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stainzvill:
It's like you have so much free time on your laps

Wrong. I have free time on my hands. And women on my laps - hence the post

Nothing much to say besides your bro chose the wrong girl from the start AND/OR messed up the relationship somehow.

Either way, he should ignore her and find someone else. If he forgives her, she'll cheat on him with that same guy and more.

WantsandMore:
very apt, you must have working experience to details this vividly, those without working experience will laugh and assume the worst. Many are called anyways.

Yeah... contrary to what lots of guys go for, I like younger women. They tend to give guys headache the most.
But it's when you understand on a deep level you can enjoy them ESPECIALLY the rich and well to do ones

If I could sum up girls from 18 - 25 with one word I'd go with: Clueless.

You might be surprised why I chose that especially since I mentioned I love gen z girls. Well, the reason is simple. You see, deep in their cluelessness lies something you as a man can tap into. A gen z woman craves leadership, experience and exposure.

One of the biggest mistakes men do with young women is assuming they know a lot. Sometimes, sure she's aware of a bunch of things. But MOST of the time she has no clue what she wants or what to do. You see it all the time. First, she says she likes guys that are like "A" only for you to see her with someone who is the opposite.

I've said it here on NL many times about how the most common phrase I hear before and after sleeping with women is "You're not my type" And it's very common. I can write a whole book about this. But the summary of it all is young women are clueless.

Which brings us to the biggest point on why I love them: You MUST understand her MORE than she understands herself.

I can't stress this enough. There's a lot to unpack from that statement. If you feel/think/assume Gen z women understand themselves, then you'll let her ruin both herself and your relationship.

Deep inside this women is a craving for someone who "gets" her on a deeper level. When I tell men this, they're usually shocked. I hear statements like "but she's an adult" "But she said.."

Yes she's an adult but she's a naive one. And about that thing she said? Forget about it. It means nothing when she's around a man that understands her.

A gen z girl can do the wrong things (on purpose or not) HOPING you'd make her do the right thing. You see, young girls are very scared about the future. They worry about their growth and how life will turn out for them. They make mistakes and know they'll make more. Worst of all? They have little clue what the right moves are.

And that's where you come in. When you understand her deeper concerns, desires and motivations she has NO choice but to fall hopelessly in love with you and follow you.

Contrary to what most guys think, Gen z girls are very submissive and hard lovers. They're the type to swim an ocean to make you food. Steal from their parents to take you out and lodge you.... Love die hard and stay loyal. Fight her friends for you. Worship and respect you.

BUT to experience the beauty of that... you MUST understand her more than she understands herself.

Letting a woman just do what she likes hoping she gets it or she understands herself is like when a 10 year old tells you with conviction "please let me drive the car" Of course, if you let him drive that car with you in it, do not be surprised when you find yourself surrounded by Angels and father Abraham

Anyways, if there's one final thing you take from this. Gen z girls want men to understand them better than they do. How to do this is a topic for another day. For now, just keep this in mind when she does or acts ina way that makes you scratch your head

Brahamimo:
Abeg try remove the swear na 🙏🙏.
U don dey make me fear now.
She's being crying throughout, begging here and there. Using different lines to call and text me cos I blocked her everywhere. She said she didn't sleep with the guy

Crying is all part of female manipulation. She 100% slept with him and is trying to find a way back


Find another woman.

Her refusal to dump the other guy shows he's giving her things you don't (good dìck, emotional connection & support, attention etc. Whatever it is.)

However, you should have dumped her since. Once you knew she cheated, block her and keep it moving.

You forgiving her reinforced her belief that you're NOT the man for her. Remember, women will NEVER respect a man that takes her back after cheating.

From the look of things she lost respect and love for you long ago. She's just enjoying you and the guy till she manipulates one of you into taking care of her children or dumps both of you entirely

Your next move? Keep it moving and find new girls. Let your family know that things have ended

The worst thing a man can do is act and look badly jealousy. A little jealousy is okay but the obsessive kind will cause the type of problems you want to avoid..

9 years In marriage is enough for things to get boring, lose its spark etc. So a man finds your wife attractive? So what. Other women should find you attractive in front of her as well.

Most times when women cheat or at the verge of cheating something is missing in the relationship. So find out what that is.

Also, regarding how you fùcked her, do NOT tell her you did dòggy because you were jealous of her and the other guy. Don't even hint at it... just frame the reason as something positive she did that night or recently that makes your relationship stronger


For now, just play it cool, find out what's missing in your relationship and adjust accordingly

SpencerForbes:
That’s true boss. That’s why I always say no one has monopoly of the redpill and I hate when someone is trying to proof he’s boss of the redpill. I like the fact you also listed redpillers up there.

Even the great rollo Tomassi still has some misconceptions about redpill and sometimes if you check their thread, you’ll see a lot of arguments there.

Just that here in Nigeria we think everything is competitive. It’s always right to put someone in the light when he’s wrong, In a correct way. Not trying to claim you have more knowledge.

Thanks boss. [color=#000000][/color]

Yup. I like Rollo. Lots of his teachings are spot on. For example the epiphany phase is one of his most accurate works.

Hypergamy on the other hand is one of his most flawed concepts as well.

So you have to smart guy having two teachings: one is accurate and the other is wrong. That's why you must approach topics with a certain level of scrutiny so you can peel back the layers, and find out which topics are actually true.

Women are reasonably simple to understand. You just have to put in the work and keep an open mind

SpencerForbes:
Nice one. I think you should talk more on vetting🤔

Vetting is a straightforward path with bumps along the way. They're are no bends or short cuts but the obstacles are what makes the process challenging

When guys ask me about vetting, it means they haven't asked themselves two VITAL questions: 1) Am I high value? 2) If yes, WHY?

Once you ask yourself this, it will be clear on the purpose of vetting. I've said it before you're not high Value because you're a man. You're high value because you're a man that HAS things & can DO things.

From that perspective you understand that any woman that doesn't add to your value and/or removes from it will simply not pass the vetting process.

It's important to remember that it's YOUR duty to vet her. Even though she might also assess you, the underlying frame should be that YOU are the one vetting. It is your world. It is your kingdom. If she wants to be a part of it, she has to prove herself.

Now, Before I go into a summary of steps for vetting, I want to make two things ABUNDANTLY CLEAR: 1) 80% of your vetting MUST be subtle. Meaning, you don't go about telling her "I'm watching you oo be careful" OR "I don't trust you. You have to prove yourself" Vetting is under the radar, unsuspecting. There's little room for her to pretend. 2) vetting MUST start BEFORE she becomes your gf. Guys make this terrible mistake of vetting a girl while she's in a relationship to see if she will become a wife. As you'll see in the steps, this is a grave mistake. Because a wife is just a girlfriend with a new outfit.


-------Steps in Vetting

● 1 Ask yourself: What do you want as a man?
Nothing is more important than this. Cuz if you're not clear on the kind of woman you want, you will go for anything. As they say: A man that stands fir nothing, will fall for anything.

So have a list of qualities YOU want


●Step 2: Take note of your resources. Generally as men, we have 4 resources: Money, Time, Attention, Guidance.
These are things that make you valuable. And if you're really high value, you know the work & effort to get them. So the woman coming into your life as gf or wife is someone who has proven herself and CONTINUES to prove herself. The last part is very important. There's no end to how much she should be willing to prove herself.


●Step 3. Ask yourself 2 questions. Question 1; what are the qualities of a woman that ADD to my resources. Question 2: what are the traits of a woman that REMOVE from my resources.

Then you apply the Screen in/out model. For question 1, you screen smart women, resourceful women. For question 2, screen out leeches, gold diggers etc


As you can see, it is obvious why you should be subtle when screening. If you let a girl know you're vetting her, she will act like a chameleon and blend In to who you want. That is why you can bring a woman and different men will have different versions of her "not my amaka" "not my Jennifer"

When women drop shìt tests, do they tell you they're testing you? Nope. They just test and watch you pass or fail. You can learn a lot by observing how women game. They methods they use work on them even more. That's why I encourage men to have interactions with women. It will be obvious how women play their games. Then you can use the same on them


Anyways, this just a brief overview of what vetting means. Maybe in the future I'll create deeper nuanced threads on what moments to vet and how to do it

Fiscus105:
Why replying a guy, whose his gf denying him, outrightly in his presence? Did you need a rocket science to know the type/level/intelligent of such guy? They think gragra is how to be in charge of relationship with woman.

Lots of men have WRONG beliefs about relationships & women. From red pilers to blue pillers to normal guys.

I've met smart, rich guys who have no clue what they're doing. In fact, the "smarter" a man is, the worse he tends to do with women. Why? Cause logic doesn't mix with emotions.

And women being emotional creatures see their excess logic as boring and a sign of easy manipulation.

So it's always best to show pointers when possible

Senkasa:
Good morning house.

I'm in my mid twenties and want to learn a digital skill that's not related to tech but i need valuable suggestions.

Currently, I'm doing amazon kdp but for close to a month now I've recorded zero sales in any of my three books.. hence I want to change line..

Initially, I wanted to start youtube content creation (like posting pix of night life in different parts of my state) but I don't know if I can do it with only my phone camera or I'll be needing a gopro camera..


However, I want a skill that i can easily learn from now to December and be getting paid in dollas.. I want to be financially free soonest..

I have enough time and data to learn whatever valuable skill you may suggest.. i just need guidance on which path (skill) to follow (learn)

A Digital skill not related to tech? That's like hoping to find am ocean without fishes.

Anyways, most Digital skills are profitable. Pick one and stick to it for 6 - 8 months

As a beginner like yourself with zero mentorship, one month is too short to give up. When I started online business, it took me 2 months to make $100 and I had some guidance. So don't think ANY online business will give you much in one month.

Stick to one for at least 6 - 8 months. For Amazon Kdp, I'd advise you use the next 2 months to learn it very well. You're experiencing slower sales because this is June/July. It's summer and spring period. People are not out there looking for books to buy. They're partying and enjoying life.

However, towards the end of the year? People start picking up books as gifts etc. So get ready for that period. You haven't learned Kdp well. Take your time to learn it while trying to pick up another skill

Tenrack:
I had known about your teachings for a while, yet I let my feelings get the best of me. I hope someone else can learn from my mistake.

https://www.nairaland.com/8461427/got-scammed-served-breakfast-single/7

Keep doing the good work boss.

Just read your thread. Fùcked up situation. Single mothers are off limits for any sensible man.

They put themselves and their children before you. Put their baby daddies above you. And transfer the baggage of past hurt relationships on you.

Most of them hate when you're good to them because their subconscious is used to being taken for granted. So when they see a good man, you're seen as weak and become an easy target for manipulation

Always Always vet women before dating them. No point wasting resources on liabilities that won't improve your life.

And even in relationships keep vetting and testing them. Either they pass and become your woman or they fail and you discharge them.

No such thing as "pity" or "soft heart for her" All that matters is how much is this girl willing (or already has) to invest in your relationship

As a general rule: Men tend to appear stronger than they actually are.... while women tend to appear weaker than they actually are. Never forget that.

This doesn't mean you should always assume the worst about women. But keep an open mind and kmow that NOBODY is above fùck ups

All the best

SpencerForbes:
Last week, I played a prank on my babe by using someone’s else pics to chat her on TikTok. She always leaves my messages unread cos of TikTok. The moment I told her I really like her and I asked her if I could ask her a question. She started narrating her life story to me. Telling me where she lives and where she’s from. Then I told her I want to date her, she asked really?

I played along and asked if she had a boyfriend, she replied yes, somehow😂

I was reasoning if na babe wey I don Dey date Dey reply somehow. Even if she didn’t fall but the win wasn’t convincing enough. The babe just Dey find higher bidder make she monkey branch.

I confronted her and had to give her a pass for that. Some go deny you outrightly like my ex. She told a man in front of me that she doesn’t have a boyfriend that I’m her friend. Since then I stopped trusting that gender.

I’m kind of pitying the girl cos if I react she’s going to hate all guys. She has a good character and is very feminine, she’ll be good for the next generation and she’s earning fair enough. I just don’t understand why the sudden rush to monkey branch. The female mind is really something else. I’ve been expecting it from her due to the lessons I’ve learnt on this thread but I’m still going to give her another chance and if she fails, she’s gone.

I've noticed this trend lately among guys I teach and meet in real life.

There is this erroneous tendency to "confront" their babes. Or worse, forgive her for failing the basics.

First, I want you to understand that you don't have a gf. And it has nothing to do with monkey branch but rather your skill as a man and the quality of girl you chose.

Let me give you an analogy: women are like tree planted into the ground. The ground/soil is you and the relationship. The wind or storm are the "highest bidders" that try to woo her. How easily she can be uprooted from the ground (read:your relationship) depends on HOW FIRMLY she's planted.

You can have a quality girl and still lose her because of how bad the relationship is.

Secondly, the right response to "do you have a boyfriend is an emphatic yes. Anything short of that is questionable.

It seems like most of guys today are just in relationships for the sake of it. Cause while women have a tendency to monkey branch... it doesn't mean they'll act on it. And besides, there are measures to drastically reduce it.

Also stop all these "pranks" It doesn't work and makes you look insecure

jayAjoku:
A woman that does not like or want you will exhibit the following characteristics.
1) she will resist you and your attempts
2) she will give you a lot of excuses as to why she cannot meet up with you or have sex
3) she will start billing you or asking you for unnecessary favors
4) she will ignore your texts and calls or she will take a really long time to respond to you
5) she will not follow your instructions
6) she will begin telling you about how you should treat her or how she expects you to treat her.
simply put a woman that does not like you will show you several signs of disinterest and disrespect when you see any of these signs do not misinterpret them any other way other than disinterest. leave them alone and go find more women

Yeah, some of these are obvious. The real issue is when she gives you subtle signs that you may think are good but are actually terrible. For example, when she says after sex "One thing I love about us... we don't fùck... we make love" When you hear that, RUN

Anyways, let me address your points. As always, with game/seduction/women... nuance is your golden key


1) "She will resist you and your attempts"

Not always. Like I've said numerous times, resistance is not rejection. Sometimes resistance is a test. However, prolonged resistance means she doesn't like you.

Most men leave at the first sign of resistance which causes them to lose loads of women

2) "she will give you a lot of excuses as to why she cannot meet up with you or have sex"

100% A girl not wanting to meet up or worse, not have sex is a classic sign of disinterest

3) "she will start billing you or asking you for unnecessary favors"

Sometimes it's a test.

4) "she will ignore your texts and calls or she will take a really long time to respond to you"


100% Girls love to hear from people they care about


5) "she will not follow your instructions"

100% lack of respect = lack of love. However, make sure you're giving the right instructions in the right way to the right woman.

6) "she will begin telling you about how you should treat her or how she expects you to treat her"


Sometimes it's a test. Sometimes it's her being honest. It depends


Good points all round. As always, nuance should be applied in everything for maximum benefits

Kipaji:
Oh wow, how insightful!

The part about how it doesn't make much sense to refuse to engage with women because of their bad sides and risks while we regularly engage in other things with bad sides and risks, is the one that caught my attention the most.
But why though? Why is it that when it comes to women, a lot of men these days just give up? As you said, businesses, transportation, etc. have their whole lot of risks too. So, what is particular about the women case?

It's simple. They give up because of bad advice like "be yourself"


And because actually becoming the man that women want to fùck & respect requires work on yourself

You don't get there simply by reading 500 red pill books

Kipaji:
Flaking (especially without explanation and tentative to fix another date) is disrespectful. Never accept disrespectful behavior from any woman. Whether she likes you or not, whether she is your wife or girlfriend, respect is a like she should never cross.
Better a woman that respects me and doesn't like me than a woman who "likes" me and disrespect me by flaking like this.




Rizzputin, we have just one life to live. Why waste it trying to be something you are not to impress a woman that can't do anything for you beside providing a few minutes of pleasure? Guys, live your life. Enjoy yourself. Be who you are. Do not compromise that for any woman (or anybody for that matter). Talk in your natural way of talking, walk in your natural way of walking, behave the way you naturally do, stand on what you truly believe, and do not let this world compromise you. Do not change a single bit for women. Do not make the mistake of Adam who compromised himself to please Even, like most redpillers compromise themselves in the hope of appealing to and attracting women (changing their raw real personalities and behavior to become "bad boys" or whatever).

Who you are is more important than her puśsy, especially these days were the average girl's pussy is infected, spiritually corrupted, dirty and stinky, used and overused.

Kaido, don't bother with that "game" stuff. Be yourself. Even if it means most women won't look at you twice, be yourself. Even if it means women will call you boring, be yourself. Even if it means you'll be sexless, be yourself. Do not sell your soul for pussy. (Besides, if you have to be anything but your true self to get a woman, is that really a woman you want?)




Alright. I guess it must have been working for you. You must have met many girls who weren't really into you but eventually fell for you. I don't doubt your experience. All the best to you.

But to me, that's mostly a waste of time and energy. What did you get out of all these weeks/months of trying to turn red into green? A few minutes a pleasure from a used pussy (and probably a bill of some sort, e.g. transport, drinks)? Was it worth it?



What have you learned since you dealt with low interest girls?




I don't give fúck a woman's shìt test, she is NEVER disrespecting me. Whether it was a test or not, I don't care. If she disrespects me by flaking like this, she can forget about me. She can keep her disrespectful puśsy to herself.




I don't think that he can't get the pússy. Women these days, don't have standards when it comes to sex, especially if money is involved.

But Rizzputin, why would you want to fûck a woman who doesn't even respect you? Is the pússy really that good? Will your self-esteem and self-love allow you to give yourself (energy, semen) to a woman who blatantly disrespected you? Does her disrespectful self deserve it just because she has a hole between her legs?

"Be yourself" This bs advice and many more is PRECISELY why guys do badly not just with women but in life as a whole. It's TERRIBLE advice

You want to be & BECOME the best version of yourself. The so called good life you want to leave doesn't come easy.

You're not charismatic? Fix it
You don't talk well? Fix it
You're shy? Fix it

Telling people to "naturally" stay who they are even when it hinders their progress is just terrible advice. No matter how you paint it

Your goal as a man is to grow and develo yourself. And this involves... CHANGING things about you. There's nothing wrong with change that makes you grow. Embrace it and learn from it.

Now.... let's continue

"Flaking (especially without explanation and tentative to fix another date) is disrespectful"

I know you read this in some redpoll book. But as I've said many times, book and real life are not entirely the same

It is quite hypocritical of you to address people you meet In your own life by how they present themselves BUT you ignorantly think women will be different.

Let's say you're a naturally confident & funny guy especially at work and around your friends or even with certain women....

Yet when you met this particular girl... you were shy... timid... boring... and practically annoying In your presentation... HOW do you expect her to see you?

Does she have a crystal ball to know that Kipaji is a funny guy? She will address based on your current presentation

I always tell guy this which you should tattoo at the back of your mind as well:

Women don't necessarily reject you.... they reject the VERSION of you that you show them

Stop being so bitter and worked up.... demanding for respect you most likely haven't earned or deserved.

So you want her to drop all she has for you even when her interest in you is LOW.... due to your bad game? That's living a fantasy lol

It's guys like you that shout about respect the most that have the most trouble getting women to respect them

Remember, that respect is EARNED. Not demanded.

Zabiboy:
Again, Unfortunately, the "game" over 90% of men desperately want to learn is - in simple, clear and straightforward term - " the use of words, signs, body language, actions to convince someone who has shown no interest in you to become interested".. And in my opinion, it is significantly different from the "game" someone - who people already find attractive from the get go or who is dealing with those that has shown interest - needs

They're all game. But you're right... most guys just want girls that are interested in them from the get go.

But like I said above it's boring. Turning a girl who showed no interest into her loving your dìck is where the fun in seduction lies

Most guys are clueless on how to do that and/or too lazy to do it... so they just go for super green girls.

But there are simple solutions to most things.

That guy will learn WAY MORE trying to turn this situation around than just abandoning her.

To the untrained eye game might look like "calculations" BUT to the experienced.... It's just another day to enjoy life

Kipaji:
Wow, all these calculations over puśsy? All while the guy she likes doesn't have to worry about any of this shít?

A girl can like you and still flake or test you.

Secondly, there's a good chance he didn't present himself or game her properly.

There are guys who love to go for only girls that are interested in them from the onset. That's okay. But it's a boring way of seduction


Real game is the ability to turn red or yellow girls into green. That girl doing shakara for you... All of a sudden begging for your dìck In a week. That's what real game is

If all you do is go for girls that are high interest from the beginning.... you won't learn anything. And it will limit the amount and quality of girls you'll get.

To Summarise: A girl testing you doesn't mean she doesn't like you. That is a wrong belief most guys have on this thread. Both women that like you and don't like you will test you

If that guy plays his cards right... he'll fùck her this weekend. What will you now say? That she liked him from the beginning abi lol

Kaido:
I recently got to know this young lady. Asked her to join me this weekend for a drink, she was happy but days later, she told me something came up. Well I did have a good time on my own.

Is it necessarily asking her out for a drink again? I don't wanna cuz e go make me look desperate. i just wan knack her dey go. 😒

You most likely didnt ask her out properly that's why she flaked. There is a correct order and process to ask out girls

Anyways, girls sometimes flake to test how the guy will respond. Just be chill and unphased about it


Hit her up tomorrow or Wednesday and just vibe with her... don't bring up the date. Don't over invest while texting her. Just keep it cool and fun

Do this tomorrow and Wednesday. Don't reply her on Thursday. Then vibe with her on Friday... and ask her out for the weekend

Ideally weekends aren't great times to ask out women but they sometimes work.

In summary... don't ask her out immediately. Vibe with her then ask her out again On a high note

Careente7:
I was walking down the road with a girlfriend then she asked me why I was walking close to the gutter that she was supposed to walk close to the gutter while I walk by her right because of moving vehicles. She said it wasn’t proper for a lady to walk close to the road when walking with a guy. I asked if I was Superman or if I couldn’t get hit by a car. She was surprised I asked cos according to her no guy had ever asked her that question. Then I realized the kind of guys she’s been with. But who even brought that law? It’s been messing with a lot of men(young boys to be precised). We need the gospel



No comment; next question

Yeah, it doesn't really matter what side of the road you walk on lol.

The good thing you was not falling for her shìt test. You can walk wherever you feel like.

But depending on the girl, guy and context... walking close to cars can make a girl see you as sweet, a protector and attractive

emmaodet:
Despite all the Lovey-Dovey, Love has very strong weaknesses that can't be ignored.
Distance and Time are 2 factors that influences Love alot.

Distance - most relationship breaks due to distance alot and it is the reason why a relationship going on smoothly in school will start having issues after graduation because someone close to the lady in her street or church is now disturbing her.
They say, out of sight is out of mind and it is true despite the regular calls ye distance will take it's toll in a relationship.
Reason why so many japa relationship breaks. Even Lagos-Ogun state relationship is prone to breaking compared to Egbeda-Ipaja own.
Love and relationship is too fragile to rely on..

Hardly will you see a secondary school relationship leads to marriage and even university relationship to marriage percentage is very very slim. Probably 1 out of 5.....Distance

2. Time - The longer the relationship, the higher the chances of it not leading to marriage. I don't know the percentage but higher percentage of those who are married today falls within less than 2 years relationship from my observation.
Ask your female friends or family members that got married how long they dated their husbands before marrying......Please note Dated not Known.
A lady could have know a man for years, even probably the man disturbing her for relationship but didn't date him because you may get a response like have known him since since 2017. The question is when did you guys officially started dating.
The problem with Time in a relationship is that the longer a relationship, the more you get to know each other and quarrel occasionally which creates a vaccum or an opportunity for a new guy to sneak into the relationship.
There is no better time and opportunity to get a lady that is faithful to our guy if not that short window of misunderstanding in their relationship and distance also.

While this post has good intentions... it will cause more problems than you'll realize. Why? Because a MAJOR problems guys face (which you just did) is MIS-ATTRIBUTION

Meaning, they blame a the reason for problem on a WRONG thing. The reason why long distance, university and secondary school relationships fail is NOT due to distance.

Rather, distance REVEALS the problem the long relationships already had. I will repeat it again so you can tattoo in your mind.

Distance REVEALS the problem the long relationships already had.

There's a difference between the actual problem, the symptom of the problem and then situations that reveal problems

Most of those relationships were not properly established and had poor foundations. Distance just showed both of them how bad their relationships were already.

There's a proper way to build a LDR. Most people just jump into it hoping "I love you" promises will sustain them

But you have to structure your relationships with long distance in mind.

I've seen successful LDRs... so I know some helpful tips that increases the odds of success

So the main factor is building a strong relationships from scratch that will stay well even in long distance

emmaodet:
A boy cries out that he has been molested by a lady or raped and people start laughing and mocking him but immediately you change that boy to a girl, all of a sudden, they stop laughing and start cursing and raining hell for the man or boy to be court-marshalled.

A man cries out about how is wife is maltreating him, disrespecting him, not giving him sex and wants to pack out of the house and people start laughing him to be weak, simp and a sisi man who deserves all he is getting but immediately you change that to a woman, people stop laughing and start cursing. All of a sudden, they are wise enough to judge the case normally.

A man takes a lady/wife abroad and on getting there shortly, she starts misbehaving and kicks him out or divorce him. When the man comes to nairaland with tears to pour out his mind, they all mock him, laugh him, call him names etc but change the same man to a woman and all hell would be let loose. Curses would be rained on the man for being an ingrate and a confirmation of why women are justified for not helping men when they climb up.

A man and his woman starts hustling and then God answered the prayer of the man. Everyone and the society expects the man to pull up his woman but when she climbs first and dump him and he comes here to pour out his mind, they start laughing at him, calling him names, tell him to double his hustles and stop complaining, some call him lazy and believe the woman did the best by dumping his lazy ass etc.

It just looks as if there is a deliberate campaign to rubbish and useless the male child....May God help us

There is no deliberate campaign to rubbish male gender. Both men and women have privileges. And like I tell my brothers & sisters, there's nothing you or ANYONE can do about it.

I always tell men... see yourself as LEADER. When guys hear this, they think it's all about giving out orders or being the boss.

But being a leader is always TAKING RESPONSIBILITY. You have to see what happens to you whether positive or negative. Even if it's not your fault factually, you want to find out whatever role you played or didn't play that caused it to happen.

This includes but not limited to:


----- Signing prenups before marriage

-----Not getting girls drunk during sex to avoid false rapè Accusations. Because Simps and society will believe the girl


----Ending all relationships, fwbs, fùck buddies on a good note


----- Getting a girl to admit she fùcked you willing via text. A day after fùcking. A girl just left my place. I texted her "the way you held my dìck sha" She: lol it's not my fault na, it's too sweet. Me: Ahh. She: why are you shouting like you didn't like it. Me: I liked it more when it entered inside you. Her: lol. yeah that was the sweetest part


Do you know why I did all that... I'm gradually getting her to confirm/agree that the sex was consensual and she enjoyed it. The text went on and on. And i do this with EVERY girl I fùck. Whether it's a solo fùck or a bi sexual party


It is ignorant to think or expect the world to be fair to you. Especially if you're just coming up. Once you become high value... you start getting admirers... followers... fake friends and people... and people wanting to pull you down

It's also naive to assume people will be good to you just because you were good to them. This why you must take responsibility and fortify yourself mentally, financially, socially, health wise etc

I always tell people.. this life balance... na you no wan stand well

emmaodet:
As a man, in whatever you do, please always constantly add value to yourself, try and make sure you are earning no matter what and please, improve your social life.
Working, earning, financially stable is not enough, please increase your social life i repeat because without increasing your social life, all what you have achieved will make you settle for less and be satisfied with it.

Join clubs be it Rotaract, 36 lioness, if you have the financial muscle golf club etc.
Register with a nice gym center, go swimming regularly etc.
Weekend movies, join tour/event groups that plans for weekend tours and beaches etc.
Mingle with friends that invites you to parties and events regularly etc.
With this, you will never be short of young beautiful women.
The problem with a low social life is that it makes you settle for less.
You will see your girlfriend as the best thing or woman you can get when in reality, your social status can afford you a far better lady.
Women will explore their femineity to the fullest to secure the best man they can get, while are we men not fully utilizing our masculinity and secure the best woman we can get also? we settle far too low

This is good advice. Most men will have better relationship rewards if they improved their social life

KennethIbe59:
Boss I don miss your contribution here
You and pukkalolo teach more of the practical than theory

I look forward to more of your contributions

I might create a more intimate telegram group for more serious seducers who are willing to actually seduce and sleep with gorgeous women in any state in Nigeria and in any country in the world.

It will be only be by application. This thread is full of theory junkies, copy cats and guys who don't approach...

I can't continue revealing my secrets to such people. So when I'm ready... a group will be made for serious seducers.

For now, I'll post on a separate thread when I get hit with inspiraton or if I see someone post a practical... real life experience here... I might respond

Thanks for the compliment tho

IHate9jerianss:
The thread has gone stale.
It's now simply the rehashing of past posts,discussions & issues nothing more.
My layman's advise to any & everyone is to read the first 500 pages & be gone

I agree. It's just boring nonsense none of them have ever tried or will ever try.

And it got even more stale because none of them are trying out things they read so new epiphanies. Just boys jerking off how women are evil to their pathetic selves

luminouz:
Shût dafuq UP and crawl away into a deep dark hole, without your toothbrush.

Join him. You guys get a life. You clearly have no lives

JESHAL007:
Remember we are in modern times
Be data driven, follow logic, definitely you would be emotional in your dealing with women it's inevitable that is how you are wired but the redpill will aid you especially in times your emotions overwhelm your empirical driven redpill insights

Modern times equals new order
Traditional times equals old order

Bro stop posting. You talk a lot of nonsense. Go out and live life

SnoopTech:
Hello Fam!

I need some advice from gurus here. The thing is, I have been dating this girl for some time now! Honestly, she loves me, though she tries hard to hide it. I have done my analysis and come to that conclusion.

Even when we had issues and broke up, she still came back and apologized. She also emphasized that she sees a future of us together (married) because at the beginning of the relationship, I told her that I date to marry.

I am in tech! Though I am not rich, I earn a decent amount of money for myself.

But my issues are as follows:

1. I suspect she’s involved in coded runs. I have done my research, and from some stories she tells me, though it's not 100% proof, there is a high possibility that she’s involved in "sugar daddy" relationships. She buys expensive phones, clothes, etc., and she doesn’t ask me for a dime. At the beginning of the relationship, she used to ask me for money, but after we broke up and she came back, she stopped. There was a time I even saw her Snapchat story in a hotel room. I confronted her, but she turned it into a fight until the matter died down.

2. She doesn’t listen! In fact, she warns me not to tell her what to do or not to do. If I insist, it turns into a full-blown argument. In fact, if not because I put her in her place, this girl wanted to dominate me and turn me into a "mumu" (fool) who does anything she wants.

3. She refuses to have sex with me. She always tells me she is a virgin, and no matter how hard I try, she will never admit that she has had sex before. Though she doesn’t ask me for money or even bother if I don’t call her for days, all she wants is for us to chat briefly in a day, and that’s it. But she wants me to be loyal.

4. She gets angry when I mention anything that isn’t positive regarding marriage. For example, there was a time I said I would marry four wives. She started giving me the silent treatment for days. Another time, when I said I’d have to complete my MSc before marriage, she got angry.

Please, experts! Can you help me analyze this situation and explain the way forward? A friend says she sees a bright future in me and wants to keep me as her backup husband when she starts reaching her "diminishing age." Because, going by the calculations, we are both young, in our early twenties.

Skepticus

Martinez39s

iichidodo

Rizzputin

Samueltemi337

AlphaNugget

Luminouz

Sabbiboi

Dump her

Pukkalolo:
As a Man, If you’re ready to level up and actually win in dating, grab Top G Dating Secret now. Check my profile for more info.

Happy Sunday.

You mean, Bottom G Dating Lies

Pukkalolo:
Fellas, If you want real results today, grab Top G Dating Secret and start winning now.

Stay blessed brothers.

Bottom G Dating secrets you mean: copy & steal it all.

Pukkalolo:
Appreciate you, my biggest fan! Keep watching, keep commenting, and keep putting this post on the front page.

Meanwhile, I’ll keep winning.

Yeah, all that stealing. You're definitely winning making me popular. Just wait till I release a book so you can steal more ideas from buddy

I just love how clowns copy me in the most comical ways.

Here's great red piller Pukkalolo stealing stuff he has no idea of:

https://www.nairaland.com/8334537/learned-hard-wayplease-dont-make

He stole & copied it from this thread of mine and says "he learnt it the hard way" Lmao... of course no story to back it up

Cause he stole it lol. Unfortunately he's clueless how to actually do it. Maybe he should use his book sales and pay me for consultation

Here's my thread he copied from:

https://www.nairaland.com/8162258/dont-surprising-truth-paying-gf#131095615