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Once I drop my own original book... everywhere go burst

So keep up the free entertainment & publicity. Loving it buddy

Pukkalolo:
Glad I could help, my guy!

Speaking of real value… fellas, if you want to transform your dating life, grab Top G Dating Secret. . Check out my profile.

Every nairalander who has gotten the book and applied the wisdom in it has giving me nothing but positive feedbacks.

You're welcome bro.

Happy stealing:

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Pukkalolo:
Appreciate the free promo, my guy. You’re working overtime for me, and I love it.

Meanwhile, real ones are PMing me to level up.

Keep hating from the sidelines.

Dw.. it goes both ways. Thanks for making my stuff popular. Now everyone knows where to find original stuff

Pukkalolo:
I must admit, I'm loving this exchange! I'm gaining "off" it—we are both unintentionally tricking the nairaland algorithm to keep this on the front page & more and more smart brothers keep sending me PMs to learn more about my stuff..


You are being negative... but I try my best to gain off any negativity life throws at me. Thank you.


By the way,

If you’re here for real value instead of clown talk, check out Top G Dating Secret, it's going to change your game with women forever.

Check my profile.

Also kindly tell everyone how you copied me from MY thread here and many other posts I've made:

https://www.nairaland.com/8162258/dont-surprising-truth-paying-gf#131095615

Pukkalolo:
I must admit, I'm loving this exchange! I'm gaining "off" it—we are both unintentionally tricking the nairaland algorithm to keep this on the front page & more and more smart brothers keep sending me PMs to learn more about my stuff..


You are being negative... but I try my best to gain off any negativity life throws at me. Thank you.


By the way,

If you’re here for real value instead of clown talk, check out Top G Dating Secret, it's going to change your game with women forever.

Check my profile.

Dw, I know these cheap tactics lol. Just keep copying my stuff. Free publicity all around

Pukkalolo:
Glad to be your favorite show...Stick around, there’s more coming.

Yeah buddy. You're my favourite circus clown show. Keep it up

Pukkalolo:
Glad to provide entertainment! Stay tuned for more.

Yeah buddy. Keep entertaining me. I love it

Pukkalolo:
Glad you're entertained! Stick around...you might learn something.

Very much entertained & pleased when I see my stuff being copied buddy. Keep it up. We love to see it

Pukkalolo:
Ok. But I rarely even read your stuff

Anyways, what ever helps you sleep better at night...

Lmao. Sure you don't. Keep up with the copying & lies buddy. We love to see it

Kipaji:
I would really like to discuss about this point and get the perspective of OGs here (luminous, ubunja, pansophist, CaveAdullam, emmaodet, martinez39s, etc...)

When it comes to intersexual dynamics, I fail to see how the average man is not on the losing side.

Sure, any man can put in the work, time, and energy in order to develop his body (physical health, fitness, body strength), his mind (kill the simp/beta in him, maintain his boundaries, learn skills, develop his intellect, increase his knowledge, work on his childhood trauma, overcome his addiction, prioritize his peace of mind, lean on self-imposed principles, have his own opinions, do what he says and say what he means, develop his self-esteem and confidence, get rid of energy-draining people, etc.), his spirit (nurture his link with the ancestors, avoid activities that corrupt his soul, work on any spiritual blocks in his life, live in truth and justice, etc.), and his wealth (bring value to the world, monetize skills, make and maintain key connections, develop relevant habits, invest in the right things at the right time, being diligent, etc.).

All of these things can help any man becoming the best version of himself physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially. A man who dedicates his time and energy to these things can become an accomplished man, with lots of benefits including the admiration of his peers.

But when it comes to women, I really don't see how any of these things are going to help you.
Except it's time to look for a provider (beta buxx), women generally don't give a shït about your mind, your finances, your spiritual state, or even your athleticism, if they don't find you sexually/physically attractive in the first place.

I am all for building huge wealth, developing your best body, taking care of your physical and mental health, build your own mind and developing your mental strength, prioritizing your peace and well-being, and being spiritually healthy. I would encourage any man to do these things and put most of his time and energy on them.

However, I would also tell any man the truth that women do not give a shît about that (except, maybe, if they are looking for a provider). When it comes to sexual dynamics, your single biggest advantage is your sexual attractiveness.
If a woman finds you sexually attractive, she will sleep with you even if you don't have money, even if you never self-improved in your life, even if you don't have an athletic body, even if you are dumb, etc.
If she doesn't find you sexually attractive, she won't sleep with you, except in a betabuxx situation.
And the brutal part is that you can't do much to improve your physical attractiveness (and no, going to the gym won't make you much more sexually attractive, except you were fat before).

Given that the average man is deemed ugly/unattractive by most women, I don't see how he can win in intersexual dynamics (except he brings money into the situation—betabuxx)?


When it comes to women, I believe that regardless of who you are and what you do, the only woman you can "win" with is the one that naturally finds you sexually attractive.
And being sexually attractive (not marriage/husband material) has little to nothing to do with money, mental and spiritual health. Even ubunja said something along the lines of : "if a woman isn't sexually attracted to you, you are pretty much inexistent to her." You could be the mentally strongest man in the world, with the hardest masculine frame, the most accomplishments, and lots of money, but if a woman doesn't find you sexually attractive, how can you be a winner in front of her as far as sex/attraction is concerned?

So, pukkalolo, luminous, and the others, I would like to ask you this:

If you are short and ugly how can you be a winner with women without betabuxing?

How are men not predisposed to be losers in intersexual dynamics?








PS: The real reason most men go their own WA y(MGTOW) is because they realized they can't win with women, which is most likely because they are sexually unattractive. You will hardly see any tall and handsome man go MGTOW. (Of course, I know this doesn't apply to all MGTOWs, and that there are some MGTOW men that are attractive. True MGTOWs are very rare, most of them are just guys women don't want to deal with, except maybe for betabuxxing).


PS: If you go around town, and ask random men if they know any woman that has a genuine and burning sexual desire for him, most men won't have an answer.

You will get closer to the answer of your question when you answer this question:

What does it take for a man to be sexually attractive to a woman?

USAfall2024:
He has taken this thread to be his abode for ranting. I hope all is well with his offline life because tbh I’m a bit concerned of his high activity here over the past few months. It’s fine to rant every once in awhile but going on for multiple months ain’t healthy. I hope he doesn’t take this as a slight but I think he is better off taking a break from posting here. Take a break for maybe a few days or weeks and come back with a better perspective. Just my opinion though.

He has no life.

Kipaji:
This is it. I, too, am taking my self-development seriously. I have a low body fat (I'd say less than 14%), I have an athletic body, I sharpen my skills, I increase my knowledge in relevant topics, I take care of my mind, I make sure I'm spiritually healthy, I don't allow bullshit from women, I don't associate with disrespectful time-and-energy-draining people, I learn wisdom, I work on my systems and goals, I have boundaries, I practice self-love and self-care, I build my wealth, etc...

BUT, I also know that NONE OF THESE THINGS WILL MAKE ANY WOMAN SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO ME IF SHE DIDN'T FOUND ME SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE AFTER THE FIRST FEW MINUTES OF MEETING HER.

If a woman does not find me sexually attractive, she learning about my riches, achievement, my strength of mind, my masculine frame, the fact that I'm not a simp or a beta, and the fact that I know game, won't change it. At best, learning about my money, may incite her to fake attraction and submission to me in order to secure the resources (that's how a lot of men get married or finessed). I am not delusional about this. If a woman does not find me sexually attractive RIGHT NOW, becoming a USD billionaire tomorrow is not going to change it---that RAW GENUINE attraction will NEVER be there.

So, I am all for self-improvement and making money. BUT DO IT FOR YOURSELF. Don't do it with women in mind. Women don't care. Do it because you want to live your life to the fullest, because you want to give to yourself the best living conditions, because you want to give back to your family, because you want to travel, because you want to dive deep into your personal interests, because you want o understand the world better, because you want to live the best experiences that money can get you, because you want to spend your limited time on Earth in heath and peace, because you want to help people who deserve your help, etc...

I made a post related to this topic: https://www.nairaland.com/7465815/make-money-women-come-bad



I agree. Any man would benefit from learning game. Learn this game
so that you won't be the beta women use as a safety net after her wh0ring years,
so that you won't be the simp they manipulate for resources,
so that you won't be the pathetic dude waiting forever in her friendzone while she is fvcking the men she is genuinely attracted to,
so that you won't be the emotional slave that pander to her feelings and let her run the show,
so that you won't be any woman's toy or tool,
so that you won't be an easy target for women's manipulations and games,
so that you won't be a clueless bluepilled cuck who believes that women are angels who don't like sex,
so that you won't be one the fools that will spend his savings to impress "his" babe on valentine's day,
so that you won't put any woman above yourself, your wellbeing, your peace, and your goals,
so that you won't be like all these dudes who are intimidated by women and put them on a pedestal,
so that you won't be the guy who foolishly believes his wife when she tells him that the kid that looks like her boss is his,
so that you can wisely filter the kind of woman you entertain and allow in your life.

But also don't be delusional and think that knowing game is going to make women attracted to you. There are a lot of guys out there with 0 game and who are having women throw themselves at them (I was one of these dudes, I had women sexually throw themselves at me, while I was broke, unathletic, and completely ignorant of game or the redpill).
Don't learn game to get women, learn game to protect yourself.




This is a question that deserves the highest level of attention in this space.
As we all know, handling sexual urges is NOT easy.
Since most men aren't sexually attractive enough to get women without betabuxxing (with of course some exceptions out there), most end up patronizing pr0stitutes, jerking off to p0rn, and dating and marrying women who mostly want them for money, stability, and comfort.

If only there was a sustainable and healthy way for men who don't get women's raw sexual attraction to deal with the sexual urges without simping and betabuxxing for women!
Look at women. For centuries they had to deal with not so sexually attractive men because they needed resources to live. They hated the idea of settling with not sexually attractive guys so much that they relentlessly fought for opportunities and their right to make their own money so that they won't have any use for the bottom of men anymore. Women's emancipation is in large part about not having to deal with men who don't turn them on. With her own money, she can now focus on the guy who gets her pussy wet naturally, she has much less need for a beta with money.
Can't men do something similar? Is there a way for us to get our "sexual emancipation"? So that even if we don't get women naturally we don't have to resort to humiliating and degrading practices like p0rn, pr0stitution, or betabuxxing while handling our sexual urges? (Just like women, through feminism, found a way to eliminate the need to settle for the not-so-attractive dude while handling their own financial need.)
If not, then I really don't see how men, or at least not-so-attractive men, can be "winner" is the dating mating market.
(Note that I struck "dating", because only unattractive dudes have to date/pay women to Bleep them. Women only need the right time and place to Bleep a guy she genuinely finds attractive, not dates need. Dating is for simps and beta males)

I would really appreciate to get the perspective of more experienced men like emmaodet, CaveAdullam, ubunja, pansophist, heartofcity12, martinez39s, luminouz, etc... on this question.



Yes, more debate is needed. Thank you for your input, Zaziboy. I would like to know what the others have to say as well.

This is a COMPLETELY WRONG view of women and relationships.

Losing weight makes you sexually attractive. Your skills makes you sexually attractive. Your knowledge makes you sexually attractive (depending on what that knowledge is tho). Masculine frame makes you sexually attractive. GAME also makes you sexually attractive. And it is the most important thing overall and in the long run.


Game is not just about preventing yourself from being manipulated. That is a WEAK way of looking at game

Game is about seduction. That is presenting yourself & abilities in the most sexually attractive way possible.

If a girl doesn't find you sexually attractive now, it doesn't mean she won't find you sexually attractive later. Most guys have a TERRIBLE way of presenting their sexually attractive self initially. So women reject the version of them they see at first.... But when they get to know the men more, things change.

It is important to note that you can never be sexually attractive to every woman. However, the point of game is to INCREASE your pool of women (both in quality and quantity) that find you sexually attractive

Pukkalolo:
Others, like who?

I guess this is your first time of reading my post on nairaland

People like me lol. Well, they say imitation (A.K.A copying) is one of the best forms of flattery

I laughed when I saw this thread. Because I've been singing this for a while now. But here you are copying it

sabbiboi:
To corroborate this statement of a girl coming from a broken home. A girl whose mother resents her father, will always see things from her mother’s lenses.
There is this girl I met in uni back in the days, I still check her WhatsApp status. The story I heard was that both her parents were separated, and her father is irresponsible and didn’t cater for them. She worships her mother on her status.

Whenever I check her status I just smile, because I know she will have relationship issues. Already, she is separated from the guy who took her virginity because of her indecisions and flimsy opinions from friends.

It will be hard for such girls to see the potential in a man. It can’t work, because you can’t give what you don’t have.

Coming from a home with both parents living together, I know the type of discussions my mom and sis have against my father, just because he isn’t a full provider of the home.

How much more, a girl that isn’t from a home with the father has the foundation. Something will always be missing in her life. And do you think you can deal with it?

Settling with a girl is beyond being in love, other things need to be considered.
You need to vet her properly, set boundaries.

Yup. Single mothers generally have resentful views about their daughter's father. And they don't hesitate to paint their potential son-in-laws in a bad light over the tiniest issues

Samueltemi337:
You get time dey analyse wetin nor happen
The boy don smoke him Igbo dey make up stories
Nor be only I told them "I will do traditional marriage ending of November"
Na so them take dey fix date for traditional marriage

LMAO. Well still an opportunity for guys to learn regardless of the authenticity of the story

What he described isn't far fetch. Mums from broken homes are fond of poisoning the minds of their daughters

AlphaNugget:
Her dad doesn't live with the mum, although they are not divorce but they live apart. I vetted her for 13 months before I decided to take her serious last year January.
She is cool with her dad, during her stay with me she always finds time to visit her dad and give him some foodstuffs.....take note that I always accompany her on those occasions.

I will put the blame on her mum, her mum literally deceived her and talked nonsense into her.....and unfortunately she succumbed, that is why I also blamed her for not trusting my love for her, because she was scared of ending up as a single mum.


She has been reiterating that it was miscarriage, but I told her that it is not..... because her mum threatened that she will forced her daughter to do abortion if I fail to do the court marriage, so I believe that she did abortion and it was not any miscarriage.

The blame isn't on the mum per se. That's the surface reason. Surface reasons rarely ever are true problem. They're like symptoms or complications. The real problem is underneath which is you


If you had set CLEAR boundaries (while reassuring her obviously), she would have disobeyed her mum to please you. A woman's primal instinct and urge is to get into a relationship with the best man available. That's the best power men have because we're custodians of relationships. So setting clear boundaries should be paramount

I'm pretty sure this is not the first time she didn't something wrong and came back begging & apologising. The way I see it, she uses this "Do then apologize later if wrong" to test what your boundaries are. The right way is for you to set and make it clear rather than having her "test" it herself.


Secondly, how long has her Dad been away from her mum? If it's a considerable amount of time, then there will still be issues. Let me explain why I asked you those two questions:


----Her Relationship With Her Dad. This is primarily about respect for you. If she respects her dad, his struggles and accomplishments then she has a good idea of what it takes to be a man. In that regard, she'll respect you too.


But that's not all. Respecting her Dad is not enough. So let's look at the next question:



-----Is she from A single parent or broken home. Clearly this girl is a product of a broken home. But why is this a CONCERN. Your story is a PERFECT example.

The reason why women from broken homes tend NOT to be marriage materials is simple: Whenever you have problems with her daughter, she will advise her based on her hidden resentment for the girl's father. She will be quick to paint you in a bad light because of the wrongs of her father

"This is how your father started with me. Don't make the mistake I made" "men are like this. I remember when your dad this something similar"

A problem between you and her daughter will be overblown by her because of the resentment she feels for her father


These are not all though. There's WAY MORE that goes into vetting a woman. After all, nothing quality comes easy.

From what I've observed, the problem came from your lack of boundaries most especially and then your vetting process.


Anyways, kudos to you for sharing this. Shows strength. It's a lesson to learn

AlphaNugget:
Ok, let me make it more clear.

We had an issue which unfortunately escalated, my ex attempted to stab me and I called her mum on her....her mum took her home and I didn't ask about her for the first 3 days, on the 4th day I visited her and tried to talk her into visiting the hospital so as to commence antenatal, her mum raised issue that I was only concerned about the baby and that I have no plan to marry the girl, that I want to do only traditional marriage and travel out of the country to marry another lady. Her mum was forcing me to do Court wedding, I said no.
I also informed the mum that I will do the traditional marriage by November ending, her mum said that I should do both traditional and court, I refused.

I tried by giving her money on weekly basis for upkeep and medication. The third week of November I heard that the baby was no more.....I inquired and she said it was miscarriage, I said how will you get miscarriage when you don't engage in any stressful activities. People close to me said that it was abortion, that the mum must have told her to do so just because I refused doing court marriage.

I decided to end everything.....imagine the audacity to abort my first fruit because of what your mum said.

Bro learn about women to prevent a future reoccurrence. This is NOT just about her mum at all

You didn't vet this girl properly and clearly made A LOT of mistakes.

I'll write a thread on the status of a relationship soon. You should read it

AlphaNugget:
Bro.....
Last year I thought I have met the love of my life, it was as if we were perfect for eachother, so we decided to get married; fortunately our parents agreed.

She moved in with me and we cohabited for 8 months - March - October, during that period it was all love, we did things together.....she made numerous promises, the love was intoxicating, we made other people envious because of our public display of affection, we were young couples (she was 20, I was 26).

It was all fun, we planned our future kids and wrote names for both genders; then she was pregnant, the pregnancy lasted for 4 months, but the 3rd months was hell, her mum started acting up and we started having issues....we fixed wedding for November because of some financial constraints which my ex was well aware of, but her mum was saying that I only want the baby, that I will travel out of the country and leave the daughter, her mum wanted to hasten me but I just don't like being rushed into doing things because the year was coming to an end and I already have everything planned......we had this serious issue which led to her going back to her mum's house, that was when she aborted the baby of 4 months (although she said it was miscarriage and she pleaded that it was miscarriage).

Her mum was the weapon formed against us and unfortunately she succumbed to everything her mum planned.

I decided to end everything by December despite her pleas because I felt hurt by the fact that she could abort my first fruit despite everything I spent during her 1-3rd trimester, it hurts man, it does.....she went amok and was lamenting against me and all....it was not funny.

I decided to move out of that zone and relocate to another state just for my peace, I trashed my old SIM card and deleted every memory about her.

We were lovers with plans, we were supposed to be parents this year.....but now we are strangers. It is sad but I am now focused on my next journey out of this country, I pray the outside world favour me.

I'll be blunt, no matter the country you go to, this may happen again and again.

Men have HUGE egos. Men love to blame the girl, her mum or some outside forces for why their relationship failed.

I advise to ASK YOURSELF what you did wrong. Did you vet this girl properly? Is she from a single parent home? What is her relationship with her dad like? How long was the vetting process? Etc

All of the above are your responsibility to do. This girl should have NEVER aborted your baby if she knew you would leave. You should have set boundaries from the start including things like this.

If she really loved you (plus wanted the marriage) and still aborted the baby, then you weren't clear with your boundaries


Boundaries are top 5 most important things in relationships. If you do not make it clear, women will do whatever they like expecting you to be okay with it after plenty begging

A BIG mistake many red pillers and guys make is they see women as 100% adults. They think that there are certain things they should get as per matured adult. This is WRONG. Treat women both as children and adults. INSTRUCT her like a child, PUNISH her like a child, REWARD her like a child.

You must be clear with what you like.

I advise to understand women better while you work on yourself. Working on yourself doesn't mean you'll miraculously get better with women.

You have to do both. All the best

To women, NOTHING is above their emotions and feelings.

Not even gods or the universe. The reason women love churches and religion is not because of heaven or salvation. They love how they FEEL in the presence of the music, service etc.

Likewise, the same in marriage or relationships. It's about how she FEELS and the emotions she gets from that relationship.

Ten years is enough for the man to lose his drive to supply her with unending emotions. So for her, the intense emotions she felt from that short kiss mattered more to her than her boring marriage


ALWAYS REMEMBER: She doesn't care you paid her school fees, she doesn't care you swam from Lagos to ph to help her. All she cares about is the EMOTIONS you make her feel. NOBODY can change this. So no point complaining. Just understand

So it is YOUR duty as a man to be a CONSTANT source of EMOTIONS for her.

Adasun:
lols, women orgasm from sneezing alone, what do you have to say about that?


guy, women like sex, especially if the guy is quiet good in bed. go around guys that have girls staying with them like in hostels and schools. gist and see how those guys are wailing that the girl want use nack finish me... and so many other talks. listen, when it comes to male and female dynamics, drop science and view it with ur experience... they were born, live and breath for sexuality-women.

As reserve and calm that i am, once they come closer and see that i am also a bad boy, they let loose. one girl once tore her panties to have a quickie with me in a factory i work... during break time. she saw that while i did not request for sex, my words and body language shows i know wasup... she made a hole in her v-ga area and rode me, the exitement and risk involve made me even cum quickly self...


those girls are always hot...

Well said. You live in the world. When these guys are done reading books, they'll join us

Questions0147:
that novel own mad ooo...there's this church girl wey dey my DM....she dey read ana todd abi wetn dem dey call the author... Na she even make me realize say e get porn authors omooo..

Yup. Let these guys keep dreaming that men have higher sexual pleasures than women.

Women's sexual pleasures knows no bounds. Of course, like many men before and After them, the hard way is the only way they learn

He even mentioned chat gpt. Lmao.

IceColdVeins:
You are the one getting it wrong joor.

The point was made to emphasize that a man needs to be unpredictable, extraordinary........have no limits and and do it all.

Thats true masculinity for me.

And that's VERY WRONG. As a man you should have boundaries

A masculine man has boundaries. You should NOT be washing a woman's panties to show masculinity. Lmao

You should have boundaries

SuperOnyi:




Bro, we're literally saying the same thing. Why are you ignoring the fact that there are 28 other laws in the book? This is deeply rooted on history and psychology. Why ignoring that? You should rather politely get the book and find out if it's full of dogshít or facts but with the way you're attacking it, I know you would go with the former.

We're not saying the same thing. You're saying you can wash a woman's panties due to Law 2. And I'm saying there's NO reason to do that.

You should have boundaries to what you can do as a man
And I'm not attacking the book. I already said I agreed with it. But No book is perfect.

I'm just pointing out corrections. Why are you sounding so defensive

SuperOnyi:



I get your point but everybody has what works for them, this is just 1 out of 29 laws. You don't judge a book like that until you've read the entire work. You can't just do something as crazy as that when you haven't tried Law 2 (Know Your Mark Intimately) or Law 1 (Define Yourself with Precision). You're just fixated on what you've just read and disregarding other laws.

Would you say the same about 48 laws of power?

And yes I would say the same thing about 48 laws of power. One of the biggest issues with the books is using examples that aren't practical in today's world. Or just too much

Again, the idea is great in principle. But practical examples should be tailor made, practical and consistent

SuperOnyi:



I get your point but everybody has what works for them, this is just 1 out of 29 laws. You don't judge a book like that until you've read the entire work. You can just do something as crazy as that when you haven't tried Law 2 (Know Your Mark Intimately) or Law 1 (Define Yourself with Precision).

That's what I'm saying. Your craziness should have his limits. There should be things you aren't willing to do.

An idea in principle Is different in practice. You shouldn't do everything because of push pull. Because then you come across as try hard

Lmao. Happy reading of books

SuperOnyi:




I think I talked about that. It's under another law, this book contains 29 trusted and tested laws all rooted in history and psychology. This particular law is "Add Drama to the Equation," all of those examples are just what they are —examples. You don't have to use them on every girl you meet.


The book also touched on how most men only use "the good sides" of this law and end up becoming simps.

Yea, what I'm saying is those examples shouldn't be there. There are other examples that are masculine.
You shouldn't be doing those things with ANY examples

Putting those things there can give guys the wrong idea on what practical steps to take[url][/url]

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imustsaymymindo:
Nice points here.

IMO:

Sexual drive is a primary function of biology and thus can be quantified. Sexual pleasure is a function of biology, and various factors and IMO can not be easily quantified. Moreso, for the fact that sexual pleasure mostly diminishes with time. How do you measure? When the pusssy or dicck might not be pleasurable anymore for some persons, when scatting and rimming is just the beginning for some persons, while others get pleasure from seeing blood.

So, when there is an argument whether males or females like sex more, the only realistic quantifiable measure is sexual drive. And to understand this clearly, you’d have to again think beyond the blank slate as men and women get this drive wired differently.

For men, the drive is constant and always active. I want to believe this is, in fact, the source of our "hustle" energy and embedded in our biology as a survival mechanism. However, it is most often channeled in several directions due to conditioning that higher needs in levels 2-5 in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs are more important than our basic/primary needs - level 1. Even in this thread, you’d hear men saying to focus on making money and having a higher purpose.... Those various channels are by-products of the sexual drive. In Sigmund Freud's voice: "all energy is sexual".

Talking about a male body count of 50 could only be a good number today because of that conditioning. If men prioritize their sexual needs without re-channeling much, trust me you can only imagine the amount of sex men would be having due to the drive. An average man who is being driven and is maximizing his primal energy from the drive could have 1000 body counts in a year (3 different girls per day) not to talk of a celeb doing the same. An average woman can't have this, if she does it's not a function of sex drive, but rather other needs above the hierarchy such as that Guinness Book of record lady trying to have the highest body count in a day, in this case, the need is fame. If you earn well, have a lot of spare money to experiment/waste, and have game, I’d advise men here to tour other African countries if you want to test your sex drive. In a country like Senegal for instance, where prostitution is legal, the girls are mandated to go on monthly checkups et al, try and see how much you can knack in 3 months and you'd be surprised.

For women, the drive is passive, therefore it needs the right amount of energy to wake it up - be it ovulation, a man whose drive is deeper - in summary, a higher form of energy. And depending on how novel the energy is, the more intense the drive. This is why a female sex drive can never be as much as a male sex drive. Could be more intense as long as the novel energy exists but not more frequent and potent. Don’t think that when a girl decides to do the most debasing thing with/to you, this makes her have a higher sexual drive. No. Also, since a female's sexual drive has to be sourced, it is useless, the drive can not be channeled to a by-product of anything higher in the hierarchy (in Ubunja's voice, the womb only wants what the wombs want).

You're repeating the same nonsense everyone in the red pill jerk off club has already said. It's as if you dont read to understand but to argue

Sexual pleasure is NOT the same as sexual drive. They are different. Men have a higher sex drive but women require and have more pleasure during sex.

Everything you explained just proved what I already said about sex drive: Men have it more

Notice you didn't say anything about sexual pleasure? But chickened out to say "not quantifiable" lol. Do you know why you did that? Because you dont have enough experience to know and/or you dont know someone that has experience


You made a comment "make no mistake a woman willing to do naughty things for you doesn't mean she has high sex drive" Well that comments shows you didnt anything I said nor do you understand it. Because I SPECIFICALLY said a woman doing naughty things with you is more of her sexual pleasure. Her need to experience maximum pleasure as much as possible.

The case for their sexual pleasure is seen in orgasms. They have more orgasms in quick sessions. Have various points of stimulation more than men. Have more and naughtier fantasies.


Some clown here was saying the only way I can know what a woman feels is if I'm a woman. But that stupìd logic contradicts this very thread. If the only way to know what women experience is to be a woman, then why are red pillers speaking like they know women when they're not women.

Again, DO NOT speak on this issue until you've had enough experience with men. If you cant do that, go and ask all the guys you know that fùck regularly between men and woman who derive more pleasure in sex as much as possible


DO NOT comment on this issue until you have real world evidence. Dont do mental gymnastics about biology and evolution. Go out and ask or experience then report

This book & head knowledge you guys are fond of doing is why people (and women) see you as jokes. You have no idea how comical you guys sound when you do your mental gymnastics with zero basis with reality

I will repeat, real world evidence only

tanigororo:
Whenever their is no trouble, create one.
That's the rule of the game, dont let be the one giving you trouble, be the trouble maker.
Give her attention for sometime, withdraw attention as if she doesn't exist. Sometimes just be nice randomly, most of the time be mean, leave no pattern of expectations.

Well said

SuperOnyi:



The OP has a point, in fact, he's right. It also goes beyond just women, it's a human thing. Here are a few excerpts from a secret book I'm keeping for my daughters:

You have a good idea about the bad boy stuff but still a few things missing.

However, let me point out a few corrections:

While doing the hot & cold thing, push pull thing, it is important you dont do anything that goes against your masculinity and frame.

For example, I would not wash her panties as a way of doing hot. That is way to much and can have the opposite effect.

Look at it this way: Let's say while doing a push/pull you pinch a girl for instance as a push. That would be okay. And well appreciated. What would not be okay is to let's say, slap her because you want to do push pull.

Everything should be under moderation, calibration and within the boundaries of masculinity. "Washing her pant" is way too much. There are other hot/cold ways you can adopt that wont put your masculinity and frame at risk