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@poster

Anyone out there please advice me . the problem is that i think i am in love with my female cousin. why? i do not know it just happpened. the problem is that i told her and she is really troubled about this whole new development.
She is such a wonderful person and there is so much in her that i really admire.
I thought of asking my parents about the whole issue to know what they think and feel.
Guys out there i would really love you all to advice me as i think about her always

young dumb full of come!

_{watching and reading} hear! hear! _{still watching}

see this foolish boy o!!!

c'mon will you get this picture outta our faces before we call cyberspace 911!

@topic
the issue is that you have to decide what you want outta the relationship.

Appearance, ufobabe, hot chic and slitty have all shown us that it can be reall fun, nice and romantic cuz they made it work. that wanted it to work. but for those of you that think a relationship is all about the girl saying yes and the next thing is you tumble in the hay (or sheets or the back of your car or wherever), forget it! its not for you.

But if you are in the relationship to settle down with him/her for good then it just might be roses and sunshine.

@jkpretty

Point: You don't have to go for a plain/ugly girl because u want to be guranteed of good manners, You can have a very pretty/beautiful girl & make the best out of her by studying her & knowing how to handle her. And who says a plain/ugly girl too can't leave

true talk my sister

@dapsycool

Any guy that kills himself for a woman aint a MAN, He's just a girl with a privates Undecided
I'm a record breaker, i've dated beautiful girls all my life, from the most beautiful girl in my school, to the most sort after girl on ma street Cool I target them like a Sniper and sneak into their hearts like a serial killer Wink ,I make them understand i got no tear gland, so if she leaves, i'd rather laugh than cry Tongue ,I keep my heart to myself because my instinct do not permit me to trust anyone Wink I think about them when my brain is less busy because i gotta goal which is my priority Cool .
@topic, the problem with beautiful girls is that they got loads of toasters, and EVERYONE got a price, while u dating them, they constantly meet guys, richer, more handsome, more witty e.t.c than their boyfriend, so your chances of keeping her is very low. My advise to all guys! Woman aint predictable, for the time she's with you, enjoy it while it lasts, spend less, enjoy more(you know what i mean) Wink pay more attention to your goals, career, education e.t.c make her understand she's not a do or die. If she eventually leaves good, she she stays better. With success around you, Beautiful Woman will lick your boxer Grin

hmmm. . . _thinking

@$hadex

My advice for you
Take a deep breathe and Rewrite your post.

it can't have been better said my brother

@aysomething

Oh my God, wonder how many guys are in love wth me or rather claim to be in love with me and want to marry me,the day i start posting it here, nairaland will be empty,peeps will stop visiting. am sorry but this topic is DRY

you dey zhere? i zhot i was ze only one who zhot zo

@poster
poor guy!!! take heart ehn!

@ifyalways
you don't have to crucify the guy. he's realised his mistake. but he obviously loved her, which is why he can't get her off his mind. let him be. but your advice is helpful, just don't crucify him; na beg i dey beg for am.

@mamaput
ahn ahnnn!!! wetin de guy do sef?

@thoniaslim
you dey laff at the guy or wetin? i bow for you o! ! !

@topic
i'm learning alot here. . .

@ dapsycool
seems you know what you're saying. . .keep it up bro. intelligent write-up (except for the few 'blunders' of course; hehehehe!!!)

@sillyboy

@ rockiedink

F*uck you for thinking that Chelsea sucks!! Angry

are you angry because its true?

@all
someone help me out here-isnt there s'posed to be sumthin called freedom of association and thot!!!

@predi
_{i still dey ground o!!!}

@ariblaze
poor unfortunate bizman. keep them in a greenhouse till february 10 2008. you will exhaust it then

@predi
you no well o!!! ^{see as your talk carry me troway for ground dey roll too yakata}

@topic
we have all heard it. de babes dem say dem like am but dem no want am as number 1,2 or even 3 for dat matter. if you must buy flower, make sure you have already bought chocolates, jewellery (almondjoy's recommendations, and perfume too!!! magana yakare. shikenan!!!

@topic
why the f**k not!!! if you cant do it in public, then dont under any circumstances try it in private.

@geominas
keep on praising other people who have said their own o and dont say ya own. yeye boy!

@janami
this is for u

@iice

Grin Grin Grin Na today? Grin Grin Grin

e don taaayyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!

Ondo state

Ikale man to da bone!!! ^{agbi omo'kale ooo!!!}

my dear, feel free!!!

abi ija wa n be ni?

@ettehgate

depends on the babe
some babes are bore when you make love to them
while some are just too much.
they will meeeeeeeew like cat, booooooooow like dog, croooooow like cock
when they reach organism.

@olofinjeje

I am sorry I must have stumbled on the jokes section by mistake-ha! ha!

wow!!!

@bebe2007

I really do not think that love making increases the love you share in a relationship. Love making is a way of expressing your love it would not work the wonders in the relationship. I think a better understanding of your partner will foster a better relationship than sex. If anything, i would say the love making brings alot of heartache in the relationship. One person begins to feel used the other is guilty or not commiting to the whole act etc. Once you start sleeping with your partner you become gullible, very emotional, needy, irritable etc its fun do not get me wrong but its just too much hassles man! before then you will find out that you did enjoyed yourselves much more, no unnecessay commitments and possessiveness.

hmmnnnn! thinking well said missy. very reasonable. i admire your sense of reasoning bebe2007. your dude's sure gotten himself a helluva girl with brains to match her brawn , but i wanna ask, does beauty come with the package? just curious

@jkpretty

Why not, i told him yesternyt Cheesy

that's so sweet! way to go girl!!!

@breeolan

but i think its d other way round, A GIRL CAN DO EVERYTHING FOR A BOY Wink

ok, thats your opinion. but i think that a girl will do everything for a boy if and only if it involves chopping all his money and sponging him dry. the moment the source dries up or a much larger source of sponging shows up, she will take off faster than super-grover!!!

and THAT"S A FACT!!! we all know that!

@rikki
nice to note that you have both only just stopped short of punching each other. do you wanna wait till he kills you? then he'd just walk over your grave and hook up with the next available missus.

and just so you know what you are getting into, read up this very lovely poem about flowers (you'll understand the correlation when you do) and THEN if you still wanna stick with him its your choice dearie.http://www.angelfire.com/la2/heartprints/FlowersToday.html or http://www.angelfire.com/tn/jackiepierce7/gotflowerstoday.html

i wish you all the best.

poor guy!!!!

he's probably heard enough to last a lifetime and make him abscond from nairaland.

but wait o!!! imagine d question: what should i do?

my answer? buy soap, sponge and water; and don't forget to blindfold yourself when you scrub her back. period

hehehehe!!!!!

@eezeebone guy na man post the thing o no be gal!!! thot i should let u know. well, we all know we both like fine girls, and nice boobies too;remember Gabby

leave the guy joo!!! he think say him fine. if him see you nko wetin him go talk?

and well, he just wants to see responses, and he's gotten them

Peace out

hmmmmm!!!!!!!

ok lets put all this $#!T (@Topic) in perspective,

sweetlove et al might be a friggin' scammer, fake and all what not. ok. very possible .

but even if he copied all the stuff out of some websites, can anyone who is in a relationship HONESTLY say the first thing that came to his/her mind when reading the post was not "I'll try this when next i kiss my guy/girl!"?

i'm not saying i condone plagiarists, but i think its wrong to say some of those stuff wont be, whoooooooooaaaaaaaaaaaa when you try em. for all yopu stuck up fellas (wont mention names), just try it out!!!

post your feedback. we'll like to read it!!!

poor guy!!!

anyway, like most people already have said, if getting her back is the only reason you give your freaking life to God, then you are worse that damned man!!! true, becoming born-again is no reason to end a good relationship, if she wants out, abeeggggggggggggg let her out; afterall, there are many fishes in the ocean. just recast your hook and line; one will definitely bite again. girls always will now! that's why they are fickle!!!

peace man!!! and all the best.

well thoniaslim if dem no fit let una be, na star una be be dat o!!!

but seriously, i really have never known one before sexually, so i can not say from direct experience (but i'm willing to experience if anyone wants to offer) if they are hottttt or not. but who say calabar girls are the only hot ones in naija? i have met a coupla other tribes who are simply outta this world, i wont state em here though.

so all u calabar girls, i say big ups to y'all. after all, una no go carry 'the thing' go heaven as dem no dey chop am for there, abi no be so?