Singing

You saw the red flags, baby, but you ignored the red flags
Now you're here, baby, you con dey vex.

I mean you are literally seeing red flags everywhere but desperation wouldn’t let you see, you are now blind.

Go ahead and fu….ck up your life.

Lol hahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahaahahahahha some of the men these women deal with they deserve the bare minimum till they get smart.

Lol lol lol

There’s so many men out there that would do so much better heck you can always do better for yourself and you wasting your time on this? Smh.

Never be a pick me for any man, they ain’t no price.

So she can’t take a pregnancy home test to find out?

Are you getting paid to open such foolish thread?

He’s rich offcourse but not everyone in the us has the same
Experience as him. Some people have it tough and some people are homeless some people in Nigeria are better off.

Someone posted this earlier ain’t it?

But if he really tagged her then he’s a di..ck and I truly feel sorry for both ladies for having such bad taste and a thing for losers men like him.

Men are incapable of love. And smart women knows love ain’t shiiit.

Love the man with money and generous
The man who gives you princesss treatment


All in all a
Woman should look out for her best interest and select the best man as he prove himself the more she love him. You grow in love and not fall in love.

How many times a man falls in love or if they are in fact indeed incapable of love (facts) is none of our business as long as they are providing our needs.

This is how woman needs to think and stop been so emotional.

You are not the first man to be divorced nor will you be the last.


F….uck what people think. There is a theory called “let them” let people think and believe what ever they want and have whatever perception of you they like and live in peace without even caring to change their mind, you know you, who cares what they think?

Stop trying to be liked or perceived by people a certain way it is time consuming and useless. Let them think and say whatever you just live well for your self as long as you’re happy that’s all that matter. Try it.
it is one of the most powerful thing you could ever mastered.




About you healing that’s a you thing and your own personal responsibility. Cuz I am not in your life nor am I your therapist to know or tell you how to heal.

Healing will be dependent on how much you love/loved your wife
If you wronged her and mess up far too many times


To conclude divorce is not the end of the world, just because people divorce doesn’t mean they never loved each other but people grow and change, living with another human for such a long period of time is almost unnatural and marriage requires that.

Maturing is realising that divorce is better than staying in a miserable marriage.

I also wish your wife well and I hope she find her happiness because I know what many women go through in the name of marriage. Most women are taking most of the burden and rarely even getting the bare minimum treatment from their husbands. Most single women are far happier than most married women, it ain’t no wonder women are mostly the one filing for divorce.

So sad. RIP

The baby girl is also her daughter. Ya all can seperate and come to a settlement on how to co parent.

She probably have her own side of the story and she is tired of your shit as well.

So damn bitter over a man shame. For you to be doing something better with your life as a woman leveling up and doing better you are stalking your ex and writing nonsense just to give yourself high BP.

so foolish.

So what advice exactly do
You want us to give you? She’s an adult you are an adult as well. If this is what ya all what do it and leave us out of it.

None of this top the risk in giving birth.

Is the opinions of random people gonna extend her lifespan? Add money to her bank account or what?

Who’s gonna tell her? Buhahahahabahabahahahahahahha
Pickmeisha well done continue.

Look at this one with his 1920 thinking. So what if you are alone without a man? So what? Better to be alone than been in a miserable relationship. Gone are the 1950s where women were stuck in marriages and stay there just trying to save face and just to prove they got a man.


Longevity in a marriage means nothing if you ain’t happy at all.

Better to be single than been in a miserable marriage.

Unfortunately until she wakes up and see her own self worth nobody can save her.

I mean whatever makes them happy. Atleast he don’t have to worry about satisfying her in bed, and he wouldn’t have to spend too much on her beauty maintenance.

A win is a win.

Happy marriage life to them.

Your life your choice don’t get married.

Very simple solution.

Well first of all cooking is a life skill.
Everyone should learn how to cook.

Why do you want to stop that’s not a bad thing, just try and make
Money attractive women have a lot of options and never settled for dusties with no money, because there’s a whole line up of guys trying to get with her.

Broke men want her
Rice men want her too.

All men like beautiful women, there’s competition so to atleast be in the top slot make money my brother.

I really hope you are trolling because 20 slap for the love of God don’t you have self love?

Is your self esteem this low?
Don’t you have boundaries?
So you can’t pulled no other girl?
Are you stupid?
Are you naturally this naive?
Why are you loving someone who
Got no respect and love for you?
Do you have some unresolved childhood traumas?
Are you a people pleaser?



I mean what the hell is your problem because this can’t be normal….are you freaking kidding me?
What sort of furxkery is this shiit?

I shake my head sometimes with the things some people are tolerating all in the name of relationship smh.

I love that for you my brother marry your fellow man,
Your mama is probably who will care no woman gives a damn.

Is this even an advice thought this was common knowledge? Duh!

This is definitely ground for divorce if she doesn’t change yes I said it.

Every humans needs to be clean more so women

A woman is supposed to be clean, smell good, looks after her appearance not just for a man but for herself first and foremost.

If growing up she didn’t have feminine figures in her life to teach her these things now that she’s grown she can learn these things. She can’t continue living like this heck no.

As a woman twice a day shower minimum no compromise.

A routine for you face
A routine for your skin
A routine for your kitty Kat
A routine for your mouth
A routine for your hair.
A routine for your feet and hands

Every little details mater you need to curate a routine that don’t overlooked nothing on your body. From head to toes.

You are supposed to be smooth, soft, smell good and genuinely takes delight in looking after your appearance most especially when married. Give a good experience to your husband always. Even when going to bed shower lotion yourself up with nice smelling lotion and oil and spray on a nice light perfume so that your husband can enjoy been in your presence.

And this woman is even a stay at home mother when she have all the time in the world to pour into herself and look after herself and she’s doing this?

This is self sabotage and lack of self love at it best.
She needs to work on her self love and self worth this ain’t it.

A woman is a devil but in the same story the male gender actually committed murder but only woman is a devil.

We live in a free will world, just simply stop dealing with women if they are such devils.

She’s insecure of her body.

You are probably rich and don’t have no worries for you to
Be thinking about how to
Make more money this is what you are depressed about.

She needs to stress you more such men prefer women that stress the hell out of them I am very proud of her.

Also you are just a boyfriend not a husband you get no right, you are just on the rooster until she choose the best man, she owes none of you niggas commitment until you put a ring on it.

Be different send her some money.

@ poster congratulations but you can love and appreciate her in real life genuinely love and respect her in real life genuinely show appreciation to her in real life genuinely and most importantly hustle harder and make life easier for her. If you truly love a woman you wouldn’t want to see her struggle. Double your hustle and provide more resources for her as a man of the house that’s the real flex.

I don’t see the essence of bringing it here on nairaland unless she’s here on nairaland she can’t even see it.

If you want to show appreciation show it on a public platform where you know she is again not sure if she’s on nairaland but if she is then good.

He’s. Absolutely right, but these girls wouldn’t learn.

Pickmeishas.com smh

Stupid girl as the saying goes

When you marry or date a man you are marrying or dating his lifestyle too.

Why even give a chance to a broke man smh she haven’t seen nothing yet, some women are so stupid.

The only woman that nigga ever had love for was Kim that’s for sure.