₦airaland Forum

ndumart:
hey relax, just speaking my mind.
Or would u prefer a man to say "i do" then keep doing it outside because their spouse wont satisfy them?
I would rather cut it off than make her miserable.

[s]what a faithful man![/s]

@topic
guess they want to be sure of the goods than buy some worthless 'oja okunkun' black market.

yimiton:
Is that trully your pix? and yu have the option of choosing between 2 ladies?
My gosh! I need to see those ladies!

[s]are you implying they must be blind, dumb, ugly or all three?[/s]

@zignor
see sylvex o!!! she no gree answer me since. at least na me dey ask am out no be she dey ask me! wetin make i do now?

poor guy. well, na you know wetin you nfind go her side. anyway, i wan bin ask sef; which church d gal dey go? na cele abi na C&S? because dem dey like dat kind thing in the name of protection.

@dapsycool

@poster don't disappear just like that, juju na bad thing, though i don't believe in it

i agree with you

sylvex:
so u want us to front at the end of the day u go come call them craps abi, wait we go soon ask u out bt na until snake get legs

to all my female folks keep forming, no dulling and no clinching

shey na im make u still dey form for me do like say you no see my posts? ^{yes o! i follow you reaxh hear from there.}

wetin dey do una two sef? uns don ruin an otherwise promising thread._{i don comot jooo, hissssssssss}

@ifyalways
well no date o. i o hang out with my guys. as sylvex no gree make we go date last weekend. but i go try again for this weekend.

@sylvex
babe, maka why? you no gree reply me ehn? i still dey wait o. amke we try this weekend?

@Bblak
most def me, i go keep mingling. but sylvex never gree yet,

i guess it all boils down to not being what she wants. poor females!!!

well, i've looked thru this thread (all 30 pages of it!!!) and i could only find two people born [size=16pt]June 22nd[/size]: jidololade and mademike. adding myself now makes it three of us. yipee!!! at least we no scarce like some days. but sadly we all na man sha. who go be the next [size=16pt]June 22nd[/size]?

well what can i say? truth is when a guy and a girl get close platonically and spend so much time around each other, there is the tendency for a few minutes of their guard being let down and them tumbling in the hay. that doesnt mean they dont love their respective girlfriend/boyfriend, and its also doesnt mean they wanna date each other. sometimes its inexplicable. if you know you cant cope with this dude, i advise you to limit the time you spend with your corper friend in secluded places and all. to avoid the attendant temptation that goes with it,

ok. but what exactly is he tryna say? can anyone out ther emake sense of the whole shizzles?

yeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!

[s]i for buy am o if i get money o. chei!!![/s]

ufobabe:
WHAT MAKES You HAPPY?

COOLER OR HOTTER?

UNA WEN NO DEY TALK TRUE.

well, its wat she admitted that guys could be and are cooler than that. why do you find that hard to admit?

yimiton:
Making decision is always complicated but made worse when people double date.

On the issue on ground, I think your friend should marry the woman he loves. _{That is if she agrees to marry him.}.
If he's afriad she might say no, it will be better to ask her first and then, deal with the problem if she refuses.
Once a woman is married, she's settled, she realizes that her world is built round her home, family and most importantly, her husband. So, she can't wonder around. Instead she'll learn to love her husband since she has no choice.
Once a woman likes you at all, it's easy to make her love you. Just be there for her without chocking her.

But if this man marries the woman that loves him and he doesn't really care about, it will be almost impossible for him to be faithful and he'll end up hurting his family. He'll not respect her and will not really care about her.

conclusively, it's ok for a woman to marry a man whom she's not really crazy about but a man should marry a woman only if he's totally into her and loves her to death.
Remember, even the bible says 'husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself up for her'

well said. where do you get your inspiration from?

@poster
you'd be wise to listen to zignor. he's good.

@zignor
ma main man!!! how ya side. lovely piece of advice back there. e be like say u go go open column wey you go dey write for inside paper. we go call am [s]Dear Uncle Zignor [/s]

@yimiton
i'm really happy for u. surprised though that you said you'd never heard of it. that ploy is like over 2 years old!!! sad they havent evolved nore efficient scamming methods. lucky you sis.

amababy:
@ rockie

apology accepted .

thanks. can we be friends again? i'm still o YIM. i'll really appreciate it._{holding ma breath waiting for your response}

almondjoy:
Sorry I can never "date" a friend. If we have been pals for over 6 months and "nothing" happened you will automatically become one of my "brothers" somehow--for lack of thrill--- and can never look at him romantically. Can't imagine getting in bed with a "friend." He will even start looking like my father or uncle. That kind of sex will suck to the high heavens!----Yuck!

I date first then we can become friends in old age---not before please! I got too many friends for that!

Friendship? --- Please that is for old age, in marriage----no rush to befriend a potential lover abeg!

which impolies that Michael Bolton's how can we be lovers if we cant be friends doesnt hold water. _{just asking}

@amababy
sorry if you thot me a bit harsh. i take back the harsh words. but please it is obvious you cant trust him AT ALL. please i dont wanna feel bad if he does anything worse to you; thats why i said all tht. i hope you'd understand from my IM messages.

perhaps, it might help if we look at the date these threads are posted. person complain say him neva kiss since 12 months ago. una come dey tell am now say make him take heart. how una know say the guy never 'congo' now sef? i bow for una o!!!!

Bolarge:
@poster
You really do not need any piece of advice on this matter. Thank your stars he's still saner than several others who'd
ensure u do not leave that house the same way you came. Right now, do what is most convenient: give him all the
radius you'd give the devil himself.

I await the day you women will actually do the right thing when it comes to sexual assault and RAISE HELL!!
Know that this thing is rampant because you folks choose to keep mute 'bout it. Your keeping mute only further encourages the perpetrators and endangers other women like yourselves. Stop being decieved and cowed by a seemingly insensitive society. Women are actually finding their way to top positions where they can influence things in your favor if we menfolk seem passive. I repeat please start making life intolerable for them. It's happening in South Africa, it can happen here. Let's not allow it to degenerate to the point where 1 woman is raped every minute as was their case before you act.

very true talk my brother!!!

@poster dem don talk every thing finish. long and short na God save you say he neva go pass as he go. if ya like ya self, no even near him shadow again, or na wahala u dey find be dat o!!! ^{fly wey no hear word na him day follow dead bodi enter grave}

are igbo ^{(or ibo, whichever one)} gals that fantastic? and i thought the f@#$ like hell part was the exclusive preserve of calabar chics. maybe i should go about getting myself one. any free igbo gals wanna date me?

@yimiton

Guys. . .well, Cheesy Huh

Anyway sha, A lot of guys can be a lot cooler than that.

thanks so much sis. that really makes me happy.

@topic
make i no lie i no even read am pass the first paragraph.^{***the thing too long joo***}

Gamine:
Girls are mostly annoying to me

i have very few female friends

eeck!

in that, you're not alone!

Bblak:
peeps in
@ifyalways
i no c my friend for ere today o.still waiting to read from you dear.
@all
where art thou?kip mingling.

@bblak
no be my fault o! things just wan dabaru for me this last weekend going into this week. but i don show sha.

@ifyalways
how ya exams aunty? u don tear like nigerians always dey tear?

@sylvex
i still dey here o!!!

@poster
tell you what? confront him and ask him to his face. if he loves you, you'll see it in his eyes; except of course he's the die-hard type that are out to deal with ladies. if thats the case, then God help you my dear.