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You did the right thing well done she needs to get a man that can actually afford her.

I really wish most guys were like this, infact don’t even approach a woman you know is out of your league let her be.

There’s no award for suffering with a man,

Never!

1) Falling in love (you don’t fall in love you grow in love, when choosing a partner think of other things like lifestyle stability your children future, your own, do you want to suffer with a man all in the name of love? Try that shiit and find out. Na reginal danies smart pass for this game, she should really be thanking her mom everyday.


2). The whole concept of a soul mate ( invented by poor men to help you build them up all in the name of love hahaha lol them movies lie to us ya all.

3). And falling in love with broke men, ( don’t even entertain broke man don’t do it at all) let them called you a gold digger blah blah don’t care should you be digging for dust? Nonsense!

4). Building with a man and showing them love thinking they will love you in return. (The older generation didn’t know better so they didn’t teach you better all you saw was women been pickmeishas, bob the builders women and glorifying suffering in the name of love, now that you know better do better.

5). Loving a man more than he loves you (wouldn’t recommend don’t dare try it) you haven’t really lived my friend if you haven’t experienced a man that loves you more then you love him. You will get princess treatment and top tier treatment and you will get spoiled silly. Never ever love a man more than he loves you. Don’t try it in this life time. If you ever have before, forgive yourself for you didn’t know better and do better.

Classic case of if he wanted to he would.

Love is nothing but a strong infatuation that fade over time.

You grow in love you don’t fall in love.

Lifestyle over love smart women knows this, small girls don’t, but every woman was a pickmeisha once upon a time but you learn with time.

Are the neighbours handicap? So now they can’t move or something? This story is not adding up.

She has ZERo respect for you.


Did I mention ZERO RESPECT? Yep she got none for you.

I didn’t really care to think if she has feelings for him or not but the fact that she got no regard for you should tell you everything.

If you still want to go ahead with this I wish you luck because you’re gonna need it.

In Katt williams voice “nobody knows why liars lie”

Wimkeh:
When a girl

But what happens when you go broke and can’t provide for your babe.

She should move right along to the next one, what the fu…ck is she doing with you if you are broke?
This is the reason you have to have men in rotation on a roster.

A bf don’t mean shiit and young girls need to stop stellling for bums and taking any treatments from these rays rays that ain’t even during anything meaningful for them.

Any sane woman will only marry a man that’s financially stable, so the better idea would be, buy the land get his car build a house get his money in order and then marry.

No no no did I
Mention no? Absolutely not.

People can changed truly only if they want to for themselves.

Go and buy the basic yourself case closed thread closed.

GOFRONT:
After 3.......You mean after three??

So after 3 still get hope of remarry??

It just marriage, she didn’t win a billion dollars a marriage where she has to be a
Maid, a servant, a nanny, a therapist,
And a prostitute. And maybe risk her life put her body through the most and use her womb to give birth as well.

If he had to pay for all these services he can’t afford to so many men married women for only what they can get, and use psychological tricks by making many women think they are doing you a favour by marrying you.

Marriage is no achievement the sooner women realise this the better for them.


He should be happy not her.

Misery loves company.

Many people are in miserable relationships marriages and situationships. They don’t want to suffer alone they want others to suffer with them.

Especially many married women are guilty of this you will see them saying “I have been married 10 years 15 20 years”

longevity Is nothing if you haven’t truly been happy but had to put up with a lot of turmoil and misery throughout that relationship.

Happiness is the ultimate goal and if you have peace of mind been single or not yet ready for marriage pay no mind and give zero fu…ck about what people or society say/thinks.

Your life your choice.

Men are incapable of love period.

Never do anything based on you thinking a man love you or you love him just don’t do it.

Every single woman needs to learn this, women should never do nothing because of love, only do it if it’s benefits you.

Why even have unprotected sex with a man with out knowing his sexual health status risky as fu….ck.

A lot of piece of shiit misogynistic men that goes out they way to punish a woman.

You have to learn the true nature of men to freaking know how to deal with these creatures.

Reminds me of the book The Game: 41 Shades of Men: The Pursuit to Subdue and Use You.


She met the STD men unfortunately.

That’s the below bare minimum

I am sorry what’s the problem here? The fact that she says she loves you?

You should be happy, you have a pick me who’s way out of your league but settle for you because of her own naivety and lack of self love thereby seeking love in a man.

I can only hope she’s still young because foolishness for real.

Look for someone in your league you can’t afford her simple.

Some women are smart and know you can’t live off love.

finallybusy:
My current partner is her age and looks worn out in comparison. Naija women, learn to take care of yourselves. Looking good is not for only celebrities. My partner can never walk away from an offering of big stout.

If she’s with you she will definitely look depressed and worn out.

Instead of speaking life into your woman you are here speaking down on her on a public forum.

I pity all these women that don’t know how to choose their partners, must be low self esteem lack of self worth or something.

Mohbad actually needed someone like Portable as a friend sometimes you need a hard headed person at your corner or better still you need to be that at times cuz people don’t like calm.

Find others hobbies and get out the house
More.


But just give them a few months it will be over sooner than you think. Cuz this type of meaningless relationship that based solely on sex is going no where.

Don’t marry for love never marry for stability lifestyle and money and grow in love.

That is the single best advice I can give any woman.

To put my theory to test just do this simple imaginary test.


Think 10 years down with this person you married for love but they don’t have money.

After even 5 years you done have all the conversations make all the love try all the sex styles kids have now come reality have set in, this is why most people grow resentment in their marriages because they married for love only love is never and will never be enough ever.

You list what you want but can’t list what you offered as well.

Definition of a text book narcissist.

kingot:
prison kee?
Am just minding mai biz and staying holy

Staying holy but all your mind can think of is how blessed those who are knacking are?

Blessed are those who are truly in love fucking only one sexual partner and not contacting unnecessary STDs.

A lot of empty souls trying to filled empty voids fucking multiple people up and down is a tragedy not a blessing.

So why you didn’t release this when he was accusing you of bullying?

Why now that he’s dead and can’t share his own side of the story?

Mikel99:
Check my profile picture.

Even if you were to be handsome that is of no use to you.

A man looks doesn’t matter.

A woman currency is her beauty
And a man’s his money and wealth.
This is nothing but the whole truth know this and know peace.

In conclusion leave the selfie snapping to the girls and go
Hustle as a man, your worth is attached to it.

There’s a saying that men fall in love only once they settled for
Anyone after that.

The thing with men is that even 20 years after a break up if they were truly in love they never moved on.

Women cry throw tantrums and move on after a while.

Most men suppress their feelings hiding under all that Alpha male bullshiiit and carry it with them
For a lifetime, been bitter with most females that comes their way because they couldn’t really heal from their first break up.

This poster and his write up is a typical example of this.

englishmart:
He should have apprehended the so-called fan and forced him to have a gulp of the water

Yes! Lol

When a woman detached and then take you off the pedestal she placed you on it is over for you.

She will see you for exactly who you are and not a potential you could be or an ideal she creates in her head.

They look good together.

Good to see a dark man going for a dark woman.