Uubut Hisbah police is not restructuring? Stupid people.

CsRockefeller:


Lol. Rightly so. I don't fault you at all.

Your story proves my theory right that women are fickle, very manipulative and easily swayed.

Now, I put it to you that a guy who looked down at you won't even attempt to come near you, especially if you are very successful than him. He takes his mistake with his chest, but the female folk can't, they will always find a way to get back into.your life even though it may not be romantic or sexual, but, as long as there is something to gain, they land like vultures. Seen it play itself too many times.

However, there are very few ladies who do not fall into this category, they are highly smart and very successful.

na so bro. They are only after what they can benefit from you.

NiklauseFred:



Lol � is she that lazy?
ThankGod you ended things with her,if not you would have probably housed a LovePeddler all in the name of "Na my wife".

When I came up on Nigerian girls, was when a friend of mine was having a deep crush on one particular girl like that,that my friend is actually shy so he got the girl's number through a friend,later that night he chatted the girl up and told her his feelings and intentions,after this guy wrote about a thousand words of epistle the babe replied with"k" and "can you maintain me?",mehnn I was extremely shocked when I saw the question but I urged my friend to go ahead and ask her what she meant by "can you maintain me?".
The dude did his do and the babe started listing things that ranged between 70k per month and I was shocked,the babe told him that if he can't do it that he should forget about her,of which the guy did.

Years later my guy graduated and left naija for Canada to complete his post graduate studies and while he was there he upload some photos on fb of which the babe he was killing himself for back then chatted him up and started telling him that she is now ready to date him and she has falling in love with him over the years(to make matters worst, she started sending nudes to him upandown)
At last the nigga rejected her and she started threatening him......NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE UNPREDICTABLE!
I believe that they are still some good girls out there but with they ugly or they have seen life

I can relate.

Several years ago when I became an orphan, there was this girl I hooked up with through a friend and after our first meeting, she refused to pick my calls... As in, for more than 3 weeks that I kept calling, she didn't pick that call.

Why? I was broke, looked malnourished.

I got the message alright and move on. During my nysc, she chatted me up... Out of the blue on WhatsApp and I was surprised that she still had my number. It was brief.

2 years after that, she called me again. This time she was in Lagos and I asked her about her location to which she answered that she was in my vicinity at Lekki, just few blocks away.

Well, I invited her over and she saw me for the first time in over 4 years. I was no longer the skinny malnourished guy she once knew. I Don chop small money that time and look more healthier than before.

When I saw her off, she started saying I have changed o... I pretended not hear her and asked what she said. She said I look fatter now and cuter...

Lol bros, women?
If I had wanted to fork her at that time, it was an easy thing. But I played her, put up meetings and didn't fulfil anyone...

I even promised her money and till today she no see am, after seeing her naked at an hotel but refused sex.

She started saying she knew I had not forgiven her lol. I even asked her why didn't she pick my calls and she said she was not around her phone.

Before her, I had an ex who did something similar and years later, she came begging me to date her and even wooed me. As in, this same girl ridicule me one time and now wooing me. I couldn't have been more happier and laughed so hard that day. At a point, she went to my facebook page to stalk me. All these happened almost simultaneously between both girls talked about here.

Yeah, I don't forgive any girl who look down on me... Never will.

NiklauseFred:


That's good
Hold her tight

sure bro. We cool.

NiklauseFred:


I hope she is also sensible and working towards not being a "house wife",cos that what most of them do say but alas they still end up as one and feel unbothered too.

she works bros. Even during holidays, she find job, no matter how little to engage in.

healthserve:



Like I expected any better than a rant and psychological deflection If you want my attention try coming with intellectual inputs and not petty blckamils of a whiner loser

its not a blackmail. Most of the world's problems are caused by the US. Do your research.

Jewessgratitude:
You too are toxic. Like how can you be asking that kind of question? Oh...you expected her to go on her knees and say "oh... I can't move on, if you leave me I'll die" ruuuubish!

If you meet another girl, ask her the same question again because that is what will strengthen the relationship. Shows you to gat security issues.

She'll move on. And she'll meet someone better.

the best way I always know a girls motive is via questions, unknown to them. A few questions can unravel a lot of things.

Websurfer is a great dude... I don't blame you for calling him rubbish. He should treated that girl a biitch, forked the hell out her and dump her sorry ass but he went on doing Mr husband material.

donaldtruman:

Infact,the height of low mentality was when d last girlfriend I had told me that she was ready to get married to me but she won't want to stress herself with home chores.
That I will ve to provide cooks,maids & domestic staff that will be dealing with d home chores.
She also said that she observed that I am a principled person & won't want me to stop her from relating with her friends who will still be single as she would still want to be attending parties & so on.

The fact is that most beautiful girls are fundamentally stupid.

Just that we guys can't help to be attracted by them as hey can be very flashy but they are suicidal.

U will keep spending on them but they will never be satisfied but always ask for more.

Their cost of maintenance is outrageously high.

please when you say most beautiful girls, include Nigeria because I can assure there are extremely pretty girls outside Nigeria that gives peace of mind.

The one I met from here once mentioned that she does not like to cook. That one was even gauging me financially to see if I have money to waste lol. But due to the fact that I was complaining at time, she felt this one is not for me. Thankfully, her exit opened doors.

We need to give up the trophy and super model flashy girls for our own good. We know them, they like high life, they want flex and reap where they have not sown.

I can't be with someone who thinks life is about fun fun fun and I can't give money recklessly when I know what happened after I lost my first millions and I know what my eyes saw in those days, I went from someone that was making hundreds off dollars per week to someone who had to sell his 12 years adsense account for 15k naira just to survive. It was funny.

I will hopefully share my own story to the glory of God when it's time.

WebSurfer:


Everything you wrote is as if you explained the whole story for me. This girl was actually and genuinely my number 1 crush for years,i mean the most beautiful and classy girl i ever had a crush on.
Although i never got a cent from family or anyone my entire adult life.

Thank you and i understand better now

My brother, give up the trophy girlfriend and super model. They have nothing, absolutely nothing to offer man. What you need is a woman that is focus and dedicated. You can find pretty women in this category, but she may not have flashy features of the kind of girls you always like.

Listen, one of my friend told me he can't marry a girl that is too pretty and I didn't understood what he meant until something happened. Not that you can't marry those kind of girls but the truth is not someone that is too soft with them.

There was a lady I worked worked with. This woman too fine. She was nurse in the US before coming back to Nigeria, even after 3 kids, she still looked young like someone in her late 20s... Guess what? Her husband was rugged. That one even dey fork girls outside.

For women of that kind, though she was a good woman, na that kind man dey fit them.

I can give you numerous example...

So like I said, it all depends on you. May be I will share my own story with the said girl from here so people can see how stupid some of them can be but a friend said there is no point.

NiklauseFred:


Honestly most of them think like that,some wanna just be a house wife with no vision at all!.It pains tho but as for me I have concluded within my heart that never will I have anything to do with a Nigerian babe.
Truth is they want "already made men" and most at times it backfires and they end up with 'woman beaters'.

#NaijaBabesBuySenseAbeg

Yes already made men is their thing.

Nobody Wan suffer.

NiklauseFred:


Honestly most of them think like that,some wanna just be a house wife with no vision at all!.It pains tho but as for me I have concluded within my heart that never will I have anything to do with a Nigerian babe.
Truth is they want "already made men" and most at times it backfires and they end up with 'woman beaters'.

#NaijaBabesBuySenseAbeg

The current girl I am with told me she does not want any house wife ish lol.

Esseite:
Eventually, we would beg Buhari to take back the added minimum wage...

Its seems it's the reason for all the hikes in cost of living, eventually leaving us penny wise, pound foolish..

that is the game everywhere. If you expect in crease in salary, expect increase in other areas.

NiklauseFred:
If you want to live long pls try and stay away from Nigerian girls with low mentality of seeing a relationship like a business.

#myOpinion

God bless you.

igbesachick:


well, at least he was a dictator and a guy responsible for an airplane crash.

that is reason enough to get rid of him .

i dont see why you sympathize with lybia? it needed a liberation and it got one. that is good for it.

you don't know anything. No need to engage anymore

Even Nigeria can not boast the things Libya had when ghadaffi was alive

igbesachick:


so what? i hate those destroyed countries more than usa. they deserve .

Libya deserve it too?

There is no point engaging you beyond this cos you clearly do not know how the death of ghaddaffi affects you.

Tajbol4splend:
If you marry a smart, pretty and kind woman, you have everything. But in most cases guys only have either a smart ugly kind, smart pretty evil, dull pretty kind, smart ugly evil, dull ugly kind, dull pretty evil and the worst of all, dull ugly evil woman.

under Nigerian context, yes.

Dude knows where the problem is...

I have left that lane for good and not going back. They can eat their beauty.

He needs to give up the trophy girlfriend selection and look for a woman with a purpose and driven.

igbesachick:


ok, but no matter what, i would rather my country destroyed by usa than by russia

and, why would i believe a somalia guy instead of an american?

that is because the US is not the kind of person they portray themselves to be.

Libya was destroyed by US.

You have to read history bro. America will pay anyone to destroy a country.

Do you know that Osama Bin Ladin is a creation of the US? There are so many of such instances.

igbesachick:


no one wants to share the cake with russia and china, they are orphans .

you don't know the US, but you think you do.

Go On Quora and see first hand reportage from people who country have been ruined by US. SOMALIA is still suffering from the damage US did to her, Libya, Iraq, Syria and a host of others...

US train and breed terrorism for decades... But they will still turn around and play god.

RUSSIA and China Is always opposing US. Anywhere you see China, you will see Russia.

Some of you are saying Russia this and that, but may I remind you that a world without opposition is a disaster having the US bullying everyone? Imagine China and Russia supporting US, the US WILL just ruin the entire country

2kaybiel:
Don't bow to the pressure of marry on time syndrome. Take your time to pick a lady and see if she possesses good wife character ( a lady that understands a man) you need that kind of a lady.

Hhis problem is selection process. the guy too like fine chics, all those flashy ones. You know them na.. AKA slay queen. na where the problem dey be that bro. I don dust my bata and run leave them.

WebSurfer:
While i and my girlfriend of about 8 months were on a playful deep conversation some days ago, talking how we eventually moved on after previous heartbreaks, she mentioned that;

“Las las i always still end up with someone better than my ex” - (referring to herself)

i asked her if she would move on too with me and if she thinks she would definitely also meet someone better than me. she concord immediately without thinking”.

Two days ago i actually ended the relationship after careful examination of issues i condoled, the stress she frequently put me, insecurities, mismanagement and a lot of toxic characters and behaviors drowning in hypocrisy. I mean you know the character of beautiful girls almost everyone would wish for. Especially higher class of people

In all, Forever is such a long time to stay inwardly struggling and unhappy since everyone is trying so hard see me marrying.

The signs are not good.

Ah, my guy, you are still on this? I do not know if you still remember me, but i did create a thread sometime in 2018 because of you in order to help you navigate this whole mess.

What I will suggest now may not be cool with you based on your standard but it will save you a lot of stress. Like I indicated in that thread years ago, you like pretty women, same as myself but this come at a price based on the Nigerian ecosystem of relationship.

These kind of girls often have ego issues, unstable, volatile, selfish and when you analyse all the failed relationship that you have had, you will begin to see similar patterns.

Because of their beauty, they always feel on top of the world and think everything revolves around their body. The girl you referred to in the OP is an indication of what I am talking about here. They are usually flashy, often on social media using the snapchat app to filter their face and all those nonsense..

I now avoid them like plague, no matter how beautiful they appear.

Also, spending money on these girls carelessly will not make them stay. If my memory serve me right, I think I did mention in the previous thread that a friend burned through 25M (50M in today's estimation) because of a girl who didn't love him but his money.

Do you like how they toy with your emotion, no respect for your being and sanity? Do you like the emotional stress and all that comes with these beautiful fools? I do not think you do. Who like wahala? nobody, except a lunatic.

All the girls I have had bad experiences with falls into this category, especially when you try to be responsible by treating them like a wife, instead of LovePeddler...

You can't continue to spend time with girls who do not have plan in the relationship except the good times they currently enjoy. At this point, you should have a lady you wish to marry and one who is focused so that you can use the time on these stressful relationship on other venture and you can find one if you change your setting and criteria for picking ladies. You have no choice than to change your setting and criteria but if you wish to fork as many girls as possible, you do not need to change it. It all boils down to what you want.

Sex is nothing bro and that girl you referenced here does not care about the relationship, neither did she had a plan.

I had to go for a girl that is not flashy but facially pretty, average height, hardworking and focused because I was tired of all the stress. You may need to do same too. She was the one that asked how I want things to go, which means she hoped it won"t be waste of time

There was this idiot I met here that made me put a complete stop to girls that stress guys but that is a story for another day. That one was after money, mocked me because I didn't dish out as much as she wanted, while acting like we need to taking things slowly. Imagine wanting us to take things slowly but does not want us to take the money slowly... clown . Me that was operating from years of experience

But the good thing is as soon as she left, God opened massive door and 2020 is looking good on all indices plus, I had already gotten a backup with the non flashy girl. So, it was not painful when she retorted to her nuisance because I knew a day like that will come, after 2 previous mishap.

For you, you are lucky to have a family with some amount of money, maybe that is why you feel spending money on this girls would not harm you... for me, I have to work for every penny from scratch, i have to plan, strategize, no godfather, get my guys and we make money together.

You need to change your settings with which you pick girls. If you just want fun, do not change it.. but if you want something serious, you have to change it. It all depends on you AND STOP starting a relationship with money... it never ends well. The girl I am with now didn't get a dime from me for more than a year. It is just recently I started opening up bit by bit.

.

Officialgarri:

You know nothing Jon Snow

that guy na kid. even Burna no go talk for where she dey lol

Yankiss:
China has joined Nigeria o. Me is not understanding o. I thought these countries are clean. Even the USA has their fair share of cyber scammers. But if u hear the hype on Nigerians you will think cyber crime is made in Nigeria.

Nigerians dey learn work for where these guys dey o. Na just cos of stereotype make dem dey hype our own. Bros, Nigeria dey learn work. The softwware boys dey use, who dey make am lol?

But who is the person that made the video? na that person be their friend wey burst their yansh...

Harrynight:



But let's be real for once,
Do kogites actually votes bello so massively?



Even as u type worst governor in Nigeria in Google bello will jus appears

na rigging na... bros, make una just leave apc to chop the country as dem like.

Femich18:
its Confirmed that Kogi people are too foolish...

this is not the kogi people. this is rigging lol. but let APC continue their game till it is time for their fall like that of PDP. it is their time. let them enjoy it.

I love this thread...

contigiency:


I think this write-up has cleared us on how the salary arrears in Kogi state came up. From this write-up, we were told that the governor wada of PDP had applied for bailout of N50 billion to offset backlog of salaries in 2015 shortly before he left office which was not granted. But the money has just been completely released to the incumbent governor Bello and he has cleared the entire backlog. And if that is the case, it then means that the backlog was accumulated by the former governor wada and not the incumbent governor bello.

And u believe that crap?

Afamed:

My brother, Bayelsans don't play politics of bitterness. They have moved on from the 2015 . Hence, the current senatorial zone of GEJ is Apc .You can continue playing your bitter politics far away in your zone

Yimu. Only APC foot soldiers quoted me.

Bayelsans must not forget what APC did to their son. I am sure they are the true sons and daughters of their father