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When i was younger i loved WWE wrestling. I'd practice moves on my younger brother after watching different fights

Once Randy orton or Rey mysterio had a fight, I'd quickly turn on my Tv to watch some real action. But as i grew, i realized everything about wwe was staged. From the characters, the plots and even the punches. All fake. You probably felt just as disappointed as i was if you were a fan.

The moment i found it was fake, that was the end of me watching it seriously. Now, i just laugh at the fakeness of it all.

This same thing happens when girls test you for authenticity. Authenticity tests happen when a girl is trying to figure out who you say you are. She's hoping you "pass the test" She wants you to be the man you claim to be.

That's why if she realizes a guy is fake, she becomes disappointed. Then either proposes to use the guy to catch cruise for her entertainment. Or starts to resent him.

With women, there's no need for pretence. You have to believe you're the prize. And act like it.

This is why guys that use money to get women fail miserably in the long run. At the beginning, the money hides their fakeness and ingenuity. Money displays a false sense of confidence or leadership or competence.

Until after a while, the mask starts to crack. All that money cant make up for the masculine quality she craves for.

Being firm with what you believe in and your principles is a good way to remain authentic.

Of course, i dont mean baseless, nonsensical principles like: "i dont double text"

But real ones like: Taking responsibility, creating healthy boundaries and firm but loving criticism



PS: A new thread is coming up about women and lies. Why they do it and how to stop them from lying to you

Then another on myths about female nature

one here on frames

And a thread on detecting a girl's body count range

Once you realize that women LOVE sex and would do just about anything to get earth shattering orgasms, you'd start to see them in a more accurate light.

Before I dive in, I have to make it abundantly care to the moral police out there that my try to lecture me on the dos and don'ts of married women. Kindly put whatever advice you have in a folder called "Not important"

Because after all, concerning what you're about to read, the morals are not that important. If i didn't fùck them, someone else will.

So yes, for the past for years, people's serious girlfriends and "God fearing" wives have been graciously sucking my dìck with little to no remorse for their partners. They make a good percentage of women i have romantic affairs with

But I'm not here to boast but rather to inform you on some discoveries i made. Some are surprising. While others are shocking you might think you're reading something from a movie. You might know some of them already too.

If you've ever wondered why women cheat, this will explain a lot. And if you've ever wondered why i say men are usually at fault when women cheat you'll understand why too.

So let's look at some insights I've discovered. I wanted to separate them into different categories, (you'll get why once you continue reading) But no time for that.
So we'll just have to go with what we have


● Boring men finish last. If I could pick one recurring theme why these women cheated, it's due to lack of passion. Somehow, the fire and spark ran out.

Their bfs and hubbys stopped performing and being the man they used to be. They stopped showing attention and affection. Stopped being exciting & adventurous. And that's all that was needed for the devil to steer their direction into my arms.

The amount of clueless men are rising. And they're everywhere. From the red pill to blue pill to purple pill. Men don't seem to understand that if you want your woman's devotion, you have to be someone worth devoting to.

In fact, i have come up with a theory: Give any new relationship 4 months, 7 months, 2 years and 5 -7 years checkpoints and the girls would cheat. These are the time lines when men on average tend to start slacking

It's always funny when these women complain about how their relationship is boring. Or how they wish their husband was loving like me.

You might be tempted to say "why can't she communicate with him?" You'd surprised how many have. But trust most men with their over bloated egos. That they can't see when their ship is sinking cuz their ego blinds them

● Picking the wrong woman. No matter your game or money or charms or looks, it won't save you from the wrong woman

Wrong women come in different forms: maybe she's not compatible with you or you both argue a lot. But that's not the kind of woman I'm referring to

Im referring to women that are too damaged to be wife or gf materials. I don't believe in degrading women so I won't call them hòes. But you get the idea... some girls are just to far gone to be saved.

The problem is this women often bring the sweetest vibe, sex, chemistry and conversations. They are experts at playing the feminine submissive role. After all, they've been in that position so many times... they've mastered the art of pretending.

Sometimes after fùcking or vibing with someone's gf or wife, i spot so many red flags i wonder who is the clown that wifed her up.


●Manipulation Tactic 1: Opening up.

Some time last year i went to a girl's house for Netflix & chill. I brought pop corn and a bottle of coke for two of us.

Her bf called soon after and they were just vibing. Then she decided to "open up" And tell him that a guy brought pop corn for her. They talked briefly about that: You know the usual who is he bla bla

Once they were done, few minutes later... we were passionately kissing each other and then i was pounding her fat ass (her ass was fùcking fat)

I've noticed a lot of clown men fall for this. Because their gf told them about a guy, then surely she's loyal.

Well let me make it clear unless it was something really funny or embarrassing if she's telling about a guy toasting her, you can be 99% sure she will fùck him or already has. If she tells you about a guy "disturbing" her and then asks what should she do, make it 99.99% that's she's fùcking him

A really loyal girl would not entertain such things. Or start asking you what should she do. Unless the guy is harassing her. And even then, it could still be a lie

The next point will help you make a better decision


●Your intuition is your best friend: Trust your gut

Sure, sometimes guys have trust issues or are unnecessarily paranoid. But your gut feeling would hardly ever lie to you.

Case in point: a girl and i passed her bf's house to a hotel. While i was kissing & fingering her, his call came in

Of course, i applied pressure. She could barely talk and as the words came out she let out soft moans. Girls love this by the way. She cut the call because it was getting to intense. But she picked it again. This time, her bf, suspecting something was off, requested a video call. He said the place she's at is echoing

She declined and said she's on the road so she cant do it.Lol. And then proceeded to get angry that why would he suspect her.

The bf started apologising and saying he trusts her but that he just wanted to be sure. They both ended everything on good terms. The guy posted her that night with "my forever" lmao

If your gut is hinting at something, most likely a good idea to confirm


● when men don't have boundaries

One delusional mindset men have is that once they find a "good girl" then everything has set.

Well here's something for you. Every girl will test you and if you fail, even if she's good... she'll be tempted to get smashed if you don't bring her back in line

Women generally have this self destruct mentality. That is, if you dont guide and lead them with a firm but caring & genuine hand... she'll ruin herself, you and the entire relationship.

Another case in point: A guy had a good gf. But his gf had a childhood friend that was more of a baddie. She was throwing a birthday party. The theme from the fliers and all was screaming naughty. And you bet it was.

Now i know the guy and the girl told him about the party... and rather than telling her not to go because it was an all night event and the nature of the party, he agreed to let her go

She came to the party... got turned on by the unending display of dìvks and her friend that encouraged her to have fun... and me and another guy ended up railing her that night.

Of course, me and the bf are not friends so he'll know nothing about that night from me. But whether he realizes it or not, that night has changed their relationship

And he could have been prevented by saying no. Probably he didn't want to offend her. But you shouldn't have a problem offending your girl in the interest of you, her and the relationship

Creating & maintaining boundaries is crucial for a working relationship


●Being too controlling

I know i just told you to have boundaries. But the goal is to be in control but not to be controlling

Unnecessary red pill toughness, too much check mating will just make her feel trapped rather than safe in the relationship.

And as humans, once she feels trapped, she starts craving freedom & adventures.

You have to find a balance. Too much of everything is bad. Including control. You want her to feel safe but not too safe. You dont want her to feel "trapped"

A common word I've heard with girls that have controlling bfs. She might put it up with it for a while till she finds an opportunity to let loose.


● Fùck her well

This one needs no further explanation. If you're NOT fùcking her well, there is lack of sexual compatibility and things will end sooner or later


●Buying affection, love

Never start a relationship based on money. It will end.

There's a saying, the more you spend on a wedding, the weaker the marriage.

Strong beautiful relationships are built on love, passion, emotional connection, communication, lust and good sex. Money helps but it should never be your starting point or your foundation

Unless your aim is just to be fùcking. But for long term relationships the deeper stuffs matter more than superficial materialism

Anyways, that's it. Feel free to reflect on them and see ways you can improve your overall lifestyle

LifeofDream:
If you hesitate, you masturbate... Thanks Pukkalolo for that... @rizzputin and my other bosses, thanks for the reply... Can't believe I was able to bed a girl in a day with no shishi spent just because I made the move, truly girls have crazy imagination...

Though I've fvcked up this same year too but it's part of the learning and process...

Pls what do you think I can do to get the upper hand again in this situation...

There's this girl I got her contact mid last year but I didn't contact her, I think she later misplaced the number.. Fast forward to late December when I came back home, she visited me 4 times in 2 days but I wasn't around those time.
Later on, I heard she's sick. I took the bold steps and approach her, got her new number too.. Called her the second day to meet up somewhere around the street... We talked for some minutes and I think I show too much interest in her which I think was a mistake by me..

Although, I've little interest in her but I made it too obvious when I see her because she was sick and I was trying to care for her. And also I was trying to compensate her because of the stress and disappointment she went through by visiting me 4 times and I wasn't around, I don't want the situation to look like I was taking her for granted.

I've chatted her up few times and I notice she give me one word reply, I may be wrong but I think this is a sign she's not interested.. This is a girl that was practically chasing me up and down a week ago..

I'm thinking maybe my first impression wasn't top notch, considering the fact I even asked/go for a kiss in our first meeting.. 🤦 A mistake I made because I thought I'll be traveling three days later and I wanted to escalate things with her quickly...

What do you think I can do in this situation?..

@rizzputin Pukkalolo Ubunja IAmHim1 adambeatz ayoll and other bosses.

Just seeing this. How did things end up with her?

So I'll keep my reply on the problem you made & your next moves.

Your issue with this girl is that you made her feel like she has won you over before she fùcked you.

I always tell guys to think like a hòòk up material. There's a popular statement on this thread: "Women will fùck someone. It may not be me. It may not be you. But she will fùck someone"

Becoming a hook up material means creating an opportunity where she fùcks you. That is fùcking you feels like both the right & only choice.


I understand you trying to care for her. But overdoing it before you fùck her sends every attraction for you into the ground.

So she was interested in you but your "overcaring" made her second guess her attraction for you. Dont be too worried about disappointing or stressing girls. They love it.

This is what happened when you saw her. When she came her attraction for you was high. Then, you started being overcaring making her wonder if it's that easy to win you over. This is your first time together and so there's no reason for you to be that caring. Why? Because she hasn't proven herself to you. So she was wondering why you were all of a sudden "so caring.

It pìssed her off. Because she thought she had a chance to win you over. Now the more caring you were, her attraction for you was sinking. So you were already in a bad spot. Then you went for the kiss. So instead of the kiss coming from a highly attractive guy, it was coming from a guy who she has lost attraction for.

So in her eyes you looked very needy. So the timing of the kiss wasn't the problem. The problem is the position you were in as you tried to kiss her (A low attraction spot)


------ Your Next moves


- Ignore her and don't hit her up. It sucks but you're almost starting from square one again. After you've ignored her for a while. ... she'll hit you up.

- If she doesn't, lightly tease her in a playful way with her text and guage her response. Your goal here is to just vibe with her till she starts investing again in the texting. Of course, while texting her dont be needy or too quick to reply.

- Once she's invested back via texting or calls over a week or two... invite her out again then seal the deal


Ideally, you should have fùcked her fast that day she came before you travelled BUT you lost attraction by caring too much

And if she's one of those crazy girls that likes harsh treatment in relationships, even worse.

Anyways, those tips should set you in the right direction. Enjoy

It's been a minute. How are you doing.

As usual the year has started off as adventurous as ever over here. Which is good news for you. More tips, principles, and strategies on female nature.

And the ability for you to sleep with as many gorgeous women as you desire. Before i post anything, i decided to look at the last conversations on the thread. I love the topic: Prizing.

Seems like some people still haven't wrapped their head around the idea of what it means to be a prize.

So let me start by saying: Men are the prize. At least that's how you and her should see it if you want any chance of your relationship to last.

But what does a man being the prize really mean? Well, there are three elements of what "the prize" really is.

So let's dive in:

● Winning & competition. You can't talk up about a man being the prize if the girl doesnt attempt, try or want to win him. The fundamental concept is that the girl wants to win him. And to that, she has to compete with other girls.

She also has to pass through challenges (that you set for her) so fùcking you or dating you feels like a win. She wants to feel proud that she has you (or almost does). Rather you trying to win her pùssy. She is striving to win you

● The prize doesn't care. Another element of the prize, is the prize doesn't care. You must play by the rules or you will be kicked out.

She must follow your standards or she not only risks her chance of winning but also competiting in the first place. She'll have to drop her bad habits and live up to the standards of someone that deserves to win the prize.

This also means that you're not the prize for everyone but for a select few. In my post on the Premier league guide to getting a girlfriend" i mentioned how you should demote or remove girls that dont play by your rules. That way, they dont get the chance to win the trophy of your dìck, time or resources

● Scarcity & Utility. No true prize is everywhere. There is a uniqueness to it. But you must also be useful.

It's delusional to think that you will be scarce without any form of usefulness. These 2 criteria greatly influence the first element. Because people tend to compete or try to win things or people that are scarce and useful.

Now, there's something else i want to add on shìt tests. If you're trying to seduce beautiful girls, they will test you.

You can dance around and call it whatever you like but they will test you. Luckily for you, most tests are "passed" by simply ignoring them

BUT there's an important distinction. Contrary to what red pill teaches, girls dont test you because they're the prize. In fact, they want you to be the prize. And they're hoping you are when they find you attractive.

Girls test for safety, strength & leadership. For they're safety, they hope to win the right prize for them. Because it can be a dangerous world out there for them. So they have to make sure a man is the right prize for them.

For you to understand this better, let's borrow a football analogy.

There are different top leagues in europe: England, Spain, Italy. A promising player would look at each league/trophy to assess which one he would start with to build his career. He would consider factors like salary, coach, teams etc

This assessment is similar to how girl's shit test work. They know fully well that men are the prize. But then they have to go through some factors to pick the best and right one for them.

In a world full of pretenders, it's not a surprise why they do it.

So that's it. Go through those 3 elements and find ways to incorporate them into your life so you really become the prize

A real man doesn't hate women. In fact we love them.

A real, loving man wants & desires to bring out the best in his woman. Because her best makes his life easier.

As I always say a lover of women is loved by women. However, a lot of things that make the woman her best revolves her submissiveness, feminine grace and respect/loyalty to her man. Things which the feminist crowd feels are too much when they are just the bare minimum


Calling out women's bad actions to make them accountable is NOT hate but tough love as many bitter feminists would have young men believe

Regarding, your question on moderation, both men and women should be on a moderation panel to remove anti-women threads or comments

But then it's dicey. You can start from extreme black & white situations first before diving into more complex Grey areas

kabius:
Like they say what works for A might not work for B. There are women who make 3 times that sacrifice to undeserving men yet get maltreated and even kicked out. Am not saying women should not give their all but why we have the so called feminist today is mainly because the society is now full of men who don't deserve good women feminism is the reaction to this.
However congratulations to the family of mummy zee.

Make we no hear say the man cheat ooo

While there are undeserving men in the society...

There is a higher rate of entitled, undeserving with outrageous silly demands especially in the younger generation.

Feminism just emboldens the entitlement in a very toxic way. That's why a lot of them are bitter. As they say, misery loves company.

So the older ones try desperately to drag/corrupt the newer ones into their toxic way of thinking

It's always beautiful to see young ladies that stick to good family/personal values and relationship loyalty (a rare sight these days)

cenaman:
A good woman is a blessing from the lord, them no dey see am for market...

Good women make your life easier as you carve your path to greatness

It's not every day you get to see a woman genuinely appreciate her man. In fact, seeing such women these days is like looking for a virgin in a Lagos brothel.

Thats why "Mummy Zee" story has being going viral in the past 3 days

If you haven't heard the gist of it, she basically got dragged by the sad, vile and brainless feminists on X for admitting she'd wake up as early 4:30 am to prepare for lunch for her husband. In her tweet she mentioned how her husband came home telling her about a female colleague that brought 2 spoons so he can share her food with him. As a smart woman, she marked her territory (check pics

Of course the coven of wìtches, that is feminist didn't waste time to drop their unsolicited opinion on how she was "slave"

Well there bitterness and sadness couldn't get any worse. Hours later, men started sending money to her account as a way to show support.

I must say, these are the kind of women (and people) I love to celebrate. She's a hero in my book.

Nigeria has tragically fallen in love with promoting victims and complainers. Clowns like Bobrisky for example

The dating scene is not left out. We have red pillers complaining endlessly about women. Then there's the feminist witches (which I delight in ignoring) banging their heads in tears talking about how men are this and that. Too many complainers very few doers. It's all you hear about these days online

That's why majority of what I write ditches the complaint filled victim mentality. It's about practical steps to make your dating/relationship life better and more enjoyable.

So to add to it, let's unpack a few things you can learn from this woman's beautiful story:



● Reward her good behavior. Punish the bad ones

On a societal level, I love how the men on Twitter rallied around her. Giving her money, gifts. Right now, she has received more than N5m plus a host of other stuff.

These kind of gestures serve as a guide for the younger girls to follow. When good behaviors are rewarded, it kicks out the negativity polluting the air. So there's something positive for younger girls to emulate

At the individual level, the same rules apply. The behavior you reward in a girl, is the one you'll see more often. This is the basic foundation on how boundaries along with respect is created.

Resist the urge to reward bad behavior. You'll only see more of it which will rob you of your peace. A good way to punish bad behavior is to simply withdraw your attention


● Good girl dey actually pay (But it might take some time)

A wise man once fast money, fast problems. Many girls borrow progress they could have made in the future and waste it in the present.

Reckless gold digging lifestyle today only to reap rewards of loneliness, bitterness (and yes, sometimes poverty) in the future.

It's always a beautiful idea to be a good girl by being your man's peace.

Did it take sometime for the woman to finally enjoy her life? Sure but it came at the right time. She stuck by her husband despite their living conditions.




● Men reject any girl that doesn't bring peace to you

One thing stands out when you go through this woman's old tweets. Her undying love for her husband. In one of her tweets she asked God to bless her husband. Stating how much he deserved it

You can clearly see how much she goes to support it. In my life, I have zero tolerance for women that bringing little to no value in my life. You'll be kicked so fast, your head will spin. This includes feminist coven members and their associates. I have to give it to them tho, they're experts at clownish delusions and useless mental gymnastics

Prioritizing your peace is how you avoid headache inducing women. Always baffles me when I see men settle for less


To end this, these are the kind of heroes I love to celebrate. The DOers. Not the complainers. Or those that always feel like victims.

Everyone can using this story as Northstar to shape their year: Doing the right thing despite tough situations. Standing for your principles. Celebrating positive people and ignoring negativity & complainers. Being a doer rather than a complainer( especially in seducing or handling women)

And for you as a man, it's about being more pragmatic, and proactive in your actions. Basically a man that can make things happen.

Happy new year to you. And best of wishes.

Alright, Linda we both know the friend is you lol.

But it's a good thing both you and your friend are trying to understand the mindset of modern men. The same way men try to understand the female mindset.

First, I want you to understand that modern men today dislike anything that feels like stress or chasing or manipulation.

If a guy meets you in the moment and you tell him "you don't know your number" a few things could go through his mind:

- You're probably lying and that was a soft rejection

- When will he see you again... and if he does he might no longer be as interested.

- if you couldn't go to your room and get your number, you probably don't like him enough

- He just lost the vibe and has seen someone else (especially if it's been weeks since you last saw)


Of course, some of these beliefs he might have are wrong. And I blame red pill & alfa mail boys for this.

But some are legitimate: Like him moving on or simply losing interest.

So you can't say if he's right or Wong. But given how men most behave these days: fearful, doubtful etc he's probably thinking you soft rejected him (I know it's ignorance on his part. But majority of men think like that. Or feel like re approaching your friend would be chasing lol)


Normally I advise guys to re-approach, and get the number. Much more masculine and smooth

Anyways, if you're friend is still a bit interested in him,
she can make prolong eye contact with him. And you can smile and say hi

He might be in his head, overthinking things. Probably thinking you're not interested. But doing that could make him more confident to re-approach

I cringed after writing that last line but that's the kind of "men" we have around today.

If red flag was a person, your friend's girl would be it.

The short version is that she doesn't have enough sexual attraction for your friend. And she is clearly using him

2 years without sex is completely unacceptable. Going off for months without calling is also unacceptable.

And to top it off, she doesn't go down on her knees to sùck the life out of this dìck

Some girls tell me they like me and want my heart... I tell them good, suck it out my dìck.

A girl going on all fours for doggy OR on her knees to suck your dìck is the ultimate sign of submission.

This might sound clichè but yes, another nigga is fùcking your friend's girl.

When a girl goes off like that then comes back after 5 months and her answer is "nothing" just know it's always something (I should write a thread on this)

Bottom line, your friend's girl should be an ex by the time you show him this post.

She's NOT sexually attracted enough to him. When a girl is hòrny for you, not only will she beg to take your dìck, she'll want you to hit it raw.

PS: She's not a virgin. Someone is fùcking her. She sees your guy as husband/boyfriend material when he should be seen as a HOOKUP material.

She's giving him just a taste to keep around but not enough to own her completely like a hook up material man would

And trust me, someone else is def hitting her good

LifeofDream:
I notice I'm always attracting girls but end up not making a move...

Been a follower of this thread for long but I still don't grab how I can take the rope to the finishing line..

This girls will steal glance tire but I no dey make move, some will even knowingly march my legs and start conversing with me but I always give this "others will come vibes"...

I think rizzputin talk about the process of taking everything from respect to romance.. One thing is common among this girls, they usually give me that respect and always try to show me they'll be loyal...

Pls how do I take it from respect to romance...

@Rizzputin Pukkalolo Ubunja IAmHim1 adambeatz ayoll and other bosses, pls your guide is needed

Well, the good news is you're in a better spot than most people.

You see, there are three types of people in this world: Those who make things happen, those who watch things happen, and those who wonder what happened

You're not a simp so you're in the second category, watching things happen. Watching how those girls throw you green light upon light. Watching as probably some other guy gets to fùck her... Watching them chase you while promising loyalty. And you doing nothing about it.

All of that, when those girls want you to be in the first category: The man that makes thing happen. A.K.A someone I call the hook up material man. A man that when she feels like hooking up & fucking, she calls. After all we both know girls have a guy for everything, why not you be the man she's taking his dìck

If no one has told you already, seduction is a game. And girls start to play at an early age. Much earlier than most of us men.

That's why it excites them to see a man that can make things happen(A.K.A play the game).

And how do you do that? Focus on their fantasies.

Let's look at a business example... when companies like glo or mtn want to advertise, they enter the conversation going in their potential customers' mind (or public)

Meaning a potential sim card user is thinking about cheaper data to text or browse. Flexible call prices and time to their friends and family both in and outside the country.

That's the conversation going on in their mind regarding Sim cards. That's why you see adverts about better data rates (if you're an mtn staff reading this tho, una be scam sha)

Likewise with a girl, you enter the conversation or fantasy that goes on in her mind

I first had this eye opener when I read my female classmates diaries in secondary school and later on in Uni.

Two things stood out like buhari's trousers at a skinny jeans party: 1) Girls loooove sex 2) Girls want and love to be seduced

There was no nonsense about being "chosen" or waiting ages for her to make a move.

It was them randomly meeting or getting approached by a man, details of how he seduced her. From the way he talked etc and then, how he fùcked her.

Since those days, I've seen girls as lovers of sex & seduction.

Which brings us to your situation....

Whenever a guy wastes time the way you do, it's either he doesn't know what to say, fears he might fùck up OR he's afraid the girl may find out he's not "all that" and lose interest

I feel you're in the second camp but it's not a big deal. You have loads of girls at your disposal to practice and get good. But before I dive into your next steps, I want to show you what your hesitation REALLY does to her.

You see, of all the girls I fùcked last year, I was none of their spec. And if you ask most girls today, majority don't fùck their spec. Not Even their 2nd or 3rd spec lol. The guy that's smashing them is someone most people would look at and wonder how that happened (remember the last kind of people I said at the beginning of this post?)

Now Why is that? Because their spec are most times obsessed with her "chasing" rather than him closing the real. Or as you said, "taking the rope to the finish line"

When a girl chases you a lot and you fail to make a real move, she starts doubting herself. Starts wondering if she's really attractive.

Red pillers have found out that this can be good because now, she'll keep chasing you for that validation. But that is FAR from all that happens.

Not only will she chase your validation but she'll become so emotionally vulnerable that the next reasonably good niģga coming has an easier chance.

I noticed this when I started giving girls some "hook up material" compliments. Most of them would be so happy when they heard it. I soon realized that a lot of these girls have self esteem issues EVEN when their very beautiful

Other IG baddies like themselves make them insecure. Then the faults on their body piles on the insecurity. And to top it off, their spec (someone like you) that they're chasing isn't doing anything about it.

Few things make a girl feel bad like when a guy they thought could make things happen let's them down.

That's why when someone comes in and makes them feel good or desired, they start falling more than they're supposed to.

If you've ever heard that girls give sex for validation, this is a primary reason why. To feel desired and wanted. That romantic fire or spark basically.

They chase this guy's compliment based validation to the point where they want to see if they're really hot enough for him to fùck. After all, their nakèd bodies is where a lot of their insecurities lie. So in their mind why not lett him see it and how he desires me.

Of course, while this goes on, she's getting turned on... till her last bus stop is to fùck him and feel completely validated that she really is attractive.

You might be wondering , what of all those guys in her dm or online. Well validation from a guy she's seeing everyday in real life will most times trump validation from some guy online she's never met. Proximity is very important in seduction

Plus girls might have a lot of options BUT they have few quality ones. And they know it. That's why when you tell a girl "all those guys in your IG dm just want to smash, they don't really like you" It hurts them.

So a guy in person that's making her feel emotionally validated in a smooth way is the one feeding her that dìck.

So, how can you replicate it?

Let's dive in....


----Your Next Steps-----


● First, is to start with girls that their attractiveness is in the middle. Don't go moving to the hotter ones just yet. And don't hit on ugly girls under any circumstance. Just makes you look naive

So first start with 2 7/10 girls to get going.


● When they come chasing again, flirt a bit with them. Then vibe with them as you usually do.

Then flirt again, continue the convo. Casually get their number. Just tell her to give it to you so you can hit her up later.


● Text her, vibe with her for a while then invite her to your house under a "disguise"

Remeber, throughout this your whole vibing and texting process focus more on making her feel comfortable with you & trust you while maintaining a fine balance of flirting.

Not too much flirting so you dont look try hard or immature. And not too small so you don't land in the friendzone

Now, i said invite her under a disguise. What do I mean?

Basically any non sexual reason to invite her to your place. Could be a movie. Could be an assignment. Could be a shared hobby. The idea is anything that'll make you and her spend some together that doesn't hint at sex too much

Trust me at this point she has an idea of what MIGHT happen. That "might" is important because you want her to not be so sure so it doesn't ruin the mystery.

Girls love it that while you're making things happen, it also FEELS like things just happened (as if you didn't do anything)

But as a wise man once said something we can all agree on:

"I was hoping for things to happen. But nothing ever did until I made it work"

I forgot to add one more thing...

Wild passionate fùck

This time of year… The pressure tends to be put on HIGH.

Whether you’ve been with your partner for a few months or a couple of decades… It can be hard to find the perfect gift.

I've got you covered. And to set the stage of what goes into a perfect or great gift, we turn to this sensual lyric:

"I miss you like the desert misses the rain"

I pulled it from the hit song "Missing" by the duo group: Everything but a girl. Old song but with a lasting meaning

We don't need to go into details on what happens when you stay weeks or days without rain. You probably know all the wahala that could happen

Now, Imagine what that would look like in a desert.

Without rain, you'd be thirsty af… lips dry. And for the poor desert, no plants to beautify it or animals to enrich it. Things feel off

Likewise, a great man is felt most keenly from his absence.

And a great way to make your absence even more felt is with a gift.

But not just any gift. A kind that shows how much you understand her. And draws her emotionally closer to you

You see, you want your gift to feel memorable. That way, your absence carries ten times the weight.

Before we do that, let's dive deeper into a girl's mindset when it comes to gifts...


----What kind of gifts a girlfriend values most

Girls will tell you they'd like a diamond ring, jewellery or iPhone or wig. And if you do get it, they'd probably like it. But 3 - 4 months later she has forgotten much about it

Because these are not heartfelt, deeply emotional requests. They're more logical. And worst of all, it's something you can give to any other girl which removes that air of making her feel "desired" "understood" or "special"

In fact, a woman will never be able to TELL you what kind of gift she'll truly value most.

Because the gifts she'll truly value most are almost never the ones she expects.

And that's because the most impactful gifts are the ones that tell a girl "I know you better than you realize I do - and maybe even better than you know yourself"

You see, it isn't the gift that means most to her per se. But the meaning or message behind them

A piece of jewelry? Almost no thought went into it. Might be damn expensive for sure but you could easily have bought the same for any other girl. And women can tell.

Having said that, let's get a bit more practical and see how you can gift her...


----Planning The Right Gift For Her

The best kind of gifts in my opinion are the ones that she can use over and over again. And that are both thoughtful plusnmeaningful.

Here are few ways you can use to shape your gift giving ideas:



● Pay attention to her favorite activities and hobbies.

Nothing opens your eyes into what pulls at a woman's heart strings than activities she enjoys doing

You can bet your left leg if she continues those activities with something you got for her, your absence will remain felt in a good, positive way.


● Observe her habits

Habits shape our lives. They are deeply ingrained into how we navigate through this world

By digging deep into her habits, you can spot gifts that'll improve how she does certain things. Or makes them easier for her


● What does she like, want or need

As humans we tend to make off hand comments about things we really find interesting.

Take a mental note of hers… especially if you catch her saying it more than once. Even Better if she says it several times over time.

● Customized items

This one is straightforward. Getting her items with her picture or name on it

Try to avoid being basic like everyone does. And find creative ways or items that would most likely surprise her.


Anyways, that's wrap. These tips will definitely inspire you to come up with fun, creative ideas that would make her want you more emotionally….

Thereby tripling the weight of your absence. Remember women are emotional people, the better you can activate her feelings, the stronger your impact on her

Until my next post, happy holidays.

Once in a while, some eager, brave newbie soul will ask me what I think is the best book on seduction

It's a question thrown around in this corner of the world.

Because as you know, every man wants to be able to handle the women they desire.

Unless you're gay of course, then you might find the thought of putting your dìck in a warm pùssy annoying. Sucks for you tho.

However, if you're like the rest of us then you'd love to be in abundance with the kind of girls you want.

Either in a romantic way filled with intense knacking… or in a loving fulfilling relationship with satisfying sex.

And what better place to get started than with a book. That's why almost every guy seems to have a favorite or best.

In fact, if you asked those actively trying to seduce women, you'd get a handful of responses…

From red pill stuff. To PUA materials. Some even add the Bible

There's a couple more I'm sure.

Now, I'm obnoxiously biased. And I'd say my book is flat out the best especially if you're living in Nigeria or West Africa. It's packed with simple, effective tips to take you to a level of abundance with women YOU like. In fact, people might even accuse you of using touch and follow lol (nothing I haven't heard)

Because I created it from seducing and fùcking tons of girls in states/cities like Ph, Enugu, Ibadan, Lagos, Oyo, Imo, Abuja, Accra.

And in different situations like girls on the streets, at banks, on the bus, at the malls, in restaurants, in Universities etc.

But this post is not about my book.

Why? Well first it's not fully ready yet for you to gain access to.

And secondly, there's another unusual book I want to talk about that you've likely never heard of.

This book highlights a very concept in being a hook up material.

If you're new to the Hook up material train, it's simply a new way of presenting yourself to a girl, that the first choice she wants to do is to fùck you rather than bill you. And this book will reveal a key insight to becoming a hook up material in an unusual way.

So what's the name?

It's called: The Monster at The End of This Book.

If you're not familiar with The Monster at The End of This Book, it's a Sesame Street story featuring Grover.

If you haven't read it, you can watch the entire thing on YouTube by clicking this link:

https : //m . youtube . com/watch?v=_JVK0-4HQTY&feature=youtu . be

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I urge you to watch the video. It's about 6 minutes long. Don't continue reading without watching it cause you might get lost.

Are you back from watching? Great!

If you just watched that video, you may also be thinking "WTF, how does that relate to seduction?"

So let's read between the lines…

What is this story REALLY about?

It's about getting the reader to the last page of the book, where the monster is finally revealed.

There's no plot. No character arc. No drama.

Despite all this "story" lacks, it does one thing exceptionally well - it keeps us blind to who or what this monster is...

And that keeps us reading all the way to the very end because we KNOW we will be rewarded with that information.

You see, in seduction you have only 3 jobs:

● Get your preferred girl to notice you then attract her

● Keep her invested in you

● Seduce & Fùck her good

People tend to spend so much attention to #1 and #3, we often forget about the meat of it all.

That's a huge mistake, because...

Arguably that second piece is the HARDEST part, especially in cold approach, seduction and online in today's world

Of course, there are a lot of different weapons you can wield to keep a girl invested in you.

The lesson of The Monster at The End of This Book is that one of the most powerful of those weapons is Incomplete Information.

Basically, maintaining an air of mystery around you by leaving incomplete information about yourself

Not talking too much and spilling the beans. Thereby Leaving things for her imagination to wonder

This is why building intrigue is important because it makes you memorable. The more you're on her mind, the more she's invested. And the more she's invested, the more she wants to spend time with you to discover more. Till she goes so deep she discovers your dìck is inside her.

You see mystery, intrigue and leaving incomplete information is a key part of being a hook up material.

Especially when you use Lust Oriented Topics in a mysterious way. She spends days thinking about you. NOT in a platonic friendly way. But in a "I can't wait to fùck him" way.

Being mysterious will give you a huge edge over other guys

A lot of guys love spilling their entire life like it's a diary session.

However, just like that book, remember to deliver incomplete information about yourself.

I'm not saying you should act dodgy like you're trying to hide something. But one word or sentence replies here and there…

Getting her to talk more… are good examples of maintaining mystery

A good way to know you're doing something right is once a girl starts telling you "I can't seem to figure you out" "I really don't know what you want"

At that point, you've registered as a recurrent thought in her mind…

And you're a step closer to digging her out beautifully.

As we all say, the moment she sees you finish, the seduction is as good as done.

So like a hook up material, stay mysterious and avoid see finish.

kobams:
Bless boss I appreciate

At the bolded that’s exactly her scare, I’ve tried to make her relax that she’s just overthinking but she’s not having it, that’s why she brought up the idea of letting me go, now boss should I get in touch with her or I should wait for her to reach out because since she insisted on she wanting out, we’ve not contacted each other which is about a week or so, one of the chairmen on here said it’s a shit test

Actually a relationship with her is calm, but I don’t want to ask her out yet because it’s gonna feel like I’m doing it cuz she’s forcing me to with her bringing it up all the time, I wanna do it on my own accord

It could be a test or she might have genuinely found someone more willing to take her serious or she maybe getting stressed out. And feel you're wasting her time

Go another week without contacting her. If she doesn't hit you up after that, mention me again... and I'll tell you how to re-engage and ping her

Also, next time (probably when you guys are back with another girl) if you actually want to take her seriously, do it more through actions.

If you tell her "Relax there's nothing you should be worried about" then go back to treating her exactly the same way you've been she'll stop believing your words. Because they don't match your actions. Of course, don't forget to tell her it can take some time for you to come around

So try to show a bit more care or seriousness. She'll notice and calm down a bit.

kobams:
Good day guys, so there’s this girl I’ve been smashing, then about 2/3 weeks ago she asked me why I haven’t asked her out yet, so I just evaded the question and later at night she messaged me and said she was letting me go, eventually we spoke about it and since then we’ve been having this back and forth mainly about this issue so during this period she started confessing her feelings, telling me how much she really likes me and all, the thing is i like her too, now the issue is that she told me she can’t continue whatever is between us cuz she’s trying to protect herself and her heart, that she’s gonna let go now frfr, so we talked and she said she’s gonna go with her decision because it feels safer for her, so I said No wahala
I don’t want to let go of her yet
Rizzputin pukkalolo and other gurus in the house please what’s my next line of action?

I'm guessing this isn't your first time in a friends with benefits relationship. If it is, welcome

But even if it's not, a few refreshers are important. Fwb relationships will constantly remind you of two laws of female nature:

1) Her present emotions are everything.

2) Her actions speak louder than her words

You see, fwb has a bitter sweet feeling to it. Sweet because you'd have sooo many funy, wild experiences with her. Sad because all those experiences must surely come to an end at some point


Either it ends with you guys in a relationship. Or she travels. Or she moves to a new guy ready to take her seriously

Before I dive in to your situation, let's zoom in to the nature and principles of fwb


----The Bittersweet nature of a Fwb

● You've probably read the stories online. A guy finds a sweet girl to be fùcking.

According to him, he proposes a "no strings attached" set up. She instantly agrees. Fantastic, everything is going according to plan

Except a few months later he's surprised that she's catching feelings. Then he makes another lengthy post about why girls always catch feelings after saying they won't at the beginning

The ignorance in such posts is laughable.

Remember the two laws of female nature I told you about at the start of this post? The guy has forgotten that women are loyal to their emotions.

Her emotions at the beginning of the fwb and her emotions after you've been fùcking her good are no longer the same.

A girl can swear in court that she will not catch feelings at the start of a fwb. But if you fùck her good and treat her well, she will catch feelings

And there's nothing she can do about it. You can remind her all you want but as long as your actions (fucking her, taking care of her) are favorable to her, she will develop those emotions.

The more you fùck her, the higher her chances of getting in her feelings

When I mentioned here that women are adult babies, these are some of the reasons for that.

That's why it's on you as the man to control how fast and deep she catches those feelings (I'll talk about that in another post)


● The second nature of fwb is that it must end.

And most times it's the girl trying to get you to commit to a relationship with her

"What are we" "What are we actually doing" "what do you take me for" "where's is this heading" "Don't you ever consider being in something more serious"

The above questions are tell-tale signs of a fwb girl in her feelings.

You see, there are few things a woman wants more than emotional security. She wants to feel safe. And the more she invests her time and body in you without your relationship with her well defined, she starts to panic

Time is no longer on her side and worst of all, if you're a doing things the hook up material way, she's terribly scared you'd leave her for someone else.

Hence, she starts doing things similar to what that girl is doing to you.

Which brings us to your solution…

----Your next moves

● First define what you want with this girl. To date her or just to fùck her.

If you want to keep fucking her bear in mind that at some point it might end if she finds a serious bf or she feels it's too much of her...

All you'll do with what I'll tell you is just to lengthen the relationship. Beginner seducers can make fwb last for 3 months. Average seducers for like 5 months. And advanced ones for 10 months and more.

If it's bf/gf you want , just slowly start to vet and test her. By test I don't mean those foólish loyalty tests on YouTube. I mean giving her tasks. Seeing how obedient she is, etc


● Next, Stop engaging in deep bf/gf convos in trying to talk about your relationship with her on the phone

If she wants to talk about it again, tell her to do it in person and invite her over.

When she gets there vibe with her normally and tell her you care about her. Remind her how sexy you still find her. I won't tell you the exact words to say so people don't go copying it everywhere like clowns

But the frame you should have is to Seduce her in your normal way with a bit more warmth and care. Then fùck her good.

After fùcking her… tell you're not ready for a relationship (with legit reasons) but remind her how much you enjoy spending time with her.

After the talk, fùck her again and again.

imustsaymymindo:
That's because there is no universal "HOWs" but there are universal "WHYs".

My quote goes thus:

Give a person fish: He would eat the fish and come back to you for more.

Show a person how to fish: He would be amazed that he can make more fish through the process. But what happens if fishing goes extinct?

Tell a person why he should fish: He could probably find a way to achieve the same goal via hunting or invent his own fishing skills. He might not get more fish instantly, but if he ever does or even if fishing goes extinct, he would most likely still be relevant.

The sexual marketplace is too dynamic to be immersed with a lot of "HOWs" like the PUAs instead of the "WHYs". Things change by the minute. Climes are different. What happens when the person you are advising travels to a country like France? He can only cope if he is immersed in the "WHYs" and create his own well-suited habits that fits his situation, clime, personality, age and what-not that are ever-dynamic. Besides there are diverse blue-pill experiences to know what your "WHAT-NOTS" are and carve your "HOWs" from.

No. There are no universal anything. No universal WHYs and NO universal HOWs

But there are BEST PRACTICES. That is, ways, methods, principles and mindsets that increases your odds of success.

WHYs and HOWs are not created equal. There are the best ones, the good, the and the average. None of them gives you guarantees

But the best one drastically increases your odds for success.

Also, it's always better if you have someone giving you a good sense of direction on HOWs. Both in seduction, work and even in business

It shortens your learning curve. And makes things faster. The guy that posted his story where I helped him could have spent months trying to figure out what to do.

But after pointing him to the right direction, he was always able to turn things around.

Always understand that while nothing is guaranteed or universal, there are always BEST PRACTICES.

imustsaymymindo:
I like the way you recommend the "WHY" and the "HOW".

But I think you should leave him with the "WHY" and let him figure out the "HOW" by himself. That's how he would develop his red pill lenses.

Well that's probably one of my biggest issues with red pill. Too many "whys" very few "hows"

Mindsets are good. Books are great. But actually being in the field of seduction is how you grow. It's how you adopt the best practices and stay natural

I've had girls tell me "where did you come from" Or "why didn't God make more men like you"

Of course, I wasn't "made" this way. I had to approach, and seduce women to get a place where I can have as many fast hook ups as possible.

If you notice red pill advise is always about "ignore her. Forget about her" That's because a massive chunk of them have zero clue on how to turn things around.

And it's no surprise. Because is the only way you internalize the HOW is to try stuff out. And of course, it's always easier when someone gives you some direction so you know where to start. Which I've done for him

ItisWell22:
You made a strong point here.

We keep thinking we are in charge, only to get to the end and realize the guy we thought was being played, was actually the player; all along… 😰😫

Well that's the beauty of seduction. It's always important to make a girl participate in it.

To give her the impression that the decision to get intimate with you came from her. That way, not only does the seduction become better.... she'll also enjoy it better.

Nobody likes being forced or cajoled into anything. That's why it's crucial you giver her the opportunity to want and choose to fùck you

PinkNature:
Rizzputin, pukalolo

Good evening kings...

What does it mean when you're always attracting girls with self esteem issues?

I've observed that most of the girls throwing themselves around me.. got a bit of self-esteem issues and introversion.

Well, for starters you have to be sure if the signs you're seeing are actually that of self esteem and not shyness. So you can elaborate on that

But if you're certain they have low self esteem issues, then the most common reason is that they see your value as too high for them.

You see when you're "high value" as the red pillers call it, you have a tendency to make certain girls feel insecure.

Not every girl will feel insecure. But a good number of them will.

Out of that good number, some will react aggressively towards to the point you'll think they hate you. It's these instances where you some people will tell you "don't mind her. She likes you" or "that's how it starts. From there she'll start liking you"

The reason why those girls act aggressive is to find a way to drop your value a bit so you can feel reachable to them. Like they can have you. Because when you're too high for a girl, it's hard for to have an emotional connection with you. And it can greatly reduce your seduction.


The flip side of it is the one you're facing. While some girls will act aggressive when your value is too high, some will act insecure. Like they have a low self esteem. Your "greatness" make her more conscious of her flaws. And she starts doubting whether she can have you

In fact, if you even tell her "don't be shy" or "just relax" it makes it worse lol.

Because in her mind she's thinking "I hope he doesn't notice I'm insecure." So when you say that... she goes "Damn... he noticed" And she starts to panic and act even more insecure.

Anyways, a good way to handle this is simply find something you're genuinely interested in her about (besides her looks) and tell her about it.

Be warm with her but don't over do it. So you don't lose your attraction. Just keep chill and warm with her so she can relax and get comfortable.

You'll notice it once she slowly starts getting herself together

OliverTwistJr:
Guys, please I need help, I don't know what to do right now

I'm a 300 level student in A federal university in Nigeria, I've never dated anyone before because I've been this guy that like book a lot

But during last semester, there is the babe near my house that has been showing interest in me, she do visit me a lot and spend the whole day with me, though I also have a crush on her but because she has a lot of guys with her, I did not bother with asking her out though she do use my things but I don't feel it at all because I have a business I'm running.

But early this week, she told me boldly that she has showed me every signs that she loves me for more than 5 months but I did not do anything. Then I told her that I noticed it but I can't do anything because she has a lot of guys already and I don't like girls like that. So the following day I asked her out but told her there is this particular guy that she is very close to, that I want her to choose among us. So she told me that he is just a friend.

For the past 3 days now, she has been lying to me and I know everything because my guys in her hostel do update me, even till this morning, the guy came to her house and slept overnight but she denied it. So I shocked her this morning and visit her and met the guy in her room only on briefs but she was accusing me and defending the guy in my presence.

After 30 minutes, she came to my place and started lying to me again that there is nothing, but I told her it is okay. But within me, I'm not feeling okay because this is the first time of loving a girl. She knew I am naive about anything relationship.

I will really appreciate advise because I've been simping too much. Within this months alone, I've given her more than 10k but she has never let me taste her food before.

Please I don't know what to do and how to handle her

Alright, so let's make a few things abundantly clear. (If it's not already.)

She's fùcking that guy. But not just him, a host of other guys are probably digging her out too. Ranging from guys in her area to her classmates etc.

Few weeks back a guy was stuck in a similar situation as you. So he came here to post his story. We had a few back and forth on what his next steps should be. And after he followed everything I told him, he fùcked her in less than month.

You should do the same. I read where said you didn't want to fùck her anymore. That's a bad idea.

Try to get your dìck inside her for the reference experience. No point investing all that time plus 10k only for you to back out. You learn nothing from doing that. Plus, you're more likely to make the same mistake again.

Anyways, I'll zoom in on your situation the same way I do with other guys. And we'll divide this post into two so we can do that: "what you did wrong" and "your next moves "

Let's jump in….


----What you did wrong.

● First off, you may not realize it but the girl likes you. In fact, she has thought of fùcking you.

The problem is her desire to manipulate you and take your money is FAR greater than her desire to fùck you. That's why she placed you in the bf zone.

If you were a hook up material like I advocate guys become, her desire to fùck you would be ENORMOUSLY higher.

You asked someone if good girls exist. That shows you're clearly suffering from the Passion Paradox. There's no such thing as a good girl.

Every girl can be bad or good depending on the man and situation she's in. Any girl can, and will manipulate you if you give her enough room to.

Becoming a hook up material greatly reduces your chances of being manipulated. And increases her urge to fùck you higher than the eiffel tower.
In fact, she'll rather manipulate other guys so she can please and fùck you.

One of the ways you could have displayed hook up material qualities was to fùck her within the first few times she came to your house.

Ideally, within the first 3 weeks. By wasting time, you made her see you as an option for manipulation.

Now, you're not in a very bad spot. There's still a good chance of turning things around at this point. Assuming you haven't gone back to simping like most people do

You see, if the thought of fùcking you hasn't crossed her mind, she wouldn't ask you to date her. No girl picks a total loser to be her bf.

And that's where your opportunity to let your hook up self shine through lives.

She knows sex could potentially happen in the relationship but she's willing to risk it to get all the money she can from you.

But it's a good thing it hasn't happened

●Another terrible thing you did besides wasting time is telling her to choose between you and another guy.

Write this down on a piece of paper: Until your dìck or fingers has been firmly lodged in her pùssy and mouth at least 3 times, her sex/love life is none of your business.

If she doesn't bring it up, ignore it. The only exception is if she has a bf that could potentially shoot or stab you and we won't here you from again lol. Asides that, it's not your business

In fact, she should be th one trying to poke nose in your love life. Or begging you to choose her over other girls in your life.

You're giving the guy an unnecessary advantage by acting insecure. Just do your thing. If she wants to date you, she'll be the one asking for a relationship.

Keep an eye out for my post on the right way to get a girlfriend.

●Also, telling her you love her. Or you want to date is another bad idea.

Especially if it happens before you fùck her. She should be the one voicing it. Or hinting at it.

Well, it's a good thing you've realized your mistakes.

Most simps will still be living in delusions. Thinking the more they spend things will turn around. Which it never does.


----Your next moves

Now it's time for the fun part. Getting your John Thomas between those legs of hers.


● To kick things off, check if it's been up to a week between the last time you texted her and you reading this post.

Meaning, you've been ignoring her. If it is, you can prompt her to hit you up by posting something naughty and funny on your status.

When she does, vibe with her normally. Just be chill. Don't act butt hurt or desperate.

The goal is to get her to come over to your place.

Where you'd introduce her to the new you.

● Once she's over, don't ask about any guys. Ever. Especially that guy currently blowing her back.

If she brings him or any other guy just calmly smirk and say "wetin concern me"

Then change topic or go back to what you were discussing.

You want to give her the impression that she's almost got you but not yet. It will drive her crazy.

I can't list all the ways you'd display your hook up material qualities. But doing the things above should put you in a better spot.

Stay away from lovey dovey bs. And just have it in mind to put your dìck inside her.

However, don't act desperate or needy about it. Maintain a chill, laidback vibe throughout. Resist any urge to spend on her or give her money. Even if she asks. In fact, especially if she asks.


At your skill level, I doubt if you'd knack her first time she comes over. Though if you did, kudos to you

But don't worry about it tho. You should do it by the third time she comes over after you've followed everything you just read

Now that I'm writing this, I just realized there seems to be huge list of guys who would like to fùck a girl that seems to just be running away or friendzoned them. Might write a book or post on that.

Anyways, less of boyfriend mindset. And more of hook up material vibe and mindset.

I see you pounding that àss. And if you're Iike me that loves to torment other men… you can make her cancel plans with other guys just for you or have her suck your dick before she goes to kiss them (girls have crazy fantasies)

Yes, I know I'm evil (sometimes) But such is life.

eazzzy1:
Sometimes it really just happened. Sometimes a woman will sleep with a guy she had no premonition of sleeping with. Maybe she just wanted to be friends or she just needed a place to visit because she was bored or she’s keeping him for something she gains from him.

The problem is women think they are in control, but they aren’t. The survival of the bushmeat would always be dependent on the skills of the hunter. Everything they do to avoid it from happening can be countered.

You come with a friend, we have a friend waiting to take her out, your friend wouldn’t even want to return.

Your undies is ugly, we will pull the jeans and the undies together. We don’t have to see how ugly it is.

you didn’t shave, you get a pass this one time lol.

We meet at an open place, 20 mins into the meeting you will be the one asking if we live close by.

Not really. Even if they're not fully conscious of it.

They have it at the back of the mind that on some level things might happen. They may act naive but trust me if she really NEVER had an idea it won't happen, there's zero chance it will

Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

If you find out your gf/wife is cheating the best thing is to calmly and peacefully send her packing

No talk on "next steps" No long conversations in a an attempt to rebuild trust. And certainly no accepting her back.

The reason should be obvious. But from your thread, it's quite clear common sense is not common.

A cheating girl will definitely cheat again. And when you accept her back she loses respect for you because she knows deep down she doesn't deserve it.

Such a moment calls for a point of self reflection. Take a hard look in the mirror and figure out what went wrong. And your role in it.

Because as a leader, both the success and failure of your relationship is largely your fault.

Maybe you chose the wrong girl. Maybe you started slacking and she cheated. Maybe you neglected her wants and needs. Maybe you were too controlling.

Whatever the case, evaluate yourself, figure out what you can improve and bid her goodbye

It seems like every other casual conversation I have with men these days drifts into the subject of female nature.

Specifically how women are wicked and ruin men's lives.

What a lot of these men fail to realize is the roles they play. And one way they do this is by putting themselves in the boyfriend zone.

The bf zone is just as bad as the friend zone (maybe even worse). And like the friend zone, guys are the ones that put themselves there.

Now, you probably already know I'm a big advocate of becoming a hook up material rather than bf or husband material. It's a surefire way that makes a girl WANT to fùck you (and do it fast).

It allows her to bring out her slutty side for you. The side she'd usually hide from her bf.

Someone asked me how to avoid falling into this boyfriend zone trap. So, a lengthy answer to that question lies ahead…

To achieve this, there are DOs and DON'Ts. The things to DO to avoid the bf zone and get seen as a Hook up material will be for another day. Personally I use Lust Oriented Topics (LOT) and Frames to achieve this.

However, you can find a good number of the DON'Ts in this post.

And you should pay close attention because many times in seduction, the difference between having a girl see you as a hook up material she loves to fùck OR a bf guy she can bill or manipulate lies in the DON'Ts you should run far away from.

To set the stage, take a good, hard look at these comments:

"I picked her up… someone who hasn't seen 100k in her life. I bought her a car of 4mn. She said it's too small and went for 12mn… yet she left me after her business started doing well"

"When women start making money they misbehave" "I'm scared of women they're such evil and wicked creatures

Each comment you just read captures the sad essence of what it means to be locked up in bf land.

If I asked you to name a common theme amongst them you'd probably say the men invested heavily. And you'd be right. But there's something deeper.

You can find what in this comment: "women are such evil and wicked creatures "

You see, men have egos the size of a football field. Making it easy for us to shift all or most of the blame on someone else. Especially women.

To these men, they're blind to the roles they played in their predicament.

Tattoo this in your brain: A Woman's behavior and actions is the reflection of the man

Write it down on the walls of your room if you have to.

Because if you present yourself as a bf, a bf you will always be. Women adjust their behavior to the man or men they're around.

Weak men in society? Trashy women are created. Weak guy? Cheating gf. Bf zone guy? Billings and manipulation. Hook up material guy? Endless amount of free, passionate knacks.

Before we unpack all the bf DON'Ts you should run away from like Tinubu…

Let's zoom in on why the bf zone is such a bad idea:

---Why the bf zone guy finishes last

● Can you guess at which stage a woman is most manipulative? If you said "in a relationship" you're right

When a girl starts calling you her bf or husband BEFORE she gets sexually intimate with you, she's giving a signal.

That currently, she sees you as someone she can manipulate. So she's in a hurry to lock you down and bill you.

It's like that guy that's wondering why working class girls act independent before dating but suddenly start billing him in a relationship. He is a typical bf zone guy


● Another big reason why the bf zone is a no go area is her slutty side.

You see, girls are not stupid. When you present yourself as bf material she knows she has to live up to the expectation of a gf.

And we all know how much we want our gfs to be presentable and good. Therefore, she'll act (read: pretend) accordingly.

In your mind she's soo happy to make you her bf. But for reasons far different from yours.

You've found a girl you can take to mum. She's found a naive man she can bill and take her mum out of Sapa.

Being a hook up material stops this from happening to you. Because to her you can solve one of her problems: her urge to get fùcked.

● It gives a false sense of hope.

You might think girls don't like the guys they put in the bf zone. They do. Infact, a lot of them are charming and charismatic.

Very few women will pick a total loser to be her bf or husband.

That's why the moment before she makes you her bf is filled with her stroking your ego.

Telling you how much you'd make a good bf. Listing your attractive qualities and making you feel in top the world

Soon, you start falling for her. Believing her manipulation. To her, it's all a game. And she's setting you up as her escape from Sapa plan.

Now, let's dive into those DON'Ts you're probably eagerly waiting to know...

Ready?

---DON'Ts you should avoid from falling into the bf zone

● Taking her on Dinner Dates

Nothing screams "make me your bf pleaseeeee" like carrying a girl on dinner dates.

Sure, it's slightly possible to do it and still be seen as a Hook up material. But it's an uphill battle.

And I have no intentions to make things harder for you or myself. Especially if you met her online.

Dinner dates are just too much: Too much pressure, too much effort, too much investment.

I mean, you just met her and you're suited up to go on a date at a fancy restaurant. And you're surprised she didn't want to Bleep you after spending 30k? Lol

Recently I watched a tiktok where a girl described a rich, handsome guy she met online. They kicked things off fast and 2 nights later they were out for dinner

The guy was dripping. In her words, he looked like he had money. She had already planned on the trips they'd go to in her mind.

Yet when the guy invited her back to his place… her answer? No. Not gonna happen.

If inviting a girl to dinner is bad, inviting a girl to dinner you met online (think Facebook, tinder and whatsapp) is terrible.

Believe it or not, majority of girls active online on those 3 apps are looking to explore their fantasies. They want to experience those fast hookups they read in novels

But only with the right man. That is, the hook up material man. Going out for dinner just puts you several seats back. Almost back to the starting line. Bad move.

Rather than dinners, do a chill bar, lounge or a cinema. Or when possible, straight to your house


● Next up, is trying to impress or impressing her

Some guys are starting to realize why impressing men is a bad idea

Many others are stuck in their old ways of using money, cars etc to get a girl. However, the majority are often surprised why impressing women is such a terrible idea

After all, they hear phrases like these from women: "Money makes me happy" "Money is my love language" "If you don't have money, don't come near me"

The logical brain of a man goes "hmmm she said she wants money so let me impress her"

Only to find out the more he impresses or tries to, the further the coochie goes away

Let me tell you a story, over the weekend I was cock in deep in someone's soon-to-be fiancé when he sent her 25k for the week.

If someone gives me that money in this Tinubu era, I will bless him. But her? She was too concerned about the dìck neatly lodged in her mouth.

After we were done, we went downstairs to spend part of the money. Later on she told me that's how the guy does from the day they met. Always trying to impress her with money or his achievements.

Of course she said she likes the guy. But she doesn't really lust for him(he lacks hook up material vibe)

The biggest problem with impressing women is because they know they are not special. So when you take your hard earned resources (money, time and attention) and spend it on her when you barely know her, her respect for you disappears.

In her mind, how can I trust his leadership when it's easy for him to give up his resources for me.

That's why you hear girls say stuff like: "We just met and you're doing all that" OR "We just met and you're telling me that"

Does it boost her ego? Yes Does it make her feel validated and happy? Yes. But does it make her coochie wet for you? Absolutely NOT.


● Question/Statement Matrix


There are a host of questions and statements that place you neatly into the bf zone.

I'll go over three of them.

The first one: "Tell me about yourself"
No statement makes a girl roll her eyes than this.

If you asked your female friends what's one thing they hate guys saying, 80% of them will pick it

Why? Because they don't even know themselves. And it highlights a lack of experience in a man.


"Where do you see yourself in a serious relationship in the future?"

Imagine you're out with a girl on a date. Then she pops that question.

Whether you like it or not, the thought of her wanting to be in a relationship with you will cross your mind.

That's exactly how she feels when a guy asks that. And to her, it's too early for such pressure.

So what she does is to start evaluating you for bf material when she should be looking at you as someone to hook up with.

Then, the journey to knacking her becomes longer than trekking from Lagos to kano.

"I'd never do that to you…I would support you. Let me help you get that"

You know that moment when a girl starts telling you how badly her exes or besties have treated her?

Then a guy jumps in telling her he'd never do that. Or he'd be different and treat her right.

Or he'd support her no matter what if he was the one. Lol. Doing that puts you in a long list of guys auditioning to be her bf

Sure, she sees you as safe. Like such a sweet guy. She tells you how much your "empathy" makes you a good bf. You're smiling… "I don catch her"

No, she has caught you.

2 months later when your bills and investments have crossed the 200k threshold and she's still cheating, you're wondering where it all went wrong.

Well, it started from those comments.


● Being too available.

Calling her Steady. Texting her a lot. Going on multiple dates with her BEFORE you're sexually intimate with her is a fantastic way to bf zone yourself.

Avoid being too available at her request before knacking her. It's a bad spot to be in.


● Avoid being her therapist

Girls are emotional creatures. And there's a host of things that could potentially trigger sadness in her.

When that happens, she's going to look for a naive man to offload it on.

You do NOT want to be that man. Girls want to have fun because it's easier for it lead to knacks.

Sitting there acting like her therapist to her never-ending problems just delays your progress with her

There was a guy here I advised who was toasting a girl in a relationship.

At first, she was feeling him because he was displaying hook up material qualities. Then he switched to bf zone guy activities and things started to fall off.

I had to bring him back. Make him understand that what she wants is to have fun and Bleep. Not for you to act like a therapist sponge and soak up her negative energy

She wants to forget her problems with you. That's why it's important you avoid dwelling to long on her problems

One or two lines to empathize with her and you change the subject.


So that's it. A bunch of DON'Ts you don't want to get close to.

I'll write about the DOs later.

But coming next is a detailed break down of why women lie and how you can drastically reduce or outright prevent them from lieing to you. So keep an eye out for that

It's been a while since I dropped a post or two on the wild concept that is female nature.

Been busy dodging bad vibes, building my mission and getting my dick sucked by some grateful ladies.

But I'm back to talk about something that plagues soooo many men, maybe even you.

I get that I'm supposed to drop a post on frames - and I will (real soon). There's just so much that goes into frames. So I want to give it the post it deserves. And it includes things much deeper than most red pill bs like "maintain a strong frame"

However, today we'll be diving deep into a common problem almost every man faces(especially my red pill brothers) : The Passion Paradox

I was reminded of it after my last comment on a nairalander's issues. In that comment, I mentioned how sleeping with women shortly after you meet them should be your average (about a week or less)

Of course, when you make such statements it always triggers the clowns and fakes to drop their half baked knowledge.

Like one delusional fellow who ignorantly jumped in to prove his lack of understanding.

Behold a part of the clown's comment in all its glory:

"you are supposed to have fuckkkk her 2-3 days immediately they met, blablah , are just hallucinations and fantasy u re craving for. Not every lady is codeded olosho that u can fuckkkk instanta*"


It's not hard to see the signs of a guy suffering from the Passion Paradox. Once you know it, you can spot it easily. That comment up there is one of such deluisional hallmarks of a guy battling with the passion paradox

You'll even see some that are so foolish, you'd wonder where these guys get their ideas from.

You might think you're not suffering from it. But I urge you to read on cuz you might be surprised. Especially if you identify as a red piller.


So what exactly is the Passion Paradox?

Take for example you meet two girls. One is Linda and the other is Ada. Linda is the typical bad girl…the type the clown above would call "olosho"

Ada on the other hand is the "good" girl. The one cherished as a wife material.

What most guys do is to categorize every girl they meet into two: Lindas and Adas

The problem with this is that EVERY GIRL can be both depending on the guy she's with, her environment and how you met her.

Meet a girl in church and she's so sweet. Meet the same girl in a club, and you'll wonder if a demon possessed her.

Your mum introduces a girl to you so you feel relaxed thinking your mum has vetted her for you… only for you to find out 3 months later she's getting dug out by her weed dealer.

Someone once said girls are pretenders and secretive. And it's true. But it's not necessarily a bad thing. They have to be to protect their reputation.

And when you fall for this camouflage you find yourself suffering from the passion Paradox.

It's like when red pillers pedestalize virgins with statements like "no hymen, no diamond" "only virgins should white" "only kneel down for virgins"

You have to understand that no woman is "special" not even virgins. You see it all the time… girl promises a guy her virginity only for her to offer it to someone else

Having a hymen or not doesn't change her the female nature in her DNA. No such thing as bad girl Lindas. And no such thing as good girl Adas.

Sure, the degree and intensity will differ among girls. Some will be "badder" than others. But make no mistake, they are all bad depending on the man, her environment and how you guys met.


How to be immune from the passion Paradox

The surest way I've found is to become a hook up material. I've said this before but it's worth repeating because of how crucial it is.

In fact, it can be the difference between getting all the knacks you want, having girls beg to fùck you, having loyal girls that worship you & your dìck, following your lead….

AND a girl cheating on you or making you raise another man's child

When a girl sees you as a Hook up material, her desire to pretend drops dramatically. She becomes free with you… so you can get to see the real her.

She has no choice but to open up and real with you because hooking up with you requires her to be in touch with her REAL self. This way she can show it you, get wild as she pleases and enjoy the moment with you.

One way to become a hookup material is to drop lust oriented topics in your conversations with her using subtle, sneaky frames (I'll discuss frames soon)

Lust oriented topics (LOT) are simple and effective.They inspire a girl to want to hook up with you and do it fast. They're the perfect antidote to the Passion Paradox

It's like a vaccine that stops a girl from pretending to be a good girl… and wanting to be bad just for you.

Why? Because in her eyes, you're a hook up material. Not bf, not husband, not friend..

Once you become a hook up material, it's like a veil gets lifted from your eyes. And you can finally see girls true nature.

How much they LOVE to be bad. But for the right man and in the right circumstance.

Then you can kiss the passion Paradox wahala good bye

Crumbian:
1. How did you prevent them from putting you in the boyfriend category?

2. What are these frames (masculine?) you talk about and how do you set them?

I will write a post on this soon. I haven't had time all these while

Thazard:
There’s this girl I met some time ago.I liked her but then I had someone else I was really interested in so I kept her on standby.I usually go to her shop to buy materials for my work but I later stopped as a new shop was opened closed to my workplace.

After some months,I was loosing interest in the former girl and I couldn’t get my work materials at the new shop so I had to go to her shop. Damn she was really delighted to see me. She is always nice to me.I started frequenting her shop and she started being affectionate to me,calling me babe in presence of her friends.


Yeah she likes me so I asked for her phone number which she gave to me.I am a quiet person so I don’t really talk much, The day I called her,our call was awkward. Since that day,we started talking on phone though we don’t talk much sha.


I noticed she doesn’t like me calling her sometimes,and she never call me.I asked her if picking her call has now become really hard for her which she said yes. One thing I liked about her is that she always say the truth to me.

On Sunday,I called her and we were talking.she said she needs someone to treat her like a baby girl and I told her to text me her address and in less than 5 minutes,I would be at her place to treat her that way.She said we can’t do that kind of thing at her place.

So I asked her if she lives alone of which she said yes and asked why.I told her I was just curious.Then I asked her if she’s single,she said no.Damn I was hurt because I’ve been planning to ask her to be my girlfriend.

P.S : I’ve never had a girlfriend before!

I asked her if it was a serious or complicated relationship and she said it a serious one.I was broken hearted and I told her “oh bad, I was trying to shoot my shot”. And I told her good night and ended the call instantly.

The next day I just wanted to see her face and I went to her shop to get something.when I arrived,she was on call with her mum so I told her I was in a hurry and I took what I came for and left.


Since then I have been angry with myself,disappointed with her and confused on what to do.

That’s why I came here for your advice.Please what do I do? I’m really confuse.


P.S : No matter what you say,our business relationship is going to continue.

Congrats! you have boyfriend zoned yourself. You might think it's a good thing but it's a terrible spot to be in.

Because going on, she'll delay sex. Delay relationship with you and literally waste your time as you try to seduce her.

You don't want to present as a bf material (which you just did) Rather, you want to present yourself as a Hook up Material. Meaning, each passing time she's not with you, she's thinking of you fùcking her.

Being a hook up material gives you an enormous edge over any guy she comes across because while she wants to use other guys for money etc. She wants to use your dìck for her pleasure. Great spot to be in if you ask me. Tonight I'll drop a post on ways you can become a hook up material so keep an eye out for it


Now... I'll break this post down into two. First, your mistakes. Then we'll switch to your next moves.


Your mistakes


- The girl was feeling you at first but you wasted soooo much time she started to doubt her attraction for you. You have to understand that girls want and fantasize about getting swept off their feet in the moment. Getting fùcked without realizing what happened

One minute she meets a guy and 4 days later his hands or fingers is fucking her. That's what she wants and craves. But this experience with her doesn't come from thin air. You have to present yourself as hook up material worthy. That is the essence of seduction. Fast, smooth knacks.


- You wasting time has already raised her doubts about you. Now, you worsened it by having that awkward call with her. At that point her attraction for you took a nose dive.

That was when her attraction for you started to really fade. At first, you were a charming man. But with the time wasting and awkward call, she's assumed you have no idea what you're doing or how to lead her into your bed.

Few things are more painful to a girl than when you raise her hopes up with good game at the beginning then start fumbling afterwards with boring bf tactics like the one you described.

The "babe" thing she calls you is meaningless if you haven't had sexual intimacy with her. Same thing with "My love" or "my husband"

Until your dìck or fingers have mercilessly fùcked her, do not take those name seriously

In fact, that's her signal letting you know that you're deep in boyfriend zone and you better do something about it. Here's the thing, you want her to see you as hook up material. Meaning, when she has that urge to get fùcked, you're the one she thinks about.


- Thirdly, when an average Naija girl says she wants baby girl treatment, she means spending on her. You do NOT want to accept this role.

Of course, you ignorantly fell into her frame (Read, trap) and told her you want to come over and show her. That's why she declined you coming over and even got disgusted and annoyed by it. Because you couldn't understand womanese..

When a girl says she wants baby girl treatment, you have 3 ways to handle it: ignore it, jokingly tell her to find it elsewhere OR use reframe tactics to paint it in another light.. (I'll teach how to do this one in a future post)

- Lastly, you nailed the coffin when you asked if she was dating. I don't know what other answer you were expecting.

She's most likely not in a relationship. And if she is, it's not a serious one. Cuz she's more than willing to get her pvssy fvcked.


Your Next Moves...


Your next steps are pretty simple.

- First, is to change your mindset: Go after sex before relationship. Your biggest problem is trying to get relationship before sex. This is a horrible strategy. And she will continue to string you along while fùcking other guys till she's "ready" to date you.


- Next, do NOT call again. If your business is dependent on going to her shop, then no p. Just be normal, casual, get your stuff and leave.

When you do this a few times, she'll start trying to chase. That's when your next move comes in....


- Slowly reel her back in. Don't make the mistake the first time of leaping happily like a dog on the first sight of food. Calmly reel her in and present yourself as a hookup material.

Because trust me, "I haven't found the man that'll give me the kind of fùck I want" is among the three biggest complaints I get from girls before I knack them.

And if these ones exist then there are many many many more longing to have a wild hook up with a competent seducer

So use this tips do your thing. Who knows, you might bend her over in her shop and pound her.

A fantasy, I'm sure she has

Looks and money might open the door for you but they surely never close it.

That's why it's important you know HOW and WHEN to use it.

Your first place to start? This intro into the handsome/rich guy game. As promised, I mentioned I'd touch a few areas so you don't keep throwing away money.

And this is me fulfilling that promise

It's going to be a brief breakdown of what works and doesn't for handsome/rich guys

If you don't fall into any of the two, you may not gain much. Though, I'll try my best to expand on it in a way everyone can benefit from.

You're probably aware of a common theme that plagues rich or handsome men.

Girls taking their money then giving it to broke guys. Girls playing them, getting their school fees paid right before dumping them.

Or less good looking guys pulling more girls than handsome guys

Maybe you've experienced it yourself. And it left you scratching your head, wondering if there's something wrong with your destiny.

Unless your ancestors have a curse following you, you'd need to consult your local babalawo for that one. But I doubt that's your case.

So we're going to unpack a few reasons why this happens and some steps you can take to improve.

Let's dive in:


- Handsome guys are often boring. The biggest complaint with handsome men is how boring they are.

Like beautiful girls, they ignore aspects of their personality. Relying only on their looks. This prevents her from experiencing two crucial ingredients for her to fùck you: Connection & chemistry.

I know there's a huge talk about physical sexual attraction but understand this: An overwhelming majority of girls will NOT sleep with you if there's no chemistry and Connection.

And when you hide your personality by relying on your looks, it's difficult for her to want to fùck you.

This is what average looking or ugly guys get. Because they don't have the looks they have to amp up attractive traits in their personality like: confidence, humor, dominance etc


– Rich guys talk about their wealth and achievements WAY too much.

You want to know a fantastic way to bore a girl to death? Talk endlessly about yourself. Especially wealth and achievements to care

A secret to getting a girl hooked on you is her opening up to you. This creates the "feels-like-we've-been-lovers- for years" effect.

The more she reveals to you, the stronger the Connection builds between you and her.



– Boyfriend zone candidate. Congrats you're a handsome or rich guy.

It feels like it's good news at first until you realize many girls will slot you into "potential boyfriend" category when you should be in "fùck buddy" category

For many seducers, red pillers and men this is a tough one to wrap their head around. Because girls always seem interested. Throwing green lights faster than Usain bolt…

But when it comes to fùcking? Never happens. Or worse, she never agrees to come to your house

You see, when a girl places you into boyfriend category cuz of your looks or wealth, she'll do everything to present herself in the best possible light

She sets frames of being "not that bad" She holds back sex so she doesn't risk losing you by fucking you too fast so you don't you see her a slut.

She will go as far as promising you her virginity only for you to find out she's getting dug out mercilessly

Back in Uni, I'd fùck girls who had rich bfs with very nice apartments.

Before sticking my dìck inside some of them… they'd say "I can't believe about to do this here" or "so you ended up fingering me in front of this toilet"

They didn't know why. But I did.

Some of them tried to put me into the bf category but I prevented it. Sometimes, I set frames that made it impossible me to get put there.

This particular point is very hard to recognize because girls are natural players. Hence, they're very subtle with their frames. In your mind things are going well till you try to make a move and meet a mountain of resistance.

Beginners, intermediate, and even advanced guys fall for it a the time

So if a girl considers you rich or handsome be aware of when she wants to put you into bf category and run far away from it

Also, try to avoid making the first two mistakes up there.

Bigtigerboss:
The reason she accept wetin ur guy dey do na because, she chose your guy, bro if you won experience real stuff let a girl choose you…


When a woman choose you na then you go know wetin be love…

Improve yourself and let women choose you

To experience love you gaz love yourself


Another thing na make you no try change any woman..


If a woman no like you commot body.. no try use money impress any woman..


No let them whine you say make money and women will come… na lie … make money leaches will come bro…. Make money for yourself, no be make woman come…. make money for you bills brother…

Imagine if a woman like you because of your SUV.. person wey get two SUV wetin your she go do ?

Bro women doesn’t create rule for poor men only.. but E no mean say make you dey poor ooo… women create rules for men wey dem no like… because women still create rules for rich men too… if a woman choose u she go accept your shortcomings… just keep improving yourself even if a woman chose you..

The real game is to be the best of yourself.. don’t chase.. attract…


The reason why your guy dey do that girl like dat na cuz she love him but if he continue to dey treat her bad she go change… even simp dey change


Na slay queens dey reason your money and when E finish dem go look for another person..

Improve yourself brother

She's accepting the toxic treatment from her guy NOT because of any "choosing" bs

The reason why she stays despite the slaps is a combination of some or all of these three things:

- One, the guy set a masculine frame and maintained it. If he loses that frame, she'll leave him faster than Nigerians wanting to Japa abroad.

A masculine frame is king. And the feminine bows to it like a queen should


- Second, the girl is damaged. It's foolishness at worst and ignorance at best to think majority of girls will stick with you after you beat her because she "chose" you. Yes, every girl loves some toxicity.

Despite that, each girl has a threshold level of tolerance. Even if God gave her instructions to mold you for herself not to talk of choosing. How much she's willing to accept depends on the depth of her damage.


- Third, he hits her right. This is one's pretty obvious. A good dìck is powerful. It's a mood changer and brain resetter.

Anyways, your post is alright but I wanted to clarify some misunderstandings you or someone else might have about the situation

A girl off loading all the "bad" & evil deeds her good-for-nothing exes or lovers did to her is NOT the time for you to be a therapist.

In fact, going down that path is a good way to throw yourself deep into the friendzone.

What she has done is place the blueprint of her coochie in your hands. For the newly initiated into seduction this might seem strange. Probably counterintuitive.

But when you zoom in, it makes perfect sense. All she has done is let you in what has worked on her before. And since it worked, it's likely to work again.

You want to mirror yourself a bit to what she told you... and she'll be wondering why she's getting wet for the very thing she claims she "hates"

There are two ways to convert a stranger into a passionate fuvk buddy.

One is by convincing her. And the other is by not trying to convince her at all.

Which one do you prefer? Well, don't tell me. Becasue while I'm no mind reader, I know the answer already.

Without thinking twice, you'd choose the second option.

Now here's the sweet and scary part… She'd choose the second one too.

Sounds crazy? I don't think so. You see, girls want to be seduced smoothly. None of the push-and-shove nonsense.

She doesn't want to be convinced to fuvk. What she's looking from you is seamless, beautiful seduction.

And to make that happen, all you have to do is to create an opportunity for her to choose to fuvk you.

Read that last line again. There's no fancy trick involved.

You create the opportunity. And if you've been reading my posts, it'll be one she's eager to jump into.

The next part means placing the choice on her. I cannot stress this enough. She has, and wants to choose.

For a girl to fully give herself to you, it's important she feels like it's her idea to be with you.

And if decides your opportunity isn't for her, that's okay. But i have a hard time believing she will if you've been reading my posts or book.

So while most guys waste weeks, months, even years trying to convince a girl to kiss let alone fuvk them…

You'd be busy creating multiple intimate opportunities she's desperately wanting to be a part of.

Like I said, expect more posts from me that'll shape how you see women, and female psychology in a fresh, positive light

Until then, keep developing your inner casanova