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RomanceRe: Help! My Father Wants To Remarry To His Ghanian Lover At Age 72 by Rokiat(f): 12:54pm On Apr 04, 2024
Old people
Needs companionship too. Let the old man enjoy in peace please.
RomanceRe: Why I Won’t Give My Husband A Child Until After 4 Years – Nigerian Lady Shares by Rokiat(f): 4:23am On Apr 03, 2024
And as you. Even if you don’t want to have kids you don’t have to.

Do what’s best for you and not what society thinks.
RomanceRe: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Rokiat(f): 11:52am On Apr 02, 2024
I don’t deal with broke men sprinkles sprinkles.
FamilyRe: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Rokiat(f): 11:45am On Apr 01, 2024
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.
You get what you put in.

RomanceRe: Man Impregnates A Young Girl, Then Denies Responsibility (photo) by Rokiat(f): 3:05am On Mar 30, 2024
Fake.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Wants Us To Take A Break by Rokiat(f): 11:46am On Mar 26, 2024
Some people self so scared of hurting people feelings.

What is take a break? grin

If you feel a man is not improving your life or adding value to it in any ways break up with him plain and simple.
RomanceRe: Man Quits Intending Relationship With Lady After He Saw Her In Nightclub Dancing by Rokiat(f):
She dodged a grenade.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Said I'm Almost A Sex Addict by Rokiat(f): 12:53pm On Mar 25, 2024
She has your replacement waiting in line already I am sure. A spare waiting.

Do her a favour and get her out this misery and dump her please.
RomanceRe: A Man Body Shame A Lady And This Happened by Rokiat(f): 6:52am On Mar 25, 2024
Pathetic nonsense most of these men fragile egos can not take rejection.

How you hating from outside a club you can’t even get in?

I feel second hand embarrassment for this fool.

The minute a man start calling you ugly just know you’ve won and the fool is pained.
RomanceRe: Do Nigeria Girls Spend On Guys? by Rokiat(f): 10:44am On Mar 24, 2024
I will gladly spend on one. The one that came out of me that’s about it.
RomanceRe: Did I Make The Right Decision To Leave My Fiance? by Rokiat(f): 9:58am On Mar 24, 2024
You took the right decision now close this chapter and move on.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Woman Welcomes Husband's Second Wife With Open Arms (pics, Video) by Rokiat(f): 5:05am On Mar 24, 2024
Looking at it from a logically stand point as long as he’s providing and rich less sex from your part, less cleaning up for him from your part, less cooking from your part overall less everything for you to give to this man.

Probably why this woman is is happy about this idea.
RomanceRe: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Rokiat(f): 4:03pm On Mar 23, 2024
She deserve it for dealing with a low bum
Dustie like you.

Hopefully she is young and she will learn because some of them have no self worth and self love left in them.

Just imagine this fucker…y.
RomanceRe: He Poured Raw Pepper In Her Shower Gel -- Lady Cries Out by Rokiat(f): 2:32am On Mar 16, 2024
But those in relationships swears they happier lol

Single people winning.

Most of these men are nothing but devils. De center men ya all. Most of them genuinely hate women.
RomanceRe: Should I Forgive My Husband For Cheating? by Rokiat(f): 6:31am On Mar 10, 2024
Singing

You saw the red flags, baby, but you ignored the red flags
Now you're here, baby, you con dey vex.

I mean you are literally seeing red flags everywhere but desperation wouldn’t let you see, you are now blind.

Go ahead and fu….ck up your life.
RomanceRe: Man Shares The Response He Got After He Gifted His ‘Love’ ₦20k On Her Birthday by Rokiat(f): 8:21am On Mar 05, 2024
Lol hahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahaahahahahha some of the men these women deal with they deserve the bare minimum till they get smart.

Lol lol lol

There’s so many men out there that would do so much better heck you can always do better for yourself and you wasting your time on this? Smh.

Never be a pick me for any man, they ain’t no price.
RomanceRe: Doctors In The House I Need Your Help!!!! by Rokiat(f): 9:04am On Mar 04, 2024
So she can’t take a pregnancy home test to find out?

Are you getting paid to open such foolish thread?
CelebritiesRe: “after Visiting Nigeria, I Appreciate Life In The US," Reflects 50 Cent by Rokiat(f): 3:39pm On Mar 03, 2024
He’s rich offcourse but not everyone in the us has the same
Experience as him. Some people have it tough and some people are homeless some people in Nigeria are better off.
RomanceRe: Woman Curses Ex After Being Tagged In His Pre-wedding Photos by Rokiat(f): 12:24pm On Mar 03, 2024
Someone posted this earlier ain’t it? undecided

But if he really tagged her then he’s a di..ck and I truly feel sorry for both ladies for having such bad taste and a thing for losers men like him.
RomanceRe: Men Love Once; Women Never Love by Rokiat(f): 12:09pm On Mar 03, 2024
Men are incapable of love. And smart women knows love ain’t shiiit.

Love the man with money and generous
The man who gives you princesss treatment


All in all a
Woman should look out for her best interest and select the best man as he prove himself the more she love him. You grow in love and not fall in love.

How many times a man falls in love or if they are in fact indeed incapable of love (facts) is none of our business as long as they are providing our needs.

This is how woman needs to think and stop been so emotional.
RomanceRe: How To Handle Life After Divorce by Rokiat(f): 11:52am On Mar 03, 2024
You are not the first man to be divorced nor will you be the last.


F….uck what people think. There is a theory called “let them” let people think and believe what ever they want and have whatever perception of you they like and live in peace without even caring to change their mind, you know you, who cares what they think?

Stop trying to be liked or perceived by people a certain way it is time consuming and useless. Let them think and say whatever you just live well for your self as long as you’re happy that’s all that matter. Try it.
it is one of the most powerful thing you could ever mastered.




About you healing that’s a you thing and your own personal responsibility. Cuz I am not in your life nor am I your therapist to know or tell you how to heal.

Healing will be dependent on how much you love/loved your wife
If you wronged her and mess up far too many times


To conclude divorce is not the end of the world, just because people divorce doesn’t mean they never loved each other but people grow and change, living with another human for such a long period of time is almost unnatural and marriage requires that.

Maturing is realising that divorce is better than staying in a miserable marriage.

I also wish your wife well and I hope she find her happiness because I know what many women go through in the name of marriage. Most women are taking most of the burden and rarely even getting the bare minimum treatment from their husbands. Most single women are far happier than most married women, it ain’t no wonder women are mostly the one filing for divorce.
CelebritiesRe: John Okafor 'Mr Ibu' Is Dead (Photos) by Rokiat(f): 9:49am On Mar 03, 2024
So sad. RIP
FamilyRe: She Ran Away With My Daughter by Rokiat(f): 6:14am On Mar 03, 2024
The baby girl is also her daughter. Ya all can seperate and come to a settlement on how to co parent.

She probably have her own side of the story and she is tired of your shit as well.
RomanceRe: Ex Girlfriend Wishes Bad For Married Man by Rokiat(f): 4:40pm On Mar 02, 2024
So damn bitter over a man shame. For you to be doing something better with your life as a woman leveling up and doing better you are stalking your ex and writing nonsense just to give yourself high BP.

so foolish.
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Soldier's Only Daughter What Should I Do? by Rokiat(f): 9:18am On Mar 02, 2024
So what advice exactly do
You want us to give you? She’s an adult you are an adult as well. If this is what ya all what do it and leave us out of it.
RomanceRe: Reason Why Women Live Longer Than Men ......pics by Rokiat(f): 3:06am On Mar 02, 2024
None of this top the risk in giving birth.
RomanceRe: Woman Cries After Being Called "Bouncer" On Social Media (pics, Video) by Rokiat(f): 5:08pm On Mar 01, 2024
Is the opinions of random people gonna extend her lifespan? Add money to her bank account or what?
RomanceRe: I’m That Girlfriend That Can Never Overlook My Man’s Dirty Clothes - Lady Rants by Rokiat(f): 4:52pm On Mar 01, 2024
Who’s gonna tell her? Buhahahahabahabahahahahahahha
Pickmeisha well done continue.
FamilyRe: For Women: Before You Divorce Your Husband Please Think. by Rokiat(f): 11:46am On Feb 28, 2024
Look at this one with his 1920 thinking. grin grin So what if you are alone without a man? So what? Better to be alone than been in a miserable relationship. Gone are the 1950s where women were stuck in marriages and stay there just trying to save face and just to prove they got a man.


Longevity in a marriage means nothing if you ain’t happy at all.

Better to be single than been in a miserable marriage.
FamilyRe: How Can I Report This Domestic Violence To My Landlord? by Rokiat(f): 7:47am On Feb 28, 2024
Unfortunately until she wakes up and see her own self worth nobody can save her.

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