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Awww, were you hoping to marry Steven Siegal's daughter? Pele. It happens. Forgive, if you may. You tell lies too. It's not like it justifies hers though, but atleast, she's ready to start anew with you on a clean slate. She could as well have kept her secrets to herself, until after marriage with you, you know.

God must really help you both now and in the future. Help you learn how to trust her again. And her, how to tell more truths.

Matter of factly, you cannot force anyone to love you. Cos you'll only come across as being obssessive and suffocating as well. You can only make them fall for you on their own volition, by giving them the time enough to see and know how awesome you are, if you're awesome at all to yourself.
She's like chameleon, bah? Good. Then let her go, my guy. If she loves you back, she'll always come back to you. Or isn't that what the old adage says?

That your thread isn't about her having two others on the sideline all this while sef, that she still has not chucked out yet is.......hmmmnph. 3 potentials in the running...Na from Next sales she get una?

Choleric people can be really overbearing. It really takes the grace of God to condone them. But thinking about it, they're exactly like everyone else who did not have a say in what their personality should be like, in their genesis. So they're infact, just being themselves.
I only blame the ones that eventually identify their shortcomings and yet, do not feel the need to conform.

The cheat was a man in the one I saw earlier too..

The fact that others that have made it through weren't 100-headed, like I'm not.

What kind of drinking and talking was all that sef? Ahn ahn. You sef, being the master of civility that you are, you let him decide and tell you when your position in her life will become effective. Na wa oo. Anyway, like you said, the deed is done already. Next time, if you can stop her from going, do so. If everything wasn't so shady from the start, she wouldn't have just said the call was from friends but her ex. Platonic friendships after intimate ones are almost always bull.

Oh! I did not actually read through. No time...

Too little, too late. Someone else has posted this here already. You prolly share thesame friends.

^^That's why I don't want to believe that this story is real.

Hey, don't try to eat your cake and have it oo. Be sure not to string your boyfriend along, if you really believe that you won't settle with him. It's only going to cause complications and make you seem heartless.
It's not written on the stones anywhere that we must marry and die with our dates, but I advice that you be patient enough, at least until the novelty of having a new catch or wanna-be wears off. Everything should become clearer by then, with the confusion long gone when making your decisions.

Also, I understand that intending couples always go for medical diagnostic tests before marriage. Legal marriages, that is. So there should be no worriment about contacting diseases and all.

Are we still on this matter?

acidtalk: You be serious politician.

You know how we do.

The bottom line is if the sum is forfeitable, I'd give anyway no matter how huge it is.

In that case, you have my answer already. There's a big difference between just giving and lending, you know.

I can lend money to anyone that is close to me and needs money. A neighbour, a friend, a church member. So why not my boyfriend? It all depends on the amount that they're asking for though. If it's one that can be easily forfeited, fine. But if not....I'll have to be really sure that they can pay back.

The problem is, a lot of us think love to be an emotion that we can just experience at first, and then leave to bloom all on its own till eternity. Wrong. Other factors are pretty much needed to keep it going. Such factors do vary across individuals and extend from mere communication patterns, to actual material things and so forth.
However, our individual abilities to make certain 'necessary' self concessions, are what really matters.

It's just sad that the conviction that love supposedly brings great elation in its entirety, is the only thing that drives most of us. Anything contrasting this, is what generally makes love far from being enough for everyone with that mindset.

Okay, so you mean cash cannot be gifts. Okay oo.
All I'm saying is, if anyone can show me the inventor of love, then we can know who the perfect person is to show us how to express it. That slap should be given not because he chose to constantly give money to his girlfriend, but because giving her is detrimental to his own being and sources as well. Period.

You should give that slap to your brother. But what you shouldn't do, is expect women not to accept gifts from their 'boyfriends'. You men of these days, confuse me a lot. If a woman isn't dating a man and accepts gifts from him, you'd have castigating to do. If she is, you'll still have anyway. How exactly can we win with you?

More abusers and wanna-bes are learning as well. How sad.

MnnnMnnn...i do not know a single female that would love to live in the same house with her in-laws. Do what you gotta do, man. Spare your wife-to-be the stress.

Okay, happy birthday....bask in the elation.

Sijo01: Btw, its Nigeria girls nt Nigerian girls

Oh yeah?

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