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In my previous post I encouraged you to "sleep with more women"

A statement which goes against many men development advice today, including main stream and red pill. In fact, if you listen closely you'll probably here them chanting "how dare you say that Rizzputin"

But I give 0 fùcks because for those few men reading this (I'm hoping you are) they'll be able to gain a deeper understanding from this post

To borrow an anonymous quote: "You get good at knowing the best wines by tasting more wines"

Before I unpack that quote and relate it to you, let me first start with by highlighting what "sleeping with more women" is NOT:

- it's certainly not reducing your standards of the women you like

- it's also NOT leaving your path, mission, goals, and purpose in pursuit for women


With that out of the way, why is sleeping with more women better for you to understand women? I've written in depth on this in my book but I'll give you a detailed enough version you can take home with.

Let's get started...


- Very simple. Results. The only results that matter are the girls you seduced into bed. Not the ones you used ninja mind tactics to get her chasing or the one begging for your attention or the one calling you.

It's very simple. The major metric that matters are the girls you're fucking. Because as any true seducer knows, the path from meet to bed is much more than "begging for your attention"

If she's not begging for your dìck, you're not there yet.


- Secondly, the more women you sleep with, the deeper your understanding of the beautiful and dark side of female nature. Like male nature, the female one can be absolute bliss or utter chaos.

Experiencing more women allows you to see how different women are even in their similarity. It stops you from making blank generalized statement like "all women are this ... and all women are that"

Why? Because human nature isn't black and white. It's a very Grey area.

Different girls respond to different methods at different pace in different situations.

Tattoo that in your brain. One thing I've always loved doing is going for variety. Meaning, trying different types of girls from various cultures, with different upbringing

I wonder how people delude themselves into thinking they'll get better with women without seeing things till the end


- Lastly, and this is a big one. So you'll probably need a pen for this.

You will never truly know a girl until you've fùcked her. After deep physical intimacy is when she starts letting you into her world. Of course, this varies with different girls. Some from the first fùck. Others from the fifth one.


Now, let's talk about the HOW.

I'll list them out today but dive deeper into each one over the next few days:


- Meet more girls means more girls to bang

- Move faster. Utilize speed in your favour. As a rule of thumb, anything more than 2 weeks or 3 dates.. is slow


- Start hinting at sex from the first, second and 3 meet. I know, I know. They've told you not to think about sex. I'm now telling you to think about fùcking her but be outcome independent. Sounds counterintuitive but I'll explain in my next posts


- Know your smv. An average, handsome, not so handome, ugly, and not so ugly guy will and SHOULD game/Seduce girls a bit differently. I'll also tell you how and why


- Logistics is King. If there's no place to fùck her, well... you're not fùcking her.


- Turn yourself into something women should fix. Women are naturally fixers. They hardly leave anything they meet the same way they found it. She's always trying to fix the bad boy, the thug etc.

What you do is to show her the only way to fix you is to fùck you. When you frame it this way, she can't help herself


Anyways, expect more posts on these going forward. If you pay attention, you'll be armed with so much stuff to bang as many women as you like or desire

If you've been around this corner of the men's world for a while you've probably met the outraged red pill crowd

I'm talking about those who turn everything into a Men vs Women thing like it's a boxing match.

Or men that don't shy away from dropping hateful, ignorant comments on women like: "women aren't loyal"

Sometimes I can't stand the nonsense. And I was reminded last week why such remarks aren't only ignorant but show a poor understanding of female nature

You see, I'm the only man in a team of 12. And as you know, in such a setting, you get to be a fly in wall amongst women. Listening to their numerous views on male/female dynamics. Some good but most washed up bs.

Like this one view that shocked me. Which almost all of them seemed to agree on. "men love to be treated like trash"

In fact, to say I was shocked when I heard that is an understatement. But then again, where do you think this belief emerged from? Simple, from the numerous guys they meet in their lives.

That's why it's no surprise to hear women saying they only see red pill online and not offline. Why? Because most Rp guys are readers and not doers.

They lack real world experience, and it shows.

When we read a book or a post we all have an image in our heads of how much we can handle.

But until that image gets tested, it's often wildly inaccurate. And such is the case with the disconnect between red pill online & offline

If that sounds like you, no fear. Just go out, talk and sleep with more quality women

Why did I say sleep with more women? I'll be dropping a post tomorrow to tell you why and few tips to show you how.

iammolahs:
I want to share my story here, it may be a long read and full of errors.

I think I made a post here of my girlfriend who said she doesn't want a serious relationship, well along the line i don't know how she managed to up and game and we were damn serious and fine. Something happened two months ago.

I've this friend of mine who's a Yahoo guy and this guy is a friend to my girlfriend best friend, they haven't met, they just started vibing online and knowing fully well how my Yahoo friend is benevolence when giving ladies money, I begged him not to ask my babe friend out so as not to get intimidated by how he spends on her.. dude promised me he won't but along the line he did and when
I found out the pressure became much on me and I had to take a break with my girl.


While I was away, she met a guy who's doing football trails in Spain.. Both of them got alonq and the banny fell crazy for him.. I got myself back, regained all the confidence I needed only her to tell me that there's someone else.


We both loved each other in the past, guys came along even those moments that we were having our up and down but she didn't leave, I tried making her understand why I left, tried making her realise that she fell for this guy simple because he's in Spain.. this girl no hear me, she insulted me, telling me I'm acting like a child, etc.

I just can't sleep, this lady has injury on her leg, found it hard to stand but she summoned all courage to push me out of her house, I was shocked.. this lady chased me out like a criminal simply because I was telling her to reason with me.


Funny enough, we both school in different states, I know how distance has been a major problem to us, we did research on how we can handle distance relationship but currently she's okay dating someone she has never met only on video calls.. it's pathetic, it hurts me so bad...

A few things for you to consider:

- No point dating a girl you broke up with. Think about it, all these while you were away, she got dug out severally. And now you're back to pick her up


- Even after saying that, I know you might still want to get her back so I'll leave you something. But I have to warn you, you're setting yourself up for failure by doing that. The first thing you want to do is to detach yourself from her. Completely ignore her. She will reach out. Be casual in your replies... set up a meet and fùck her


- The new guy she's dating is in a worse position than you. So don't worry about him or feel pressured.

- Never show or feel pressure about money. In the long run, Game is more important than money. Focus on building yourself

- And lastly, find a new girl

MetalJigsaw:
You're right bro. And alpha male is a dominant male.

A red pilled man also controls the relationship.

An alpha male can not be a simp, because he's dominant.

There is no difference.

This is partially incorrect. Sure, there are similarities between an alpha and a red piller but they are not the same.

There are blue pill & red pill alphas. Will Smith is an example of a a blue pill alpha. Leonardo di carprio is an example of a red pill alpha.


You have to understand that knowing how to handle women is just one aspect of being alpha. A guy can be alpha at his work, job, office, organization, groups of friends, side chìcks and be heavily blue pulled with his wife.

The typical "happy wife, happy life" crew. A lot of gangsters also fall into this category. Very alpha guys with crazy blue pills takes like "her past doesn't matter" Some even go ahead and wife up only fans models & models.

So yeah, that's the big difference between the two

Miracood2:
I don't know how I shot myself with that relationship bullcrap.

But thing is that till date, she's even the one doing most of the check ups. Like the vibes is there but no sexual tension which I'll have to work on..

Yh she's giving the Christian girl vibes because she's seeing you as bf candidate and wants to appear as a good candidate to you


Stop whatever bf vibes you're giving her and create more sexual tension. I don't have much time to break it down in detail

But that's the general idea.

Miracood2:
Rizzputin

I need your expert analysis.

Okay

Miracood2:
Sir Pukkalolo, Sir Rizzputin good afternoon respected sir. I need your analysis.

Currently in 100lvl, and I've got this girl in my dept that I want to get involved with her. (Something like someone who will be like a real gf. She's beautiful, calm and other bull crap.

We've been talking for a long time (maybe a month to two)

Last week, brought her to my house, told her I liked her, babe was giving reasonable reasons why she doesn't want to go into a relationship. She wants to focus on studies and stuff and wants us to be friends, which I did reject in a sacarstic manner.

At the end, I told her that there's nothing I'll say that will make her change her mind, and I finally told her that whenever she sees my text, calls, she should have it mind that its because I care about her.

We did spend more time before she finally went back home. (Took her to one cultural party going on in sch)

As it stands, I've decreased the texting, calling and stuff. Barely talk to her. But she always gives me sign that she wants to engage in a conversation whenever I'm around.

How do I proceed from here? Me trying to get this girl is not necessarily because of sex as I'm already having that with a damsel (I did seek for advice from you both before I was finally able to lay her).

I just want this girl in my department. Wanna grow with her. (Forgive me if I sound simpish. But I'm actually not)

You are pursuing relationship before sex. Wrong move. So she has decided to slow game you or make you wait. At this point you are in the border line between bf zone and friend zone.


Get her aroused and show her more of your sexual/bad boy side while maintaining a balance of genuine interest in her.

It's sex before relationship NOT relationship before sex

Miracood2:
All I did was to ignore her existence when she came back from holidays. Like I was very cold and talked to her 3 days after her arrival. Went to her room she tried asking some funny questions about why I ignored her for days and didn't care to call her during her holiday.

Told her to stop asking crap questions. Turned her on, and smashed without any form of resistance.

I've totally killed of the bf vibes I was putting on back then. I think I've been too cold asf. I don dey pity the girl sef.

We stay in the same building and I don't even talk to her at times when we see. She also doesn't seem to be bothered about it.

Yup

The bf vibes was holding you back. Because that role has been filled already. What she was looking for was someone to smash her senselessly.


She doesn't mind because she's not seeing you as a bf so doesn't care about you doing all those extra stuff. Plus, she might be thinking you want to keep things discreet. Which works for her too

Miracood2:
Finally smashed like a king.

Rizzputin

Well done. I like it when men put it in the work and get things done. Hope you enjoyed drilling her hard

I had high hopes you'd smash her. Like i always tell red pill guys, there are many many many ways to turn a negative situation around. Even a rejection.

It's only with experience you'll get to understand.

What steps did you take from reply that worked for you? Feel free to share

XshegzzyeeiX:
From the main market, I went to Kara to purchase assorted meat items and discovered this ugly events unfolding lately.

On getting to my favourite meat seller's spot, I noticed this fair pretty elegant woman coming out of his small kiosk, she made her way to her Sienna car and drove off afterwards.

Seconds later, meat seller was out.
My curiosity made me ask me who that woman was, he told me it's one among the three married women that comes to him regularly for hot servicing.

He told me she gave him #25,000 for job well done. She's wife to a big man like he said.

I was shocked.
Meat seller said it's no big deal that all his Hausa friends within the market selling Onions, Pepper, Carrot, Beans, et cetera all have 2 or more married women that they fuccck freely, some pay the guys also.

From all I was told, these women loves sex alot and they can last as long as 10 to 12 rounds.

Yes you heard right.
I don't know what these Hausa guys use, but I confirmed it that they can go that much rounds of sex on women.

If it's overnight, he pounds her from 11pm till 4am atimes.

10 - 12 rounds of sex.
Such women are gone.

Husbands at home don't know what's happening at all.
You guys are sitting on big time bombs.

These dirty shoe repairers, keg-water pushers, condemned metal pickers, tiger nut sellers, water melon sellers and carrot sellers are busy fucccccking people's wives silly.
Some do it right on your matrimonial beds while some with shame do it away from home.

Little wonder most women in marriage now see their husbands as shiiiiit, coz someone else whips her better than you in dah ozza room.

While you manage to do 1 -3 rounds of sex due to economic factors, your wives are getting banged by heavily drugged Hausa men.

Women are linking up one another to Hausa men that can go more than 3 hours of sex on them.

No protection.
Direct skin to skin.

When it comes to sexual gratification and wild adventure, women don't care about your status in the society or personality.
What she wants is a working dick, strength of a horse and stamina to go as many rounds as possible.

As married men and bachelors, do whatever you want with this piece of information.

I'm out of here.

Yeah.. definitely. The broke man with a sweet dìck is a fantasy women love. Cuz for them it signifies he has nothing much to do in life but to pound her as long as she wants 


However, you have to understand that this hausa guys thing is very rare and are just exceptions. And it's most done through referrals as a last resort.

The main reason why they do it with them is to keep things low key so word doesnt get out. Much better to fùck s random sex machine hausa machine that are husband will never know or suspect than a guy she knows who might want to expose, blackmail or worse, get clingy.

Oh btw, they definitely take stuff for those things. Also add bike men and keke men to that list. Lol

But yeah this is just a summary that married women or girls in relationships are one of the easiest women to fùck because all they need is dìck. And they make it easy for you to give to them. Cuz they are always on the hunt for good dìck or crazy adventures


And the advice for married men is to always be improving and step up your game

T

You don't have big asś so nothing for you

One reason: Men

Many men slack and start to fail at their marital duties because they feel they've got the girl. So they stop performing. Leading her to get fùcked mercilessly

Secondly most married women dont marry who they're sexually attracted to. Sexual attraction is key and if your partner doesn't feel that for her man, she'll cheat


Personally, i love fùcking married women. It's an exciting experience. And they give their al into it.

Her fantasies unlocks her legs, revealing the way to her heart


If you're looking for the simplest, most effective way to mind-fùck a girl and knack her, understand the concepts of fantasies.

There are only 12 fantasies women spend days, nights, weeks and years dreaming about. Some of them I'm about to tell you will be obvious. Some, not so much. But regardless, understanding and applying them in your life will improve your life with women exponentially.

Today, I'll speak on only 4 of them.


1) The Beastly Bad boy with a heart

You've probably heard this before. The concept is scattered throughout the entire manosphere. The beauty and the beast reality

Women often fantasize about a bad boy who they hope to tame. A beast capable of violence and puts himself first while having a soft heart for the things he cares about

The thrill of taming this bad boy from a beast into ha much softer cat keeps her chasing. It gets her hooked. All the bad boy has to do to maintain this attraction and chase is to give her hope that some day, she might tame him. But in reality, she never will.

The mistake most guys make is to fall for the trap and lose the beast in them. The moment it happens, she leaves him and goes for someone else.

You see this all the time: a man on his mission but gets sidetracked by a girl who tells him that he's working to hard. Yet the moment he leaves his mission to be with her

I can tell you that this fantasy lives in a lot of girls heads. The moment a woman sees you're a player with lots of women. She wants to lock you down and turn you into a completely worse, non-alpha version of yourself



2) The Devil Seducer with a spark

This is a very common fantasy for virgins, church girls or girls looking to explore.

For these types, the devil presents the perfect escape through temptations and corruption. There's this desire for them to be corrupted and be the devil's sweet slut.

The adventure he provides and the thrill of falling into temptation fills their minds every day.

I've had girls tell me they join dating apps or go outside hoping to meet a guy they can fùck. Whether that's a stranger they'll never meet or potential fwbs

A girl once told me after we had sex that the only reason she went out that day was to get approached. If i had waited to be chosen that wont have happened. In fact, i wasn't even her type.

All that didn't matter because to her, I was the man that could fulfill her fantasy.


3) The stranger with a love for sin

Some of the most interesting, non-judgemental conversations you'll ever have are with strangers you meet when you travel.

Why? Because one, they not know you and tend not to judge you. And two, you probably will never see them again so you're free off load your worries. It's the reason why forums are so popular. And people come her to offload their issues.

In the case of women, they offloads their clothes, panties, desires and lust for the stranger who gives her a wild experience.

This is why, women will go to clubs, parties or new cities and have the time of their life with a guy they just met. Then go out the next day acting brand new.

The classic: what happens in vegas, stays in vegas


4) The broke man with a working dìck


The story of Beauty and the beast pictured a young girl that fell in love with a beast hoping to tame him.

But the story of Aladdin pictures a broke boy who gets a princess to fall in love with hi. Believe it or not, women have a fantasy they play in their heads of getting fùcked by a broke man she can hope to control.

Some girls believe in this idea that men fùck better when they're broke cuz that's all they have. It's an inside joke in women circles that rich guys don't know how to fùck but broke guys do.

While the rich guy foolishly tries to impress with women. A broke guys hopes to impress with his dìck. After all, silver and gold he has none, but the thing within his legs.

Another appeal of being broke is that you tend to let your other sides of you shine through. A broke man can't use money so he uses his personality. For a lot of women this feels authentic and real.

These women will now tend to use money to shape him into the man they want. And a frame battle starts. If the broke guy uses his dìck and game well, he keeps her hooked long enough. If he falls for her and starts becoming the man she wants, she will lose attraction for him and dump him.



Try to weave in aspects of this fantasy into your game. Some girls are moved by one fantasy, others by a combination of others. Find out which one fits the girl you're with it and become it smoothly.

This is one of the most important keys to a very fast seduction and knacks in the bedroom

MetalJigsaw:
As a matter of fact, marriage does not favour the male gender in any way, bro. And it is not a compulsory thing. You get it?

So stop calling out those that aren't interested in it. It's invalid.

Marriage can work for both men and women when done right.

Men who shy away from marriage with useless copes like: "it doesn't favour men" are simply scared.

And their fear is due to lack of skills, game, frame, and understanding of psychology.

I'll leave you with this:


"If you know your enemy and yourself, you need not fear a 1000 battles"

Likewise...

If you know women, and yourself, you need not fear a 1000 years in marriage

Miracood2:
This actually one of the best lessons I've received in my life, when it comes to sex..
Trust me when I said that u actually explained it like you were here.

Ama revert to my initial sef. I actually did simp a bit without knowing, because I kind of liked her, girls like her are not something I come across daily.

I really don't like girls, I mean I didn't even know that I could fall for any girl. So when I did fall for this one, trust me, I was caught off guard.

As it stands, I don't have her number, neither her socials and I haven't called nor texted her since she left back home.

Do I still stand a chance of nackin this girl or should I just forget about her?

I'm currently talking to other girls, but it's kind of stressful, trying to try to build a solid bond with them. Ama just be on my own for now, and let patiently wait for a fish to swim into my net.

The short answer to your question is: Yes, you can still knack her.

The long answer is a bit more complicated:

Right now, you're in a bad spot. But the summary i gave you earlier will put you in a better position. You want her coming back after 2 months to see you in a different and better light.

At this moment you're a fake alpha who she thought was real. So now you have break those thoughts with a pattern interrupt

Start by going out, meeting, and having sex with other women. The sex part is important because it will rub off in how you carry yourself with sexual charisma. And it will make you non- needy.


Next, give her some space while she's away, and whiĺe she's back. Let her come to you. Allow her work to get you back a bit. Don't just jump in hungrily like a sex straved man. Smoothly reel her back in and drop the bf, simpish game.

This would land her in your bed, moaning to your dìck in no time

Miracood2:
Boss, I'm really grateful for taking your time to respond to my mention..

She has gone back home for holidays (she's a diploma student)

We had some personal time two days before she left.. I took her up a mountain (kind of hiking)

We had a kind of a romantic time, a real tensed romantic time.. shared a kiss (a bad one though, as I don't know how to kiss properly)

I asked why she always halt the road to sex when ever we together. She said she doesn't know, she silently said she's scared of me, but quickly said she's gon break my heart because she likes playing.

She then asked if I knew if she had guy, I responded that it's possible, as a girl like her is expected to have a guy..

She asked me why am I chasing her if I knew she already had a guy.

TBH, most of my answers were messed up.. as I'm not used to answering this kinda questions.

At the end, we couldn't define what was going on between us, I ended up telling her to allow us enjoy the moment and see how it goes. She also didn't give a definite response.

That evening , she went out, got drunk ( a guy got her drunk and I'm sure he smashed her. But I don't know if that particular guy is her boyfriend)

I really don't give AF about the guy she's dating, so I honestly don't know the guy.

She left though. And will be back in a month's time. I don't know if I should still keep the tensed tempo up.. because she normally lies on my mattress every evening.. due to heat.. ( I usually bring my mattress out during the evenings)

It happened for about 2 weeks before she left.

I'm not going to lie, not too many girls can make me feel like she made me felt.

Still out here talking to other girls though.

This particular babe made me raise my standard for the kind of girls I approach, she bloody increased my confidence. I mean, girl looks like a model and yours truly can grab her ass squeeze nipples and get her really turned on.


Do pardon any errors in my write-up. Thanks a lot.

Ah yes, once again another red piller realizes that taking pills is nothing compared to being in the trenches of play gaming women

When i read your first post on this, i thought you probably had an issue with making her feel comfortable. Basically, showing her that you genuinely care about her so she doesn't see herself as another intimacy gadget of yours.


But with this new info, your issue is the the exact opposite. You are not alpha or sexual enough.


What I'm about to tell you will shine light on seduction in a way you haven't seen before. So buckle up

Before i dive deep, i want to leave you with a quick 7 second test to help fix your seduction problems: Anytime you notice an issue, go back a few steps or days or minutes (depending on the case) and find out where exactly you messed up.

Most times certain things you do or don't do trigger problems.

Having said that let's look at the timeline of how things went with this girl. I'll highlight where you fùcked up and possible ways to fix it.


Your Timeline Of Seduction

1 - First she met you and saw your alpha nature. She was attracted to it. She loved it. And she wanted to be a part of your world. Things couldn't get any better at this point

2 - But they did. Because now you're squeezing her ass and playing with her oranges. She's starting to love your touch and how it arouses her so wants more of it.

3 - Then something bad happens. You start chasing. All of a sudden she's confused and wondering where the alpha guy she thought you were is. One minute you're an alpha guy, and the next minute you're chasing harder than flies going after honey.

4 - She notices how incongruent you are. She then realizes that you're truly not a real alpha but a false one. But you're lucky because she has the opportunity to keep on seeing you so she doesn't completely rule you out

She gets to see your other attractive qualities and this keeps her hooked enough to try you out but not enough to finally fùck her. She's unsure about you. And when a girl is unsure about if you're the real deal or not, she will hold back sex


5 - However, you pull a good move. And take her to a mountain for a romantic time. In her mind, this is it. You see, one of women's biggest fantasies is to be mercilessly pounded outdoors. So this is her opportunity experience it with you. Maybe if you do it right, she'll start believing you're really alpha.


6 - But not only did you ruin it. You made it worse. First off you gave a bad kiss. Nothing in this life gives girls a good idea of how things will be in bed like a kiss. All these while you were forming alpha to her but you can't kiss properly?

This why she tells you that she'll break your heart. She realizes that all these while you've been chasing her is because you actually like her too much for your own good.

When people tell you who they are (especially women) believe them. And she's right. She will definitely break your heart because you've been hopelessly simping and being emotional with her and that's not what she wants.

7 - But this girl isn't given up. Your kiss (while terrible) and mood plus the fantasy of fùcking outdoors is still making her Hot. So she gives you a hint:

"Do you know i have a boyfriend" Translation: "Dude can you stop with the chasing. I want to be fùcked. My heart is taken care of by my bf but not my pùssy"

She's letting you know not to bother yourself with simping and catching feelings for her because she has a bf for that. But you should fùck her instead.

Rather than taking the hint, you dig the hole of failure even deeper. And like you said give her boyfriend ish answers that clearly reveals to her your lack of sexual experience

Poor girl. She was really hoping for the time of her life


8 - To end it all, she realizes you're not alpha enough. Gets drunk with another guy and gets brutally fùcked. Oh well, lesson learnt


Your Next Move


I suggest you start seeing other girls and actually get some good sexual experience. Seduction is not an online red pill activity. It happens offline with real women.

Get good at kissing and pre-intimacy with other girls. Also, when she comes back, dont act exicted or anything. Just remain your chill, fun self. Drop all those simping boyfriend bs you've been doing . You know what they are so just stop doing them.

Girls in relationships and marriages are one of the easiest to fùck because they go for one thing most of the time: DÌCK

Because most of the things they'd use to catch guys like money and love are already taken care of by their partners. So chasing or acting like a simp will make her question your experience. Because a true player knows what's up.

dealslip:
Let me educate you about women. I can because I am one. Women are not sexual creatures. You dont have to be sexually attractive for a woman to be intimate with you. The love code of a natural woman is affection and tenderness. Men often carry the impression that money is all women think about so they work hard to make money. What do you think Serena Williams, Beyonce, Celine Dion, Folorunsho Alakija and co need? If you keep bandying money about, a woman will disdain you. Its not about sexual attraction for women, its affection. Why do you think smooth talkers keep having their way with women but the ones that boast about money still get cheated on. Women are highly intelligent creatures who have been blessed with the gift of intuition and patience, they sense your real feelings towards them and judge them with that not necessarily money. That is why when they cheat on you it feels like the sting of snake, they have had many months to think about it.

We are all energies living in a type of body - Male Body and Female Body. We often mistake people for their bodies - A body is structured according to DNA and powered by hormones. It is the energies within the body that determines the propensities of the body.

You're wrong. Women are sexual creatures. And no, you can't educate men on this because a fish doesn't teach a fisherman how to catch fish.

Secondly, sexual attraction is the most powerful form of attraction

ibkayee:
If women stop dating/getting married to men they aren't sexually attracted to in Nigeria my dear the rate of relationships and marriage will drop by like 99% lmaoooo

Not just in Nigeria. All over the world

Kaymicheal852:
When you finally get .married with kids for at least 5 years then you can talk about marriage I'd you have never been married before and says the no marriage gang are lost then maybe you're the one that needs to retrace your steps,

I disagree.

Red pill and Game should help you find a better way to enjoy marriage and make it work not to run away from it.

You despise single mothers but you go out of your own way to give different girls babies.

To be clear, you don't necessarily have to sign a document per se.

My point is on building a tight healthy family unit. If you want live with her without actually signing documents no p. Or if you prefer to stick with traditional marriage, no qualms

Point is, best to maintain a family unit with kids for as long as possible.

aremubabs:
It is not about sex all the time.



This is the mistake men make.



They think a woman is all about sex and money all the time.



Sometimes, a girl wants more than that. She wants love. She wants talks. She wants just you.




At least, I had a girl like that whom I lost. It is still hurting me terribly.

It's mostly about sex and money. Sexual attraction and intimacy is among the top 3 biggest factors in marriage

Leaving a girl untouched for a whole year is hard.

Body no be firewood. An ex is an old flame that can be sparked with a single touch or hug.

Well too bad for you bro. Try no to go more than 2 months without fùcking your chic. And when you do fùck, rock her world

traware:
@Emboldened

On paper,this sounds all well and good but in reality,this leads to disastrous consequences for communities/societies and especially for the children involved.

All one has to do is to take a peek at the black american community where from the 1970s till present day 80% of them (yes 80%) were and are still being born in single parent households and just look at the sh.itshow that community has become.

What about the black south african community where single parenthood has sky rocketed for decades and look at how that community is hilariously collapsing on itself.

Even here in Nigeria,i have seen the damage and harm single parenthood/co-parenting has caused to children.

In essence the message i am trying to get across is,if a man wants children then he should get married because a two parent household may be a pain in the ass for men but it still remains the best viable option in giving a child a head start in life.

P.S.This sphere does not appreciate single mothers.Hence,those in it,should endeavour not to create more of them.

You made a great point. Red pill men are quick to attack single mothers but actively and deceptively create them

Marriage is still the best for a well functioning society. Whether if you want to marry one wife or 4.

Men that despise marriages are just weak and running away from a situation they feel is bigger than men

Ghanaian girls have some kind of fetish/fantasy for naija niggas

Any time I'm in Ghana and i tell them I'm from naija, it's as if a Hot witch goes off in them and they start trying their best to impress me

I love my thick Ghana baddies

vislabraye:
If you are successful with what you do, stick to it. I learn and keep learning.
A lot of things redpillers say are true at the same time they are not perfect just as every man is not perfect. It's always important for a man to strike the balance.
The term redpill originated from USA, I think. Most of the people who practice or who hold this ideology are usually against relationship and marriage, especially marriage.
Fact is, Nigeria and the West are very much different. I don't see any woman who will divorce Otedola, Adenuga or Dangote and demand half of their income or net worth. It is impossicant.
I don't see any woman that will openly cheat on her man and tell the whole world. I'm yet to hear of a rich man in Nigeria who is controlled or abused by his wife. It's not possible.
Living in Nigeria is a blessing. Now, a lot of guys are following these redpill philosophy to the letter. You just have to be mindful cos out society is different.
Someone said about how he asked his lady to come to his house and she bought him food in the process. He also spoke about how women throw themselves on him. What he said is possible but not absolutely.
Women are different even though they're fundamentally the same.
Some women are more forward than others. If you're waiting for a woman to pursue you because you're a respiller and you don't want to be a simp, you will miss a lot.
You should be able to detect when a woman has some attraction for you and you capitalize on it.
Some of the women I've dated, that fell madly in love with me played hard to get from the beginning. I have taken them on dates and spent a few times but they developed cold feet. But when thet first visit and I end up smashing them, they become hooked.
While some do make advances at me but they're not really what I want. The truth is that some sexi ladies would need some initial effort.
N:B. I am not advocating simping by any means. A man should be wise to know when a lady is trying to use him.
But the funny thing is that I have seen real players who spend on chicks.
My point here is that nothing is absolute. You take from here and you take from there. There are people before this redpill movement who were good with women.
Just want to drop my few words. I know my epistle is long.

@bolded. 100% Facts. I don't where these fake àss get the impression that waiting for a girl to come to you is game.

That's literally the poorest form of game I've ever seen in my life. The worst past is he's saying that if you don't do it, you're a simp.

I'm beginning to think there are more clowns in red pill than i realized

Watch how they come to quote you and say "that's now what they mean" when it's the only thing they ever talk about

It's their no marriage talk that made me realize how lost they are

qbqetell:
We have a troll here disguised as a RedPiller.

Ordinarily, I wouldn’t post another comment regarding his trolling, but I have to do this for the lads who might be getting confused by his use “pragmatism”.
Let no one fool you with grammars.
Whenever you see people who refuse to speak in simple ELI5 english, they are usually empty people hiding behind grammars.

He seems to have just learnt that word from a pickup artist book.
He is so excited and wants to show off his new knowledge.
Note, I said pickup artist book, not redpill book.

Now, what’s pragmatism?

In a simple sentence and in the context in which our troll has been using it, it means practical approach regarding how to get girls into your bed. For instance, do A, then do B, don't do C, then do D, and she would be in your bed.

Now, there are three things to this:

1: Does this sound similar to how many pickup artists (who are actually SIMPS) think in matters pertaining to women?

They tell you how to pick up a girl, step-by-step: what to say to make her like you, how to tell her to give you her no, and so on.

If these two sound similar to you, you are not alone.

2: The troll doesn’t want anything apart from step-by-step processes to be discussed.

Unfortunately for him, being redpilled isn’t just about getting women into your bed.

He should calm himself down and realize that the redpill comprises of (i) understanding you have been lied to all your life; (ii) understanding what women really are (their true nature); (iii) helping you realize to learn to be a man: to build principles and character; and lastly (iv) offering you a healthy way to lead women into your bed.

The troll is only interested in item 4. The essence of the experience I shared is to buttress item 1, redpillers truly get women.

He would like to compel us all to keep quiet about anything pertaining to item 1, 2, and 3. Guess what kind of people are similar to this? The SIMPs.

SIMPs are men who are not interested in (i) hearing about the existence of the matrix; (ii) understanding the true nature of women; and (iii) helping your realize the necessity to build principles and characters.

They are similar to the male goat. All its life revolve around pussy. That is all he wants to hear: how to get pussy, nothing else.

3: All our troll craves is a step-by-step process. He wants us to share tips and dating drills with him and not our success stories.

Only if he pays attention enough and has been following this thread closely, I personally shared tips, so many other comrades also have. In addition, I mentioned "looking into some Paul Elam materials" (someone even pointed this to him which he ignored). For the young lads, you might also want to look at Tom Leykis.

I have already stated times without number, men make yourself attractive and build character. That is my key tip. I won't tell you how to get a girl's no, because you don't need to. I won't tell you how to talk to a girl, redpilled men don't learn such: when a girl is into you, you won't have to learn how to talk to girl. I sure as hell also won't teach you pickup artistry.

I have already phrased my key tip in different ways, “attraction is the name of your game”, “stop chasing women and attract them instead”, and so on.

In my previous posts, I referred to the guy as an half-baked redpiller. The more he opens his mouth, the more I realize, this isn’t even half-baked redpill. He is no redpiller at all. Bluntly speaking, he is SIMP in a redpiller’s cloak. He has now been identified and should be treated as such.

I tell you this, when I decided to make that post, my intention wasn’t even to brag.
There are many lads who find it difficult to embrace the redpill. They feel, if they do, women would never be in their lives.
My essence of posting that was to show that see, here I am. I don’t play by the rules laid down by SIMPS.
Here I am, I have taken the redpill, and that has only brought me more women than I know what to do with.
I was providing live feed to prove how grounded the redpill was in reality.
“I am a living proof”, that’s the essence of my post.
Yes, I emphasized how little effort I invested, but that still part of the attempt to get these lads excited.

If I really wanted to brag, I would have been here years ago, telling tales of every girl I have been banging. If I really wanted to brag, I would post pictures of the kind of girls I’ve been banging. If I really wanted to brag, I would litter this threads with compliments I get regarding my bed skills and how 75% can’t help but acknowledge how big my dick is. If I really wanted to brag, I would tell you how much attention I command, when I walk into places. If I really wanted to brag, I would tell you how often women harass me with their boobs and asses. But I digress.

I would address and speak to you from a brotherly point of view, but obviously you are not someone to listen.
You would only continue to litter this thread.

Guys, we already know what he is, we shouldn’t give him more attention than he deserves.
I felt people still learning might have started getting confused by his use of “pragmatism”, otherwise I personally wouldn’t have posted this.
We already know how we quarantine our trolls, he needs to be quarantined too.
Avoid quoting him.
If you have to refer to him, use “the troll”.

Are you scared to tag? Throwing shades like a little girl in kindergarten


And congrats on learning a new word: "pragmatism" I see you went to check out the meaning. LMAO

But as you can see my dear fake redpiller, you have zero clue on what that word means as it's evident from this write up you pulled out from your ass.

Fake Alphas always get defensive when guys call them out on their cheap bragging. It's only Nigerian fake red pillers in this forum I've seen that brag pointlessly for no reason.

Now let me educate you on what i mean by pragmatism. No it doesn't mean "step by step" or whatever bs you're using to confuse yourself.

It simply means if someone reads your post, what practical knowledge or tip can someone take and start applying to their lives. But your false ego and pride won't let you see that. Cheap brags is more important to you.

The worst part is you claim to want to help a beginner. This laughable. It's either you don't understand what a beginner's mindset is or you're just delusional to see your own faults.

Your hypocrisy and lies is unbelievable. If you really wanted to help beginners, tell me what "i banged her in 15 mins" is going to do for a beginner.

To make matters even worse you said "i threw her shìt test out the window" Not only is that pure garbage, how does a beginner understand the meaning of what you were saying?

Can you see that you lie a lot? I called you out on your cheap bragging and now you're a trying to make a non-existent case that you want to help beginners when nothing in your post suggests that.


But this your silly write up couldn't get more sillier. Now you're saying red pillers don't need to know how to talk to a girl. Lol. I'm guessing you clapped your hands and then girls fùcked you

You know the common thing with liars and cheap braggers? Once you start, you use more lies and cheap brags to back yourself up


From "i threw her test out the window" to "red pillers don't need to know how to talk to a girl" to "you don't need to know how to collect her number"

Your brags get sillier and cheaper each time you try to defend yourself

You had a chance with the "become attractive and build character" i dont know if you're blind that you can't see how vague that statement. You could have been pragmatic there but no bragging is more important to you.

Just remember this, a man that has to say he is a king is no king.

luminouz:
Keep quiet Egbon... Let everyone share what they consider a success story. It's their story,not yours. How dafuq do you define what anyone's success story is?

Stay the course. No bring fights here!!! You just joined when and suddenly you won't let us hear word!! Isonu redpiller!!!

Heartofcity12 and SOZINN....please don't engage this dude further!!! let our Lord of bones gnaw at his own racket!!!

Lol success story my ass.

Cheap bragging is your version of success story. Says a lot about your mindset. The bar is really low at this point

People should be really careful who they learn from on here. It's an anonymous forum. So many fakes. No wonder y'all frown at marriage.

And contradict yourselves. One minute, it's not about sex. The next minute, it's about fast sex and cheap bragging. Lmao

You're foòling only yourself

luminouz:
Egbon....e don do...I don notice your comments for like three days. Drop quote or drop pill make we learn but nope...na men wey dey contribute to the thread you dey attack. E don do. We are not bragging but sharing our stories. Can you kindly move on from this issue?

If you have actually been following the thread you will notice i have dropped pills. Go back and read

But hypocrisy won't let you see that. And don't call those things success story. Go and find out what a real success story

Not those cheap attempts at bragging

SOZINN:
Topics about self improvement have been shut down several times in this thread (even though it is the core tenet of all these things), some of us have still managed to sneak in pills regarding that aspect. Úbunja brought game to this thread the very day it was created and I remember Glycolysis trying to shut him up but he kept going. There's is no aspect of the red pill that has no been touched in this thread from women's nature to self improvement to game to masculinity. A good number of the old monikers have left recommendations for others to research and learn from various source materials.

Asking for pragmatic skills at this point shows that you have not read through the thread from the beginning because some members suggested that we should stick to sharing experiences and not repeating stuff that has already been said several times over - this was about over a year ago. Qbqetell subtly recommended an author in one of his posts but you weren't paying attention. From the look of things it seems you want to be spoon fed tips and tricks instead of doing the work, and that says a lot about you. Here's a tip for you, you can post some of your failed experiences and some monikers who are above your level will provide helpful suggestions for you to learn from. We've been doing it for years and that's how we helped some new monikers to embrace the red pill.

I've been a follower of this thread. Topics on self improvement or pragmatic skills has never and will never be shut down.

And when i mean "pragmatic" i don't mean the constant regurgitated stuff where you guys post "hakimi did this. Hakimi did that"

Or you post stories of where women used guys like we haven't seen or heard enough of them already.

Pragmatism for your information means practical stuff not theoretical stuff you have used to litter the thread. That is why people got tired of it. Because you keep repeating the same theories over and over again.

Now that people are tired of your theory shìt posting rather than doing the next sensible thing which is paragmatism, you have resorted to bragging.

Guy posts how he fùcked in 5 mins. And then what? What happened? What was the girl like? What steps did you take?

If everyone starts posting bragging stuff cheaply disguised as "success stories" nobody learns anything.

A true man or alpha doesn't need bragging to prove anything. It's fakes or wannabes that want to massage their ego that do such

heartofcity12:
It’s better the thread a cesspool of bragging than a cesspool of trolling it currently is.. I think you have forgotten here ain’t academics or religious section. This is a Redpill page, no moral compass, getting sex is a part of the movement. All roads lead to sex.. Men that don’t like to talk about sex or hear a brother getting laid coz he was chosen, they’d rather call it bragging 😆.Enough with the forte and back anyway.. Whatever..

Cesspool of bragging or trolling ends up with the same outcome: no result.

I repeat what does someone learn from you banging a girl in 5 mins besides the history of your penìs

Worse part is you're bragging like you discovered fire.
Bro success stories are made to buttress a point, explain a narrative or dive deeper into certain topics.

At this point, you're just doing it to massage your fragile egos

heartofcity12:
Yo bro, why do you feel so hurt that they’re bragging? You could ignore them if it hurts so bad.. I don’t even see any reason why this has to hurt anyone tbh 🤷🏼‍♂️. Most of us have shared our simping stories and no one called us out for it, why do you feel they shouldn’t share their success stories with women and term it “bragging”. There is no limitation to what’s being shared here, no moral compass, it’s an anonymous platform anyway 🤷🏼.. Why you so pissed?.. Share your own stories too, no one is stopping you, you don’t have to be emotional about this, it’s a feminine and weak trait.

Success stories? LOL. To boost your fragile ego?

What you don't understand is that it's better to reduce certain things before it becomes a norm. Soon, it will become a cesspool of bragging

What exactly does someone learn from you banging a girl 5 mins ?

You are actually the one being feminine

Here we go again with the bragging up there.

Talking like they just discovered fire. Resist the urge to shalaye on your peniìs history brothers.

We are here to get better game not to beat our chests.

And you know the funny thing about all these brag posts? None of the ones I've seen are actually special. Only to small inexperienced minds

So unless your bragging story drives a pragmatic point like stuff Ubunja wrote, put it aside in a box called "nobody cares"