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Romance / Re: Ladies Only!!!get In Here And Learn How To Be Financially Independent! by rinora(f): 2:15am On Apr 22, 2017
Childish people
Romance / Is this guy capable of domestic violence in future by rinora(f): 10:39am On Apr 21, 2017
Hello people,please i need your opinion on my friend's relationship.She has been dating this really good nice guy.They have so much chemistry and seem to have many things in common.As usual they were gisting one night and my friend asked the guy what he thinks of domestic violence.The guy condemned it bitterly but admitted that back in his university days,he once slapped his ex girlfriend friend after he discovered she has been lieing to him for two years that shes a virgin and he discovered she wasnt.The guy said that was the only incident in his life he had ever slapped a woman and its cos he was so dissapointed cos he showed her so much love.Now my friend is worried,even though the guy is the sweetest,a perfect gentleman and all that,even though she doesn't want to seem judgemental cos nobody is perfect.We all got flaws but shes scared that such guy has traits of a domestic violent guy.Please your advice is needed on if she should carry on with the relationship or quit.Thanks
Romance / Re: How To Deal With An Emotionally Down Boyfriend by rinora(f): 6:26pm On Jan 19, 2016
Sugarhugs:



Very proud, when someones is going thru tough time in his life, Imagine. Someone's future wife. Smh for that man that will marry you.



Common,when I say very proud,I don't mean it literarilly,proud in the sense that I don't like to bug a guy with too many phone calls.Am a very down to earth person
Romance / How To Deal With An Emotionally Down Boyfriend by rinora(f): 6:16pm On Jan 19, 2016
Hey guys,I just need advice on how to go about things,have been dating this guy for like one year now,he's a very good guy,he respects me so much and treats me like a lady,I really do care about him.He tries his best to help me financially even though he's not that wealthy.In the one year we have been dating,he calls me at least twice everyday except when he's busy.Recently he's been faced with so many problems particularly family problem.He's not married but he has a son out of wedlock.The child has been in the hospital and would be there for the next three month due to surgery he has to undergo.That has really weighed him down.
Since the problems started,he has lessened communication with me,he doesn't call me like he used but I never nagged him about it.Some days back he called me out of his own will that if I noticed he has changed its not intentional and he was begging me that I should be understanding and of course am very understanding and try my best to support him with inspiring messages and quotes.The issue now is,it's getting a bit tiring because this days when I call him,he won't pick or return my calls,when I send watsapp messages he reads and doesn't reply.Its getting a bit tiring am a very proud person and sometimes I just want to ignore and not bother to call again or send messages but then again I remember how good this guy has been to me,how he has been there for me in my time of need,due to that I still try to call and send messages but no reply,its like he's gone into a Shell.The guy is a cancer and you know what they always say about cancer men being moody and withdrawing into their world when they have problems.Am tempted to give him space to sort himself and his problems out but then I feel I would seem like a wicked and uncaring girlfriend who ignored her boyfriend when the chips was down.Please how do I deal with this kind of man who shuts the world out when he has problems.

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Romance / Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by rinora(f): 10:25pm On Sep 06, 2015
I hate the fact that am so quiet and shy and this has made me lose so many opportunities,honestly I envy extroverts and pray that in my next life God makes me one,recently I failed a job interview not because I didn't have the skills or wasn't qualified,instead my introvert characteristics overwhelmed me such that I was so nervous and lacked what to say,its really hard being an introvert in this world.........

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Romance / Re: What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 2:14am On Aug 08, 2015
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Lmao,you no go kill person
Romance / Re: What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 2:13am On Aug 08, 2015
cyprus000:
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Simple.

All you have to do,is arrange with a person to dress like a native doctor(babalawogrin).

The babalow will go to his office and tell him that you reported his matter to his shrine and the oracle has given him a time frame of 2weeks to pay back or diegrin.

Thank me letawink


Lmao,you no go kill person


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Romance / Re: What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 2:11am On Aug 08, 2015
SexyStrawberry:
This should teach you a very big lesson, I am not saying u shouldn't help anyone in future o! but lemme tell u a secret, if u want to keep ur friends for a long period, if not forever, REMOVE money from ur friendship, if ur friend needs help, u can help with d little u have, never lend money to ur friend coz that day would be d beginning of ur enmity. Money brings friends, it also tears dem apart.


Very wise advice,I must say,wish I got this kind of advice before now,would have acted wiser,truth be told,I never imagined my friend could behave this way,but as u said money brings enimity and shows the true nature of people.I have really learnt my lesson the hard way,thanks for your advice
Romance / Re: What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 1:54am On Aug 08, 2015
otabuko:
Go to where he works.... You'd be surprised how you'd get your money when his boss gets to hear it..


Thanks,sounds like a good idea,guess that's what I would have to do
Romance / What Method Can You Use To Get Your Money Back From Someone Who Owes You Money by rinora(f): 1:36am On Aug 08, 2015
please I need advice on how to get my back 60,000naira from this so called friend of mine who owes me,he borrowed the money with a promise to pay back in one week,its been four months now,am yet to get my money,am confused,he keeps telling me different stories,I don't know where he lives cos he moved,he has stopped picking my calls.I have sent him countless of insultive text messages,he wouldn't reply me.I only know his place of work
This guy makes me regret being kind to him,now my heart is hardened towards helping people in need just because of his actions.Guys please I need tips on how I can get back my money back

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Politics / Re: MASSOB Urges UN To Recognise State Of Biafra by rinora(f): 5:51pm On Apr 21, 2015
chrisbaba1:


That amnesty is like a sick person on wheel chair, you can't say he should stand up nd start running, you have to provide walking stick first. ... I believe if they see profound development in their region, the govt can begin to reduce the huge capital poured into the program.... For now they deserve it because they give the oil nd have too little to show for it..... Their cause is very very rational....



Brilliant
Travel / Re: Xenophobia: View Of A Nigerian Living In SA by rinora(f): 11:05pm On Apr 16, 2015
ooshinibos:


Am with you bruv , I also disagree with the mass deportation because it gave Nigeria A BAD name then and now ( the Ghanaians still hate Nigerians for this stupid act of people and government ) ..and most importantly it was wrong , it should not have happened for whatever reason.
remember in the 80s there was no ECOWAS treaty and I think that's why the government might have use the loopholes to legally deport the Ghanaians then ..still wrong though



Ghana started it first with the alien compliance order in 1969 then Nigeria retaliated ,you can check it up on the internet

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Politics / Re: Solution To The Igbo 'craze'! by rinora(f): 7:58pm On Apr 15, 2015
Twistaray:
Sheath your swords Hahahahaha, what a joke . Why don't you bring out your arsenals and make war if you're so certain of winning. With a few exceptions, the majority of ibos leaders keep making political miscalculations both in federal and state levels that hinder their progress as a people, and then blame everybody else but themselves when the consequences of their choices come into play. Yorubas might be friendly but they aren't stüpid; they might be patient but they are deadly - as deadly as a venomous belcher’s sea snake. Mess with this tribe at your own peril. So it is now they know that they have economic interests and assets in Lagos worth protecting, yet always eager to disrupt the fragile political and social status quo in place that begets a peaceful and prosperous coexistence. Is this not self-sabotage? Do you think for a moment the Yorubas are blind to the subtle and tactical aim for a gradual takeover of Lagos State the Ibos are planning and acting out? No, the Yorubas have x-ray vision in this case and can see your plans to the bones. It's just right now the sensible Yoruba leaders are still busy with clearing out the "omoale" leaders (as they call it) from their zones and building a solid political foundation for a brighter future for the Yoruba region and its people. Once they are through (and they are almost through), then the ibos case will be opened and addressed thoroughly. What is happening right now that the Yorubas seem to "overlook" certain anomalistic behavior of the ibos is best described by their idiom that says "Iya yin owa ninu cooler" - hope I got it right. That is, your punishment is still inside the cooler; and you will eat it hot in due time, unless there's a change.

Lagos State is a very complex society, it is like the New York of America; and every tribe in Nigeria have significant populations in Lagos. Whether it is Binis, Hausas, Ijaws, Idomas, Itshekiris, calabars...or whether peoples from Warri, makurdi, maiduguri, Kabba and other places etc! Lagos State as a society is a perfect microcosm of the totality of the Nigerian society at large. However, it has become commonplace for only the ibos (who subconsciously due to the unfortunate civil war continue to see the Yorubas as their social, economic and political enemies) to want to rigorously compete against the Yorubas as if a battle for conquest and Lagos State is one of the spoils of war. That's why you can already witness the ibos designating Lagos as a "no-mans land" on one hand; but yet on other hand methodically trying to take over the so-called no-man's land. This is totally wrong and unacceptable. Lagos state can never be converted to Ibo land, not now and not in a trillion years from now. Every Nigerian tribe I believe have a part of the land no matter how small that is theirs or rather they are the custodians of due to ancestry, conquest or what have you. But the era of conquests is over and no individual tribe has the moral or legal right, or political might to encroach or seize another tribe's accustomed lands. Only the federal government can further share lands to/from tribes as they see fit, and even with all the federal might this can't be done with impunity anymore because fortunately for everyone the era of military rule is over. No federal government will ever share Lagos to any tribe other than Yorubas. It is their inheritance in Nigeria. The ibo inhabitants in Lagos need to understand this: Lagos was, is and always will be a Yoruba State. So the earlier you drop your scheming of "conquering" Lagos, the better for you.


Now, regarding taxation and the DEVELOPMENT of Lagos State, many ibos keep making erroneous claims. They say stuff like: without ibos Lagos State would not have developed the way it has; ibos pay the most taxes; ibos built Lagos; Lagos can't survive without ibos...blah blah blah! Seeing how far this fallacy is spreading, it's best the matter is addressed for the sake of clarity and peace. First off, taxation of businesses and individuals in Lagos State isn't peculiar or exclusive to ibos alone. Everyone pays tax, irrespective of tribe - heck, even Yorubas pay tax and are not exempted. The Lagos State government doesn't have a discriminating taxation policy. Its tax policy is blind to tribe. Ibos don't pay more than everybody else and Yorubas don't pay less that everybody else. The tax percentages are at fixed rates. If we're talking about "amount" of taxes being generated on a tribal basis, unless you're the accountant general of Lagos State, it remains arguable which tribe brings in the highest percentage of taxes. Quantity doesn't necessarily translate to bigger amounts. For example, one company's tax returns in VI can be greater than the tax returns of 100,000 businesses tax returns in Oshodi and Agege combined. So tax revenues can't be estimated based on "quantity" of businesses. Therefore, because there is a proliferation of businesses by ibos across Lagos doesn't necessarily mean or translate that ibos are the largest contributors of taxes. Also, taxes aren't collected along tribal lines; so it will be really difficult for any tribe to indisputably PROVE that they are the largest tax contributors. All the noise ibos keep making claiming to be the ones are unfounded assumptions originating from the most unrealistic parts of their figments of imagination. They have no documented facts with figures from the Lagos state government to legitimize such false claims. It just might be the Hausas, Binis, Ijaws or some other tribe - who knows!

As for development, whether economic and social, Lagos state even before it became a federal capital has always been thriving and prosperous. This is one of the major reasons Lagos later was selected to be a federal capital in the first place. It was an exceptionally promising state booming with exponential economic and social development potential vital for Nigeria's nation building. Lagos wasn't selected out of the blues or by raffle draw to become the federal capital. It was political genius to have done so. I can't dwell so much on this and anyone in doubt can look through the established history books and educate themselves. Development is progressive; it never stops or isn't meant to stop. After Lagos became a Federal capital, the development continued. After it lost that status, the development still continued and federal capital or no federal capital, one thing you could never strip from Lagos State is its super-economic potential. It was a state destined for greatness and nothing could stop it. Economically speaking, Lagos State was like the hand of Midas and everything that touches it turns to gold. To make money, isn't that the foremost reason all tribes have migrated to Lagos? Can't money be made elsewhere? Yes, but certainly not at the speed and success rate Lagosians seem to do it in Lagos. The economic potential was what brought the ibos to Lagos - it's all about coming to make money! Yes, just like everybody else that came, the ibos came to make money and make a life. Now that they have done so, the rest of the tribes can't rest again because the ibos feel they have arrived and arrogantly act as if they now own the state forgetting they met people here when they came. Ibos weren't the first tribe to prosper in Lagos, and ibos won't be the last; ibos aren't the first billionaires in Lagos, and ibos won't be the last. So why all the braggadocious display of economic arrogance towards other tribes, especially your hosts? Dangote (a billionaire in $$$$$) lives in Lagos and a considerable chunk of his business empire is in Lagos but he's not making noise and disturbing the peace in the land, so why must the ibos be harassing others and causing commotion just because they have attained some measure of wealth and every other tribe in Lagos should bow to you. It will never happen. This arrogant character has to stop. No one is intimidated by the ibos wealth because as far as Lagos is concerned, there are wealthy people from all tribes living there. Now, some more history, ibos didn't bring money to Lagos; rather they came to make money from Lagos. And ibos did, some legally and some illegally. Regarding taxes, whatever monies paid to the Lagos government wasn't made in Onitsha, Aba, Owerri, or Umuahia etc. It was made in Lagos and through Lagos. So it's only reasonable and proper that the taxes due be remitted to Lagos. If ibos are paying tens of billions naira in taxes to Lagos, then it's because they have already made hundreds of billions naira. And this is the same for all other tribes, so why are the ibos making a big deal out of this as if they're doing what nobody else is doing in Lagos. Businesses only pay taxes based on what you earn in the state and through the state. You don't pay what you didn't earn. So why are ibos talking as if the taxes they pay to Lagos was earned in Onitsha and they were compelled by the government to bring the money to Lagos; wasn't it earned in Lagos?

Regarding the social development of Lagos, did ibos develop Lagos? No! The ibos developed themselves. The ibos didn't build Lagos roads, bridges, schools, rail, or other public infrastructure. Who built all these? The federal and state governments using national and state resources respectively. So am I saying the ibos built nothing in Lagos? No, i'm not. Then what exactly did the ibos build in Lagos? Well, the ibos built THEIR homes, built THEIR houses, built THEIR businesses...etc! So essentially, the ibos built themselves in Lagos - no more, no less. You didn't build for Lagos, you built for yourselves in Lagos, same thing with other tribes, but the ibos keep talking blindly as if they are charity and what they built was handed over to society. Now you might want to say, What of the taxes they paid, didn't the government use taxpayers money to develop Lagos? Well, ibos are not the only ones who paid taxes. Hausas, ijaws, igallas, idomas, binis, urobos...also did too! Every tribe paid taxes in Lagos, heck even foreigners too. But yet, it's only the ibos making silly noise that they developed Lagos. This childish stupidity is annoying, and you should grow up mentally. If ibos built houses, you built it so that you can enjoy; if you built businesses, you built it so that you can enjoy...and so on! You built yourselves in Lagos, you didn't build Lagos. You developed yourselves in Lagos, you didn't develop Lagos. Lagos State is a natural economic magnet attracting investments from investors locally and globally. Those who bring in money are bringing in money to make more money or other benefits - and not for charity. There's always something to gain from Lagos. If all ibos and ibos assets were to be relocated from Lagos to the SE, would it destroy the Lagos economy? No, not in any way in reality. That "vacuum" (whether properties or investments) created will be filled almost instantly. As it is, there are thousands upon thousands of people rushing to get here daily, and millions more (both locals and foreigners) would come settle here if such a vacuum existed. Lagos is already in shortage of lands and many settlement projects are being built on the seas, like the Eko Atlantic city. I could go on but even this is enough to prove the versatility of the economic prosperity of the land flowing with milk and honey called Lagos state. For several years, the OBJ administration deprived Lagos of federal funds, yet Lagos didn't even feel it one bit. Lagos is a hub of prosperity on its own, take it or leave it. So the ibos shouldn't get it twisted, Lagos will continue to prosper with or without you. Nigeria needs the ibos and the ibos need Nigeria. But Lagos doesn't need the ibos; it's the ibos that need Lagos. Now stop creating any more conflict drama in Lagos than you already have and appreciate your hosts and other tribes. If the ibos are disgusted about paying taxes to Lagos and coexisting peacefully with mutual respect for the Yorubas hosts and other tribes inhabiting Lagos, then well the South East needs further development, the South East governments need taxes too to perform their obligations, so you're free to go to your home states and do the needful.
grin

Igbos Dominate Economically in Lagos because Yorubas are Lazy



http://www.elombah.com/index.php/articles-mainmenu/18144-igbos-dominate-economically-in-lagos-because-yorubas-are-lazy






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What a very brilliant analyses

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Romance / Re: I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. by rinora(f): 4:59pm On Jan 15, 2015
My dear u did nothing wrong,in fact you acted like a responsible fellow

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Romance / Re: Questions Some Ladies Ask Their Ex-Boyfriends by rinora(f): 2:33pm On Jan 12, 2015
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Well when/if this happens it's normal to ask one or more of those questions... Emotions has no respect for ones achievement or social statues and neither does gender. it's not restricted to females alone. If an intimate relationship ends it creates an emotional imbalance. It just depends on how we handle it, and how close they both were. Saying it's low self esteem to ask your lost love those questions is something I totally don't agree with. Even if it's someone you were committed to for a week, one would ask some of those questions at least in their minds
But guess what, the end of the race is always the beginning of a new one. And one which could be better than the last.... [/quote


A million likes for this post
Romance / Re: Olabomi Ojuade Reveals How Ex-boyfriend Posted Her Unclad Photos Online [video] by rinora(f): 9:25pm On Dec 11, 2014
lawanson44:


My dear, blame your tribalistic yoruba brothers. They turned me to who i am today.
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My dear,you need to take things easy and judge peope based on individuality,I can't begin to relate my various experiences with Igbo people,I am Yoruba but then inspite of my experiences,have met some very good Igbo people as well,in fact d most generous person to me in this life,has been an Igbo man,so learn to relate with humans based on their individual character,and stop ascribing the attitude of maybe one or two bad eggs you have met,on the general populace of Yoruba people
Romance / Re: Olabomi Ojuade Reveals How Ex-boyfriend Posted Her Unclad Photos Online [video] by rinora(f): 7:17pm On Dec 11, 2014
lawanson44:
See him face...By the way,what part of the country does he come from? I suspect it is from that "red zinc houses" part of the country. Look at the last name...Ifedayo...I suspect some notorious people added "Ife" to the surname to hide his true identity grin cos we know that "those people" are the ones who full Dublin and UK and this kind of act is what they are known for.


Its because of myopic and narrow minded tribalists like you,that Nigeria would continue to be backward the way it is.People like you who cannot analyze or be objective without looking past tribe,you really need to widen your narrow ways of thinking.There is a lot more to life

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Education / Re: Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife In Pictures (Old/ Construction site Pix) by rinora(f): 6:01pm On Dec 12, 2013
imperiouxx:

Believe me, I know nothing in English language. Adding full stop in between statements takes only one key.... pele o omo OAU, OAU fayin.

But ABU is better than OAU from those pictures 50X..... Believe it or not.




Whatever,na u sabi,na ur opinion be that,iwolomo.....
Education / Re: Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife In Pictures (Old/ Construction site Pix) by rinora(f): 5:58pm On Dec 12, 2013
eddieo:

i bet, you just went to few parts of A.B.U. probably you just strolled towards the senate building and went out out. pls dont say that again oo. even people from other schools that came for excursion testified. not just infrastructure, the school is very neat. you ddont throw sachet water or biscuit wrappers / sweet wrapper any how in the school oo. even to urinate any where in the school, you will be scared because of the neatness and beauty. even a dirty student will apprehend you if you try to defecate anyhow unlike in some schools where you see shit by the road side and refuse dump. my dear pls let me give you an invitation to A.b.u AND TAKE YOU ROUND, YOU WILL SING A DIFFRENT SONG ENTIRELY. have you had about the ABU phase II project going on now? hmmm. i cant fit shout. anyway for ur compliments, this is a gift for you.




I did not just go to the senate,i actually went round a lot of places,as a ,matter,of fact,i stayed with a fellow corper.whose mum has been a lecturer,in that school,for over 20years.She practically grew up in the staff quarters,of the school and as well schooled in Abu,she took me around,most,of the exciting places,and we took lots of pictures.I was mesmerized,with the greenery and the landscapes.I even took pictures,in a place called which am not sure,of the name,but i think its called sculptors garden or so.There were so many wonderfully,beautifully carved sculptors there.At one point,we were harrassed by the school security,they claimed,we were not dressed appropriately,even though,we wore normal Jeans and top.They threatened to snap our pictures,and send them to our local government,where we were serving.After series of begging,they finally released.That incident,almost tainted my impression of the school,but i let it go,but in whole,its a very beautiful i must say,but its still not as beautiful,as my beloved alma matter...Great Ife,Greatest uni that ever liveth grin grin,by the way,thanks for the picture gift grin grin
Education / Re: Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife In Pictures (Old/ Construction site Pix) by rinora(f): 5:43pm On Dec 12, 2013
imperiouxx:

Say all what you've written out loud and see if you won't be choked. No full stop just to make points that OAU is better than ABU. Comma sandwiching every word. Na wa for you.

Which school is better in curriculum, student to facility ratio, student to instructor ratio. Those are what I'm expecting from you guys not all these sick buildings and untidy lawns..... ABU from pictures is better, no doubt.






You know what ehn,mr i too know,that knows all the English language in the world,including the commas,and the full stops.You can say whatever,you want to say,I dont care,i already made my point about my school ..Shikena,am out of here
Education / Re: Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife In Pictures (Old/ Construction site Pix) by rinora(f): 5:12pm On Dec 12, 2013
I disagree with all the people,sayin ABU,is more beautiful than OAU,am not siding with Oau because,its my alma matter,OAU,is one of the most beautiful School In Nigeria,i had the opportunity,to visit ABU,while doing my service in Jos,my fellow corpers and i decided to visit kaduna,and we further proceeded to Zaria,where Abu is located,and i must say the school is really beautiful,what impressed me most was even the greenery,everwhere was sparkling with green and well maintained structures,my friends and i kept saying wow,thus i agree its a very beautiful school,however,its not more beautiful than OAU,cos OAU,has some really unique buildings,and architectural buildings,which cannot been found,in most comtemporary schools of today,and including Abu,places like spider building,Amphitheatre,Architectural department etc are phenomenal buildings,which leaves a long lasting impression,thus both schools are really beautiful,and the only advantage ABU,has over OAU,is the beautiful greenery and well sculptured landscapes....
Romance / Re: Describe The Worst Person You Ever Dated by rinora(f): 11:28am On May 24, 2013
my ex was the worse pretender,ever that i have dated in my life.He always acted like the cool and nice guy,that would not hurt a fly,and that made me fall easily in love with him,even though he told me some stories of his past and unpleasant things,he had done,he told me he is a changed man,and dos things were past,i believed him and gave him my heart,until i found out that my ex was having an affair with his uncle's girlfriend,an older woman,who happens to be like a big aunt to me,i was shocked to my marrow,cos i never believed,he had a strong heart,to do such a thing,that experience,to me is the worst,have ever experienced,in a relationship

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Romance / Re: Ladies,how Do U Feel,when Ur Boo Misses Ur Call And Refuses To Call You Back.... by rinora(f): 2:47pm On Feb 19, 2013
timilehing: Has he called back?



He still hasnt called me since yesterday,now i feel hes intentionally ignoring me
Celebrities / Re: Kim Kardashian Interviewed By Gbemi Of Beat-FM by rinora(f): 1:41am On Feb 19, 2013
Hmnnnn,i got curious tonight and watched the Kim and Ray J sex video,honestly am shocked,now i understand why people call her a LovePeddler,gosh that video is belitlling,any guy that watches it can never take her serious.Kanye must be seriously in love wif her to overlook all this and the video is even very boring,was expecting more action,she just layed down dr and was shouting baby,am gonna come...ewwwwwwww shocked
Romance / Re: Ladies,how Do U Feel,when Ur Boo Misses Ur Call And Refuses To Call You Back.... by rinora(f): 11:43pm On Feb 18, 2013
zoete: I just had the same problem with my boyfriend. If he doesn't call you back today. Don't bother calling him back wait untill he does that. If he is busy he should have send you a sms or ping to let you know that he's busy angry


Exactly sis Am so tempted to call him again,but i would control myself not to call him,men can be so annoying sometimes,especially when they realise,you already fallen so much in love wif them

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Romance / Re: Ladies,how Do U Feel,when Ur Boo Misses Ur Call And Refuses To Call You Back.... by rinora(f): 11:34pm On Feb 18, 2013
NnekaGirl:


Maybe he is still busy, wait for him to call you back. 30 missed calls says insecure.



Thank you very much sis,will just wait for him to call me smiley
Romance / Ladies,how Do U Feel,when Ur Boo Misses Ur Call And Refuses To Call You Back.... by rinora(f): 11:25pm On Feb 18, 2013
Hey,peeps,i just need ur opinion,on this,i called my boyfriend like two hours ago,three times,but he dint pick,and he hasnt called me back since then,now am so worried and have started feeling insecure,and thinking,things that he is probably with another woman,thats why he refused to call me,or he is probably tired and getting bored of me,cos when we just started dating,and whenever he misses my calls,he quickly calls me back immediately...Am worried and Mortified embarassed
Romance / Re: Can A Relationship Between Two Introverted And Shy People Work? by rinora(f): 11:16am On Feb 11, 2013
[quote author=Coolval222]Sometimes making the first move doesn't really mean that you are wild.. Make him feel free with you, eg sit on his laps, pinch him sometimes, try to start the play first, i believe he will pick up from there cos we guys love fun, introvert or not....{i'm no expert, just a suggestion o


Thanks so much,on that tip,i guess i would give it a try,and see if both of us would loosen up a bit....
Romance / Can A Relationship Between Two Introverted And Shy People Work? by rinora(f): 5:55pm On Feb 10, 2013
Hello people,i just need ur opinion on these,theres this guy,i met,a few months back,while i was babysitting.We dint get to talk the day,we met but we exchanged numbers,and since then,we started talking,on the phone.However my personality,is the shy type.I am a very shy and introverted person,most times,its easier for me to flow only with extroverted people,and when i realised this,i made up my mind to only date outspoken and extroverted guys,and thats what ve always done.However,in the process of knowing this guy,i got to find out,that we both have similar features,he is also very introverted and can also easily flow with only extroverted people.But the weird thing,is that since we both started talking,on the phone,we find it so easy to flow with each other.Sometimes we could talk for hours,over different issues,on the phone.After sometime i decided,to forget my rule of dating only extroverted guys and we started dating,but the issue now,is due to our shy nature,whenever we see each other physically,we both find it quite hard to express ourselves to each other,Sometimes we would just be staring at each other,but on the phone,we would talk non-stop.These issue of not being able to express ourselves physically,except when on the phone is kind making the relationship boring.I really like the guy so much cos hes good to me,nice and handsome,but i just feel bored,i like excitement and spontaneity,in relationships,but the shyness wont allow us,do u guys think i should just quit the relationship and move over to an extroverted guy,that would not be shy around me or should i stick to my introverted and shy boyfriend and continue being bored?
Nairaland / General / Re: Signs That You Are A Nairaland Newbie by rinora(f): 9:43am On Aug 04, 2012
emmysenior: grin hehe
these are true signs of newbeans newbie
1. you wonder how to post topics.
2. you get annoyed when nobody replies your topic in the next 30 minutes.
3. you get angry when people comment pb4, pds, wtf, trash, e.t.c on your topic.
4. you wonder how to add friends and quickly get a guy/lady to love/like you.
5. you want to know if you are recognized at all.
6. you feel important when your topic is a hot topic (100 replies)
7. you ponder if addicts/heroes are being payed or awarded for their posts.
8. you feel bad if your post is not on the front page.
9. you expect admin to send you a message complimenting your progress.
10. you view a lot of topics and pass without commenting but expecting your number of posts to increase.



Guy you are a Wizard,damn how did u know?I won't lie to you,felt almost all d things u listed when I newly joined nairaland in May dis year..LOL
11. you feel like a "star" when you comment, posted b4 on someones topic.
If u have any of these signs, you are a true new beans newbie.

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