us Nigerians could look past our ethnicity and cultural differences,in our quest for love,just like dis couple,dey look so adorable together,and the fusion of both Yoruba and Igbo culture is seemingly overwhelming and lovely and gosh the guy is georgeous man....me sef need to look for one cute Igbo bobo,make i hook am o,as i dont care about ethnicity,what matters is individualism,and the love...LOL.....Heres some of the pix

deshclones: Am happy all these fights and anarchy are taking place in Gowon's lifetime....it really gladdens ma heart that he is a witness to the genocide currently taking place in his home state and the entire north...dude was head of state when defenceless biafran women and children were massacared....karma is really a patient and ruthless b.1tch...it might take some tym but it will def come someday....fulanis should stew in their juice.

you have serious issues,if u must know,you are happy with the anarchy cos of Gowon,abi,has it not occured to you that other people asides Birom people are also being killed,including Igbos,Yorubas,and people from other part of Nigeria as well,i remember when i served in Jos in 2010,and there was crisis,we were sent home and only came for our POP,theres a place called Bukuru market,where there are many Igbo traders,in walking pass dr,i realised many of those traders had been killed and many of their properties burnt,,those are Igbos not Birom people,so my dear stop being happy that Gowon's state is being affected,but rather pray for peace to be restored again,cos no body is immune to this attacks,dos who live in glass house shouldnt throw stones

Please i need a medical advice on this one,back in 2010,my cousin came over to spend some days,in my house,so we happened to share the same room and the same bathroom,normally,i always store shaving sticks in the bathroom closet,to shave my arm pit,so there was these day,i shaved my arm pit,after shaving it,i realized the shaving stick had already been previously used,by my cousin,but then my discovery was too late,but i realised since that day,and even till now,i have a case of excessive itching in that,that seems uncontrollable sometimes,sometimes it itches so much,dat d area becomes really sore after the excessive scratching,and sometimes,the skin in the arm pit area peels,and makes the area look so disgusting i am so worried about the situation,and helpless on what to do to stop these condition,which has become persistent since November 2010,pls i need a medical advice.....

Beaf: If oil disappears, Nigeria will simply crumble into the new Somalia.

Yes, people survived for centuries before oil, many by chasing wild animals on foot, fighting with tigers and climbing trees to harvest palmnuts etc. Those were the days when you simply threw away your twins (instead of bothering with extra mouths) and trekked from Lagos to Sokoto to sell crocodiles and salt (as a wealthy business person). It surely was great time with a life expectancy of maybe 25 years.

Nigeria has not grown technologically since those days and oil is our life support system. Take it away, and its back to Tarzan time.

LMAO

Clerverly: Why always North?

and what do u mean by that,silly post like shes not qualified

Da infamous: i hope you are hot?cuz we want fine yoruba girls at list big ikebe is alright for me,our towns enugu is our california baby very enjoyable nice and clean and 22 hrs light a day hehehehehehehehehe hmmmmmmmmmmmmm i lick lips...........

U so funny..LOL,sadly i dont ve big Ikebe,but am not bad looking sha at least judging from people's comment of me,except if dey are deceiving me,but whether you like it or not sha,or approve or not approve,me i would sha still visit,the place,hope u guys would recieve me well

wow,Enugu is such a beautiful place,wish my own state Osun state was as half as beautiful as that ,am really tripping wow,ve to visit the place some day

Spirit of Okija: There is nothing funnier than a Yoruba man trying to do what Ndi Igbos are supposed to be doing.. Koko Mobile indeed.. It was a failed project because Ndi Igbo werent involved in the manufacturing, marketing and servicing of it.. Next thing na Kokomobile

Later,u guys will complain,that Yoruba people are abusing Igbos,must it turn into a tribal thing?which one is because Igbos are not involved,dats why the project wasnt succesful,i really love and respect the Igbos for their enterpreneur spirit,but what i just hate sometimes is that boastful nature and that feeling of superiority complex,that they are better,than other tribes,or that without them,nothing anybody does in Nigeria can be succesful,please try and respect and appreciate,other people's efforts as well,even if the venture of the kokomobile wasnt succesful,but at least,it he made efforts,in life we dont always win all,its a gamble,we win some and lose some,so stop saying Yorubas are funny and dat the project failed cos Igbos were not involved,its not funny in anyway

debrief08: Just like asking me who comes first Daddy or Hubby, Hubby knows I love him die but what me and ma Dad have gone tru hmmm. I am d last of 7 girls, since ma dad couldn't ve a boy I became a defacto boy. I spent more hours as a child watching news and footie than I did in d kitchen. Growing up, me ma dad and ma ex husband were like d 3 musketeers. Daddy took us everywhere, ma exes dad was not a family man so dad became like a dad to him. He took us to play golf, learn polo and hang out with the boys. My Dad will stop at ma exes house before coming home and pick him so we could all hang out. My Dad is old school, funny and gentle, he makes everyone feel at home. Ma ex and ma dad were so close until ma ex started becoming successful and his own father started noticing him as they statrted hanging out he learnt vices which ma dad didn't teach him, drinking smoking and sleeping with strange women and beating women. Ma Dad cried when my ex started beating me cos he was caught in d middle. When I decided to walk away it was ma dad who stood by me when even ma sisters would not talk to me cos dey didn't wanna hear d word divorce, they believed he would change, ma dad again came to ma rescue he met my sisyers point by point told them in dis case nuture has clearly overshadowed nuture, when they brought up d arugement of me soiling the family name he asked dem who built the name?
























After ma divorce, he gave me money to rent a place so I won't be ridiculed by ma peers at home, he was d one who I would call at 12midnight when I couldn't sleep, he is d one who would always find a reason to come check up on me cos I was like a leper friends and family wouldn't talk to me. Ma friends husbands didn't want their wives minhling with a divorcee some of ma family members strongly believed that divorce was a sin and assiciating with me the sinner would lead them to hell. Who was der with me in the midst of the worst 2 years of ma life? Daddy, he will come to see me every valentine, every birthday, take me out buy me gifts, hang out with me, protect me, defend me and love me unconditionally. My Dad still loves ma ex and treats him like a son, when ma ex gets sober sometimes its ma dad he goes and cries too. God bless Daddies abeg, where would I be without ma own?

Your story made me cry,so touching,i wish u all d best in live and pray things work out again between ur ex husband and u,cos from ur story,he seems like a good person who is being manipulated,by his father

[quote author=Mr.chippychappy]You mean we should all try to make our families dysfunctional ?[/quote]Bros,it doesnt mean,the family is dysfuctional,it means we can accomdate one another's differences,its called unity in diversity

joeydozzy: the guy ain't worth it. from the onset, the guy was just playing with the girl, nothing more. the girl should find ways to move on cos she met the wrong one to date. you could give me his pin, lemme punish him

LOL

tellwisdom: If you cant show me that ur pisure, to see hw urgly or periful u are. Restart ur computer

Dry guy........

Guys,please i just need your opinion,on this quick one,my friend met a guy online through pinshare,and they exchanged bb pin and started chatting everyday as well as exchanging pictures,even though,they had never met before.They eventually organised a day to meet each other.On the day,they were supposed to meet,my friend went to the mall with another friend of hers to meet,the guy,on seeing the guy,his reaction proved,that the guy wasnt attracted to her,after seeing in real life,whereas,his action also proved,he was attracted to the other friend,that went with her,the guy even demanded for the pin,of the other friend.After the first day,the guy demanded to meet my friend again,the following day.They agreed to meet again and ended up kissing each other,but nothing more apart from the kiss.After the whole kissing,the guy stopped pinging my friend like he used to,before then he always pinged her on blackberry to chat her up constantly,but that reduced,after the whole meeting and kissing,now some days later,my friend put up the pix of another beautiful friend on her dp,and suddenly,the guy pinged her up to chat wif her and ended up,asking for the pin of the beautiful friend...My Friend acted like she wasnt hurt and promised to give him,the pin of the beautiful friend,but deep down she feels really bad and the self-esteem shes been trying to overcome about herself cos shes slightly,on the chubby side came back again,she feels terrible that the guy probably was not attracted to her cos shes on the chubby side,shes not a slim,lepa girl.Shes really hurt cos she was already getting to like the guy.This whole situation is making her beginning to develop another self-esteem issues about herself,that shes not beautiful....guys what do u fink about the situation....

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Thank you so much,pls i also want to kmow,if u guys conduct like a plagiarism checker on those essays,thanks

PLEASE AM IN DIRE NEED OF SOMEONE, WHO I CAN CONSULT, ON HOW TO WRITE A GOOD THESIS,PLS IF YOU ARE GOOD AT WRITTING,OR YOU KNOW SOMEONE,PLS LEMME KNOW THROUGH THIS THREAD....THANKS

Olalekan 0: I trust my yoruba mothers,a youba woman would rather toil to cater to those kids and die in the process than selling them for even a billion dollars! Iya ni wura!

Dude,pls dont turn it into a tribal thing abeg,wat does yoruba ve to do wif it now....smh

miteolu: Na Yoruba get sense pass. Yorubas always remember the sons of whom they are. Yorubas are not AFTER sharp sharp money but always look and hope for a better tomorrow. Yorubas can endure till things get better. Yorubas always protect their names come any where. Once Yorubas can get breakfast,launch (if possible), and dinner they give glory to God. UP ODUA

I dont think dats a nice response,and its response like yours that spring up tribal wars on nairaland,am a proud yoruba,but when the truth has to be said,i wont desist from saying it,stop glorifying Yoruba people that we are saints and do not commit crimes,we are equally guilty of other crimes too,even drug related crimes,is Baba Suwe not a Yoruba man,or the common Yahoo Yahoo business,that flourishes among our youths,is not Yoruba boys that reside lagos that are at the forefront of such,so my dear,stop glorifying what is not,that fact that most of those caught are Igbos from Anambra does not justify in any way that Yorubas themselves are saints

Yakubu Gowon Airport.Heipang,Jos Plateau State 2009/2010

so sad...gosh,may the souls of the departed rest in peace,too many tragedies in just one day,nigerian airline cargo crash in Accra,boko-haram attack in bauchi and now the plane crash in lagos all in one day.may the lord help us o