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Is this woman carrying all this act out by herself or is the second party your father?

Please go talk to your father man to man and stop causing noise here.

Calling the woman names wouldn’t solve shiiit.

KingDashx:
gold digger mentality
Typical naija girl behaviour
See you life..

What should I be digging for? Dust?

Is gold digger supposed to be an insult? lol that’s a freaking compliment cuz it means I like the finer things in life.

This patriarchal way ya all gaslight and shame women into wanting less for themselves is actually hilarious to say the less. Try that on someone else not me please.

Well Choima wants to be kept cuz she’s still with him.
Telling Choima to leave Davido is like telling Georgina Rodríguez to leave Ronaldo. Smart women knows love is a scam anyways. If I was Georgina With a man like Ronald if he likes he can go away 10 years at a time wetin concern me and love? lol. I would be too busy looking after myself, living lavish loving my children no time to worry over no man. Choima knows what she’s doing.

Most of ya all men cheat on you, broke af, but you come online to advise Choima. Nonsense.

This is why men have been running circles around women for centuries.
Why not attack the man that took the vows with you?
Very stupid.

The illusion of love has wear off. Reality have set in.

You repulse her, that is why she’s dry as f.
Her body is rejecting you.

Dating is a scam anyways. Smart women should not even entertain men with this stupid gf bull crap.

This man is really wise. Maybe he was really sick and tired of this woman and this was the perfect opportunity for him.

I am happy for her that he gets to keep the children.
Let her ride into the sunset with her lover and live her life.

It’s the way the two fools above me couldn’t tell I was being sarcastic because men can’t take what they dish out.

#womeninmalefields

So sad. Just try to
Forgive her for the sake of
The children. Stay for the sake of the kids.

No real girl with beauty, brains, steeze, curves, charms, small money and high self esteem will chase a guy or crave a guy that is showing lack of interest in her. She believes she's the prize and should be chased, not the other way round.


Yep but not all girls know their worth. I am only chasing my dreams and money. Chase a man for what? Foolishness in high places. I would rather mop the ocean.

Beautiful.

This is an interesting thread.

Sapasenator:
Rokiat, I love those books on your dp. The Outlier was one of my best.

Now your observation in your post does not only apply to romantic relationships, even in a regular relationship with your friends, family members, co-workers, and siblings, you should always be on the lookout to negotiate for your own best interest at all times, that is why I take life as transactional.

There is nothing anyone can do to surprise me as I learn to anticipate every move in advance and put myself in a position to gain in every relationship. I and the Op have a lot in common.

Truth.com. This is how I think. I only wish I started thinking like this a decade ago.

Johnson225:
This is some blunt red pills tho. Funny enough. Most guys will find this post annoying when in reality if they were gal's themselves they won't settle for a broke guy.

Everyone is out for survival (especially if you from a struggling family).... It is what it is

This is what most women haven’t clocked. Men are not nice people by nature. They are always in survival mode and think of themselves first and foremost.

Women should do the same.

FRANCISTOWN:
https://www.nairaland.com/8123552/lady-dumps-man-white-man


I came across this thread and I saw the way many people were emotional on that thread.

You see, keep your emotions. It is useless in real life.
In my own opinion and in the grand calculus of the universe. The lady in question has not done anything wrong.

It is not a crime in this life to be selfish. It is never a crime to always look out for your own self. It is never a crime to want to survive.
We must all survive and people take different measures to persist their survival.

The problem most of you have is this thing called the "Entitlement Mentality". And not only women have this, but even men too.

So, you think because you've invested lots of money, time and strength into a relationship, then you've automatically turned the lady into a robot that must only answer to you? You gotta be kidding.

Unless there is a written contract. If you liked, train a lady from birth until she gets a PHD. There is no constitutional law that says she must marry you. Whatever you guys are doing is solely based on romantic feelings. And romantic feeling is the most useless feeling in the world.

Why do you leave a place of work and apply to other firms? Isn't it the same about survival and greener pasture?
If you're in at a firm where your salary is 200k monthly and another opportunity opens up in a different firm where the salary is 1M. Even you as a man, won't you monkey branch? So why should you blame a woman for wanting a better life for herself?

In life, we have different things we are looking for, and you can't blame me for not looking for what you are not looking for.

Stupid sons of idiots , earthly bastards of men are the ones looking for love. Women are looking a provisions. Now it would be so unfair, barbaric, exasperatingly stupid to insult women for not wanting what we men are looking for.

But men love to deceive themselves. They want to believe in that their tiny brains that they are one very special demigod, one awesome creature , so awesome that a woman would want to be with. Oh lala! Better wake from the la-la land.

That's why I don't follow the redpill. The redpill is a waste of time. They make men believe that they are the price(lol). Which price? Who is hosting the competition?

The benefit you have to offer a woman is the only thing you have as a priced possession. As a man you are very invisible to a woman that can't benefit nothing from you.

Think about this. Let's say you have a girlfriend and your asset is worth about 10M with 200k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl but he is worth 1M in asset with 100k monthly income, and there is this other dude who wants your girl and he is worth about 300Mils with 2M monthly income.

Let's say, you three are legit hustlers with decent personalities.

It would be so stupid for any lady in this life to choose you or the other guy who earns less.
Now! It would be so, so foolish and wicked to blame the girl for dumping your ass . I mean, you would also resign at a place where the salary is low and take a job at where there is a better income.
If at the end of the day she picked you out of such luxurious options, she'd end up regretting it.
This is what brings resentment in marriages most time. And no one talks about it.
The woman will one day regret not choosing the rich guy and it will cause her to regret and rebel.


Stop playing stupid. There is no crime in looking out for one'self. Any lady who dumps a guy for a more richer guy wouldn't be doin' anything bad. Everyone is trying to survive.

You'll be the wicked one and an enemy of progress.

Once you see a rich boy with your GF, respect yourself and give them chance to avoid stories that touch. Life no be Nollywood.

One thing I'll never understand in this my life is how some men think they need a romantic relationship in this 21st century. Not to even talk of broke men.

• If you're a man and you need a woman who is not a relative to love you. You are very stupid and you are a waste of sperm.

• If you're a man and you need a wife to keep your home in order. You are very stupid. What happens to getting a maid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman to build with. You are useless and you are stupid.

• If you're a man and you need a woman for emotional stability. You are useless and worthless.

• If you're a man and you think you need a woman to have a good home. Haa! Your father has failed.

• If you're a man and you need financial assistance from a woman who is not a relative. Well! You are not a man, you are maybe a maggot or a bedbug.

• If you're a man and you need love. You are sick in the head and unfortunate. What will a man do with love?

The only things a man should get from a woman is sex and kids.

If you're a lady who is with a broke guy when there are rich guys available unto you. I have just one word for you.
YOU ARE VERY STUPID AND SENSELESS, it's like you want your kids to end up suffering.
THERE IS NO LOYALTY IN SURVIVAL.

No allow anyone reason you foolishness, you must be unapologetic about survival. Use that your fish brain head for once.

It's about time we told ourselves the truth. We can't keep treating life as a joke.

You are absolutely right.

But in all you do, don't marry a poor man." Regina Daniels

That is all I see and I agree with her.

She look like a fool she behave like a fool she is a fool.
An absolute idiot.

That is luxury to people? Interesting very tacky and cheap looking Interior to me.

The only thing I like there is the barack rouge 540 and Yara perfume.

klaus mikaelson played by joseph morgan
The vampire diaries and the originals.

Yes it has many benefits but it definitely does make the pussy juicy some pregnant woman take it to help the baby slip out easily during delivery.

Okra water slippery elm
Those that knows knows lol

Sometimes the way men behave is very foolish.
Must you always think with your damn di….cm?
And this fool is even married.

Offcourse she’s never gonna respect you again she just realised you are indeed a man after all controlled by what’s between a woman’s legs.

What’s there to fear when she already ride your Johnny Thomas to a flaccid state. Pathetic…….everything ya all do is motivated by nothing but a woman’s pussy.

Foolishness!

Beyond shameful.

I can see these nurses have no policies and procedures to
Follow in these Nigerian hospitals.

Someone just lost their husband and you are busy chasing clout on social media.

I don’t even know why she still has a job. Foolishness.

Very insensitive of him.

She still have her pregnancy belly just two months she’s already at work?

Smh, I feel sorry for
Some of these women and who they chose as husband.

Must be even better

Why would I even deal with a broke man God forbid never.

Lmao buhahahahahhahaahhahahahahahahahana.

The sisterhood is proud of her.

never ever.

First and foremost men are not the center of my world so I never liked any of them first never.

He have to actively pursue me, likes me way more, and have qualities I desire for me to even think of liking him
And giving him a chance.

orohbiro:
I tire mostly broke men that are asking what we bringing to the table

Pathetic losers.

Do this for us that for us

Us us us is that is all this gender knows. Smh.

This gender complaint about women so much and yet this one is so happy to even add on a second one as if he made heaven.