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[quote author=Isale_eko]So where do you want to place the women that have really made it big and are married? They have a common denominator. They married young, they are brilliant and they are humble.[/quote]

Rocktation: For truly successful women only exude quiet confidence, and would have no need to wear the trousers in their relationships.

I guess you skipped that part.
Plus, don't be too quick to shake your head because the bible does give perimeters to submission, you know. But then, isn't that a different topic entirely? Or aren't you talking about people that are married already? All I'm saying is men esteem themselves poorly when it comes to wooing women whose bank balances are way off the mark (like they imagine them to be), you must agree with me. And isn't it wonderful that we won't be the only ones that think thesame on this thread?

fankasibe: you get sense...man need self esteem

Genevieve of cos. Mercy Johnson is so fake and Funke is so...what idk.

Open another nairaland account with whatever name you want.

A lot of men are scared shitless of successful women really. And so, I blame them instead. Financial success doesn't make a man, so they're the ones that need to work on their self esteem and be confident a little bit more. Cos a man who is confident enough in his own skin, will support a woman's growth. For truly successful women only exude quiet confidence, and would have no need to wear the trousers in their relationships.

Yes, very successful women contrast low self esteemed women, who usually latch themselves to just any available option on ground. They have high expectations (some of which aren't wholly realistic) and they wouldn't readily accept less than what they know/think they deserve. So it would seem as if they're single by choice.

But I bet you, they're all stuck up with themselves as their own dragons, and await rescue by the one that can actually prove his worth....as is the due duty of men from the beginning of time.

So rewind---Why are single women rampant?
They are because low self esteemed men are. Shikena.

obamaobama: Hi furumite somebody recheck his status in the midle of june and discoverd that he won dv2013 pls how true is it does that mean new seletee are coming out one by one? read the last message of hoisty here is the link http://forums.immigration.com/showthread.php?548214-For-the-DV-2013-lucky-ones-and-future-entrants/page6

It says there that she checked (not re-checked) the result in june, because she thought the month of release was june and not may.

You can't
Get another handle, if you must.

He was asking the obvious and I remember thinking, '...like I don't know what you're on about' in my head.

Arik air wants to fall their hand now oo.....

Yeah.......and apples come in indigo too.

Cancer of the blood ke...dat kind rich man sickness. Even chemo can't help again at this stage. Please let's not lie to ourselves here. This isn't an american movie where love will always surpass all....and i know Nigerians will always go by their logic, so please please please......

^^I found his brazenness rather funny. Why can't 'guys like him' or anyone sef, be on NL? Is Nairaland Heaven?
Even Heaven gan.....

Jenams: u shud be ashamed of urself for allowin a woman pay Ūя̅ fare. Use Ūя̅ two hands close Ūя̅ mouth, u hear?

I honestly do not know why that was a thing to be proud of. You're talking about ending one wahala while entering another.

Orikinla: men respect women who can pay THEIR OWN bills.

Nextworldnx: i feel like licking the very ground she walks on, i just cant believe she is mine.

Omgosh...*teary-eyed for your gurl*

Well, there's nothing to do save continue testing the microphone. You know what they say about the last keys in bunches. Whether she wakes up at dawn or she does so at dusk, the water at the river that's hers to fetch, can never flow past her calabash.

Hmmn...mago mago to the answer. This scenario you created isn't always the case. People are pushed to making rash decisions everyday, no matter the time frame anyway and you know it.

I don free you sha...

Lest you forget, i also said this;

Rocktation: husband or wife snatching isn't a one-way thing.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Rocky, play that scene over in your mind again. . . Were you forced to leave me?[/color]

Technically, yes. I couldn't have just sashayed into the sunset with you na.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]I did not counter her. But since her topic was focusing on "guys", my reply kinda sounded like a counter attack. . . If it was a guy that started this topic, my answer would have been the same. . . I'd have just switched genders. . . [/color]

And i actually meant her vocab. Not her. I'm no feminist abeg.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]No. You were not snatched from me. It was a competition, and the best man won. . . No snatching![/color]

More like ghetto snatching actually....forcibly seizing another's possession quickly and obviously.
Any which way.......

All you needed to say was that husband or wife snatching isn't a one-way thing. Not counter her vocab.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Let's say i am your boyfriend, and one day, you go out and meet someone better than i am in everything, and he asked you out and you say "yes" to him, leaving me eventually. I did not know what transpired. I was not there. All i know is that you told me it was over. . .

Am i right to conclude you were snatched away from me? [/color]

Okies...let's also assume that you're my boyfriend. You love me and all and would never give me up for anything. But then, you always have to compete with other alphas to keep me interested, but eventually lose me in the competition to some other. Won't it be correct to say that i was snatched from you?

Well what's up with everyone? This is by far one of the best threads she has opened.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]It's not snatching. . . Its a matter of who's game is more tight, and of course, the girl said yes to the other guy. So where is the snatching? Was she forced to say yes? Or perhaps, the yes was snatched out from her mouth[/color]

Well, since you seem to know what this is (even though you did not give a name for it), would you mind explaining what snatching is in this same context, then? Or better yet, tell us about someone popular that has had the 'yes' snatched out of her mouth.

I nor gree die

True. Inadequacy in some certain aspects like family background and stuff like that, can make people lie. And one lie usually calls for more to cover up the former and before they know it, they're neck-deep in the heap.

I just can't tell how the whole points correlate. Germany, Waec, Friend, Master Degree... are you saying that the depth of love you can have for a lady is dependent on her type of school certificate

C'mon, she couldn't have been so dumb to believe you na. Who prints out their uncle's mails that is asking about their welfare anyway? If she plans on 'scamming' you though, I wonder how she would. I mean, will you be deceived to give your agro stuff to her in exchange for marriage?

sauer: That it happens with only a number of guys doesn't warrant the question, "Guys Why?"

Oh yes, it does. She may as well want answers from the males' own perspective.
So guys, I want to know too. Why?