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dhiqson:

I find it funny when someone posts his field/live experience and people who won't contributr jack shit to the thread will come along to find loopholes to discredit it

Okay you're the master in game and shitTest passing have you for once dropped any practical example of your gaming tactics that worked?

Only to castigate and that's all


Na wa sha....

Read the thread. I have (and more to come)

Also anyone is welcome to critique my ideas as well. You don't learn anything by dishing out stuff without someone challenging you on them.

You'll just end up living in an echo chamber. Where everyone just blindly follows and agrees with you. Not the right way

qbqetell:
Like I said, they are half-baked fellows.

They have little to no clue of the big picture.
They have little to no clue regarding how every of these single thing relate with one another on the grand scheme.
That's why he's unable to relate when I say, have Principles and stop trying to pass shit test.
There's still a lot for him to learn but already sees himself a master.
I hope that doesn't stunt is growth.

Many wouldn't dare to share their experiences because they know they might be making mistakes somewhere, and that those mistakes would be pointed out here.
And for those of you who share their experiences, they feel insure (like little girls), and see the bragging there rather than the experience itself.

Like I said, I'm only here for those who really want to learn.
Otherwise, I wouldn't have created this account in the first place.
If I wanted to brag, I would find more worthy people to do it to.
I wouldn't even consider guys like Rizz my equal let alone try to brag to them.

I'm the one that spoke on red pills. I only addressed your lame attempt at bragging like a false alpha which you have turned into a comparison of skills

Of course, you should know when it comes to something like that... i put money where my mouth is and not run my mouth with cheap brags to score cheap points on an anonymous forum


But i digress. Do you actually think bragging about how you got fùcked will help guys?

Oh you might say "it will help them see what is possible" lmao

Well that might be true if you were pragmatic but telling us how you fùcked someone sounded like a wiswe decision to you

qbqetell:
Once again, this is example of half-baked redpill.

Whether girls throw shit test your way or not should never be your concern.
Your objective is to have principles and hold on to them at all times.

Stop focusing on passing shit test. You can't keep operating in the feminine gender's frame and claim redpilled.

Principles is the name of the game. That's what your focus should be.
The feminine gender is attracted to the man who can hold on to his frame and not get distracted by her actions.
When you focus on trying to pass her shit test, that's not redpill.

It is not half-baked red pill. It is the core of red pill.

I didn't say focus solely on shìt tests. I only addressed the disingenuity of your post when you said "throw shìt test out the window"

Of courese I knew it was just red pill masturbation. There's literally nothing like throwing it out the window which i addressed

qbqetell:
In all scenarios i was shìt tested likewise everyone but some of you prefer to lie and say ridiculous things like "i threw the shìt test out the window"
I would repeat stop trying to pass a girl's shit test.

When she can make you want to pass her shit test, then you are already operating in her frame. That is not redpill.

You are the man, she bends to your will, not the other way around.

Have principles, and stick to them, that way you never have to worry about taking any test.

When a person dishes out the test and you decide to sit down and take it, I don't know how more obvious this can be to you that she is now the master and you are the subject.

Stop trying to pass shit tests and have principles instead.

all you care about is bragging
This is old news. Already said it, I'm important. I walk like it. I talk like it. I don't try to be submissive to fit in.

If you get the gist, you can also realize you are important. If you don't understand this mentality, then resist quoting me again.

This is why i said majority of you don't really know what a shìt test is.

A girl will test you most times when she is attracted to you. Maybe it's cause the word "test" that is making you guys feel some type of way.

But EVERY girl you game will test you. And no, you don't "sit down and take a test" LMAO. You're being to literal and rational like it's an exam or something.

"Do you say this to every a girl?" Is a test. You either pass, fail or walk away. There is literally no other option. You can only prevent tests (when possible) but when a test is presented, you don't "throw it out the window"

I really do not know where some of you get some ideologies from. This is why i said you learn nothing when a girl is chasing you down. Another reason why some of you shy away from approaching women and wait till she approaches you. That is not seduction or game.

All of you pass shìt tests then turn around say "i didn't play her game" it's laughable when you go through red pill and pass a test and don't even realize you were tested. Maybe due to lack of self awareness or something.

I have no issues with bragging. But misdirected bragging or bragging just for the sake of it? Now that's just being a Pseudo-alpha

Read through your post and tell me one pragmatic skill someone can learn besides the fact that you fùcked

I prefer a more pragmatic approach to game. That's why i like breakdown reports

I dislike motivational red pill bs. Think stuffs like "you're the man" "you're the prize" "hold frame"

At some point it gets old.

However you know what doesn't get hold? Principles, tactics, teachings you can plug into your daily life and get better at what you do.

Most talk about their conquests like it's some sort of trophy with nothing to learn from

If you really want to brag, go ahead and tell us how sexy or hot she is etc. So we know she's not just random chic

But, if the goal is to share things that make the community better then such things are welcomed

Be careful when you are cheered amongst people way below you it may make you feel more grandiose than you think

qbqetell:
It doesn't come as a surprise that some find it so hard to believe the experience shared.
This sounds so foreign to them, they can't fathom how this could be possible.
It shows how deeply entrenched they still are in the matrix, even though they are all about this thread claiming redpill.
Guys you still have a lot to learn. You might want to start consuming some Paul Elam materials.

I would tell you this, that isn't even my shortest close. Want to know my shortest close?

Was approach my compound.
Girl was trailing behind me, I suppose she was walking down the street.
As I branched left, to walk towards my gate, girl says, "Should I come?"
Looked at the direction where that came from, scanned the girl if she was worth my time. Then said, "Yeah, first flat".
Girl nods and proceeds down the street.
15 minutes later, heard a knock on my door. The rest? History.

I had a newbie who started gaming 2 months ago. Last week he moved into a new estate.

A girl saw him... approached him in evening and told him she saw him and came to say hi. Long story short, it was a wild evening

Earlier this year my friend invited me to a get together. When i came i saw two girls i liked... it was a small get together almost like a picnic. I met one and within 10 - 15 mins she was sucking my dick in the bathroom

My friend's gf saw us kissing and wanted to have some. But I'm a man of principle.

Another time, i saw a girl coming back from work... walked up to her before she entered her taxi and told her after running some game that she should take me home.

She said her bf will be coming over at night, i told her not to worry i don't sleep over at girls houses. She said okay. Fùcked her before her bf came around

You see, i have many many more experiences like this. But you have failed to miss the point which shows me all you care about is bragging


In all scenarios i was shìt tested likewise everyone but some of you prefer to lie and say ridiculous things like "i threw the shìt test out the window"

Once a test is presented before you, you either pass, fail or walk away entirely.

Lastly what do you actually learn when a girl practically chases and approaches you? I mean it's fun, you get to fùck

But like i said, this is not seduction. This is not game. And such things do not happen often.

qbqetell:
Would have replied you, but seeing this, "but sometimes especially when you cold approach her", you already revealed what you are. Not worth my time.

Lmao. I'm guessing you're one of those that waits for choosing signals and says "cold approach is waste of time"

Now i understand your confusion.

qbqetell:
As I speak, there is a naked one in my bed.

Didn't have to chase her before she walked into my room and lay on my bed.
Total number of minutes spent on phone before deal was closed is a lot less than 5 min.
Never paid a dime.
Never bought anything.
Didn't even cook or get her anything yesterday night. In fact, the previous night, she bought the drinks.
There have been 0 WhatsApp messages exchanged. I intend to keep it that way.
There have been 0 SMS exchanged. I intend to keep it that way.
There have been zero "I love you" from me to her. I didn't lie my way into her pants.
What I have got instead are comment like, "You can't even call.", "You are wicked.", and other variants.

Before she slept off, she asked me one of the famous questions, "Do you have a girlfriend?".
Said yes, even though I don't. Shall remain a free man. Was born free, so shall the man die.
As soon as daylight breaks, sending her back to her house.

Want to know how I did it? Actually, I didn't do it. I didn't care. I didn't give a Bleep.
In fact, she had been on my neck for a while, only let her into my space today.
Focus has always been the purpose.
Attitude has always been, if you like me, walk over. I might take it from there.
She initiated first contact, I did not.

Of course, she shit tested me.
Actually, I didn't try to pass her shit test. I threw her test out the window.

Oh, she offered to prepare me breakfast tomorrow.
Actually, she is going back to her house before that happens.

And of course, the dick game was good.
Definitely a skill every man must cultivate.
Sure, she would spread the dick news amongst her friends, and that would in turn lead more fishes into my bed.

In my years in the field any time a guy says "want to know how i did it? Actually I didn't do it" it's due to a lack of understanding about game.

Unless you're a celebrity with so much status that she practically begged you for sex on seeing you the first time, you gamed her.

And you threw her test out the window? LOL. I'm assuming you mean ignore her.

Once a girl tests you, there's no such thing as "throw her test out the window" You either pass it or fail it. Ignoring a test is part of passing it. Most times that's the best way to handle tests but sometimes especially when you cold approach her for the first time, it's not always the case.

Secondly, i have a bone to pick with write ups like these. In the whole year this scenario wont happen up to 10 times.

Nothing much to learn here rather than bragging from you.

I'm beginning to think most guys here lack game or any reasonable experience with men.

Comments like:

- "No more marriage"

- "Give into her frame to avoid quarrels"

- "I don't spin plates"

- "No such thing as shit tests. I didn't play her game"

Sometimes i wonder what people are actually learning here. Seems like most of you just use to pump your ego, make yourself feel good and hate on women.

Zabiboy:
1) only works on paper... I'm sure you've heard people say marriage is a sacrifice. You'll have to let some ( if not alot of) things slide to avoid nagging/quarrels.. So in marriage, nothing like "consistent" frame.. If not, max 5 years una don divorce.
2) man.. Sounds like too much work.. And still goes back to 1 cos you cant always win.
3) how many families are living in abundance. On the flip slide, there's a very high tendency of being polygamous if there's "abundance"
4)dont know what this mean
5) seriously? ... Only on paper... Dont be deceived... Fades before you even blink.. I mean, isnt it why the say dont marry for looks?
6) Again, works only on paper.... What makes mysterious fun is mostly the sparks which disappears after a few years.. As for Unavailability, hehe, welcome to the social media era bro... you gotta wake up, attention is too ez for folks now.
7) dunno how this makes marriage last longer tbh
8 ) in this Gen Z era, good luck finding the "right one". A huge gamble... Unless you're ok with one who is tryna escape poverty/ unattractive/disabled in some way/old.
9) back to the topic, if you truly understand it, you'll know the institution is "Walking dead".

All wrong. Brush up your red pill knowledge

Your frame is everything. It's all you have. Sure, you can lose frame once in a while but you have to be consistent till the day you die

Btw, nagging and quarrels are usually symptoms of losing frame rather than maintaining frame

Lmao this girl and crazy threads
All you need is just some good dick

manoflove22:
please is sexual incompatibility enough to break up with a girl

Just broke up with the girl i put up her topic earlier on about inability to have sex with me claiming virgin

Hope I'm on the right way sha

Smh

Zabiboy:
I have a question bro... Hoping to get clarification..
This "spin plates" isn't it quite expensive?
Also, are there other ways to have an abundance mindset aside "spinning plates"( if it is/becomes expensive)

Finally, like the bolded, genuine desire cannot be negotiated, does that mean not spinning those who havent shown greenlight/choosing signals?

Expensive in what sense? If you mean time then yes to an extent.

Because spinning lots of plates takes loads of time. But if you mean money, then no

You don't need money to spin plates. Yes, money makes things faster but long term it's a bad strategy. Best to rely on non-monetary factors like game.


It's very hard to have an abundance mindset without spinning plates. Because true confidence comes from competence.

However, making your purpose your number 1 goal is another good way to maintain frame around women. Though not as effective as spinning plates

manoflove22:
we have been dating for almost 1 month now, b4 she accept she claimed she is a virgin that she don't want sex at all if we are going to date


She claimed she love me, she give me a lot of attention even she allowed me to visit her



The confusing part is we kiss, i suck her boobs, i romance her, she even told me she is extremely wet, But no she don't want sex that it a pride for her.

Note this girl have a big ass and a big breast and she keep male friends for me to be convinced that she is a virgin.


please should i leave this girl cos i do spend on her but not heavily and i need SEX to affirm her love for me

I've read all your responses. And your mistake is in the first line

Never ever accept not to have sex in a relationship. One, it's falling into her frame. Two, she's giving you conditions. You're the one supposed to do that. And if at all by some unforeseen circumstance she gives you a condition it should NEVER be about not having sex.

Anyways, you've made the mistake already.

Now, before i continue, i want you to understand that there are indeed some conservative girls that are virgins and will take some time for you to hit. But the rule is never accept to be in a relationship with and stay sexless. Fùck her first.

However, one thing about this girl proves that she isn't one of these girls and is most likely a manipulator in disguise

What is it? The fact that she has a many male friends. This, is usually a very bad sign

Anyways, Here are a few tips to help you out:

- don't break up with her

- fall back a bit and start seeing other girls. You mustn't necessarily sleep with them but have them around to flirt with

- when she comes running back, don't immediately accept her. Give her a time to see you

- Try to get at least one penetration: head or fingering

Zabiboy:
Tell me, i wanna learn
What would you differently from others to ensure your marriage doesn't go south?

_{Please dont mention maintaining frame/ avoiding see finish/ being mysterious... Tell me something that actually works or you are certain would work. Cos if i'm to follow your post, one can conclude i'm not redpill enough}

Lol. You know it's funny. You said you want things that are certain would work then go ahead to list things that i shouldn't mention but actually work.

If you don't know how powerful those things then it looks like you're probably in a worse situation than you think.

Frame is literally everything in seduction. You can't wìn ever without it.

But there are few others that would greatly improve your chances of a healthy marriage.

Before i list a few, 2 key things make any long term relationship last. Without these two things, it will fail. They are:

1) the man's skills and experience

2) the potential of the girl

Having said that, let's look at a few things that'll make your marriage last


- Being consistent in your frame.

- knowing how to reframe things positively and making her see how certain help both you and her together

- living in abundance

- healthy emotional connection & communication

- good exciting sex

- being mysterious & unavailable to a healthy degree

- Reinventing yourself and always improving

- picking the right kind of girl in the first place; you can't turn a hòe into a housewife. No matter your level of game.

- Understanding the good and dark side of female nature at its core

MetalJigsaw:
That's a big lie bro. Marriage only favours women.

A big fact at that

Favours both if you do it right

KennethIbe59:
It will be difficult to learn the nature of a woman and still get married.

You can't be redpill and be married it's doesn't connect

If you're red pill and decide not to marry then you're not red pill enough.

Understand female nature deeply and marriage won't scare you

heartofcity12:
This shouldn’t surprise you as a redpiller. Redpill already exposed them.. Never commit to a woman who’s not genuinely interested in you(very important)..This is a woman that married a beta male she’s not attracted to and she’s ready to explore.. Alpha fvcks, beta bucks.

Genuine desire can't be negotiated. Anyone with familiar with female nature shouldn't be surprised.

The guy fell for the "high value man" trap and led with money. Now, he will learn the hard way.

She will obviously cheat. Sooner or later

cococandy:
You people can tell yourselves any stupid thing you like to make you feel better about being legal layabouts. At the end of the day, the number of bastards you’re leaving in other men’s houses and the ones they are leaving in yours will humble you all.

You can accept reality or be a victim of it. Your choice

Lekki is such an over priced place

Dshocker:
Try and get a video evidence where your boss is harassing you.

If you can do that, you can use it to your advantage, because na so so increment in salary and promotion you go dey get, once you threaten to send the video to headquarters.

I have given you the only solution, and if you can't do it, please don't come here to disturb us with your big breast factory milk

Lol after pondering, i feel she just opened this thread to seek attention.

Not one single comment from her. It seems she's been leading her male boss on and now wants to act brand new

Idaraobong5:
I’m a banker,from the beginning of my banking career till this moment, I have never experienced a calm and conducive work environment.
If I’m working under a female boss, she will see me as threat,some feel I’m taking the male customers attention from them, and they will make the work environment toxic and uncomfortable for me.
Now last year I left to another organization,worked under a male boss,I never knew I was jumping from frying pan to fire,my boss grabs my boobs at any given opportunity,send unnecessary erotic messages on WhatsApp,begged for sex and night out.
When I refused to give in,he started making the work environment a living hell for me.
Now I don’t know which is better,either working under a female or a male supervisor.

You're in a tough spot i see. Being a physically attractive woman comes with both good and bad experiences.

People try to use you, people get envious of you and think you're after what they want, people want to take advantage of you.


For your female boss, letting her know through your actions and words that you're not a threat but a team player. This could be showing her how your work makes her look better for the company. Or in some cases recommending customers for some of your colleagues in areas of their strengths.

Office politics is dicey. So you have to be smart

For your male boss, set clear boundaries in a polite and respectful way. Dont threaten him. Just let him know how you're not comfortable with certain advances.

Don't flirt or try to enhance it or lead him on so you feel validated by his attention. You can tell him you're seeing someone serious if that will help

Rayban25:
God bless you...I love your disclaimer...because most men now bring outside babies and diseases which is very wrong.

Yeah for sure. Such behaviours are really bad

Take it one step at a time.

Too many goals or dreams can leave you feeling confused. Causing you to lose focus. Take a step back and find one or two goals that if you achieved them, others will fall into place easier.

I totally agree with this.

Most women leave a man they love for cheating only to go with another man that will still cheat and they don't really like.

As long as your man (husband, bf etc) takes care of you then you shouldn't have much to be worried about.


P.S Men don't abuse this privilege. It's not an excuse to rub it in her face or to fùck the house maid or your spouse relatives

Lmao
Nothing as enticing as a new coochie to a man

Both men and women do this

Money is worshipped by a lot of people

heartofcity12:
“Make money and women will come and they’ll love you and remain loyal to you forever”- 🤡

Lol
Money will make women come a lot. Giving a false impression that it will keep her.

Sadly, it doesn't keep women. Sexual attraction & frame is probably the biggest factor in longevity with women.


Well, this guy has learned the hard way. However, this isn't an issue of "fearing women"

Rather it's a general lack of understanding of the dark side of female nature

Bintabisiriyu2:
i don zero her for my mind
if i reacted suddenly wouldav been childish and very hot for both of us in public.
i actually don't beg for friends, talkless of a common girl with issues.
She must think i want to Bleep her, i pity my friend who's simping on her, i will advise him too to stop talking to her tomorrow.

You're over reacting. No need to act butt hurt

Lol
Ignore her from now on