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edmaraja:
This one must be a very lazy man leeching on 2baba's money so he doesn't want Annie to pour sand inside his garri.

For those saying family will never leave you, come and see how this one left his sister.

Executer:
What does she now hope to achieve by spreading their dirty linens in public; reconciliation?
A foolish act is a foolish act

It's not to achieve anything, it's just a rant. To let out steam due to bottled up issues.

Average people too rant on social media, their own is "keep me anonymous" or they create new account on Nairaland to vent so we won't know it's them.

Tedpgrass:
Access to wealth, power and influence are powerful aphrodisiacs....


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If that was the case, she wouldn't be ranting. There are many girls who won't mind crying in Rolls Royce and Bentley's. There has to be feelings involved if she's ranting like this.

richmanrichard:
4get.no matter what is going on; i wud never subscribe to all these social media stunts.Even i wud not do that.It can never add any thing good.

Like I said, na she dey go through wetin she dey go through.

It's the same reasons people create new accounts to rant about their marital and relationship issues on Nairaland and some go to other forums to post "keep me anonymous".

LutanFyah:
They're quarrelling doesn't mean when there is a problem in the family both parties won't come together to fix it.

No matter the quarrel, when any of them dies,the other must be present before his brother will be buried but nobody will ever invite a divorced wife for anything.


WIVES ARE NOT FAMILY.

Yes, wives are not family, they are part of the man. Husband and wife are one and should out a united front in all areas of their lives.

A wife in this regard is superior to family.

Now I realize that many people who go and ask for people's daughter's hand in marriage don't even understand the meaning of their actions.

If you do, you won't place your family above your wife.

Kingcalls:
I'm not saying that family can't leave u or that ur wife will certainly leave u when broke.... but they chances are very slim... women are calculative , she might decide to stay cos she knows she is not desired by other men or her time has passed.... the reason y female celebs quickly leave their husbands compared to their male counterparts is that most of them are still desired by men outside due to their screen exposure to other men ...so they quickly take advantage

In the case I gisted you, that woman still dey market. She was offered women leader of PDP in the village bit she turned it down cause the man offering it to her wanted her to leave her husband for him.

If you marry well, you go put your wife above your family, your family go say na juju, I swear.

richmanrichard:
so y'd post your family problems online even if your husband was in d wrong? make una dey check wella o.

How did I say that?

I said the woman is ranting. Couple of issues could have led to her choosing this avenue.

I am not going through what she is going through and I didn't marry the kind of man she did. I also don't pray to go through what she's going through.

But her situation is already messy, I don't think anyone should tell her how to rant. Na she dey go through the problem, na she know how e dey pain her.

zicoraads:
Doesn't still make it right bringing it to a mob who will never solve your problem.

If what she said about 2Face is true, which I think is, then he is wrong. But are you surprised that 2Face is probably still sleeping with his baby mama of 3 kids? The shock to me would be that he isn't sleeping with her.

But Annie is wrong. There are other forms of catharsis. This wasn't one of those.

This rant is not cause she thinks it will solve her problems. It is what it is, a rant.

Rants are just a way of letting out steam.

Roma10:
And who is without sin
If you really knows it all

I'm just saying we shouldn't forget the real issue on ground instead of casting the woman. Everybody done leave the matter wey dey ground dey victimize the woman.

Fiscus105:
Is the man who owns the money complaining?

Think of a woman who is also bitter about another baby mama who born for his husband and in which she had knowledge of their relationship, say alot about her.

She complained about co-wife, step son, brother in law and mother in law.

Thats definitely trait of ....me and my husband in woman

Is it not spos to be " me and my husband" when you're married?

What you do for family or friends should be discussed no matter whose purse it is coming from.

That's how a strong marriage is built. The man has 7 children, if the woman sees his spending is depleting his funds and reminding him that he has 7 kids, is she wrong?

Promzy99:
It is in the midst of d storm that a gud nd strong ship is known... No matter how bahd it may have gone, she shouldn't have come out publicly, even to d extend of calling out d family members of 2face. The truth is, in marriage, if d woman is nt in gud terms wit other members of her husband's family, then dat woman must be doing sumtin wrong. Everybdy cnt be against her at a time. To show how humble n gentle 2face is, he is yet to make any public comment. Yet annie is still dropin more bombs against d family.

Family wey no like her, who she go tell?

Her mum that the family is already accusing if using Juju, what can her family do?

zicoraads:
But, be true to yourself, what advice is she hoping to gain via social media?

I think she shouldn't have married him. The red flags were all there: multiple kids with women, family against the marriage. And I also think she has a right to divorce him too.

But what will social media tell her that her family, friends and close acquaintances can't? Are they not best suited to advice?

See the contrast with Paul PSquare's wife. Filed court papers and no single mention of why or what led to the need to divorce. What is Annie hoping for by bringing her marital issues to social media?

I like her. I like 2Face. But I am tempted to think she isn't a good person after all.

She has never done this before, this is probably bottled up issues.

Kingcalls:
Even if a man person changes which is veryyyyyyyy difficult, u cant change the Situation on ground caused by the persons previous attitude.....its either u buckle up and face it ,or u dont get entangled..... if 2face was washed up like blackface, u think say Annie for still dey or get belle for am??

The situation on ground is a reality that can be dealt with. And she was dealing with it fine, people even admired her for how she managed the reality.

Till the man started with his old ways again.

Kingcalls:
Lol...the chances of family leaving u is way slimer than wife... if u run broke , there are chances ur wife will leave u than family .... men are becoming wiser now as I said .... they dont even will to their wives again but their kids, the change with when marriage has lasted for really long time ... some put documents in their kids name , no more wife's name cos women are becoming something else these days

There are wives that will remain even when family leave you.

My dad's cousin foolishly handed his retirement money to his older sister to manage for him, this woman ate it all, not remaining a penny.

The man is old now and poor, his siblings treat him like a dog. It's his wife who hustles, even at her age for them to survive.

You can't guarantee who stays and who lives but to say family will never leave, na lie.

LutanFyah:
Brothers can never leave but wives can leave.

Wives are not family because they can leave;they are mere domestic appendages that can be disposed.

Like I said again, be deceiving yourself.

The Psquare brother are an example and I know many more.

Siblings who don't talk again.

Useless siblings who are selfish and will leave you high and dry when you go broke.

maynia:
It’s foolishness.
If you want to rant something that personal you do it to someone you know not on social media to strangers.


And how many of your family rants have you posted online?

Hmmnn. Someone you know? What if that's not enough?

Marital issues can make a quiet woman a beast over night, e go come make you wonder wetin dey happen.

May God not let us see something like that o.

E no funny. Why do you think some couple's quarrel and the entire neighborhood hears their quarrel?

Kingcalls:
How can a man that has 5 kids from different woman change for goodness sake.... just like davido and wizkid ....marry them and ud face this same wahala... its pure logic... tomorrow, Regina go come de tell us story ...Regina own still de come , just watch...this is because una no wan accept logical situations.... women just wanna eat their cake and hv it which is impossible

It is a matter of choice. Choice to change.

Fiscus105:
And i added not absolute right.

If you as a wife you know you dnt have absolute right on husband, you must know that you cant dictate how and who he will spend his money for.

Many atimes, family members did so many sacrifice for one of their members to succeed in life, and in which the wife will never know.

Wife met him after husband successful, and yet she wants him to concentrate all his energy and money on him, claiming im legal wife.

Legal wife my foot.

That's probably not how it is. The man has 7 children and brother who are entitled to his money.

Did his success stop them from making something out of their life?

Davash222:
Hope you know Annie was a casted nollywood runs girl before 2face helped promote her from baby mama to wife

Casted runs girls, promiscuous man, but she still stayed with him. It should count for something.

Beloved3:
How old are you?

Everyone wanted to marry Tuface whether he had changed or not. He was hot cake at that time. African Queen song crooner.

It was a race to win his heart by ladies. Annie won a trophy by winning his heart to marriage. She married him with full knowledge of his flaws.

Who are the everyone?

maynia:
And what exactly will social media do for her?

We will find out in the coming days….

It is a rant.

No everyone can keep everything bottled up.

Women are always advised to keep their marital problems to themselves, no one to talk to, no outlet to let out steam.

Na the cause you dey see so.

Kingcalls:
Men are becoming wiser.... brother no fit leave u, wife go easily leave u... brothers hv better contributions in a man's life than wife.... what do u guys even contribute apart from delivering a child ....finish!!!!

Brother no fit leave you?

Be deceiving yourself o.

Family no be who share blood with you, na who love you, show up for your nd wish you well be family.

The brother of sister you think will never leave you is prolly standing with you cause you're useful to him or her.

Trust me when I say I've seen it happen a lot. In recent times sef.

Davash222:
Conclusively, marriage can't change someone. A person will change when he's willing to change not when married.

I believe she probably thought he had changed before marrying him.

I don't think a woman will willingly open her eyes and marry a man like that who is unwilling to change.

Fiscus105:
More right and not absolute right.

The word i used is "More right".

Davash222:
A leopard can't change its skin, Roman.

I don't think so.

I've seen alcoholics stop taking alcohol, I've seen junkies stop using, I've seen womanizers say good bye to that life, I've seen thieves stop stealing.

Only a person who isn't willing to change will keep his spots.

Kingcalls:
U are the torzo here.... women no fit get sense ....this fiah brain wey dem call una na 100% fact... always looking for who to blame for their stupidity.... she marry 2 baba after im done born 5 from 2 different women, but fane and money go gree an look road, she still force imsef mk she get belle... she lost her pregnancy the first time which might hv been a sign...but she went ahead and got pregnant again and again and got married to him, so y is she foolishly ranting.... women are never logical....see as u de support am... if na man marry ashawo keep for house, he dare not come out to complain when she start job inside house cos fellow men go laugh am insult am join say u no see market b4 u buy am?? Thats the difference between a man and a woman ...

So if you cheat, your wife should throw you away cause you're beyond reception. Abi?

Or she should throw you away cause you will never change?

Abi?

Davash222:
What sin? 2face never claimed to be an Angel for Annie.

Annie is in the know of all 2face illicit acts. Why complaining now?

So you're saying she shouldn't have given him a chance when he claimed he had changed?

So a woman you're in love with should not trust you to change a flaw you have?

Iliveforever:
So if your maid or mother is living in your house then she’s entitled to your money?

You see, if you’re being arrested for libel and slander you can’t defend yourself. Don’t just type on nairaland because it’s free to type and besides was it not Annie that also said the brother housed 2face, his kids and ex-wife in his house??
So where did he get the house since his living in their(idibia’s) house as you claimed?

I would just advise you to pay more attention to your life and find peace

You think I just woke up and typed what's in my head. The Annie herself said it. It's on Instablog and her IG.

I know the law enough to know what slander and Libel is.

Isobug:
Are you kidding me?

Ask a lawyer.

nerd004:
U are very wrong on this.... Divorce is waiting for her ....Trust she's a gonna,,she has the audacity to insult The Idibia's family,,,,am so sure Tuface's parents are not happy with her,,,,how can a woman bring her mother into her Marital home,,,,is this not wickedness.... Doesn't Tuface have his own too...

Talk sense abeg and trust me ... Annie is gone and I doubt if their marriage would ever remain the same

She is not losing anything by getting divorced to him.

A man who can't caution his prick to save his life. All the "Ever since I left you, I've been to hell and I'm back", "young man, be careful and think it twice, before you choose to use your device", bla bla bla.

Na juju she use for am wey e sing the song or he saw she was a good woman worth committing to.

She's not losing anything, na man be man wey no fit control him prick?

As long as she's still his legal wife, she has tight over him than even his mother.

Ask a lawyer to explain this to you.

HellAnus:
show us the paper or forever remain shut

I'm sure that's what a marriage certificate is for. Maybe you should look for the marriage act of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Matheusmartin:
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So has pero and co.

Rotfl. People wey them no marry?