₦airaland Forum

princetom1:
Like seriously. Not grave under the ground though, but grave emotionally. Mine i found out, i first maintain bcoz i was gentle than BOSS, but wen i took action, the lady wanna commit suicide. Just like BOSS, a mumu pick her up and call her a lady and i laugh bcoz she hasn't change up till now. One hungry VULTURE

Hehhehehheh... I don cause wahala "boss" vulture. Na wa o.

makavele:
if u be boss; u be boss !!!!!

lol. Meaning?

princetom1:
I can relate and feel your pain. Its a bad thing for a girl to be heartless

yeah. It's a life we all have to endure.

Explorers:
Not yet bro, learnt they are still testing.

Send me a link to the source where you got this from please. It will help down the road. All those talking about infertility, why hasn't postinor been stopped. You think this is done by Nigerians with so much irregularities? This is a multi-million dollar opportunity. Anyway, we all can't always reason alike.

Explorers:
Researchers believe its effects would wear off within days, meaning he would again be fertile. By contrast, women are typically advised to stop taking the Pill weeks or even months before trying to conceive.

Family planning experts said a reversible male contraceptive could benefit millions of couples where the woman cannot take the Pill for medical reasons.

And it would save men from being trapped into having children they did not want, they added.

With global sales of contraceptives topping £13 billion a year, the market for a reversible male contraceptive could be huge.

Lead researcher Professor John Howl, of Wolverhampton University, described how effective their sperm-stopping agent had been in lab tests.

He said: ‘The results are startling and almost instant. When you take healthy sperm and add our compound, within a few minutes the sperm basically cannot move.

’Male infertility is often the result of poorly moving sperm, called ‘low motility’. Using this, the Wolverhampton team, together with Portuguese researchers, made a compound called a cell-penetrating peptide, which gets inside sperm and brings them to a standstill.

Prof Howl said: ‘This is a totally unique approach nobody else has ever done this before.

’Peptides are short chains of amino acids that can influence how human cells work. They occur naturally but biochemists can make synthetic versions.

Prof Howl and colleague Dr Sarah Jones first demonstrated that certain ‘cell-penetrating peptides’ could smuggle themselves inside sperm cells, like a Trojan horse.

Please do you know how I can be in touch with the company or if it has hit market so I can be major distributor here in Nigeria?

Thanks for bringing it here bro. You never disappoint in your daily research.

I love people with quest for information beyond classroom.

Purpletee:
its heartbreaking and inhuman

yeah, it is.

Can lalasticlala do justice this to this post please?

Eleganza33:
I mean vulture username,hahaha feel free nd send i do reply my pm

okay. I will follow you now.

chigoizie7:
Have u ever bought a phone for ur Babe and den arrange for it to be stolen by ur goons?

Well, that's the kinda things I can do to someone who did nothing to me, talk more of the one that messed me up.

Trust me, that Honda pilot will fail brake and she will die of car accident, those are the kinda things I can aswell do without blinking an eye.

BOSS, is really a good person.

To think that the said fool is a nairalander, and may be one of those talking trash here on romance land

lol. I would rather see her alive but miserable than dead. The torment would be out of this world. She would be the one wishing she was dead lol.

chronique:
Harsh truth. They'd rather play victim and tell you why it was your fault they cheated. They're never wrong.

Na so we see am o.

Purpletee:
speechless....

why speechless?

HelenBee:
smh...Yahoo, Tattoo , sports betting, pornography ,celebrity gossips and social trend, has made the Nigerian youth a little less than a fool. We know nothing, we create nothing. This na pesin 'roles model' o.

I am impress by this comment, coming from a lady, it shows you have functional brain and you one that believe in dignity of labour, not a lazy person.

Do you mind if I send a PM?

chronique:
If this is coming from a lady,one has no choice than to believe it and take it seriously.

bro, I told a friend exact same thing this lady you quoted said BUT he didn't believe me until came here and saw this same post this lady. It's the forking truth. They do not feel remorseful, even when they tell you "I am sorry"

Eleganza33:
Lolz c comments u guys are funny op wetin b her username

my username? Wetin u wan do with am? Well my other handle has been eyeing you but felt you might ignore like all these girls wey do yanga, so I have not been able to send you a PM. May be I was just being paranoid.

Nikita1:
If we form busy for you, there is only ONE thing involved

You must be annoying

I have stopped talking a girl who started that way without even knowing my intentions--- wifey shopping. So, she is giving another person room/chance. Good luck being busy.

Nma27:
True

That is life.

Topestbilly:
I know it's only oyinbo dat will accept dis ur lifestyle.

churhill married Tonto Dikeh, is he from pluto?

Nma27:
I wonder why mess up a good relationship... Anyway I'm happy ur friend found love again

see, there are some people that will never do well or be successful even if they are from a rich home, even if you give them $1 Million and so on. It's just their destiny, not their fault.

Does she sound normal? She never loved him and this is a clear definition that money can't buy love. It's good it ended, even with money lost than a life is lost.

rosieflower2:
Dis woman is so pretty

like you

jezuzboi:
Please my dearly beloved brother, I know that u are very kind and would do anything for a friend. I could see how you referred to BOSS as you BROTHER. I know u can be trusted. I need u to do just one thing for me, and I will be grateful to u forever.

Please, kindly share with me THE WAYS TO WRECK THOSE KINDS OF PEOPLE EMOTIONALLY. May u be blessed for doing this for me; MY BROTHER.

It depends on how the break up happen. In my case, she saw no good in me or a future. I was a lesser good but I did sacrifice emotionally and financially.

So when she left, I told myself I was gonna be better than she left me. I get getting better and I never left her sight as I would call occasionally to let her know I am still kicking and alive.

Long story short, she was wooing, begging me to marry her in September. It's not something you can execute if you are not patient.

Success is the best form of revenge...

Warhawk:
Jazz is real..

Your head correct! I swear. I believe you have seen things bro. First person to see through it, even though I didn't mention such. This isn't ordinary.

WackyJ1:
That girl cannot go like that.

Her apology is just too weak.

She left BOSS and went to his new relationship to say he is impotent!!! TF!!

No VULTURE cannot go like that.

lol. Bro, I say she is lucky. I know what I am saying. I do not forgive certain things in this life.

jezuzboi:
Except VULTURE used jazz on BOSS, him no try at all!. If me & Mother Theresa's virgin daughter are dating, and she mistakenly drinks alcohol from my cup, thinking its water, and gets high, and as a result of that, cheats on me with a young virgin Reverend Father who also made the same mistake of drinking from the same cup, and I get to find out even after 3 years, IT IS FINISHED! Quote me anywhere.

In VULTURE's case, I guess she would be in the grave by now, if na me. That's how good guys like BOSS will be suffering in the hands of Jezebels like accursed people, while the Jezebels will be forming paparazzi upandan! I pray today, may VULTURE meet DRACULA b4 the end of this year!!!

I say Amen to your last prayer.

nsogbuMod:
by now me for don murder the girl

I swear. You no even need to murder her. There is a way to wreck those kind of persons emotionally.

rosieflower2:
Ur frnd should b thankful to God dat he didn't end up wit her.

Yeah, God has a way of revealing things to us.

rosieflower2:
Dis one is too much

My dear, that is life. People do not know what they have till it is gone. The VULTURE left and till now, she is not sure if the dude she is with will marry her. She had someone willing to go through the whole mile but she messed it up. More than once!

ednut1:
i hate weak people with passion,how u go gv hoe second chance, Boss mess up bt hes now free. a leopard doesn't change its spots just like Buhari. another angle might me d gal never loved boss. but boss kept chasing and flashing his money to entice her. nd he got served

He isn't weak bro. Weak people do not take their life in their own hands. Dude has been hustling even when his peers were still being fed by their parents. Is that a weak person to you? Or you think we are talking about someone in his 40s here? he is in his late 20s bro and he has been on his own, fending for himself for long. Is that a weak person? We are just fools when we are in love, that is all!

saintdennis:
Guess BOSS is igbo

I haven't seen guys who "venerate hoes like igbo boys...

Spend, spend spend azzif money buys love or loyalty.

Oga dat babe deserves a square( rough gangbanging from 4 guys) for going after his new babe with lies.

But I'm sure BOSS won't do that

You are right, he is Igbo but tribe has nothing to do with being nice to your lady. Nice people are everywhere. I do not know if it because the girl is from Asaba and coincidentally, the same ex who broke my heart when my mum died is from Asaba too.

Ahmed0336:
To be honest if boss was my friend going by what u wrote up there annoyance for don make me disown him tey tey. Human behavious varies sha but me no dey tolorate nonsense abeg.

what if na juju she use? You think that one too? Bro, pray make you no jam witch o. Okay you sef reason am. Despite everything, she still went ahead to contact the new girl and said rubbish about my friend. Does that sound like a normal human being to you?

Tallesty1:
I don't know why people think that the world "Sorry" has magical powers that will make you forget everything they did to you.

My brother, honestly speaking I can't confidently tell you I have completely forgiven my ex because till date, once a while, if memories flashes through, I ALWAYS remind her of the past, directly or indirectly. Last month, she called me that she needed treatment for her toothache. I told her I would call her back and that was it. I know this might sound harsh, but I doubt I would be move if she was dying.

This same girl broke my heart EXACTLY when my mum died. Imagine losing a mother and having a heartbreak all together. Till date, I do not think she knows the magnitude of what she has done and why I still act the way I do despite the fact that things happened 7 years ago.

They will just tell you forgive and forget like it can erase the past.

Maychang:
its stil a mystery why girls dont like good guys

Are you a girl?

ednut1:
i hate weak people with passion,how u go gv hoe second chance, Boss mess up bt hes now free. a leopard doesn't change its spots just like Buhari. another angle might me d gal never loved boss. but boss kept chasing and flashing his money to entice her. nd he got served

u don see where juju dey give u food eat?

What I am about to share with you is real, it happened to my pal but I call him my brother.

I am sharing this based on his permission and I will leave everyone to be the judge.

Let's call him BOSS!

Sometime in late 2013, I was here reading a story of a guy who wanted to kill himself over a lady but I didn't read much before I left the thread.

Coincidentally, I was in talks with BOSS on another thread where he narrated what a certain lady did. Let's call her VULTURE.

BOSS caught VULTURE cheating with numerous lies and evidence. This resulted to a break up. Back then, we talked about ladies and the things we had gone through--I equally shared my own story as mine was still fresh. Thereafter we took it to 2go and from there our friendship/brotherhood has been waxing stronger.

BOSS told me that it was over between them, however some days later, he told me VULTURE was at his place, pleaded and explained. The manner he narrated it showed they were likely gonna make up soon, which they did. I could have cautioned him but I also knew my words might not have much effect.

This guy has large heart, willing to help, very straightforward in his dealings. He never met me when I asked him for help with money. Much to my surprise, he promised to send it and he did.

Well, service to my papa land was due and so I left for service, I didn't hear much from him as I lost contact. We did communicate once a while on facebook, he is hardly on there lol.

In 2014, I would occasionally ask after VULTURE and he would say she is fine, they had been doing things together, he started a business for her to manage and all of that. This time around he was doing MORE for and with her, spending. Words he used to describe their relationship then could only be used by a guy who wants to marry a lady. In between that period, I would often tell him he tried and he is strong for taking back a lady that cheated on him.

So around this time last year, we got talking, one thing led to another, I could sense something was eating him up. A few days later, he narrated his experience with VULTURE. How she used two password to lock her phone. Since he is a programmer, he broke the codes and unlocked the phone and things he saw were beyond "shocking". Nude pics, raw dirty chats with guys etc.

Apparently, the relationship had to come to an end for good.

BOSS had to count his lose and move on.

I visited him this year at his Lekki base and things he shared were enough to feel pity. VULTURE made him spend MILLIONS. Talk about the business he opened for her, talk about the Honda Pilot he bought for her, talk about the outing at the famous Chinese restuarant at Lekki before Ajah were they blew 50-100k per day, Talk about clothes, talk about, talk about changing of phones, shoes. Just name it.
He couldn't collect the car back because he bought it in her name.

He still didn't do her no single harm. He moved on with his life.

At this juncture, I have to confess and be honest, that girl is very lucky. I doubt I can stay without maiming her if I were in BOSS shoes. Even my ex whom I didn't spend this much on know what I did to her emotionally. Till date, I can still feel echoes of fears lol. You will find out why soon.

BOSS had to move on with another girl. They were already planning marriage and I have no idea what happened. VULTURE contacted the new girl via facebook after adding her. She said so many horrible things about BOSS. Told the new girl that she left BOSS because he was impotent and had no cure (meanwhile, she was the one who refused to get pregnant using pills). She said BOSS is a cultist, a drop out (but if you have spent time with BOSS, he is actually smart and techy) You would know a drop out if you saw one lol.

Anyway, just yesterday, BOSS sent me screenshot in which VULTURE was begging that he forgive her and forget.

I asked BOSS what led to it. He told me VULTURE told the new girl he was impotent and so when the new girl got pregnant, he sent her (VULTURE) the result.

See the screenshot below and yeah, she is a nairaland member as well.

Does this girl deserve forgiveness?