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Hehehe. Now this is really funny. But you never can tell na. Any which way, I've done my bit.

You should consider staying in your school hostel or renting an apartment away from your parents'. Traumas are easily imprinted in the brains of children. And with these, the pines for retribution are almost always repressed. So even though I understand that you want everything to be bygone now, I cannot help but fear more for what you might do to that lady (when you really don't wish it), if/when you begin to really feel like you're stuffed around her.

190: Rubbish

No guy wud ever come her way then
I repeat No guy cos Nigerian dudes these days are d real deal
Greedie don't u service ur boyfriend daily
Why advicing her against doin it

OP - better go and have sex wit dat boyfriend of urs and save ur relationship
99.9% of dem ladies advicing u against it and actively servicing their men and are happy in their relationships today - use ur head

Giving sex as an ultimatum to get together with her, is an impasse. How can you not know this?

None. The retentive power of grudge for a long period of time, I do not possess.

eva123: I have been wondering if sex is the only thing guys want in a relationship?

C'mon girl, you know better. I'm guessing that he misses you for only the 'fun' that you give to him, which isn't weighty enough a reason for you to get back with him. Idk you but I sure as hell know that you're worth more than that. You're human afterall. It's the best thing you did to let go now, before he ups and does exactly that (which he will) when you least expect it and which will cause even greater shatters. Patience is a virtue and I advice that you exhibit it. Blame it on intuition but your own, I know will come.

kitty kat: He is married

I feel thesame.

I know that you know the answer to your question, even before asking. As long as she hasn't shown and isn't showing any inclination yet to kill that trust and thereby leave faith to die, you should follow your head and heart by sticking with your woman. That you should be a lone wolf only because your friends have got some trust issues, is absolutely implausible. Advices are great, but they can only go so far abeg.

Oh well, what is there to lose? I might as well be in the running. I am interested.

Moderator work nor hard na. Anybody wey fit tame ID, don arrive be that. Na you alone be nairaland.

Idowuogbo: I dey feel u! If u enter mod mode now,i no fit tell u about ur 9 o clock nose.'

See Bado oo! Hehehe. Lailai, you nor go fit. Cos na to ban your ninja assassin face from nairaland go remain.

Hehehe. My brother, everybody with hin priority. I nor fit give up my dissing rights for nada.

I was only teasing. Truth is, I don't have any candidate in mind. I can't afford the time to find a candidate to have in mind.

[quote author=Killz.].[color=#000030] This madness is compartmentalized. . .[/color][/quote]Phewww I wondered whether nairaland had a grin limit check.

Yes! We need you.

Idowuogbo: Hehehehe! Go joor!

Anywayssss.... I don nominate u for romance mod o! Enter dat section and show dem wot time it is jare!

Ooo. If I enter there, na to sanction all the naijawomen thread starters for here. This section nor go contain me and dem, I swear.

slimyem: na you carry google put for eye before nah...

Idowuogbo: Dats d original Boneyems coming out to play, all ur form form don sempe abi?

Hmmmph...there is promise for the future.

Well well, had no idea about the truck pile of troubles you've got on your hands. And from your title, it did not seem like you've had your mind made up already. But still, who am I to even ask that you withstand any more of that? Goodluck with whatever decision you make at this point abeg.

Hmmmn...

[quote author=Mynd_44]You should not have told me that. Now I am going to be uneasy but its all good.[/quote]Sowi. But I did to make you stay focused and adorable for the lot reading about you. Leave the trolling to us that have almost naught constructive yet to share.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Hey you can still start your diary(don't let me stop you). I do this for the fun and noting else. Just don't let my crap talking hold you from having a diary ooo abeg na play I dey play(well at least most times)[/quote]Ok oo. Your diary and Ileke idi's are the best up there. I'm seriously going to join you guys soon.

I would concur for Mynd, if this were to be last week. He was almost toooo adorable talking to and with himself all this while in the diaries section. Infact, he almost got me to start mine as well. But then, as if he remembered that there still exists a romance section; the unique point for all to display their streaks of badboyism/badchickism, he came over spewing dirt on his trail.

Lillyeean: sounds.........

Odd.

I applaud you for seeking others' opinions. It only shows that deep down, you still hope to salvage whatever's left of the marriage, in contrariety to what you feel you really want. Seperation will not be the very best, I tell you. Of cos, you should always try some more. If not for yourselves, consider the kids you've had together (even though you keep calling them hers alone). Talk, talk and talk to her about her unacceptable habits (you should be an expert in this after 15years) and find out how you can help her and yourself make this union, something you can revel in. You on your part, should also learn to give your WIFE money for her personal outlays even though she has refused to get a teaching job. She prolly does not like teaching and is infact, entitled to her druthers.

I'm sure you meant---No wonder women love a lot. Saying that No wonder women love chocolate only means that women love to love which sounds...

How certain are you, that you still won't get tired after 6years with Collins?

Ahn ahn, come oo. If a guy is milked dry in the process of giving gifts to me, how does it become my fault exactly? I put gun for hin head?

Oh? My bad then.

And you're taking that seriously? When you should be laughing at his own reasoning too? Lol. But of cos, I don't think that he actually 'lol'-ed at that with all seriousness. He prolly did it to make your own opinion seem 'not serious' as well. I shouldn't say silly.

solidbroda: well, but now, i can help donate charity to ur family.

Hehehe. You ke? You want the entire universe to run away from you this time?

solidbroda: if you be witch or ogbanje, my granny self, be ur oga.

And you wonder why you had nada for so long.