Binikingdowm:
you don't know Edo state

lol... Are you a Benin man or an Esan ? Answer that first and we will have a discussion.

Dreydoe:
bro I admire the way you respond and answer questions but to be honest you they do pass yourself most times. This game is deeper than what you already know. Just looking at the name LendLift.com has a synergy to it among other things that makes it brandable. the Monkier that even dropped those names na Big chief and they are lots of them on this Thread. Them no they us all their mouth they talk things. It's left for you to research and decode. LendLift. Com is Gold

I wanted to reply him but deleted my comment after... I switch accounts and visit here as much as I wish.

Good luck to everyone...

@sammchuk1

aremuforlife:

How has she solved Nigeria problems? Kemi Adeosun has shown her worth while in office, and we can attest to her performanc. She was just a victim of political witch hunt.

Iweala was and other igbos together with OBJ made our debt forgiveness possible. never forget...

therealMcCain:


Virtually everyone here deals in Geodomain and/or brandable domain.

The OP of this thread has a paid training program for Geodomain

I deal on Brandables, My schedule for now wont allow Training sessions.

I have 3 books that covers Brandable domains, Expireddomains and Squadhelp.

You can check my signature for more info.

I am more interested in the brandables. I know geo domains very well. I am just trying to see if there is anything new I can learn

therealMcCain:


At the bolded, SH does not constitute my entire Domain portfolio. That I haven't made sales on SH does not mean I am not selling elsewhere. I have explained this several times here. There are people with guest accounts making a killing in domaining but you will never get to see their post, likewise registered members.

Its not everybody that is comfortable revealing how much he/she makes to the whole wide world and you never can tell if there was an NDA.The most important thing in this business is to have patience, keep reading and doing the right thing. It will payoff on the long run.

There some folks making sales now but with weak foundation, they will burn out in the near future while those that took time to build the right foundation will weather the storm.

By the way this came in this morning.

how much is your course?

AkeNathan:
America must release a safe vaccine in the soonest time possible during this pandemic

If China releases a safe and effective vaccine ahead of them, USA can begin to kiss their global power rights good bye.

It is in time of great troubles, that leaders emerge.

When during World War 2, the world was devastated by Hitler, USA entered the show and downed Hitler, they subsequently became global power.

This is the third world war, it is not against humans but against an invincible virus, and China is promising.

Let us see where this will lead

China is being too desperate

Descorts:
I am weak? Just cuz I wanted to help a friend through emotional trauma, you call that weak? You must be a kid. I'm not having this conversation with you, you've not seen life.
Dont mention me again please

don't mind them. Nairalanders will come online and start forming like they have never had a woman fool them. I hate such folks.

eliok:
Please follow up my new kdp thread here

https://www.nairaland.com/5764986/kdp-kindle-amazon-books-corona#87932262

That your thread that you people refused to answer questions... But don't worry, it will be done.

I have said before and this has confirmed what I have been saying for some months....Nigerian leaders have sworn an oath with the devil to never make the country work.

jeffizy:
It's no longer news that the situation is being made worse by those wicked humans who will be fully aware of their status and still go around spreading the virus.

Please Stay At Home!!!

There should be a military order on them... if you refuse to stay at home, get a bullet in the leg. At least, na who get leg go fit waka.

NgwalandAbia:
Your evil plan for nigeria will catch up with you why not use the Abuja mosque ode

Religious bigotry will consume you all whom Jesus will even deny not to know if he were here. Who are you to judge him? That man is a christian and a member of Winners. Go THROUGH his threads you fool.

There is no money to pay people when recruited but they have money to waste...

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
can udemy certification aid one in global level?

Bro, we have Udemy, we have tedx.org. Go over there, pick a course and read like your whole life depend on it.

miclef86:
I met this lady, a colleague of mine for over a year now, we work in the same unit. Don't get it twisted, our Organization permits marriages but one of us will make a transfer to another branch within the same location.

I liked her, everybody in our unit noticed there's a connection between us. However, we're like cat and dog we fight over everything, always disagreeing, yet.

I have been getting a lot of advice from my fellow colleagues about how she's the perfect match for me and how compatible we're if we decide to be together.

However, truth be told, I have not been really serious with her, I flirt with other single girls in the unit. The other day, they were having relationship discussion, a senior colleague of mine said that I use to jump from one girl to another.

The last Valentine's day, I called her that we really need to talk she told me if it's really that serious I should come over to her house which I did. I went there to profess my love for her, I asked her to give me a chance that I'm gonna be a better man.

She calls me a confused human being, that I don't really know what I want, that it's too late. That she already has someone and planning to get married to him next year.

Now, I've decided to accept my faith and move on with one particular lady that cares about me, I no longer call her like I used to anymore, just greetings that use to join us now.

I have noticed a hostile attitude from her towards me, she gets angry whenever she sees me with the other girl.

Yesterday, during lunch hour, I met her with few of my colleagues and little conversation ensued between us she said I should bet with her that I'm going to leave that girl and come back to her, that made me a little upset within. So we had a bet.

Pls I need your advice, I truly love her, I think about her almost all the time. Should I swallow my ego and try to make things work between us again or I should let the sleeping dog lie?

Take this from me, do not let her into your life... go on and date someone else. I had a bad experience with an idiot from nairaland and it was same thing. Thankfully, I had backup. Just move on because she will end up wasting your time.

A girl who wants will NEVER waste your time.

If you build your self esteem on money, you don't have any.

Timson01:
Good day nairalanders,

I have a question bothering me. I have been in a relationship with my fiance for almost 3 years. Our wedding is this Easter. So we got a new apartment and he has been living in that apartment .

I visit almost every day and we both cant wait to get married. We moved some of his stuff in one of the rooms and I was trying to clean up and arrange some of the items when I saw some pictures of my fiance and his ex.

Personally,I was surprised he still kept pictures of his ex. (I discovered this ex is in the same church with him. I recognized her cos she is a church worker but he never mentioned they were ever together until I found these pictures). I put them together and my intention was to confront him and later,maybe burn the pictures. So I packed them in a bag waiting for him to return so I can show them to him.

I continued cleaning but I also saw like old CDs and I was wondering which ones to keep or throw away so I had to play them one by one in the DVD to determine which one was still good or which ones are bad so I can throw them away.

Just as I continued playing the CDs,I played one that I was not expecting. It was a sx tape of my fiance and his ex (his church member o) and another woman. I recognized the ex from the photos that I saw earlier on. I was stunned and shocked. Why did he make sx tape of himself having a party with his ex and someone else?
At this point,I lost it and couldn’t wait for him to return. He of course lied that he did not know he still had the pictures and video. He said the video was a mistake. He was young and stupid. The video was made when they were drunk.

I met my fiance through a mutual friend. Never for once did my fiance mention that his ex is still in the same church with him. In fact,he never mentioned her. I go to his church once in while but I never got any hint…I feel so fooled.

For me,its bullshit. All I can picture is him and his ex and that LovePeddler. Who is she,that ex…who is the other woman?…why is the ex pictures and videos still with the man I am getting married to in a few weeks.
My fiance has been begging me,saying he has destroyed the pictures and video.But that is not comforting me,my gut is telling me there is something about this ex. I mean,I know my guy is not a virgin,I know he has been with other girls in the past but never in a million years did I picture him as the kind of guy who would sleep with two women at the same time and even film it.

Plus filming it..he kept the tape…We have been together for 3 whole years…why does is that tape still in existence?Maybe he is still in love with the ex or maybe they are still seeing behind my back.

Or maybe he kept the tape as a reminder of the kind of s*x he likes…I am confused and I truly feel like there is something he is not telling me but he says I am just paranoid for nothing,that there is nothing going on. That he has not spoken to this ex for over 4 years.
Please advise me…is he telling the truth…his motive for making the tape too is scaring me…is he that type of guy or was this just one time stupid mistake?

Abeg nairalanders,make una advise me on what to do?

RUN... RUN as far as your legs can carry you.

GhostGhost:
Good day, there's this girl that I like and stuff, saw her about 2017 then she was in a keke and Lives close to my area in Abuja and I hopped on the keke and we talked a little I tries to get her number but she declined after she told me her name. Met another chick names C.1 same week and we started dating and it was awesome, we dated till 2020 had its ups and downs and for some reasons we have to part ways. Actually 2017 my mind was off this particular chick in question 2018 my mind was off her because I like going after someone whose attracted to me and vice versa & I got a girlfriend that I love and about 4 side chicks (don't judge me but u can do so it makes no difference). During that period I got a car and stuff, got my attention to other girls and things. I used to see her while driving by. Someday I saw her waiting for cab and gave her a lift and collected her number, so later on we chat and stuff but I wasn't paying attention to her cos I had full plate but mainly cause I felt she wasn't interested in me and I moved. Was just chatting her cos I just like her.

Then 2020 we started chatting a lot more share pics, baby pics stories and stuff, I started liking her a lot more and said OK let me go on a date with her so we picked a date.
I went to meet her where she was waiting for me and we greeted and she held my hand while we were walking and stuff. I switched it and held her and the eatery was close by so we walked there and had a nice time. She was calm and calculated, smart too which is what got me a lot more into her now. she's got a very adorable and beautiful eyes too and a nice smile. Her body and shape is dope as fvck, she's thicker than a mofo, laps sexy AF but that's not my primary intention BC I really like her. She facially she's no Alicia keys or Beyonce but looks OK, the thing I'm more of a personality/character kind of person when I really like a girl unlike when I want to just fvck her then I consider facial looks a lot. I complimented her on her eyes and smile she said I was lying about her smile. She doesn't think she has a beautiful smile but she does. Maybe she thinks she's not beautiful or something. Ran into a couple of guys I know and we greeted but I didn't introduce her because I felt like this is our first date and stuff. We left and board a cab, she seems like a good person and I like her a lot, actually she's growing on me. Saw her off to her place and left, we chat a little that day.

We chat and stuff but she kind of pulls this you should try to get me and stuff BC while we were discussing she mentioned about something then I playfully told her she'd teach me and she said I have to pay and stuff I told her I've got no money she said if I dont pay for it I won't value it and few other stuff she gave off which seems like she's the type that thinks if you don't suffer to get stuff or if it wasn't hard for one to get stuff the person won't value it.

Honestly now I really like her which tend to mess with me( making me to drop my games and stuff) unlike when I just like/aka wanna just Bleep n move which is 90% fucksexfull. They tend to like and fall in love with me when I'm on some player mode smh.
I called her like 3 times she now didnt pick and later on sent me a message that she was sorry that she was so busy then, she called ans we talked. The next day i called and she didnt pick and i just stopped calling. She acts a little indifferent but whenever we meet in person shes kind of smiling, giggling and stuff the way girls do when they really like you (either that or im gonna give her a grammy award for best performance).Guys I guess my mistake is going off my player mode which wasn't intentional BC honestly I'm a little tired of the game, like I want to drop the game but lately her response makes me want to force-switch up my shitt.



CC ubunja bro I need your opinion on this, drop it as honest as u do. I dont need to like it bro just say your observation.

She is materialistic. she does not like you AS A PERSON but attracted to your new toys. I know this because I just escaped on nairalander idiot like that...

iamJ:
All the money he still looks like Clifford orji

At least you will never have that kind of money till u die.

lefulefu:
yea thats the one i am talking about.who knows if the lady didnt pressurize the husband to make a will before plotting with her pastor lover to murder the poor man

only God knows.

lefulefu:
this reminds me of a story that happened in benin last year where a married woman plotted with her boyfriend pastor to murder her wealthy husband.they slung the corpse of the dead man inside his car and set the car on fire.

I know the story it happened with the woman's pastor and the car was driven to by pass along sapele Road

They didn't know someone saw them. It happened 2 years prior sha...

biafraisdead:

See how u are quick to say naija men are backward, without even acknowledging the stupidity of ur sister. I hate people like u who always support their own stupidly, people like you cause problems in people's homes.

It tells u the kind of family she came from... People have been asking whether the sister has written her will but no reply to that.

The one pointer I hate in relationships with Nigerian women is SELFISHNESS. They are so selfish to the point that they have no sensitive cell left in them.

Mysticwebb:
Now it is confirmed, the cabals are the ones fighting Oshomole. They control Police, Army, DSS etc. Soon EFCC will come after him for his pending corruption case.

The truth is, Northern faction is about to hijack the APC and South West faction will pull out eventually.

southniyikaye:
in my present situation, 750k is looking like rocket science to me sincerely.

it means you have to increase your skill/knowledge.

Go to Udemy.com and acquire relevant skill

Stillthebest:


After u make the money and comfort, hope you won't still carry women.

This thing will end in tears. What happens when money no dey?

Most of you feed this monsters, nurture it and still turn around to say Nigerian ladies like money. None of do anything to try to encourage them to get a job but often make them feel all they need to do is offer themselves as sex object.

coolcharm:
Well... When you make hasty policies that affect the masses in without factoring a transition period and providing better alternatives and palliative measures... You really shouldn't expect compliance.

If light rails were present in Lagos, who would even want to risk his/her life flying okada or keke?

The government should stop being stupid and irresponsible.

Fix transportation, and you wouldn't even have to ban any okada or keke because they will fizzle out when there's no demand.

Lagos transportation can't be fixed. That is the cold hard truth.

Didn't you see that Tinubu also wanted to feed from the masses?

fowlyansh181:
I am of the opinion , let’s make a whatsapp group , where it’s strictly a clearance sales place , heavily moderated .. sellers can come advertise their clearance sales item and buyer connect, hookup and buy ... this thread has turned into a market rather than a clearance market and the mods don’t really act ...

No...

blasted12:
To renounce your Nigerian citizenship the Constitution states that the president himself has to sign. What are the chances that the document will even reach his desk? My guy it has never happened and never will. You're stuck with Nigeria wether you lt or not

he can obtain Ghana's citizenship.

WebSurfer:

I want to quit bro, there is no hope or jurisdiction being a Nigerian

go to Ghana. They are welcoming people who want to be citizens.

I have an ancestral link to Ghana and I plan visiting when I settle stuff here.

bigpicture001:
Financial compatibility....

This does not mean being rich by the guy,instead it means being able to share na be of help financially in marriage..,.

Women are non not to be supportive in this aspect nd that see it as their right....

This is a silent home breaker especially for the middle income spouses.


A guy I know divorced his wife straight after sh delivered of their first child... He saved for the D- day..but still fell short of 95k cuz there was complication of deliverering that no one expected.....

While he run from pillar to post to his friends seeking a soft loan pending wen he is paid..the wife still held at the hospital sent her younger sis,who stays with them to secretly go to the house go nd to her matrimonial room nd collect the 65k sh kept in her bag b4 d hubby mistakenly sees it

Unfortunately for her the hubby went home nd met his teenage in law with 65k cash....sh TLD him her elder sis instruction....


He was shocked...nd told the gal to go ahead nd deposit d money to d wife's bank as sh was instructed by her. He continued his nuzzle nd two days later he got them out of the hospital paying 126k additional from the first delivery cost...

Sh came back home nd can't look him in the eyes...quarell after quarelk ensued DT led to divorce exactly one month later....

Gals of this days are too stingy nd mny of them take d Character into marriages.....never ever Marry a lady DT will not b supportive..as a guy,u can't solve all them financial problems in marriage...

This is a big p,no one talks abt

Na so their life be... They don't believe in sharing at all.

RisenPhoenix:


What are you talking about? Please read what is written before you rush to make a "response". What exactly in my statement are you 'refuting'?

oops, I thought I was quoting the op

RisenPhoenix:


Then you wasted your money by eventually opening your wallet and destroyed your own strategy by spoiling them.

You are only half right in that comment. While I totally agree that money should be made for one's own sake, it does not take away from your self esteem to have women attracted to you because of the money. In fact, all women are attracted to money, but you just don't have to spend on them to have them. Just having the money is enough attraction. If you start spending on girlfriends after sex, they will quickly start putting you on a ration and playing you while using you as a maga, because then, your commitment to the relationship will be more than theirs and they will know it. You have to hold the promise of spending over their heads. That's when you get to tap their deepest resources.



True. Making money with yourself in mind is the correct path. But women are still a side benefit of making money.



Reality proves you wrong. Money will bring you women unless you badly destroy your game. Those weren't rich guys. They were guys with a few bucks to throw around at the moment. Women can tell rich from show off.

If your aim is just make money so that you be with all manner of girls, you are yet to be a man.

There is one common trait among people that have lacked money from childhood until adulthood when baba God blessed them and that is what you exhibit here.

Also, you will mostly attract gold diggers, the ones who just want to eat ur money, enjoy the good times... When you broke, even if you marry them with riches but bad times hit you hard, they will leave you.

You will also attract those ones who are slay Queens, always after fun fun fun...


That is how God saved me from one, whom would have been faking love and I would think she is real but due to a few challenges, she told me she can't date a broke guy. It was a heated exchange that day.

2 weeks after that incident, I walked into millions worth of project.

A friend lost his millions to a similar case, spending money recklessly cos of a girl until he was left with nothing and she left him.

Whatever you are making now, get a woman that is focused and hardworking, save cos money will not always flow. There will be hard times...

"I get before" or "I was once a millionaire" na stupid talk.